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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so there's probably some simple answers for some people like the fact they only joined to have a nose around or they received alot of unwelcome attention from idiots. However there seems to be a massive amount of people who aren't on this site for very long.

Thoughts?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

People come and go.

Don't let it worry you.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

It normally means they are men, who have become quickly disillusioned once they discover the site isn't fuckmenow dot com.

The normal progression is:

Hi, I'm new

Need profile help

Why don't I get any meets

This site is too cliquey

I hate you all

Unlos.

We've seen people manage all 6 stages before we even log on to read their mail!

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone deserves a 22nd chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and deleted to not get caught or they feel guilty?

After something in particular and can't get it on here so delete.

I can think of those reasons, there's probably others. Like above said don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some folks just don't think it's all that?

90% of this site does nothing for me, infact that same 90% make it hard for me to maintain the boner the 10% helped me achieve!

Not to mention those snakes who set up a second profile just to play stupid little games & all the other examples prob mentioned above...& below...

It's why I appreciate some ladies won't give you the time of day without the verification etc

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some like the drama of multiple exits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women asking for money who then get reported or leave before they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some like the drama of multiple exits"

I shat curry several times in one go..it was dramatic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some like the drama of multiple exits

I shat curry several times in one go..it was dramatic"

and arty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People come and go.

Don't let it worry you. "

Oh I'm not at all worried. Just human nature really amuses and sometimes astounds me. No two people ever have exactly the same motives or methods. And sometimes you need to _iew things from many different perspectives to comprehend. Hence the post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some like the drama of multiple exits

I shat curry several times in one go..it was dramatic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAB is like any other commodity and there are no barriers to entry. People will come and go due to that fact. By leaving and coming back no site rules are being broken but there maybe sinister other reasons.

That's market economics!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"everyone deserves a 22nd chance"

Some don't even take the full twenty seconds Paddy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have no stats but it's likely that most people outside of swinging don't really get how it might be. And also how it might be incompatible with their married life, where their partner doesn't want to swing and certainly would be incandescent with rage, should they discover partner's use on here.

I think tons will return, try again, when they failed to get shags the previous times. And likely fail again. And return, ad nauseum.

There are others who have multiple profiles - they perhaps hide their ID, can't store cookies on the home computer, as the mrs would discover it, and so multiples abound.

Admin also suspend people for breaking site rules - any serious offences would likely mean a permanent ban etc. Lots of reasons.

If anyone doesn't like the temp users, just focus on verified and longer term members here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It normally means they are men, who have become quickly disillusioned once they discover the site isn't fuckmenow dot com.

The normal progression is:

Hi, I'm new

Need profile help

Why don't I get any meets

This site is too cliquey

I hate you all

Unlos.

We've seen people manage all 6 stages before we even log on to read their mail!

Mr ddc"

Strongly disagree plenty of women wasting my time some go after a couple of messages just all talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It normally means they are men, who have become quickly disillusioned once they discover the site isn't fuckmenow dot com.

The normal progression is:

Hi, I'm new

Need profile help

Why don't I get any meets

This site is too cliquey

I hate you all

Unlos.

We've seen people manage all 6 stages before we even log on to read their mail!

Mr ddc

Strongly disagree plenty of women wasting my time some go after a couple of messages just all talk."

Unless they had arranged to meet you & didn't show up, they are not wasting your time.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I find they set up a profile when they get home from the pub, and delete it when they wake up. I have opened my messages several times on Saturday and Sunday mornings to find several from UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently had fake profiles message me abuse to then delete the profile to try and scare or threaten me...... Cowardly if you ask me that the person behind it clearly has a problem and can't act like an adult and have a conversation about their issues, instead hides behind these silly messages

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


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Strongly disagree plenty of women wasting my time some go after a couple of messages just all talk."

Yes, I forgot about the women that Miss Lovely mentioned, but we have newbies blocked and find that the site admin are quite efficient about dealing with them, so they don't appear on our radar.

Just count unlos as a lucky escape in those instances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block newbies. If they can't wait a week without going UNLOS they weren't going to be for me anyway.

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