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"If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?" Probably my indecisiveness. Or my shyness. Or my anxiety. But then should I worry about my inability to be serious? Lol. Or maybe my use of trendy teenage abbreviations, obvs. No, definitely my indecisiveness. Except..... (continues ad infinitum) Mr ddc | |||
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"Anxiety. I'm a big worrier and I can sometimes spiral into a a big "what if this happens, and then this happens, and then this..." and I get quite stressed about it. I'm a bit like this at the moment! So yes, if I could be a bit more laid back and easy going I would be." This in so many ways | |||
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"The Tory Party, their MP's, & their mindset. I can't stand them. Usually I'm pretty chilled out but they are like a red rag to a bull for me. I'd like to be more objective about them but I just can't. I just want to arse fuck the lot of them, even the ugly ones just so they know how the rest of us feel. Lol " You sound like you need anger management Does your irrational rage extend to conservative voters? | |||
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"You sound like you need anger management Does your irrational rage extend to conservative voters? " Nope. | |||
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"I've been thinking about this for about five minutes and the list is so flaming long I can't narrow it down to one thing. " Me too. I wish I was more confident. I wish I was more thoughtful, and didn't get jealous or put people down. I wish I was more motivated and just got stuff done rather than talk about it! | |||
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"Better include most of the fuckwit MPs in that too. Heehee! " Wasn't this thread about something you dislike about yourself as opposed to others? | |||
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"I've been thinking about this for about five minutes and the list is so flaming long I can't narrow it down to one thing. Me too. I wish I was more confident. I wish I was more thoughtful, and didn't get jealous or put people down. I wish I was more motivated and just got stuff done rather than talk about it!" I am the worlds worst prevaricator, I can't do anything unless I am on a deadline....that is what I would change...thank you | |||
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"Better include most of the fuckwit MPs in that too. Heehee! Wasn't this thread about something you dislike about yourself as opposed to others? " Maybe he dislikes that he dislikes them? | |||
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"The bit of shyness i have and me being reserved towards others. That and the preconceived judgement that people don't really like me. However, once i get to know someone a little. The barriers come down. I'm just a bit too wary sometimes. " Ahhhh same as me pops!! I always worry people don't like me! | |||
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"Better include most of the fuckwit MPs in that too. Heehee! Wasn't this thread about something you dislike about yourself as opposed to others? Maybe he dislikes that he dislikes them?" Good point! | |||
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"The Tory Party, their MP's, & their mindset. I can't stand them. Usually I'm pretty chilled out but they are like a red rag to a bull for me. I'd like to be more objective about them but I just can't. I just want to arse fuck the lot of them, even the ugly ones just so they know how the rest of us feel. Lol " I don't feel arse fucked by anyone | |||
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"My sarcaustic tendencies..yes I spelt it correctly" sarcastic?.. | |||
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"Better include most of the fuckwit MPs in that too. Heehee! Wasn't this thread about something you dislike about yourself as opposed to others? Maybe he dislikes that he dislikes them?" Got it. Life's too short to dislike fuckwits. | |||
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"The Tory Party, their MP's, & their mindset. I can't stand them. Usually I'm pretty chilled out but they are like a red rag to a bull for me. I'd like to be more objective about them but I just can't. I just want to arse fuck the lot of them, even the ugly ones just so they know how the rest of us feel. Lol " Yeah full them and their raising the tax free threshold. ..wait. | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it." Dysmorphia? | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it. Dysmorphia? " No, Datmorphia. But seriously, I'm not trying to start a guessing game, I just saw the thread, and wanted to get it off my chest. | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it. Dysmorphia? No, Datmorphia. But seriously, I'm not trying to start a guessing game, I just saw the thread, and wanted to get it off my chest." Was a joke as you're always going on about your muscles nearly as much as shag :p Good luck with it though mate, and if you really do want to change pick up the phone and ring mind they can point you in the right direction for help. It's not gonna be an easy fix but just think of it like the first day you decided to go to the gym it'd a long road it will take a lot of work and a lot of dedication not just focused on it but other aspects of your life too. But in the end you can change it. | |||
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"My sarcaustic tendencies..yes I spelt it correctlysarcastic?.. " sarcasm with caustic tendencies=sarcaustic | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it. Dysmorphia? No, Datmorphia. But seriously, I'm not trying to start a guessing game, I just saw the thread, and wanted to get it off my chest." moobs? | |||
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"Ooooh. Good one! Probably my Black and White _iew of the world. It's either Black or White. No grey areas in my world. Miss C. Xx " Fuck the grey areas turn around and see the technicolour side | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it. Dysmorphia? No, Datmorphia. But seriously, I'm not trying to start a guessing game, I just saw the thread, and wanted to get it off my chest. Was a joke as you're always going on about your muscles nearly as much as shag :p Good luck with it though mate, and if you really do want to change pick up the phone and ring mind they can point you in the right direction for help. It's not gonna be an easy fix but just think of it like the first day you decided to go to the gym it'd a long road it will take a lot of work and a lot of dedication not just focused on it but other aspects of your life too. But in the end you can change it. " The condition I have is sadly incurable (yes I have had it well looked into), but regardless, I do appreciate your help, you'd be surprised just how badly misunderstood so many personality issues are, not to mention the people who have them, so your understanding is admirable. | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it. Dysmorphia? No, Datmorphia. But seriously, I'm not trying to start a guessing game, I just saw the thread, and wanted to get it off my chest. Was a joke as you're always going on about your muscles nearly as much as shag :p Good luck with it though mate, and if you really do want to change pick up the phone and ring mind they can point you in the right direction for help. It's not gonna be an easy fix but just think of it like the first day you decided to go to the gym it'd a long road it will take a lot of work and a lot of dedication not just focused on it but other aspects of your life too. But in the end you can change it. The condition I have is sadly incurable (yes I have had it well looked into), but regardless, I do appreciate your help, you'd be surprised just how badly misunderstood so many personality issues are, not to mention the people who have them, so your understanding is admirable." If you look at my pics mate you'll see I wear my issues on my sleeve as it were so I know where you're coming from. there's often not a cure but coping stratagies can always be improved. So if you ever need some to talk to I'm here but I may not be a massive help. | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it." Me too. It was what inspired me to start the thread. For the most part though, I think most things have some good that come with the bad. Even if it's only to identify others in a similar position and be able to empathise. Don't beat yourself up trying to change the unchangeable. Acceptance starts with yourself. Easier said than done though. But everyone is fighting a personal battle. This is one of ours. | |||
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"I wish I could stop over thinking , it lets me down . I tried mindfulness to help with this . It works but there are times when it still works in overdrive. " I over think too. The most insignificant comment can create a major crisis. I'd like to stop doing it but wouldn't know how. | |||
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"My lack of confidence and my self loathing. It holds me back in so many aspects. " This for me too | |||
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"I wonder if the trait we have chosen would be the one our friends and loved ones would choose for us to change." | |||
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"I wonder if the trait we have chosen would be the one our friends and loved ones would choose for us to change." Probably. If only to avoid having any more blood stains on the carpet lol | |||
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"I wonder if the trait we have chosen would be the one our friends and loved ones would choose for us to change." For me, probably not! Feeling anxious doesn't really affect anyone but me because for the most part my spiral of doom stays in my head and doesn't come out. They'd probably make me less argumentative or possibly a bit more spontaneous, but they'd be way down my list. | |||
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"If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?" It wouldn't be just one thing | |||
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"I wonder if the trait we have chosen would be the one our friends and loved ones would choose for us to change. " I asked myself this question earlier, if I didn't have what I did, would I still be recognisable as myself? Then I wondered, but does the world even want who I am, the way I am? | |||
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"I have a particular personality complaint that I would change in a heartbeat were there a cure, but it's highly personal, so I won't say what it is, only that I hate having it. Dysmorphia? No, Datmorphia. But seriously, I'm not trying to start a guessing game, I just saw the thread, and wanted to get it off my chest. Was a joke as you're always going on about your muscles nearly as much as shag :p Good luck with it though mate, and if you really do want to change pick up the phone and ring mind they can point you in the right direction for help. It's not gonna be an easy fix but just think of it like the first day you decided to go to the gym it'd a long road it will take a lot of work and a lot of dedication not just focused on it but other aspects of your life too. But in the end you can change it. The condition I have is sadly incurable (yes I have had it well looked into), but regardless, I do appreciate your help, you'd be surprised just how badly misunderstood so many personality issues are, not to mention the people who have them, so your understanding is admirable. If you look at my pics mate you'll see I wear my issues on my sleeve as it were so I know where you're coming from. there's often not a cure but coping stratagies can always be improved. So if you ever need some to talk to I'm here but I may not be a massive help." Thankyou, I do appreciate the empathy, and can see you've had your own issues to deal with, so respect to you for having the strength to press on | |||
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"I wonder if the trait we have chosen would be the one our friends and loved ones would choose for us to change. I asked myself this question earlier, if I didn't have what I did, would I still be recognisable as myself? Then I wondered, but does the world even want who I am, the way I am?" Who cares what the world wants. The world gets what's it's given same as you do. All that matter is that you're someone you can look in the mirror ever day. | |||
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"I wonder if the trait we have chosen would be the one our friends and loved ones would choose for us to change. I asked myself this question earlier, if I didn't have what I did, would I still be recognisable as myself? Then I wondered, but does the world even want who I am, the way I am?" Yes the world does simply because you are in it and functioning. Just as you wouldn't be recognisable as yourself without what you have so it follows the world wouldn't be recognisable without you. | |||
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"My sarcaustic tendencies..yes I spelt it correctlysarcastic?.. sarcasm with caustic tendencies=sarcaustic" | |||
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"My lack of self-confidence... At times i feel im hiding the real me behind the make up,hair and clothes...it does feel right to be dressed though and feel more confident like that Strange i know " That's not strange at all. The amount of women who need their 'slap ' on is for the same reason as you. | |||
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"Extremely high expectations of myself and everyone and everything. Apparently I set those around me up for failure " If you set your standards nice and low I'm sure I could meet them :p | |||
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"Extremely high expectations of myself and everyone and everything. Apparently I set those around me up for failure If you set your standards nice and low I'm sure I could meet them :p" haha I've tried lowering them. But then I attracted a lying arsehole, so they are back up higher now! | |||
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"To stop flirting with straight men. Kop, wanna go on a camping trip? " Eeek! | |||
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"To stop flirting with straight men. Kop, wanna go on a camping trip? Eeek! " Couldn't resist that one. Ok, ok... I wish I didn't always enjoying winding folk up, but I do. Phew... there, I said it. | |||
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