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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

"

Do tell - how do you notice 'empty balls or a used pussy'?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

"

My heart goes out to you OP, but it's hardly surprising she's found someone better. Just try to move on with your life.

Best of luck

Mr ddc

(Ps, once you have white, she'll find it alright. Is that what she told you?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wonder why they didn't tell me and if the other person knew about me or not.

Doubt i'd dump them, depends why they did it and if they're fulfilling my needs still.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My ex went and found someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

Do tell - how do you notice 'empty balls or a used pussy'?"

Different people spot different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife did. And I left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They cheat on me they are gone. I will not be treated like a mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They cheat on me they are gone. I will not be treated like a mug."
whoo I love it when yer go all Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caught my ex cheating 3 weeks after we buried our son. His phone kept ringing while he was in the shower. Electrician is what it said on the screen. Fake name, was a woman who wanted to know who the fuck I was.

i won't be put through that again.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


"They cheat on me they are gone. I will not be treated like a mug. whoo I love it when yer go all Dom "

Careful now pussy cat,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about it and I can't really answer as it depends on the circumstances involved.

For me it's not a black / white situation ~ there's a massive area of grey inbetween.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They cheat on me they are gone. I will not be treated like a mug. whoo I love it when yer go all Dom

Careful now pussy cat, "
it's ok me little Panther , I'm been cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They cheat on me they are gone. I will not be treated like a mug."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex husband was seeing a woman we had met through swinging behind my back for about a year before he finally left me for her

I knew all along they was meeting behind my back but I just let them get on with it

when he finally told me and I told him I already knew he actually had the nerve to get angry with me for not saying anything, I think it was the shock as instead of me crying and begging him to stay which is what he expected maybe even wanted I just shrugged and said I know bye then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my ex husband was seeing a woman we had met through swinging behind my back for about a year before he finally left me for her

I knew all along they was meeting behind my back but I just let them get on with it

when he finally told me and I told him I already knew he actually had the nerve to get angry with me for not saying anything, I think it was the shock as instead of me crying and begging him to stay which is what he expected maybe even wanted I just shrugged and said I know bye then "

That is funny he got angry cause you let him. But did you not care and did you do the same to him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

My heart goes out to you OP, but it's hardly surprising she's found someone better. Just try to move on with your life.

Best of luck

Mr ddc

(Ps, once you have white, she'll find it alright. Is that what she told you?)

"

It is not about me I am asking you ladies and gentlemen. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my ex husband was seeing a woman we had met through swinging behind my back for about a year before he finally left me for her

I knew all along they was meeting behind my back but I just let them get on with it

when he finally told me and I told him I already knew he actually had the nerve to get angry with me for not saying anything, I think it was the shock as instead of me crying and begging him to stay which is what he expected maybe even wanted I just shrugged and said I know bye then

That is funny he got angry cause you let him. But did you not care and did you do the same to him? "

did I do the same to him?

by that do you mean because I knew he was playing away was I playing away?

no

i was having sex with others but we used to use fab and use club's so most of what we did we did as a couple

I guess he just fell for this particular woman and felt the need to meet her behind my back which I never got as we both used to meet alone too so he could have met her with my blessing, I can only assume what they had was so special they felt it had to be kept quiet

who knows

did I care?

not really, what's the point if he wants to play away he will whether I told him I knew or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, relationships are based on trust and honesty. When that's gone, then there is no relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home.

I agree "

Agree, just don't see how cheating is going to fix it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home.

I agree

Agree, just don't see how cheating is going to fix it!"

It doesn't its just a bit of excitement and escapism for the people doing it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

Do tell - how do you notice 'empty balls or a used pussy'?"

I was wondering the same, are there tell tale signs? And how can you tell the difference between empty from a wank or used from a dildo session??!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"What would you do if you found out your current partner was being secretive and having sex with others then coming home to you like nothing has happened?

You found out by loads of photos of his or her body on the net. lol

You noticed empty balls or a used pussy. So what is the next step for you?

Would you leave for disloyalty or keep it going like you never found out and set them up with people to fuck? lol

My heart goes out to you OP, but it's hardly surprising she's found someone better. Just try to move on with your life.

Best of luck

Mr ddc

(Ps, once you have white, she'll find it alright. Is that what she told you?)

It is not about me I am asking you ladies and gentlemen. lol"

I know,

Because you can sometimes be a little bit of a devil on here, I wanted to be a little devilish myself

Thank you for taking it in the spirit it was meant

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home."

well said . And true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home.

I agree

Agree, just don't see how cheating is going to fix it!"

I don't think people cheat hoping it will fix their failed marriage I think it's a way of getting what's missing in their relationship and that not always sex it could be having somebody to laugh with again or a ear to listen to you

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I would try to talk it out. Cheating has happened to me in the past and we tried to keep it going, but once its gone, its gone. I would not see any need, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would try to talk it out. Cheating has happened to me in the past and we tried to keep it going, but once its gone, its gone. I would not see any need, to be honest."

Same with my ex. I wanted to be with him still but the trust was gone and hurt was in it's place.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home."

Agree, always thought this and even though my ex cheated I still do. We were having problems anyway BUT he should have told me he was attracted to someone else n we coulda talked n sorted things as we had in the past AND she shouldn't have been shagging a man she knew was married and he should have been man enough to admit when confronted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be relevant to contemplate why they feel the need to see others. It could be worth while wondering if you have some responsibility for how they are acting.

Hang on! They are fucking cheaters! As the injured party you are totally without blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think adultery is a product of a relationship already in trouble, not the cause.

People rarely cheat if they are happy at home.

I agree

Agree, just don't see how cheating is going to fix it!

I don't think people cheat hoping it will fix their failed marriage I think it's a way of getting what's missing in their relationship and that not always sex it could be having somebody to laugh with again or a ear to listen to you "

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I've been a cheat.

My ex husband and I had ceased having sex and he'd agreed that u could meet others, as long as he didn't know about it. So, that's exactly what I did and I ended up on fab. Well, one meet turned into more and I fell head over heels in love. After about six months I left my husband and moved in with my meet. For me it was a happy ending. I divorced my ex and married my new partner 6 weeks ago.

Do I have regrets? Yes!

I hurt my ex husband deeply and for that I will be eternally sorry. If I could go back and do things again I would leave my ex husband when we were having difficulty rather than us both keeping up a pretence that everything is ok and me cheating on him. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.

As for the future. My relationship with my new husband is amazing. We communicate far more than I ever have with any previous partner. From the very start we have told each other everything, our deepest secrets. He knows me better than I think I even know myself

And the ex husband? We still speak occasionally. He's found a lovely new lady and they are planning to get married next year

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london


"I've thought about it and I can't really answer as it depends on the circumstances involved.

For me it's not a black / white situation ~ there's a massive area of grey inbetween."
. Agreee

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night? "

Don't worry I'm still here. Or am I?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night? "

Think it's just one poster.

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london


"What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night?

Think it's just one poster. "
what's unlos?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night?

Think it's just one poster. what's unlos?"

User no longer on site....they have deleted their profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night?

Think it's just one poster. what's unlos?"

User no longer on site

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

I had a friend years ago and if she went out her husband inspected her pussy when she got home would check the mileage on the car he was very insecure she would never do any thing wrong i suspected he hit her as well.

She ended up crying on a work friends shoulder and left him.

Jealousy is a very nasty thing its an illness

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"What is it with all the UNLOS threads? Did I miss a plague last night? "

It was the bbc, bucket-fanny chap. I suspect he may have felt the green arrow was lowering his prospects.

The trouble I have is that in 5 days time I'll spend the whole day trying to guess which new poster he is!

Mr ddc

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend years ago and if she went out her husband inspected her pussy when she got home would check the mileage on the car he was very insecure she would never do any thing wrong i suspected he hit her as well.

She ended up crying on a work friends shoulder and left him.

Jealousy is a very nasty thing its an illness "

Yes, jealousy is a horrible trait. Very very sad indeed.

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