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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Adam and I took a long walk today and were discussing everything we could think of. We started talking about our experiences with swinging and why we got into it in the first place.

My main reason was girl/girl play.

His was variety.

Variety is now entering into it for me too. We have also learned to communicate a lot better because of this lifestyle.

My question is...why did you get into swinging? Why do you continue in the lifestyle?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Got into it with an ex, we had an open relationship, and decided it might be fun if we all played together. Bought a copy of Rendezvous in 1992, and the rest as they say is history

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply. We like to discuss the psychology of certain things.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Initially I wanted to see him with another girl so I could see what he looked like doing all the things he does to me we both got carried away and stay here because it's fun.....we have better and more intense sex with each other and always have but it is a giggle. If either of us decided it was boring we would stop in a heartbeat

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Paul was my first just wanted to see what another cock felt like

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

we swing because we both love the sensuality of the whole thing ... discovering other bodies , being able to laugh with folk and know that we are all open to discovery ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Adam and I took a long walk today and were discussing everything we could think of. We started talking about our experiences with swinging and why we got into it in the first place.

My main reason was girl/girl play.

His was variety.

Variety is now entering into it for me too. We have also learned to communicate a lot better because of this lifestyle.

My question is...why did you get into swinging? Why do you continue in the lifestyle?"

Because it's a good way to meet people who often have similar interests to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a swingle not a swinger as such, but I was single, high sex drive and frustrated, but also, being a single parent, rather bored and lonely in the evenings! Friends suggested this, and I love it, only met a couple of times, taken it slow to find guys I gel with, got a a lovely fwb now and we're going to explore more together. I love the forums, and the social side as much as the play,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I like sex and don't like boyfriends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my family doesn't know I am bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fuck buddy mentioned it to me one day! It was something id heard of before and it did really interest me i just didnt want to do it alone.... So when he mentioned we could do it together i jumped at the chance! We set a profile up as fuckbuddy couple on here and took it from there really! We both now have the confidence to go it alone hence single profiles.... Except for swingers clubs we do that together!

I love every minute, i perv people quite alot on here now hehe

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

It's either this or take up knitting to occupy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into pubs and clubs "d*unk people" so come on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent started swinging yet, but I like to shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started because there was a lack of decent men in my university city so I started looking on line and stumbled into swinging.... Never looked back.

I love sex but have no desire to have the headfuck of a relationship right now, so this suits me fine!

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

With a ex we went to a club with one her work friends who told her about amazing what a good learning curve. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked the look of the soft furnishings in the gallery for chameleons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but swing I put it down to not wearing underwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He couldn't keep it in his trousers lol so started down this path and he not bothered since lol even on here if he given the chance he super picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos the queue for the slide was too long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being single, I don't really class myself as a swinger. I've always explored sexually and this is just another avenue to meet people who like to do the same.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Weird I was going to ask this same question!

Our sex life was amazing. We used to sneak off for cheeky weekends away, and no one knew we were together! Until our kids came along my body changed I had/have confidence issues. My fella joined fab but I was not intrested.. did he not want me any more? What was he looking for? So he let me take over the reigns a few weeks ago we chatted about what we wanted, what our fantasies are/were. I got talking to some couples and single men.. Again I discovered I had fantasies my fella has let me meet 2 men alone (on separate occasions) with strict boundaries in place, with a _iew to them becoming part of our 3some fantasy... Since I have been in control and we both know what we want, every night we have have some of the best sex we have had for 4/5 years!! Happy swinging I say.. as long as your meets know the boundaries, and you love each other as a couple who's to say people can not enjoy sex with others! I certainly do!! X

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Can't help maself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boyfriend is away a lot so we have an agreement. I also like group settings and he doesnt

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Because I'm having the TIME OF MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like group play

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Adam and I took a long walk today and were discussing everything we could think of. We started talking about our experiences with swinging and why we got into it in the first place.

My main reason was girl/girl play.

His was variety.

Variety is now entering into it for me too. We have also learned to communicate a lot better because of this lifestyle.

My question is...why did you get into swinging? Why do you continue in the lifestyle?"

for us it was much the same reason tbh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 15 years of married monogamy and a patch of low self esteem because our sex life was scarce and dull, I suggested to hubby that we should try something different like swinging.

We discussed it for a year, then started going to clubs. It took a few goes before we actually swapped.

3 years later, it has really boosted my confidence, we've had some great experiences and we still do it.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We started with the swinging after discussing fantasies and deciding that a swingers club was the most likely place to allow these fantasies to happen.

In the 18 months since we started, our reasons for swinging have evolved. Basically it allows us sexy ally to do things we can't do with just the two of us... and obviously there's always another fantasy. Most of all though, we're both having a "fabulous" time.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos the queue for the slide was too long? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, have to let you know when we have swinged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love meeting folk on the same sexual wavelength and want to share new experiences together with them - also have high sex drives that need nourishing

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton

I got into it from my ex wife I am in the RAF traveled away 9 months of the year when I came back the first couple of days sex was amazing but got kind of stale after. We wanted to learn more and play some of our fantasies out. We meet some outstanding people and it was great fun and I know it brought us closer together.

Yes I know she is my ex now but that was due to another reason pmd me if you would like to know

The main reason I still swing is to learn to satisfy my partner or teach

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We started swinging because I wanted to explore my bi side more. At first I wasn't interested in playing with other men but that has definitely changed.

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