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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'd say thanks i'll pass it on to Jo

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm never offended by a compliment..

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"i'm never offended by a compliment.."

Me neither

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No I'd say thanks i'll pass it on to Jo

Him"

Nice arse

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea

Compliment's a compliment, can't complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I'd say thanks i'll pass it on to Jo

Him

Nice arse "

Thanks it don't look to big in these jeans do it ? lol

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, why would I?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No I'd say thanks i'll pass it on to Jo

Him

Nice arse

Thanks it don't look to big in these jeans do it ? lol

Him"

Tuts your supposed to pass that to jo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's just with Kez loving boobs and Ste loving butts we're constantly seeing pics we like and occasionally just feel like letting people know but don't want it to sound like a cheap chat up line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just with Kez loving boobs and Ste loving butts we're constantly seeing pics we like and occasionally just feel like letting people know but don't want it to sound like a cheap chat up line."

Have a compliment and insult in the same mail even things out ?

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Ha no way, all compliments would be accepted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In that case can we compliment everyone who responded for their feedback. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In that case can we compliment everyone who responded for their feedback. :D"

I'll pass it on to Jo lol

Him

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just do it. Id be clear it came with no hidden agenda.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "

Nope. I'd be really pleased.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Id be delighted. Its always nice to get a compliment

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm always fishing for them .. And don't mind giving them .. I hope they bring a smile to the recipient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I wouldn't mind

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By *hynewguy2012Man
over a year ago

dartford

I wouldnt mind.

NO.... Realy i wouldnt mind

*sits patiently *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send compliments to people that I'd have no opportunity to meet or who wouldn't consider meeting me, usually because their profile made me smile, nit because they had hot photos.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "

I wouldn't be offended at all...it would make me take a look at their profile and if I felt I could give one (a compliment, that is) in return, I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't offend us, it's really nice that people do that. We do it sometimes, think it's nice to say something positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?

I wouldn't be offended at all...it would make me take a look at their profile and if I felt I could give one (a compliment, that is) in return, I would "

Agreed, a nicely place compliment can make someone's day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "

Not offended but from random people who I don't know they mean nothing. All the 'you're beautiful crap' I don't have a head on my profile so you know that based on ....? Just to get a fuck. Think most see thro it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I get a message like that. I will always reply to say thank you. Receiving and paying compliments is good to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?

Not offended but from random people who I don't know they mean nothing. All the 'you're beautiful crap' I don't have a head on my profile so you know that based on ....? Just to get a fuck. Think most see thro it. "

Was just going to post the exact same...I always laugh when they say wow ain't you beautiful and not one face pic in public...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to get a compliment, although depending on the compliment I sometimes get embarrassed.

Jill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like receiving genuine compliments so a random message on here is hardly going to be that to be honest. Especially when it's copied & pasted each week

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?

I wouldn't be offended at all...it would make me take a look at their profile and if I felt I could give one (a compliment, that is) in return, I would "

exactly this is me also

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends. Some have fishing lines attached to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I'd say thanks i'll pass it on to Jo

Him

Nice arse

Thanks it don't look to big in these jeans do it ? lol

Him"

Nice beetle bonnet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love compliments

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It often happens and no, we're not offended by it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, I think compliments should be recieved with good grace, if they're really OTT I just giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People send compliments, well I never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a lady in here I'd be a little suspicious and cynical re: motives I think, given the nature of the site. The best compliments are sincere with no ulterior motives, and even if that's how they have been given on here, as it's essential a casual sex site (yes, I know swinging is much more than just that) the perception will always be there's an agenda behind a random stranger suddenly offering compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had a compliment ?? think il go cry in the corner

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If it the "you are beautiful" type compliment then I tend to just ignore them - my profile doesn't show my face, so being called beautiful comes across as insincere.

However, I often reply to compliments on a forum post or about my profile (when people actually get my sense of humour) as they seem more genuine.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"If I was a lady in here I'd be a little suspicious and cynical re: motives I think, given the nature of the site. The best compliments are sincere with no ulterior motives, and even if that's how they have been given on here, as it's essential a casual sex site (yes, I know swinging is much more than just that) the perception will always be there's an agenda behind a random stranger suddenly offering compliments

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Of course, but if someone messages me with a compliment, they have still made a choice to do so and I can accept that at face value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "

No of course not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't a fabbed pic an out of the blue compliment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky feckers! How dare they compliment me

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We're always sending random compliments, if we like a part of a profile we let them know, kinda nice thing to do in our book.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will very often wink or send a little message if I like what I see on photos.

Not for any other reason than they have taken the time to post them and I would like them to know they're appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "

No. This is normal when people upload pics.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"i'm never offended by a compliment.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this alot and don't expect anything in return. But if they do and we start chatting then that's a bonus. Doesn't mean we will meet, its just making friends.

I just think everyone likes to receive a compliment, be nice if everyone did this in their everyday lives x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It's always nice to get a compliment, I always reply. Even if it is a bro with the ghey yo.

In fact come to think of it I probably wouldn't get compliments at all if it wasn't for the bros with the ghey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "

No i would say thank you for being kind

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