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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

why do some people block me after first message ?.

im never rude and if they say there not interested always say thanks for the reply and dont bother them again....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why would you let it bother you? you seem to be having fun on here..

why waste a minute of your life you won't get back worrying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you have messaged someone who is not interested in what you have to offer.

I personally block young lads as they cant seem to read Im not interested

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"why do some people block me after first message ?.

im never rude and if they say there not interested always say thanks for the reply and dont bother them again...."

Because the option is there and they can use the option.

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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

ye guess ur right

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"ye guess ur right"

I am female, I must be right

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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

but if i wasnt interested in what someone had to offer i would just say no thank u x

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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

sorry forgot ladies are always right lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok, some people will reply, some won't, some willblock you after you have mailed them, some won't

It is something you can get used to or let it wind you up and spoil your fun.

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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

no not spoilt my fun so far.. best site ive found so far.. met some really nice people.. thought it mite be single men pretending to b a couple

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I don't normally get involved in these sort of threads but maybe I can give some insight from a female point of _iew...

So someone messages me and they are a smoker and I don't meet smokers so I say 'Thanks but I don't meet smokers'...

He then writes back and says 'how about if I don't smoke for an hour before we meet'.....I write back saying 'thanks but we won't be meeting'....

He then writes back for a third time telling me he brushes his teeth and uses mouth washes before meets....

See my point?, he can't accept that we are not compatible and unless I blocked him he would continue to badger me.

Hence my reason for blocking after a first exchange of messages if I feel it will never have the possibility of ending in a meet.

Experience tells me that unless I use the block facility on the site I will never convince some people that I am not interested.....however hard I try.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"no not spoilt my fun so far.. best site ive found so far.. met some really nice people.. thought it mite be single men pretending to b a couple"

I wouldn't go down that route to be honest, not everyone who fails to reply or blocks people are single men pretending.....as they would probably answer you if they were a scam

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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

well not goin to dissagree with u.. like u said u ladies are always right.... then again what if one lady says one thing and another says the oposite.. cant both be right ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Of course both are right....silly

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By *uro anchor OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

so im still wrong ? ... im so silly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in the words of 2pac "cos thats just the way it is"

haha sorry i am in quote mode today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ye guess ur right

I am female, I must be right "

Cant argue with that

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"why do some people block me after first message ?.

im never rude and if they say there not interested always say thanks for the reply and dont bother them again...."
Its n option sweetie, dont let it bother you xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"ye guess ur right

I am female, I must be right

Cant argue with that "

I like you

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I regularly block people that message me after not reading the profile.

I also dont meet smokers or men under 30 but they will message me again and again,so I block them after their first message to me as it is just a waste of my time to get 40 emails and 38 of them from smokers or under 30s.

I now have less mail but normally its more interesting.

It saves them trying to mail me again and again even after the first and second no thanks.

Just dont get upset and move on ok xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I select random people and block them just for fun.

They are probably unaware I do this but that's not important. I like the feeling of power and it's a bit like bubble wrap. You can't stop blocking once you start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I select random people and block them just for fun.

They are probably unaware I do this but that's not important. I like the feeling of power and it's a bit like bubble wrap. You can't stop blocking once you start."

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I select random people and block them just for fun.

They are probably unaware I do this but that's not important. I like the feeling of power and it's a bit like bubble wrap. You can't stop blocking once you start."

O god am I a serial blocker??

Is there a helpline for me? a serial blockers anonamus line???

I guess admitting to it is the best thing to do isnt it. Please help as may need beta blockers or whatever they are called to give me the block feeling I need lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I select random people and block them just for fun.

They are probably unaware I do this but that's not important. I like the feeling of power and it's a bit like bubble wrap. You can't stop blocking once you start.

O god am I a serial blocker??

Is there a helpline for me? a serial blockers anonamus line???

I guess admitting to it is the best thing to do isnt it. Please help as may need beta blockers or whatever they are called to give me the block feeling I need lol"

LOL The first stage to recovery is to admit you have a problem.

Well done!

We are all here for you. xxx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"why do some people block me after first message ?.

"

Because there are fewer reproductions from blocking someone than there are from telling them to fuck off... may be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some send a nasty letter and dont wish to here what you will say back and its the easy way out blocking Sad but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly block people that message me after not reading the profile.

I also dont meet smokers or men under 30 but they will message me again and again,so I block them after their first message to me as it is just a waste of my time to get 40 emails and 38 of them from smokers or under 30s.

I now have less mail but normally its more interesting.

It saves them trying to mail me again and again even after the first and second no thanks.

Just dont get upset and move on ok xx"

I totally understand what you are saying and its only reasonable to expect people to READ the profile before messaging but............ i was perving loads of profiles (Naughty i know! ) and i noticed on a few of em (just seemed to be ladies) that they INSISTED on the age range being adheard to or they will block if out-with the range etc ..... then i go on and read the verifications and quite a few had people wayyyyyy over or under the range stated! one was ALL her verifications and there were quite a few so sometimes actually reading the full profile will result in mixed signals!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I did mean repercussions..... I am sure Freud would have something to say about having reproduction on the brain.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

How does OP discover this?

If you get a "no thanks", why are you going back to their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't normally get involved in these sort of threads but maybe I can give some insight from a female point of _iew...

So someone messages me and they are a smoker and I don't meet smokers so I say 'Thanks but I don't meet smokers'...

He then writes back and says 'how about if I don't smoke for an hour before we meet'.....I write back saying 'thanks but we won't be meeting'....

He then writes back for a third time telling me he brushes his teeth and uses mouth washes before meets....

See my point?, he can't accept that we are not compatible and unless I blocked him he would continue to badger me.

Hence my reason for blocking after a first exchange of messages if I feel it will never have the possibility of ending in a meet.

Experience tells me that unless I use the block facility on the site I will never convince some people that I am not interested.....however hard I try."

Ditto - we get so many people who will not take no for an answer despite the fact that we reply to all mails with a polite "ooh goody let's shag" or a "thanks but no thanks with the reason why"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will block people if they havent taken no for an answer, or irritate me with constantly hounding me every time one of us are online, these are usually the guys who will message, Feebs is that you, and if Chris messages back saying no its me, they say oh no, we wanted Feebs. That really annoys both of us, what these guys dont seem to realise is that if they annoy him, then they are not gonna play with me are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And god knows whose blocked me, I dont really care, plenty more playmates in the sea so to speak

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I select random people and block them just for fun.

They are probably unaware I do this but that's not important. I like the feeling of power and it's a bit like bubble wrap. You can't stop blocking once you start.

O god am I a serial blocker??

Is there a helpline for me? a serial blockers anonamus line???

I guess admitting to it is the best thing to do isnt it. Please help as may need beta blockers or whatever they are called to give me the block feeling I need lol

LOL The first stage to recovery is to admit you have a problem.

Well done!

We are all here for you. xxx"

Thanks funky, I will seek help after I have blocked a few more none reading fookers lol xx

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I have not been blocked yet, but I have only just joined, so early days yet! Lol

If I happen to get deletd thats it, move on, plenty more fish in the sea!

And I'm good with my Rod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive me if i'm wrong but i think the op was asking why people who ARE compatible block him after the first polite message he sends? And of course the only reason is coz they can. When that happens you've just got to bite your lip and move on.

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