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By *inkylouise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

Would it make it easyer to have a bi wrist band in clubs. Yes i know it could go for all sorts of gendas but think it would help the ladies.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not keen on labels, personally.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If MM play is permitted it could help the guys too. Like Tina, I'm not a fan of labels though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah just be bold and ask noone will take offence to it they can only say yes or no.

I got asked a couple of times last night just drop it into the convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it make it easyer to have a bi wrist band in clubs. Yes i know it could go for all sorts of gendas but think it would help the ladies."

You mean kinda like when lepers used to have someone walking in front ringing a bell....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought that in a club it's perfectly acceptable to just ask.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can just imagine the hosing down of the bi guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels a bit amusement park, all inclusive hotel ish for my liking. I prefer conversation. However it could help break the ice I guess. It could be as useful for guys as the women. But I wonder if the men would be as willing to be open about orientation.

Maybe you could use the Kinsey scale for bisexuality and have different colour wrist bands for each grade. Then everyone could wear one after taking the test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can just imagine the hosing down of the bi guys... "

oooer

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A couple of times I've been in a club, then when I've left and walked to my car, I've had chaps tell me they fancy having a play. They wouldn't say in front of anyone.

On that line, would it make much difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it make it easyer to have a bi wrist band in clubs. Yes i know it could go for all sorts of gendas but think it would help the ladies.

You mean kinda like when lepers used to have someone walking in front ringing a bell....? "

A bell and a wristband would be cool. And a hi viz jacket.

But only for bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it make it easyer to have a bi wrist band in clubs. Yes i know it could go for all sorts of gendas but think it would help the ladies."

No.. I think people should talk to each other. If someone is offended about being asked such questions they shouldn't be in a club. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it make it easyer to have a bi wrist band in clubs. Yes i know it could go for all sorts of gendas but think it would help the ladies.

You mean kinda like when lepers used to have someone walking in front ringing a bell....?

A bell and a wristband would be cool. And a hi viz jacket.

But only for bi guys. "

Oooh is that so you and the other ladies can find them, herd them into room and make them preform like dancing Russian bears?

I prefer just to read people and talk to them. I've been hit on by men in everyday clubs, and was flattered, not offended. Doesn't mean I want to wear a wrist band on a night out though

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

My bi guy loves performing for me. He wears a high via jacket to work .... does everyone in the building site know he is bi then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bi guy loves performing for me. He wears a high via jacket to work .... does everyone in the building site know he is bi then?"

Yep, performing for a lady/ladies is great. My message was filled with sarcasm but that shouldn't disguise what a huge turn on that scenario would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhibiting, or exhibitionism is probably a more appropriate term. Performing just doesn't quite sound right...

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By *inkylouise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

Well that went down well wasent ment as labelling some people dont get involed cause they dont know if people are strait or bi yes you can ask but how many times have we all sat not talking to others because we dont know if there looking for the same. Or on a bed allready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to think so but now i just ask the ladies - well if you dont ask you dont get

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By *inkylouise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burnley


"i used to think so but now i just ask the ladies - well if you dont ask you dont get "
well if we ever see you' you wont have to ask lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to think so but now i just ask the ladies - well if you dont ask you dont get well if we ever see you' you wont have to ask lol x"

noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that went down well wasent ment as labelling some people dont get involed cause they dont know if people are strait or bi yes you can ask but how many times have we all sat not talking to others because we dont know if there looking for the same. Or on a bed allready."

I wouldn't sit on the couch or bed not speaking to someone, sooner or later I'd start a conversation and work out what they were after at some point. If I wasn't for them but we were having a good conversation it wouldn't stop me talking to them, it's just being sociable.

Also you have to remember that just because you're looking for the same thing doesn't mean you'll be their cup of tea. It's like anyone you approach, they may or may not say yes regardless of what arm bands you wear. You need to strike up a conversation first!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

From a female point of _iew I have had women try to grope me or join in uninvited because apparently "all swinging women are bi aren't they"

There is still a major bias against bi men playing in open rooms in clubs when it's not a bi night. I've even encountered nasty comments being made when it is bi night!

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