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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

Not always, some of us have had them since the 90's pre hipster days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get them at all. Just think they look daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they look bloody awful but just my opinion which is always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a big fan of them myself, but each to their own.

It's youth culture though innit? Same as trousers worn half way down the arse. Again, I don't really see the need to do that... But fashion changes so quickly, relative to how slowly we age.

I remember it used to be fashion for Bros lovers to wear Grolsch (was it Grolsch?) bottle caps in their shoes.

OP, I am sure in your youth there was loads of stuff that you did in the name of fashion, that your elders frowned upon

Don't be such a stick in the mud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they look bloody awful but just my opinion which is always right "

Your avatar pics are always "just right" IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I would have myself, but I see no reason to be rude about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow for an open minded guy your kinda blinkered

I wear an ear stretcher but sadly the beard n skinny jeans aint my style..like everything else each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get them at all. Just think they look daft."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think. "
That's disturbing, how does he eat and drink?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nothing something i would do but then i wouldnt have a tat either..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think. That's disturbing, how does he eat and drink?! "

Messily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

So tell me - are you just sad because you can't grow a beard? Or because you can't fit in skinny jeans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think. That's disturbing, how does he eat and drink?!

Messily "

Wouldn't want to be sat near him with chewed up food spilling out. Eurrgh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

How judgemental of you.

What ever happened to accepting people for who they are. Just because they choose to wear certain clothes or decorate their bodies differently to you makes them no less human.

Many would brand the people on this very site as perverts lacking in morality or riddled with diseases. I bet you'd defend your lifestyle choice then wouldn't you.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think. "

A guy like this was in the tattoo/piercing shop when I was getting my lip done and I was mesmerised......he let me touch it and told me he has plastic discs he squeezes in when he eats - he looked pretty cool to be fair and had tattoos all over his face too

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I don't mind the look. Tried stretching my ears, but my brother put me off as his got really cheesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hipsters - look awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think.

A guy like this was in the tattoo/piercing shop when I was getting my lip done and I was mesmerised......he let me touch it and told me he has plastic discs he squeezes in when he eats - he looked pretty cool to be fair and had tattoos all over his face too "
ahhh that makes sense, phew, no see food!

Not a fan of facial tattoos, but nothing to do with me what others choose to have done! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and all that, if they like it I see no problem.

As a slight aside, I do wonder though how many people have, or will eventually, regret all this body modification that has been a trend over the last decade or so.

Those ear hoops you mention OP must cause permanent long term damage to the ear lobe (whereas a simple piercing can heal over), and tattoos are very difficult to remove particularly if you are covered in them.

I know I did things in my youth I regret but nothing that left permanent marks! I wonder if many now look back and think yeah, those tattoos or ear hoops looked great when I first got them or when was younger - but now times have changed and I've moved on I'm not so sure about them now but stuck with them?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think.

A guy like this was in the tattoo/piercing shop when I was getting my lip done and I was mesmerised......he let me touch it and told me he has plastic discs he squeezes in when he eats - he looked pretty cool to be fair and had tattoos all over his face too ahhh that makes sense, phew, no see food!

Not a fan of facial tattoos, but nothing to do with me what others choose to have done! X"

And if he was bi/ghey - he'd be able to give three BJ's at once!!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a beard...pretentious tattoos, wear skinny jeans...not a hipster...predate that...do I feel insulted by preconceived judgement...nope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly heavily pierced but don't think stretching is my thing but each to their own! A lot of people don't like my look either but my body, my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest is 22 has his ears stretched,piercings over face ,long black hair. Tall and Skinny wears skinny.jeans and.we get very odd looks when out as I'm short ,fat with loads of tattoos but we.are.both.quiet ,shy and polite people are way too quick to.judge.others by how they look. Yes he.may regret things in years to come but we all do things.we regret its called growing up and living

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like those hoop things either, look stupid in my opinion.

Everyone has their own likes. I like to stretch my ass, seen stretched pussy lips too, i think theye hot

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

No!

Just because someone chooses to look or dress a certain way, it's doesn't make them a bell end!

Most of them probably don't give a rats arse that you and some others don't like it. It only matters that they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hilarious that those without tattoos and piercings love to judge those who have them.

The same cannot be said the opposite way round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just so you know Op by your judgement I am happy being a bellend...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't like them personally but I don't judge people who choose to have them. I saw a cosmetic surgery programme recently. There was a guy who had massive holes in his lobes who was getting the skin cut off and sown back together. They done quite a good job!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I was walking with my daughter a few years ago and the wind blew her hair and I noticed she had a stretcher in her ear. Luckily she had just started to do it. I got her to remove it and the ear hole closed. I had a chat and said that if she still wanted to do it in 6 months time I would not object but I wanted her to think hard about it as I knew she did things on whims. 6 months later she didn't want her ears stretched. She preferred her face piercings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like them personally but I don't judge people who choose to have them. I saw a cosmetic surgery programme recently. There was a guy who had massive holes in his lobes who was getting the skin cut off and sown back together. They done quite a good job! "

I saw that too. You beat me to it. I am not a fan of piercings in general however I would never judge somebody on their appearance. Very narrow minded imo.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't keep them scrupulously clean they're VERY unpleasant to be around.

This is what puts me off. Not the aesthetics.

C.

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

i actually love them types of guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos."

Not disgusted, they look OK with the discs in, but I think the majority are going to be having reconstructive surgery in a few years. As with a lot of peoples tattoos, its a long term fashion, but it is a fashion, and will fade. Many will and do regret their tattoos, even the people that considered long and hard before committing.

You can always shave a beard off, and some of those guys have spent years growing them! Glasses with no lenses though? Oh dear. That's just a step too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one, but is anyone else really disgusted by those enormous hoops of stretched skin people are making out of their ear lobes these days, seen it a fair bit recently. Its usually the same sort of bell ends that have bushy beards, skinny jeans, glasses with no lenses and pretentious wanky tattoos.

i actually love them types of guys

"

Awe thanks

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't mind the small ones, but not keen on the big ones. But they're doing it for themselves and not anyone else

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I don't like them either , anyone seen the pics of the guy with them huge big holes in his cheeks ? Now that's just gross I think.

A guy like this was in the tattoo/piercing shop when I was getting my lip done and I was mesmerised......he let me touch it and told me he has plastic discs he squeezes in when he eats - he looked pretty cool to be fair and had tattoos all over his face too ahhh that makes sense, phew, no see food!

Not a fan of facial tattoos, but nothing to do with me what others choose to have done! X

And if he was bi/ghey - he'd be able to give three BJ's at once!!

A"

I didn't ask him about his bi/ghey status I think I had a rare moment of discretion.......soon got over that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeeeeewwwwww. No. They're a real deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that people with alternative looks, tattoos, piercings, different styles of clothes. Are usually the nicest people

It's the people who judge them as "bell ends" that are usually the twats

Ive yet to hear one of these "bell ends" look at a normally dressed guy and say look at him dressed so boring with no body art......bet he's a right dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found that people with alternative looks, tattoos, piercings, different styles of clothes. Are usually the nicest people

It's the people who judge them as "bell ends" that are usually the twats

Ive yet to hear one of these "bell ends" look at a normally dressed guy and say look at him dressed so boring with no body art......bet he's a right dick "

That depends on what he's wearing and why. If someone goes out of their way to stay "on trend", they will end up looking like a prepuce. Think Edina Monsoon. Tell me she wasn't a bell end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found that people with alternative looks, tattoos, piercings, different styles of clothes. Are usually the nicest people

It's the people who judge them as "bell ends" that are usually the twats

Ive yet to hear one of these "bell ends" look at a normally dressed guy and say look at him dressed so boring with no body art......bet he's a right dick "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people suit that look and i sometimes admire the tribal look - its not for myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the right people this looks hot as fuck. On others it looks like they're trying too hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found that people with alternative looks, tattoos, piercings, different styles of clothes. Are usually the nicest people

It's the people who judge them as "bell ends" that are usually the twats

Ive yet to hear one of these "bell ends" look at a normally dressed guy and say look at him dressed so boring with no body art......bet he's a right dick

That depends on what he's wearing and why. If someone goes out of their way to stay "on trend", they will end up looking like a prepuce. Think Edina Monsoon. Tell me she wasn't a bell end!"

You're making it out like there's some sinister motive on "why" he's wearing it

Maybe he just likes the clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something I would have myself, but I see no reason to be rude about it. "

couldn't agree more to call somebody a bell end for having a different image to yourself is a little pretentious to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found that people with alternative looks, tattoos, piercings, different styles of clothes. Are usually the nicest people

It's the people who judge them as "bell ends" that are usually the twats

Ive yet to hear one of these "bell ends" look at a normally dressed guy and say look at him dressed so boring with no body art......bet he's a right dick

That depends on what he's wearing and why. If someone goes out of their way to stay "on trend", they will end up looking like a prepuce. Think Edina Monsoon. Tell me she wasn't a bell end!

You're making it out like there's some sinister motive on "why" he's wearing it

Maybe he just likes the clothes "

But there are an awful lot of people that do wear things without a thought as to what they look like from an aesthetic point of view. A trendsetter I can admire. An individual I can admire. Wearing something (other than for functionality) because all your mates are wearing it is a bit...juvenile. I'd just like a bit more thought put into some peoples choices. There are plenty of people wearing the emporers new clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place. "

I'm sure he is lovely. And I love the fact that he has his look. And I bet its very individualistic. It's the hipsters that are conforming to a look though. The Nathan Barley's, the Clem Fandango's, constantly refreshing there iPad screens to see what twatterences the head of fashion at GQ has beamed to his cohorts.

I bet your mate doesn't read GQ. He's got too much style and taste to be told what he "should be wearing this season".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place.

I'm sure he is lovely. And I love the fact that he has his look. And I bet its very individualistic. It's the hipsters that are conforming to a look though. The Nathan Barley's, the Clem Fandango's, constantly refreshing there iPad screens to see what twatterences the head of fashion at GQ has beamed to his cohorts.

I bet your mate doesn't read GQ. He's got too much style and taste to be told what he "should be wearing this season"."

How do you know that their friend isn't just a GQ hipster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place.

I'm sure he is lovely. And I love the fact that he has his look. And I bet its very individualistic. It's the hipsters that are conforming to a look though. The Nathan Barley's, the Clem Fandango's, constantly refreshing there iPad screens to see what twatterences the head of fashion at GQ has beamed to his cohorts.

I bet your mate doesn't read GQ. He's got too much style and taste to be told what he "should be wearing this season"."

This is a 100% serious question

Do fashion seasons follow the actually weather seasons?

So the what to wear this season will change four times a year?

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

See I've had these in since the mid 90's I'm covered in tattoos and have a goatee, but at 22st I don't think the skinny jeans are for me lol

It's down to personal choice, how many people do you think would find your swinging lifestyle disgusting if you told everyone what you did? Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place.

I'm sure he is lovely. And I love the fact that he has his look. And I bet its very individualistic. It's the hipsters that are conforming to a look though. The Nathan Barley's, the Clem Fandango's, constantly refreshing there iPad screens to see what twatterences the head of fashion at GQ has beamed to his cohorts.

I bet your mate doesn't read GQ. He's got too much style and taste to be told what he "should be wearing this season".

This is a 100% serious question

Do fashion seasons follow the actually weather seasons?

So the what to wear this season will change four times a year? "

Twice a year.

Spring/Summer

Autumn/Winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place.

I'm sure he is lovely. And I love the fact that he has his look. And I bet its very individualistic. It's the hipsters that are conforming to a look though. The Nathan Barley's, the Clem Fandango's, constantly refreshing there iPad screens to see what twatterences the head of fashion at GQ has beamed to his cohorts.

I bet your mate doesn't read GQ. He's got too much style and taste to be told what he "should be wearing this season".

How do you know that their friend isn't just a GQ hipster?"

She sounds like the sort that would attract someone original.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I've had these in since the mid 90's I'm covered in tattoos and have a goatee, but at 22st I don't think the skinny jeans are for me lol

It's down to personal choice, how many people do you think would find your swinging lifestyle disgusting if you told everyone what you did? Just my opinion."

Who said anything was disgusting?

I know people would judge me about the things I get up to. I just couldn't give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only guy I know with stretcher hoops in his ears, long hair, a beard and tattoos - is one of the loveliest guys I know in non fab land. Would do anything for anyone. He's a real gem and great looking. He's happy with his look and I enjoy the fact that we are all so different. If we weren't - it really would make the world a bland and boring place.

I'm sure he is lovely. And I love the fact that he has his look. And I bet its very individualistic. It's the hipsters that are conforming to a look though. The Nathan Barley's, the Clem Fandango's, constantly refreshing there iPad screens to see what twatterences the head of fashion at GQ has beamed to his cohorts.

I bet your mate doesn't read GQ. He's got too much style and taste to be told what he "should be wearing this season".

This is a 100% serious question

Do fashion seasons follow the actually weather seasons?

So the what to wear this season will change four times a year?

Twice a year.

Spring/Summer

Autumn/Winter"

Apart from goths. Greatcoats even on the beach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

My ex gf was covered in piercings, both lobes stretched, but if you don't go past a certain point - I think it's 10mm or something, don't quote me on that! - then they'll eventually shrink back if the tunnels are left out. However they do need to be kept extremely clean otherwise the ear cheese is rank, but I can only assume that people who do have a lot of piercings are educated enough to take care of their body. And don't judge people on appearances... Said ex also had a Mohawk, but she has a degree in English Language & Linguistics & she's an office worker.

My fwb has a stretched lobe - and a few other piercings - that hasn't healed completely but it doesn't bother me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've seen one person with them and wouldn't have had any hesitation for a fuck.

It does seem a pity for a body to be altered, potentially beyond reversal, when people can regret stuff.

But, it's great that we're all open to self-expression.

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