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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really struggling to meet or even get chatting to women in my area, is there something I should change in my profile or is it just because I'm married and won't share my face pic in first msgs?

Iv since shaved as got told that it may be an issue.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try getting rid of the cock pics and have body shots or other pics instead, to many cock pics are unnecessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why won't you share face pics in first messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read your profile.

Why would anyone bother to meet someone who won't send a pic of themselves???

At least you're honest about being married. That will put a lot of people off in the first place but to expect anyone to meet you without knowing what you look like?!

Good luck! I certainly wouldn't waste my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read your profile.

Why would anyone bother to meet someone who won't send a pic of themselves???

At least you're honest about being married. That will put a lot of people off in the first place but to expect anyone to meet you without knowing what you look like?!

Good luck! I certainly wouldn't waste my time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really struggling to meet or even get chatting to women in my area, is there something I should change in my profile or is it just because I'm married and won't share my face pic in first msgs?

Iv since shaved as got told that it may be an issue.

Thanks"

All of what you said would be an issue for me. I have to find something attractive in a person's profile for me to want to chat to them. Your profile is honest,but nothing grabs my attention. You are a risky meet ie attached and no pics, so you have to try extra hard by making your profile stand out. Sadly as a guy you do have to try so much harder than us ladies.

If you won't send a face pic will you cam? I don't think many women have that much time to arrange a meet with someone where they don't know what they look like. And why should they when there are plenty more unattached guys that are willing to show pics?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I wouldn't message a guy who already said he wouldn't show me his face. I meet for sex and don't do socials so I need to know if I like you or not before meeting and I am married so it's not because I am scared you could be a mad axe murderer - I think a lot of single women would want to know what you look like before a social too but no doubt they will be along soon to tell you if that's true for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of in order of noticing the bad things

1)That profile pic, seriously get a better one

2) the rest of the pics

3) the fact you expect someone to meet you without seeing you

4) the hilarious and obvious fake female account you set up to give yourself a very from, yeah the "athletic" 24 year old exists like my arse shits gold.

5) the rest of the profile text.

The good.

1) you apparently do have a penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of in order of noticing the bad things

1)That profile pic, seriously get a better one

2) the rest of the pics

3) the fact you expect someone to meet you without seeing you

4) the hilarious and obvious fake female account you set up to give yourself a very from, yeah the "athletic" 24 year old exists like my arse shits gold.

5) the rest of the profile text.

The good.

1) you apparently do have a penis.

What does your missus think about you suddenly shaving your privates ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you have.site a bit muddled this isn't blind date ,I.shouldn't therea many if any women who would meet without seeing a face pic first.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Of in order of noticing the bad things

1)That profile pic, seriously get a better one

2) the rest of the pics

3) the fact you expect someone to meet you without seeing you

4) the hilarious and obvious fake female account you set up to give yourself a very from, yeah the "athletic" 24 year old exists like my arse shits gold.

5) the rest of the profile text.

The good.

1) you apparently do have a penis.

Agree with all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole package that is your profile is terrible, simples.

Major re-think needed

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Really struggling to meet or even get chatting to women in my area, is there something I should change in my profile or is it just because I'm married and won't share my face pic in first msgs?

Iv since shaved as got told that it may be an issue.

Thanks"

In my opinion it's much easier to explain a face picture on the net to a spouse (someone put it on for a joke, nicked it from Facebook, it isn't you just someone very much like you etc) than what you're doing in a bar or coffee shop with an unknown woman. Having said that people will meet without seeing a face first apparently but your profile will need to attract them first.

A lot of men join this site expecting a queue of women just eager for any man who happens along that fills certain criteria e.g. a pulse, a cock and no pubic hair. Just because that is how they perceive the site doesn't mean that is how it is. Have read of your profile and look at your pictures, if you were a woman with the pick of twenty men would you pick you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you ask the 'lady' that you met?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Would I meet someone who isn't willing to show me a pic of their face?

No fucking chance!

And that is just the tip of the iceberg I'm afraid.......all cock pics, another reason to say no. Boring profile, another no. Married, another no.

On the plus side, at least you're being honest about being married so people can make an informed choice. Well done on that, it's good to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one will meet without seeing what you look like first. Plus you're overweight, oh and also married and cheating. Yes I'll meet you instead of the 6ft, huge cock Adonis' I can choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you ask the 'lady' that you met? "

I think that account is too busy hoovering pics to meet any more :p

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"No one will meet without seeing what you look like first. Plus you're overweight, oh and also married and cheating. Yes I'll meet you instead of the 6ft, huge cock Adonis' I can choose from. "

Agree, apart from the overweight and being 6ft stuffs.

Seriously though, it's an awful profile For what's already been mentioned. Actually has the dilibetate set up second profile to troll feel about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience really that's about it, women don't understand that as they get inundated lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one will meet without seeing what you look like first. Plus you're overweight, oh and also married and cheating. Yes I'll meet you instead of the 6ft, huge cock Adonis' I can choose from. "

If I wear heels to make me up to 6ft can I come too ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of in order of noticing the bad things

1)That profile pic, seriously get a better one

2) the rest of the pics

3) the fact you expect someone to meet you without seeing you

4) the hilarious and obvious fake female account you set up to give yourself a very from, yeah the "athletic" 24 year old exists like my arse shits gold.

5) the rest of the profile text.

The good.

1) you apparently do have a penis.

This why you're my best friend

I'm crying with laughter at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one will meet without seeing what you look like first. Plus you're overweight, oh and also married and cheating. Yes I'll meet you instead of the 6ft, huge cock Adonis' I can choose from.

If I wear heels to make me up to 6ft can I come too ^_^"

Me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one will meet without seeing what you look like first. Plus you're overweight, oh and also married and cheating. Yes I'll meet you instead of the 6ft, huge cock Adonis' I can choose from.

If I wear heels to make me up to 6ft can I come too ^_^"

5'11 is also an acceptable height!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the cock pics, nobody thinks a cock looks pretty! That's just a male ego thing. Yep being married will turn a lot of people off and yep, ultimately people want to see what you look like otherwise it's just wasting time chatting to be rejected later on if they don't like you and finally for me, be respectful, polite and a gent and show genuine interest in the person you are messaging rather than it being all about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5'11 is also an acceptable height!"

I'm 6'6" in my stilettos. Does that mean I win?

Love

Jane

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

if you won't ever send a face pic, how would your meet recognise you if you do manage to arrange it?

You could always upload a face pic and set it to private and then only share it with someone you are chatting with. You can even set it to be removed once the message has been read if you're really worried, not that the reader couldn't then screen-grab it when they've opened your message of course.

I don't have a face pic on public view but will share when messaging, only fair especially if you're expecting the other person to share theirs or have shown it.

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