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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? " Get him to come to you with cash. Agree a price beforehand and stick to it. If he try's to haggle? Say no and call it quits - you've lost nothing. Fill out the new keeper details whilst he's there and take a photo of them on your phone. Go straight to the bank and pay the money in. Simple. What could go wrong? A | |||
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"Does your dad know you are selling him? " Maybe in Swansea, having your Dad in the passenger seat saying "turn left here" is what passes for Sat Nav? Mr ddc | |||
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"Just remember. . Even if they turn up you're under no obligation to sell the car..." If an agreement has been reached then there is a legal obligation to sell the car. Practically speaking enforcing that agreement wouldn't be worth the time and effort | |||
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"Just remember. . Even if they turn up you're under no obligation to sell the car... If an agreement has been reached then there is a legal obligation to sell the car. Practically speaking enforcing that agreement wouldn't be worth the time and effort" does it bollocks,nothing agreed till at least deposit is taken n even then stipulate in writing a time limit to pick up vehicle | |||
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"Does your dad know you are selling him? " Bet my Dad wouldn't mind being sold to a few people on here | |||
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"Just remember. . Even if they turn up you're under no obligation to sell the car... If an agreement has been reached then there is a legal obligation to sell the car. Practically speaking enforcing that agreement wouldn't be worth the time and effortdoes it bollocks,nothing agreed till at least deposit is taken n even then stipulate in writing a time limit to pick up vehicle" If you have reached an agreement to sell and that party is willing to pay the price agreed for that vehicle they could force you to perform it. Reality is who agrees to by a car without seeing it | |||
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"Tell him he comes to you with cash or bankers draft,no other options or just hang onto beemer.if it wasn't a diesel I'd have been interested" Why would you be interested in a generic beemer which is half way across the country? | |||
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"Why I'd buy a BMW or any car is frankly none of yr business" The whole reason the OP has suspicion of the 'buyer' is because the car is nothing special and there are loads of them about, as far as I can see your even further away! | |||
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"I said if it wasn't a diesel I'd be interested but it is a diesel,I've travelled further for the right car. can't you read properly? " I think you are missing the irony. Don't worry about it | |||
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"I have heard about a scam on Gumtree with same details, but I can't remember the details. I say if your gut says no don't do it. Or ask for cash upfront and meet him in your bank where its safe and you can put the money straight in you account xx" | |||
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"Hi there are 4 ways that this scam works (if it is a scam ) 1) most common - when the "buyer" arrives naturally they want a test drive and usually ask you to accompany them so as not to arouse any suspicions - they will not arrive alone and one person will remain at your address whilst you and the "buyer" go for a test drive. During that test drive at some point you will stop and be removed from the vehicle at which point it will be driven off, immediately a call will be made and their friend will leave your house in their car which will be on false plates. 2) Someone suggested a bankers draft - BAD idea! unless you can call their bank and have them confirm and approve it while they are with you before you have the keys over - 2 reasons for this - 1st a bankers draft only actually proves funds were available at the time it was issued secondly they are one of the most common forgeries used! 3) You will actually only receive around £10,000 for your car because around 30% of the notes handed to you when they pay cash will be fake. 4)they will be making a bank transfer from an account that isn't theirs, which ultimately will mean returning the money and you will never see the car or your money again." point2 yep you would find their bank automatically, if the buyer isn't happy about this then you would walk away anyway | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? " if its a large sum of cash, they could scam you with fake notes, it has been done and is a regular scam | |||
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"I wouldn't drive 150 miles to meet a person who wants to buy my car anyway." this if he really wanted the car he'd have arranged to come to you and not be asking you to drive down. I travelled all the way to Scarboro once to buy a car I wanted, then had the fun of driving it back If accepting cash you have to be able to verify that it's not fake, perhaps arrange to go to the bank and have them check it and pay it to your account and exchange the V5 there? | |||
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"I'd say use PayPal and make him travel to you. He could just know his cars and know exactly the condition etc he wants it in. x" Paypal is easy to recover money off. If he wants to buy it then get him to travel to you. If he wants it at much as he's making out he will come. | |||
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" I know how you feel, Last year we sold our Mitsubuishi L200 Warrior privately , we had loads of interest too and we felt like you guys, what if its a scam , what if they pay with counterfeit money,what if we get burgled or held up after the sale etc,,, we actually did the sale to the guy in the branch of our bank, if he's ligit and wants your car badly he should have no trouble doing this for you, and your bank should have no problem letting you do this.. we sold it for what we wanted and we knew the money was in our account and nothing was dodgy about it " This is how I sell mine when I do it- cash in the bank over the counter, then it's their responsibility if there's any problems with the notes as you have a receipt. My last one I sold, I got the ' I'll pay by PayPal and send the cost of the car transportation too, when the guy picks it up- give him the cash' hmmmmm? Yeahhhhh? Fuckofffff! | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car." I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw " How far did you travel for yours? | |||
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"I sell a few motors, I always ask they deposit 25% of the agreed price into my bank account..NEVER PAYPAL its too easy to deposit then withdrawer it etc. I take a mate with me, and always meet somewhere public with cctv . Is it a con ? sounds dodgy" yep, all they'd have to do is raise a dispute with maybe a faked report and if paypal agree and step in and pull the cash you lose | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? " only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" " Gotta love an Italian tune up every now and again... | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" Gotta love an Italian tune up every now and again..." so true, they were made to be driven not to pootle about. The busso engine sounds so good too | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" Gotta love an Italian tune up every now and again... so true, they were made to be driven not to pootle about. The busso engine sounds so good too" My current mileage means a Busso is out of the question at the moment. But as soon as September comes I'll be on the hunt for a GT 3.2 (pre-2005). I will then be fitting a Ragazzon exhaust and throwing the pre-cats in the bin... | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" Gotta love an Italian tune up every now and again... so true, they were made to be driven not to pootle about. The busso engine sounds so good too My current mileage means a Busso is out of the question at the moment. But as soon as September comes I'll be on the hunt for a GT 3.2 (pre-2005). I will then be fitting a Ragazzon exhaust and throwing the pre-cats in the bin... " mine's a 2.5 156 but know what you mean on fuel consumption. Right we better stop hijacking the OP's thread as others have said here OP should be cautious, if unsure at all just firmly say NO. Better no sale than be scammed. | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" Gotta love an Italian tune up every now and again... so true, they were made to be driven not to pootle about. The busso engine sounds so good too My current mileage means a Busso is out of the question at the moment. But as soon as September comes I'll be on the hunt for a GT 3.2 (pre-2005). I will then be fitting a Ragazzon exhaust and throwing the pre-cats in the bin... mine's a 2.5 156 but know what you mean on fuel consumption. Right we better stop hijacking the OP's thread as others have said here OP should be cautious, if unsure at all just firmly say NO. Better no sale than be scammed." No problem, not Hi-jacked at all, would like to say thanks to everyone for valuable contributions... Think jam going to take the majority of advice and say No! Thanks again to one and all. | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? " Do t go e him any personal details whatsoever , I would imagine your car is sought after so I would wait for someone who doesn't appear as dodgy | |||
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"He could just be an enthusiast and your car is exactly what he wants. It's not unusual for members of owners clubs to drive hundreds of miles for the car they want, I've give lifts to plenty of members of the AROC to collect their perfect car. I'd agree if he was arranging to travel, but not if he's suggesting they drive to him. oh, fellow alfa owner btw How far did you travel for yours? only about 70 miles, was a peach, one little old lady owner from new and hardly any miles Think it's still recovering from being driven "properly" Gotta love an Italian tune up every now and again... so true, they were made to be driven not to pootle about. The busso engine sounds so good too My current mileage means a Busso is out of the question at the moment. But as soon as September comes I'll be on the hunt for a GT 3.2 (pre-2005). I will then be fitting a Ragazzon exhaust and throwing the pre-cats in the bin... mine's a 2.5 156 but know what you mean on fuel consumption. Right we better stop hijacking the OP's thread as others have said here OP should be cautious, if unsure at all just firmly say NO. Better no sale than be scammed." Mines a GT Blackline JTDm. I've had it mapped to 210bhp and its actually more economical than when it was standard @ 150bhp | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? " It really is quite simple... He travels 150 miles to see the car, it costs him and you have the upper hand in negotiations, he pays your price or gets to pay for another single ticket home... You travel to him the costs are yours and he he has the negotiating advantage over you... | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? Get him to come to you with cash. Agree a price beforehand and stick to it. If he try's to haggle? Say no and call it quits - you've lost nothing. Fill out the new keeper details whilst he's there and take a photo of them on your phone. Go straight to the bank and pay the money in. Simple. What could go wrong? A" The notes could be counterfeit? | |||
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" Mines a GT Blackline JTDm. I've had it mapped to 210bhp and its actually more economical than when it was standard @ 150bhp " nice! being a q-sys mine's heavier on fuel but is fun and relaxed in traffic. The "spare" one on my drive is identical but no-one was interested when I was looking to sell, manual is more popular plus the fuel consumption etc. | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? " Cash only cash. Could pay by cheque oh look money's there then it bounced 12 days later. I bet a "friend or relative" will lay and pick it up etc and he'll pay extra for the inconvenience | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? Cash only cash. Could pay by cheque oh look money's there then it bounced 12 days later. I bet a "friend or relative" will lay and pick it up etc and he'll pay extra for the inconvenience" but how would you know if it was fake cash, or proceeds of a robbery and the serial numbers are on a watch list? | |||
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" Mines a GT Blackline JTDm. I've had it mapped to 210bhp and its actually more economical than when it was standard @ 150bhp nice! being a q-sys mine's heavier on fuel but is fun and relaxed in traffic. The "spare" one on my drive is identical but no-one was interested when I was looking to sell, manual is more popular plus the fuel consumption etc. " I may actually know someone who'd be interested.. | |||
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"I am selling a pretty decent car, BMW 330d M sport. I have this guy in South London who is desperate to buy it, I live about 150 miles away from him and there are loads of the same model for a similar price between us, literally hundreds. He keeps phoning and texting wanting me to go to London and he "guarantees" he will buy the car. Something just doesn't feel right, even though he has said he'll get on a train and come to South Wales and buy it... Is there any kind of scam he could pull? I have said I won't sign the dad over to him until the money has hit my account and he's happy with that. Trouble I advertised it about 3 months ago and the asme guy was behaving exactly the same way. FFS he's even offered to put a deposit into my bank account if I promise not to sell it to anyone else.... Anyone else had a similar situation and does anyone in the trade have any advice? Cash only cash. Could pay by cheque oh look money's there then it bounced 12 days later. I bet a "friend or relative" will lay and pick it up etc and he'll pay extra for the inconvenience but how would you know if it was fake cash, or proceeds of a robbery and the serial numbers are on a watch list?" Do the exchange in the bank and pay it in immediately? | |||
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"I'd say use PayPal and make him travel to you. " Never, ever accept Paypal for something that is being collected. | |||
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