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Friends invites, who else does this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.

For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.

For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"

every single time lol if they hot as then i'l send em a lil msg and keep them on a bit longer...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i have done that before, looked at their pics and if i dont like then deleted

hey they added me thats my choice to make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete on mass as i can't be bothered if i haven't chatted with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant be bothered I just delete. It says in my profile i will do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"

Always, and if they look OK we will leave them on as friends and send a message or wink.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just add them if i like the luck of them. Why not, you have to make efforts to make friends after all.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

lol !! oh gotta be done !! if they have sent a friends invite then obviously dont care if you view their pics. i make clear on my profile i dont add people to friends list unless i know them well,so they read profile theyd be fully awear they aint gonna see my pics by sending random invite or get message back .if they havent read profile then thats their look out lol ! didnt stop one disgruntled cpl complaining after sending random invite to me that i had dared to view their profile and then not message back nowt as queer as folk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant be bothered I just delete. It says in my profile i will do that."

Likewise!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess my method of dealing with spurious Friend invitation is someway between being partially polite and slightly flippant.

I just cut and paste the following message to the Invitee, obviously including their user name where appropriate…

Hello XXXX, just replying about your friend invitation, I’ll not be accepting at the moment,,,,, its nothing personal... but you must have read on my profile where it clearly mention I only accept Friend Invitations from people I've actually met ,,,,anyway that aside, I'm sure you can appreciate a view shared by many serious swingers which suggest it just all seems rather odd, even a tad suspicious when people we don’t know, or who have never bothered to say hello, want to put us on a list and pretend we are somehow friends,,... Anyway, no offence intended or taken, good luck and happy swinging. Best regards XXXX

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Only had it a couple of yimes so it's not much of an issue.

Last one was from a 'woman' with a one line profile and no pics...needless to say I didn't reply!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I get loads of people send frined invites when I dont know them so delete and block them now. My profile does explain this but I know full well they only want to perv my pics and no more

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We do the same as the OP - wait till they're off line and have a quick look - delete if they're not our cup of tea or send a message if they are! If people do this to perve at our private pics they'd be dissappointed as there isn't anything to see as we don't have explicit or face pics to view! We keep our face pics separate to attach to messages to people that we have chatted to, that way we know who we're letting see our face pics! Z

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Delete delete delete

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Delete delete delete "

Damn, damn, damn

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Delete delete delete

Damn, damn, damn "
Surely you dont send unsolicited friends invites??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont even tend to wait till thier offline as by the time they realize i have accepted i am in and out haha

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i dont even tend to wait till thier offline as by the time they realize i have accepted i am in and out haha"
is it that small????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

speculative friends invites..cos there's not enough dirty pics to look at on the interweb.apparently

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm very shy and hardly ever ask people to become friends. Usually it's only after I have talked to them for a while and know them a little bit then I feel confident to ask.

I also can't bare the rejection if I get a no, I guess I'm just a little softy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont even tend to wait till thier offline as by the time they realize i have accepted i am in and out hahais it that small???? "

super small you cant even see it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i dont even tend to wait till thier offline as by the time they realize i have accepted i am in and out hahais it that small????

super small you cant even see it"
thought so

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.

For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"

will you stop giving away my blooming secrets!!!!!

okay... guilty as charged... going to hell!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them without accepting as friends mean that i have known them for a long time, complete strangers are not friends

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Nope I just delete but now I see I am missing out on a potential perving opportunity I might have to revise my tactics...

Having said that I dont think I could really be arsed to bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I just delete but now I see I am missing out on a potential perving opportunity I might have to revise my tactics...

Having said that I dont think I could really be arsed to bother "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.

For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"

Tend to initiate a chat before accepting invitations, and tend not to accept everybody as list gets too long and you never get chance to get to know anybody really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never had a friends invite before a message. Winks yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nor would we ask without engaging in communication first.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

oooooooh i have just deleted some.....oooooooh how satisfying is that delete button

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I would not send out a friend invite unless I have had a reply first,I cannot see the point really, I can see why some men would do it, for a peek at the pics!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"We have never had a friends invite before a message. Winks yes. "

Wow that is surprising, Never???

I get on average at least 4 a day. If showing as online about 8 an eve

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