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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I met a few woman now

seem to regular meets now weekly or every cpl of days..

none left verifications

I cant seem to get them to leave one

what am i doing wrong peeps???

Please tell me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't worry about it as you seem to be doing fine without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked them to?

Have they given any reason why they haven't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they are regular meets ?

I got confused by that sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look at ur status it sais you got the veris tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it. I meet for the fun, not to get a sexual performance review!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they haven't left them how can you choose not to show them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are not a measure of you...be happy that you are getting to spend time with a lady or two...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met several people who haven't left me a verification for whatever reason. One despite asking me to give them one, which I did.

Of course its upto the individuals involved. I'd met a couple of singles and couples before I had my first on this site.

If you are getting meets, someone at some point will leave you one.

Unless you are not as described in your profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do have some... but not ones i want from certain people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have some... but not ones i want from certain people "

Why do you want them though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have some... but not ones i want from certain people "

From guys then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it. I meet for the fun, not to get a sexual performance review!"

This...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I do have some... but not ones i want from certain people "

I'm sure those that left them will be glad to hear that!

If you're getting weekly meets what's the problem OP? The fact they haven't left veris doesn't seem to be damaging your prospects, levels of activity or the fun you're having.

Are your meets any less pleasurable because there's no written record? Is it important to catalogue every encounter you have?

There was a thread earlier in the week about too many veris putting some people off.

Be careful what you wish for!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your status would suggest you are bothered about veris or you wouldn't feel the need to say that? Just carry on having fun, to me, veris mean nothing.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I met a few woman now

seem to regular meets now weekly or every cpl of days..

none left verifications

I cant seem to get them to leave one

what am i doing wrong peeps???

Please tell me??"

If you want a veri from your meets just ask them

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

most people dont leave them ..dont get hung up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry about it. I meet for the fun, not to get a sexual performance review!"

Couldn't agree more my darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards. "

Me too but it would seem that many are obsessed with them now, like they're more important than the actual meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards.

Me too but it would seem that many are obsessed with them now, like they're more important than the actual meet."

Some think veri's are the be all and end all. I've never really understood why.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Veris are there to give an indication that you're real and not a faker or timewaster. If you've had a few veris from various people then that's all you need. A lot of people don't bother leaving them after someone has a few. It's not a measure of success that some people think it is.

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Verifications are not the measure of success.

I just wanted to be over rated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards.

Me too but it would seem that many are obsessed with them now, like they're more important than the actual meet.

Some think veri's are the be all and end all. I've never really understood why. "

Me neither. I really can't see why you would form an opinion of someone based on the words of a complete stranger who was probably a complete stranger to the person they verified so how do they know what they're really like? I prefer to make my own mind up about a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards.

Me too but it would seem that many are obsessed with them now, like they're more important than the actual meet.

Some think veri's are the be all and end all. I've never really understood why. "

Because having veris mean you are genuine , not a time waster , will turn up and will be the best shag ever. Doh it's easy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards.

Me too but it would seem that many are obsessed with them now, like they're more important than the actual meet.

Some think veri's are the be all and end all. I've never really understood why.

Because having veris mean you are genuine , not a time waster , will turn up and will be the best shag ever. Doh it's easy really "

Well you would think so but I've been mucked about and let down by a couple of well verified people but had fantastic meets with non verified members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hate to think someone only met me for the verification afterwards.

Me too but it would seem that many are obsessed with them now, like they're more important than the actual meet.

Some think veri's are the be all and end all. I've never really understood why.

Because having veris mean you are genuine , not a time waster , will turn up and will be the best shag ever. Doh it's easy really

Well you would think so but I've been mucked about and let down by a couple of well verified people but had fantastic meets with non verified members. "

And that's just why like you I make my own mind up.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I look to see if a person has been recently verified. If they are a couple and have not been verified but been on over 6 months I am more wary....if they have one cam veri from a year ago I would again be wary....I don't want to know the ins and outs of the meet just that they have turned up somewhere in the last couple of months and I would be more interested in arranging a meet - there will always be exceptions because we were all new once but it's a good starting point for me

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I do have some... but not ones i want from certain people "

Ask them.to verify you if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here for over a year but would never dream of asking for verification I think it up to individuals if they want to do it but if you having reg meets why worry

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