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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

....do you talk to someone or bottle it up?

Mild curiosity makes me ask.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Normally if sombodys pissed me off they know about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk it through with them, or if that is imprudent, then someone else. Rarely bottle anything these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what's upset me...usually takes a lot to piss me off due to my work very capable at remaining calm

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If someone upsets me, I don't talk it through when it happens. I walk away, write it down, then talk about it once I've got my thoughts in order. Otherwise I just get angry and become incoherent and cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what it is I deal with different situations different

if somebody pisses me off I tend to tell them

if it's a personal problem I tend to bottle it up, I moved away from home so I have no family or real friend round here to talk to, except my kids and I'm not dumping my problems on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell someone, if an actual person pisses me off i tell them. don't see the point in holding it in, i used to hold it in but that made me feel worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bottle everything up. Not the best thing to do in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who or what as pissed me off. Get over a lot more things nowadays.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

You can see exactly what I am feeling by the expressions on my face so even if I tried to hide it I couldn't - if I am upset it's obvious and I will talk about it.....I don't do bottling up emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....do you talk to someone or bottle it up?

Mild curiosity makes me ask."

How about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have anyone so bottle it! Or have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person pisses me off, I tell them. Until they accept what they have done and apologise, I'll hold a grudge. Especially if they attempt to patronise me, or manipulate the situation.

All I need is acknowledgement and an appology to forgive. But it seems some people are just incapable of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what mood I'm in but generally there's a lot I bottle up but then there's other times I will tell who ever what's got to me and why

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Depends on the situation, but being a Scorpio, if I don't say my piece there and then, or soon afterwards, then I will bide my time. Mr keeps it in and it eats away at him as he never wants to upset people, so I fight his battles for him too, at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottle it up! Not very good at handling my emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone annoys me I walk away and forget about it in less time than it would take to let them know I am annoyed. If its serious then I will deal with it with that person at the time, best advice I ever got was "never stay angry it only harms you".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anyone to talk to about my problems, apart from my ex

So generally keep them bottled up

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I will forgive but I won't forget, and I'll let you know either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually let the guilty part know that I am less than happy...no matter the situation...it has lost me jobs...as Clive Dunno says...They don't like it up 'em...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottle it up and carry on the stress on my shoulders until I get a release

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I minimise all drama in my life to almost zilch... I would say it straight and that's it done.

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"....do you talk to someone or bottle it up?

Mild curiosity makes me ask.

How about you OP?"

Not too good at emotional stuff so I tend to bottle it up. Which doesn't work.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It depends on the situation, and the person and also what has upset me, for the most I rely on myself and tell myself to get a grip and get over it if outwith my control I have become to just rely on myself more and more. I

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

I give them a good talking too.

and by talking too I mean bottle them.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I tend to bottle it up but when I let go I let go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I massively bottle things up

I have learnt that this is a very bad thing!

My OH let's rip...but that generally turns me on and doesn't have the desired effect...

Anyway, let the stress go peeps...

Skateboarding is good for that....can't beat a good slash grind on coping....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....do you talk to someone or bottle it up?

Mild curiosity makes me ask.

How about you OP?

Not too good at emotional stuff so I tend to bottle it up. Which doesn't work. "
I'm the opposite. I end to be too open with my emotions which also doesn't work at times

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I was bought up to bottle it up so I do. I've only ever really lost my temper once at work, it shocked everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give them a good talking too.

and by talking too I mean bottle them. "

Lol. I so wanna do this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk about it, as I think bottling it up just creates a pressure valve that'll come out elsewhere. Partly, it's an age thing as I used to keep everything to myself. I think it's far better that things are out in the open than festering away inside.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Generally will talk about it. Better to get it off your chest. I'm a natural worrier so not good to mull it over or it just eats away at me. Which drives me insane.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I used to bottle things up, but nowadays I have learnt to let things not upset me

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I used to bottle things up, but nowadays I have learnt to let things not upset me "

Not even when people call you 'Ace Whinger'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people piss me off I just smile, nod, walk away and let it roll off my shoulders. If I'm having a bad time, then I disappear and go quiet for a while until I've sorted it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I used to bottle things up, but nowadays I have learnt to let things not upset me

Not even when people call you 'Ace Whinger'? "

I don't whinge, but I make the ladies moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let it go now. Used to let it get to me but then realised that they're not worth the drama.

Easy life for me please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont take passengers.....light the blue touch paper.....and stand well back.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bottle things up. But when it all gets too much, I rant, cry and scream. Husband is particularly useless to me when I need the support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it to myself.

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