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By *lackgrape OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

Hi y'all, would it be right to call someone a player here?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I would have thought we are all 'players'....depends on your definition I guess..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been debating this.

I think you can still be honest, or deceptive and manipulative in this game.

You can meet for fun and no strings fun. Agree to meet or not at any time.

Or you can tell someone whatever they want to hear to get meets, and promise them the world and not mean it.

There is a way to meet someone without making false promises. Without being manipulative.

But whatever you do, if you've been deceived on here, don't post for sympathy as the usual cry is "it's no strings sex, what did you expect?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi y'all, would it be right to call someone a player here?"

I think lots are wannabe players

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I've been debating this.

I think you can still be honest, or deceptive and manipulative in this game.

You can meet for fun and no strings fun. Agree to meet or not at any time.

Or you can tell someone whatever they want to hear to get meets, and promise them the world and not mean it.

There is a way to meet someone without making false promises. Without being manipulative.

But whatever you do, if you've been deceived on here, don't post for sympathy as the usual cry is "it's no strings sex, what did you expect?" "

Yes, there is a fine line, and I agree, the difference is in the honesty and the attitude. Nsa does not have to mean dishonest, disrespectful or unkind. We should be able to play with people without using them, I don't ever want anyone thinking I used them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a player is someone who is untruthful about their intentions, basically lies to get you in the bed, while doing the same thing to other victims.

I prefer someone who is honest, and doesn't sugar coat stuff but is polite. If you are looking for a NSA fun just say it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Malignant Narcissists and those with personality disorders will alwayd play with the emotions of those they encounter in social situations. This setting will be no different.

Love

Jane

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Malignant Narcissists and those with personality disorders will alwayd play with the emotions of those they encounter in social situations. This setting will be no different.

Love

Jane"

Very astute.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I would have thought we are all 'players'....depends on your definition I guess.."

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By *airy_HettyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"Hi y'all, would it be right to call someone a player here?

I think lots are wannabe players "

Yep and then wonder why people get pissed off with them when their lies are uncovered!

Sure the person who tried it on me thought I would not be aware of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi y'all, would it be right to call someone a player here?"

No. Not everyone will be happy with that term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been debating this.

I think you can still be honest, or deceptive and manipulative in this game.

You can meet for fun and no strings fun. Agree to meet or not at any time.

Or you can tell someone whatever they want to hear to get meets, and promise them the world and not mean it.

There is a way to meet someone without making false promises. Without being manipulative.

But whatever you do, if you've been deceived on here, don't post for sympathy as the usual cry is "it's no strings sex, what did you expect?"

Yes, there is a fine line, and I agree, the difference is in the honesty and the attitude. Nsa does not have to mean dishonest, disrespectful or unkind. We should be able to play with people without using them, I don't ever want anyone thinking I used them. "
used and abused here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me a player is someone who is untruthful about their intentions, basically lies to get you in the bed, while doing the same thing to other victims.

I prefer someone who is honest, and doesn't sugar coat stuff but is polite. If you are looking for a NSA fun just say it,"

Totally agree!

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton


"I've been debating this.

I think you can still be honest, or deceptive and manipulative in this game.

You can meet for fun and no strings fun. Agree to meet or not at any time.

Or you can tell someone whatever they want to hear to get meets, and promise them the world and not mean it.

There is a way to meet someone without making false promises. Without being manipulative.

But whatever you do, if you've been deceived on here, don't post for sympathy as the usual cry is "it's no strings sex, what did you expect?" "

I agree

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I've been debating this.

I think you can still be honest, or deceptive and manipulative in this game.

You can meet for fun and no strings fun. Agree to meet or not at any time.

Or you can tell someone whatever they want to hear to get meets, and promise them the world and not mean it.

There is a way to meet someone without making false promises. Without being manipulative.

But whatever you do, if you've been deceived on here, don't post for sympathy as the usual cry is "it's no strings sex, what did you expect?"

Yes, there is a fine line, and I agree, the difference is in the honesty and the attitude. Nsa does not have to mean dishonest, disrespectful or unkind. We should be able to play with people without using them, I don't ever want anyone thinking I used them. used and abused here "

Lol, get back to work you, I need keeping in sour melons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi y'all, would it be right to call someone a player here?"

Deception in order to get sex is never a good thing, on or off this site.

Some say 'don't blame the player blame the game', I say that's nonsense. Blame the player and tell them to up their game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been debating this.

I think you can still be honest, or deceptive and manipulative in this game.

You can meet for fun and no strings fun. Agree to meet or not at any time.

Or you can tell someone whatever they want to hear to get meets, and promise them the world and not mean it.

There is a way to meet someone without making false promises. Without being manipulative.

But whatever you do, if you've been deceived on here, don't post for sympathy as the usual cry is "it's no strings sex, what did you expect?" "

'No strings' is never an excuse for deception. Expecting honesty is not a sign of weakness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always honest on here and in real life. You take me or leave me for what I am. Wouldn't have it any other way. Therefore I don't consider myself a player.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Come here for no strings fun and aim to keep things light. Be honest and treat others as you would wish to be treated.

If it goes wrong, put the attention on yourself and forget the others. Learn what your part in the process is and choose not to do so again.

Don't label the people, identity the behaviour - theirs and yours - and commit to different rules always.

Whatever the golden fleece, don't try to seek and capture it.

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By *lackgrape OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

Im loving your _iews and opinions here, some sexy lady called me a player and I simply asked what she was doing on this site if she wasn't out here to play x I guess like a double edged sword it cuts both ways .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

People on the Internet can call me what they like, it is more than likely not going to bother me in the slightest.

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By *lackgrape OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

Im loving your _iews and opinions here and I totally agree with being transparent, people my have their differences when it cums to who you swing with and how many and then lable you a player, not that im into numbers taking into consideration that the guys outnumber the girls big time and single guys are not so popular meets can be few and far spaced x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a player is someone who is untruthful about their intentions, basically lies to get you in the bed, while doing the same thing to other victims.

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By *lackgrape OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they playing football?

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