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"Is there a grievance procedure." Dunno dude.... They 'seemed' ok to me (as a company) but who knows.. at my work place they would be treading very carefully for risk of being taken to court etc.... | |||
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"Ok I think I know the answer to this but thought I'd ask here...as a start GF works in care (non verbal clients)... One has been violent towards her and others on many occasions (slaps bites chokes etc).. client has now been moved out of home and into private accom because of this. GF is being TOLD she must care for client in the home and this includes sleeping over alone (something she has never done)... Told it's in contract etc...no other staff want to do it...she has offered to assist temporarily (to be nice) but has now has major second thoughts and is scared to do it... Now she has no training in handling violent clients and IMO the employer has a 'duty of care' to protect the employees from violence irrespective of contract etc.... I can't believe it's legal to 'force' her and I suspect they are opening themselves up to a whole heap of legal trouble (potentially) She's so stressed she's not been sleeping and is considering resigning...pretty much forced out of a job she loves... I've told her to seek advice via Citizens Advice etc and also to put concerns in writing to HR (we are drafting a letter now) She's not in a union btw.... Obviously a précis but what do you think?...any pointers would be appreciated. I can understand some jobs dealing with violent people (police, prison staff etc) but I bet they have training for this...." There has to be by law more than one member of staff on duty get onto unison they have a section just for nursing and care staff by law if the patients have mental health issues there should also be a qualified medical professional at all times not just care staff | |||
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"Ok I think I know the answer to this but thought I'd ask here...as a start GF works in care (non verbal clients)... One has been violent towards her and others on many occasions (slaps bites chokes etc).. client has now been moved out of home and into private accom because of this. GF is being TOLD she must care for client in the home and this includes sleeping over alone (something she has never done)... Told it's in contract etc...no other staff want to do it...she has offered to assist temporarily (to be nice) but has now has major second thoughts and is scared to do it... Now she has no training in handling violent clients and IMO the employer has a 'duty of care' to protect the employees from violence irrespective of contract etc.... I can't believe it's legal to 'force' her and I suspect they are opening themselves up to a whole heap of legal trouble (potentially) She's so stressed she's not been sleeping and is considering resigning...pretty much forced out of a job she loves... I've told her to seek advice via Citizens Advice etc and also to put concerns in writing to HR (we are drafting a letter now) She's not in a union btw.... Obviously a précis but what do you think?...any pointers would be appreciated. I can understand some jobs dealing with violent people (police, prison staff etc) but I bet they have training for this.... There has to be by law more than one member of staff on duty get onto unison they have a section just for nursing and care staff by law if the patients have mental health issues there should also be a qualified medical professional at all times not just care staff " Was going to say about a qualified member of staff on duty at all times somewhere on site | |||
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"Thanks again x Don't think the patients have mental issues..just non verbal" I would say if they are attacking the staff there is some level of mental health issue there | |||
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"Get a lawyer to send a letter to them, outlining thats she's not trained to look after such a client. They'll certainly take that seriously. Probably cost a bit though." Just join unison it's a independent union for people who's work place has none, they have a section just for carers is a small fee but it comes straight out your wages and shows on your wage slip that alone makes a lot of employees think twice when they see that on your wage slip if they see she's joined a union they may think twice | |||
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"Now she has no training in handling violent clients and IMO the employer has a 'duty of care' to protect the employees from violence irrespective of contract etc.... I can't believe it's legal to 'force' her and I suspect they are opening themselves up to a whole heap of legal trouble (potentially)" Hi, sorry to be the bearer of bad news but where employers 'duty of care' is concerned there is a big loophole that I think your GF may fall foul of. That is, an employers 'duty of care' only extends to what is commercially viable. Her manager or the HR manager may be held accountable if something happens to your GF if she can show that they have been willfully negligent, however this will not be of use to her in such an event. (Think, the manager who has just been convicted for causing the death of 2 of his workers 'apple diving'!) Sad fact is your GF knows she is at risk so will be held at least partially responsible for any work related injuries she suffers. | |||
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"Get a lawyer to send a letter to them, outlining thats she's not trained to look after such a client. They'll certainly take that seriously. Probably cost a bit though. Just join unison it's a independent union for people who's work place has none, they have a section just for carers is a small fee but it comes straight out your wages and shows on your wage slip that alone makes a lot of employees think twice when they see that on your wage slip if they see she's joined a union they may think twice " Unison won't really help until you've been a member for 13 weeks | |||
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"Check her contract of employment thoroughly. If she doesn't have a copy of it, then get her to ask her employer to provide her with a copy of the contract that she signed. Very often an employer will use the line 'its in your contract' as a threat on the assumption that their employee will simply cave in and do it and won't actually check their contract. Then again, your partner should know if it's in her contract or not as you should always read any document you are going to sign VERY carefully. " this but also get a current copy of the T&C's in case they've changed anything since she started. She should have been notified of any change but it's not always obvious what the implications will be until something like this comes up. Note that the employer can make changes giving notice, you don't necessarily have to have signed up to them as they become effective unless you have objected (which usually ends up in leaving the post). Once you have these, seek legal advice, CAB, ACAS or union. They won't be able to advise properly without the contract details. | |||
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"If she does have to work with such a torrid person !!! Make sure she records his exploits with a Go-Pro or something.. and fuck asking the employer if your allowed to wear the thing !!! Her Safety comes first.. Personally I would be looking for another care Position... " nice idea, unfortunately the client's privacy could be considered to be breached and if s/he does have mental impairments would not be fit to sign any consent. Different matter if the home has cctv provided, though access to the recordings could the next hurdle... | |||
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"Thanks again for all the replies xxxx Just been on FaceTime trying to cheer her up.... Looks like a new job is looming tbh Anyway, thanks again and we will follow up on the advice Xxx" If she does leave then please make sure she sets out exactly why she has felt the need to resign to protect her own safety and wellbeing. Keep a copy. Leaving a job could mean she won't be eligible for any benefits should she need to make a claim. The new fees for making a claim at a tribunal will probably make it difficult to decide to go for constructive dismissal or breach of contract (I think it's the lower £160 fee but there is also a hearing fee if it goes that far). ACAS can give advice on this. Also refer the case to the CQC for investigation so that no other member of staff is faced with this again through that company. In the meantime she should keep a record for herself as well as on the client report forms of every time she is put in danger and every incident reported in the appropriate company incident record. Check the workplace manual for how to do this. We're likely to see more of this as the cost of care is squeezed even further. | |||
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"Ok I think I know the answer to this but thought I'd ask here...as a start GF works in care (non verbal clients)... One has been violent towards her and others on many occasions (slaps bites chokes etc).. client has now been moved out of home and into private accom because of this. GF is being TOLD she must care for client in the home and this includes sleeping over alone (something she has never done)... Told it's in contract etc...no other staff want to do it...she has offered to assist temporarily (to be nice) but has now has major second thoughts and is scared to do it... Now she has no training in handling violent clients and IMO the employer has a 'duty of care' to protect the employees from violence irrespective of contract etc.... I can't believe it's legal to 'force' her and I suspect they are opening themselves up to a whole heap of legal trouble (potentially) She's so stressed she's not been sleeping and is considering resigning...pretty much forced out of a job she loves... I've told her to seek advice via Citizens Advice etc and also to put concerns in writing to HR (we are drafting a letter now) She's not in a union btw.... Obviously a précis but what do you think?...any pointers would be appreciated. I can understand some jobs dealing with violent people (police, prison staff etc) but I bet they have training for this...." . Check her contract.... If it's a care company she probably hasn't got one. If no other staff will do it why is she being made to do it but they're not... Do they not have a contract? Or does their contract say no over nights with violent patients,? Go cab.... Doubt a care company will have hr.. Good luck and keep us updated with progress | |||
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"Ok I think I know the answer to this but thought I'd ask here...as a start GF works in care (non verbal clients)... One has been violent towards her and others on many occasions (slaps bites chokes etc).. client has now been moved out of home and into private accom because of this. GF is being TOLD she must care for client in the home and this includes sleeping over alone (something she has never done)... Told it's in contract etc...no other staff want to do it...she has offered to assist temporarily (to be nice) but has now has major second thoughts and is scared to do it... Now she has no training in handling violent clients and IMO the employer has a 'duty of care' to protect the employees from violence irrespective of contract etc.... I can't believe it's legal to 'force' her and I suspect they are opening themselves up to a whole heap of legal trouble (potentially) She's so stressed she's not been sleeping and is considering resigning...pretty much forced out of a job she loves... I've told her to seek advice via Citizens Advice etc and also to put concerns in writing to HR (we are drafting a letter now) She's not in a union btw.... Obviously a précis but what do you think?...any pointers would be appreciated. I can understand some jobs dealing with violent people (police, prison staff etc) but I bet they have training for this..... Check her contract.... If it's a care company she probably hasn't got one. If no other staff will do it why is she being made to do it but they're not... Do they not have a contract? Or does their contract say no over nights with violent patients,? Go cab.... Doubt a care company will have hr.. Good luck and keep us updated with progress" if there's not much detail in her contract, check also if there is a staff handbook as part of that may define contractual obligations of both parties. The training cost is a bummer, but not unusual for employers to have such a clause. | |||
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"Just wanted to say a big THANKS to all of you for the advice. We tried to contact CAB but of course it was late last night so I thought I'd contact FAB and received great advice .... Better probably lol Quite a few things I hadn't thought of (well, a lot tbh) I think I was looking for confirmation that what I was saying was in the right ball park and it seems like it was... She's back at work on Thursday and dreading it. She's almost certainly going to leave....not least because se feels 'making waves' will make her position untenable.....I have no experience in this as I've always been lucky to work for good companies.. I'm just going to support her but make sure she doesn't do anything rash that may affect the future.... One other thing that has come to light is that if she leaves she will have to pay back training course fees of approx 1K.....because it's less than a year after the course end.... At the end of the day, I'll pay that if needed but a little bit of negotiation may be in order methinks Anyway, thanks again guys xxxxxxx" Sounds a horrible place for her to be ? Why not pull the stress card and go on the sick even until the year is up ? Good luck ! X | |||
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"Ok I think I know the answer to this but thought I'd ask here...as a start GF works in care (non verbal clients)... One has been violent towards her and others on many occasions (slaps bites chokes etc).. client has now been moved out of home and into private accom because of this. GF is being TOLD she must care for client in the home and this includes sleeping over alone (something she has never done)... Told it's in contract etc...no other staff want to do it...she has offered to assist temporarily (to be nice) but has now has major second thoughts and is scared to do it... Now she has no training in handling violent clients and IMO the employer has a 'duty of care' to protect the employees from violence irrespective of contract etc.... I can't believe it's legal to 'force' her and I suspect they are opening themselves up to a whole heap of legal trouble (potentially) She's so stressed she's not been sleeping and is considering resigning...pretty much forced out of a job she loves... I've told her to seek advice via Citizens Advice etc and also to put concerns in writing to HR (we are drafting a letter now) She's not in a union btw.... Obviously a précis but what do you think?...any pointers would be appreciated. I can understand some jobs dealing with violent people (police, prison staff etc) but I bet they have training for this...." They cannot force her to do it even though it's in her contract. For a contract to be enforced by an employer they have to provide full training to any relevant staff and complete a full risk assessment. As they have failed to do so your partner is well within her rights to refuse on health and safety grounds. Hope this helps | |||
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