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By *oopy097 OP   Man
over a year ago

east mids

so i was wondering what people do when they turn up to a meet and the photo was obviously on a VERY good day?

do you say "no thanks..." or just crack on and think of England?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't fancy them at least a little bit, I wouldn't have sex with them. Have never had this happen to me though!

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over a year ago

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

This is why I warn people in advance I look better in photos. Saves some of the look of sheer disappointment. I quite like doggie style anyway, which helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just stick a paper bag over their head. If they look half decent, I will give them a hole in it to breath out of too!

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By *oopy097 OP   Man
over a year ago

east mids


"This is why I warn people in advance I look better in photos. Saves some of the look of sheer disappointment. I quite like doggie style anyway, which helps.

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dont know what you're on about your are HOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me twice, I fucked them anyway.

And, no, they weren't any better or worse than the guy's I fancied!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a good day when it comes to pictures so I would hope I look better in person, And judging by the people I have seen of this site they have all looked better in person,

I hope that doesn't come across as a insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I couldn't do anything sexual, not even kiss if I didn't find I found them attractive at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just stick a paper bag over their head. If they look half decent, I will give them a hole in it to breath out of too! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look "

Or another way to put it shag,

You don't look at the mantelpiece while poking the fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look

Or another way to put it shag,

You don't look at the mantelpiece while poking the fire

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lol that's right, look up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can't have sex with just anyone. I need to like the look of them. So I'd say 'sorry changed my mind' and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman in the US many years ago from a similar site. She had sent me someone elses photos. I bought her pizza and despite the fact she was quite attractive didn't feel inclined to fuck her at all. I'm not even sure why!

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By *rc83Man
over a year ago

warrington


"I don't have a good day when it comes to pictures so I would hope I look better in person, And judging by the people I have seen of this site they have all looked better in person,

I hope that doesn't come across as a insult

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I agree on this, I'm not very photogenic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me. "

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I had 1 woman send me a pic of her doughter. 150 mile drive 5 mins in threw the door 150 mile back home at worp speed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance not running a charity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step."

Don't have a web can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second. "

But you have just give your game away

You will have to meet people who don't use the forums now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've lost count of the number of times we've said no thanks . Some pics are simply nothing like the reality and we certainly won't ever take one for the team .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step."

I don't go on cam, I'm not proving myself to anyone. Would rather a quick social meet if I want to know how I get on with them.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had 1 woman send me a pic of her doughter. 150 mile drive 5 mins in threw the door 150 mile back home at worp speed"

Ah dammit, I can't use that trick now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be honest & tell them...only because it would be obvious when I never got it up because of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fuck them anyway, i'll usually find something attractive about them and i was horny so that's why i invited them round.

If they obviously tried to trick me into meeting using old pics then i don't want to fuck them and don't, hasn't happened often that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.

Don't have a web can "

You do. You're on a smartphone to access this site so you can webcam on that.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I had 1 woman send me a pic of her doughter. 150 mile drive 5 mins in threw the door 150 mile back home at worp speed

Ah dammit, I can't use that trick now! "

I wasn't going to let on it was you but hey if you don't mind then

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.

Don't have a web can "

Neither do I. I do warn people that I have had people run away once they've seen me.

I haven't had any men that I haven't been able to recognise but some were taken at least a decade ago. Deception doesn't sit well with me so it's a no.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look "

In the list of 'shagism's' is that one above if they bring Haribo's they're a keeper..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it ain't happening if I don't fancy them but as I've usually chatted on whatsapp and / or had a social meet this doesn't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look

In the list of 'shagism's' is that one above if they bring Haribo's they're a keeper..?

"
YEs that's right, but we will have half each of the bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick social meet first and play if all goes well. Quite happy to say I've changed my mind and don't mind if they've changed their mind either. It's never happened as I'm normally pretty sure before I meet people.

Oh, and I do have a webcam but don't/won't use it. My choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second.

But you have just give your game away

You will have to meet people who don't use the forums now

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There's probably less than 10% of guys on here I would meet, doubt even 1% of them use the forums!

(There are handsome people on the forums just not local enough to me that's why they aren't included in my percentage estimations)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.

Don't have a web can

You do. You're on a smartphone to access this site so you can webcam on that."

Think you can only watch cams not broadcast so that wouldn't be fair. I haven't needed to use cam anyway. I do a social and wouldn't play if there was no attraction. They always know it's a social anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn't look like their pictures. I just keep drinking until they do.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I just stick a paper bag over their head. If they look half decent, I will give them a hole in it to breath out of too! "

I see. Now I know!

And you told me it was just a kinky game.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second.

But you have just give your game away

You will have to meet people who don't use the forums now

There's probably less than 10% of guys on here I would meet, doubt even 1% of them use the forums!

(There are handsome people on the forums just not local enough to me that's why they aren't included in my percentage estimations)

"

Wales isn't that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.

I don't go on cam, I'm not proving myself to anyone. Would rather a quick social meet if I want to know how I get on with them. "

This. I have a social first. Never had anyone who didn't look like their pics but with some I've known there was no chance of anything physical happening even if they've been nice & we've had a good laugh together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.

I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.

Don't have a web can

You do. You're on a smartphone to access this site so you can webcam on that.

Think you can only watch cams not broadcast so that wouldn't be fair. I haven't needed to use cam anyway. I do a social and wouldn't play if there was no attraction. They always know it's a social anyway. "

You can download skype for free and use it for free both ways on your phone. Incase you decide you needed it.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"so i was wondering what people do when they turn up to a meet and the photo was obviously on a VERY good day?

do you say "no thanks..." or just crack on and think of England? "

Always start with a non-committal social meet. If it goes further then great. If it doesn't then no problem.

Works both ways too, without awkwardness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone doesn't look like their pictures. I just keep drinking until they do. "

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

I always take the _iew that a social first is the best way, I don't generally cam. Attraction works both ways and isn't mandatory just because we're on here. Hopefully a nice social chat may lead to something more if you hit it off, but I don't go with any pre-conceived expectations, other than hopefully a pleasant natter over a drink/snack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the first meet i had off here i'd talked to for so long..id really forgotten id not seen his face...when we met he said 'i'd imagined you blonde',and ,if i'd seen his face pic i probably wouldnt have met him, but because of our previous chats, we were fine, had a great time ,and met him again....wouldnt meet anyone now without a pic,but i was lucky with him! he was a lovely intro to fab...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Id struggle to say much, if deceit had been used and it would remain a social meet.

I get alarmed when people just have snippets of themselves in their pics. What is the hidden meaning or possibly not being revealed? Blurred pics, that can hide a house of horrors, a body that has indistinguishable form from a beanpole or a whale.

I don't want surprises that will hasten my death from shock or heart attacks.

Similar to the maids that greet and vet punters at certain establishments, I need a possible equivalent that can screen out the oddbods and provide a corporate style thanks but no thanks, on yer bike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant imagine they would too vastly different from their pics. So if they weren't my cup of tea in the first place I probably wouldn't meet.

They'd have to have a face like a seriously fucked up bag of spanners though. What if their body was absolutely amazing instead. And just so happened their moosh hadn't caught up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I warn people in advance I look better in photos. Saves some of the look of sheer disappointment. I quite like doggie style anyway, which helps.

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Lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me. "

Smart

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"This is why I warn people in advance I look better in photos. Saves some of the look of sheer disappointment. I quite like doggie style anyway, which helps.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Luckily I don't look quite so terrible in life

Plus, I have blackjacks and fruit salads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone doesn't look like their pictures. I just keep drinking until they do.

"

And just hope they're not a 10 pinter!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I choose not to cam. Its not my thing at all. I'm well verified so don't feel I need to prove the pictures are me, or recently which some of them are - but I've not changed vastly since I put my pics on - maybe a little slimmer)

Not from fab, but I did meet someone from online who was nothing like his pictures - I actually walked past him. And I told him I was not happy at being deceived and that nothing would happen. I would react exactly the same via fab.

I'm not that desperate for a shag that I'd do a charity fuck.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"so i was wondering what people do when they turn up to a meet and the photo was obviously on a VERY good day?

do you say "no thanks..." or just crack on and think of England? "

I would only ever agree to a meet on the basis that what happens (or not) is based on whether we find each other mutually attractive/click.

I'm definitely not part of the 'any hole is a goal' brigade..

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online.... "

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would walk away after being nice about it

If someone posts pics that are completely different to reality, they create the situation.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This is why i do a social meet first,then there is no expectation and if no attraction either party can walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same on any Social Media site, look at your friends on Facebook and Twitter etc, always use their most flattering pic as their profile pic! Human nature.

In my case you can't polish a turd so I have to accept I'm facially challenged whatever so no amount of filters or soft focus will help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same on any Social Media site, look at your friends on Facebook and Twitter etc, always use their most flattering pic as their profile pic! Human nature.

In my case you can't polish a turd so I have to accept I'm facially challenged whatever so no amount of filters or soft focus will help! "

Excuse me- I've seen your face & you are definitely NOT facially challenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. "

Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics are my own I would not lie about what I look like I'm me and will always be me love me or hate me. What you see is what you get.

Hope that's clear as mud he he he

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. "

Oh no - the fog has gone!!

Don't worry, I've got two bags in my pocket - just in case one falls off!!

Ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that "

I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them they are dreamers and usually go home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that

I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life "

Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second. "

Looking at ur pics I can't imagine they'd care if ur a fruit cake lol. I'm straight btw but can give a girl a compliment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its happened to me twice - I never learnt lesson first time around

First time was fem who knew of me but never met, after a few text messages, we agreed to meet , she sent "recent" face/body pics, I returned favour - with no disrespect to lager women (who I adore), her pic was a pretty, smart slender size 16 ish, in reality she was a size 28 plus and was horrid looking

Second time was a supposed to be a MF couple - you guessed it, when I arrived, it was a fella on his own

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

If u have invested time and effort , and even travelled , u become what I like to call 'pot committed ' where u are unable to fold , despite how bad ur hand is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that

I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life

Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time "

You deceitful hussy! I feel so misled.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that

I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life

Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time "

In the interests of full disclosure I now have to dye my hair back to its original pre-grey colour every couple of weeks. My boobs are far from round without the cantilevering effects of a bra. And I am blind as a bat without glasses or contact lenses. Such a catch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that

I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life

Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time

In the interests of full disclosure I now have to dye my hair back to its original pre-grey colour every couple of weeks. My boobs are far from round without the cantilevering effects of a bra. And I am blind as a bat without glasses or contact lenses. Such a catch! "

Sounds perfect. Need to book my tickets.

At least then you won't see how short i am or my hairy face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same on any Social Media site, look at your friends on Facebook and Twitter etc, always use their most flattering pic as their profile pic! Human nature.

In my case you can't polish a turd so I have to accept I'm facially challenged whatever so no amount of filters or soft focus will help!

Excuse me- I've seen your face & you are definitely NOT facially challenged. "

Aw, bless you very kind (thank you) but I'm sticking to my original assessment - a face only a mother could love

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....

I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. "

Really! I'm gutted.

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