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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No - I do that to other people

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Nope, I'm happy not to see most of my exes ever again

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I am that ex

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep , still do and no replies lol does that make me a stalker !!!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"No - I do that to other people"

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Hells yes!

Did that to myself just this wknd. In my defence I was VERY d*unk and as I was ignored anyway there was no harm done.

Please don't do it! You are a STRONG INDEPENDENT woman. Delete that number ... erase it from your mind.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No, and not looking to experience it.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. When it's done, it's done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never had one as I been single all my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never had one as I been single all my life

#letsgetshagagirlfriend

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No but then I haven't got any ex's.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

NEVER!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never had one as I been single all my life

#letsgetshagagirlfriend"
lol yes and why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. When it's done, it's done!"

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i do .. want to jump him everytime i see him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Addictive is the term used.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

yep... I'm having a weak moment myself... I won't message him as I know I'll feel worse afterwards but fuck it's hard!! I seen him yesterday for the first time in months aswell- just typical when I'm having a weak moment.

The feeling does pass luckily, it just doesn't pass quickly enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They are an ex for a reason. And I've usually been the one to end it. Maybe people who have been dumped are the ones who keep going back? Rather than the dumper? No idea, just a thought.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like to remain friends with as many people as possible.

They'd have to be a right cunt for me to to cut them dead.

And I don't know any cunts.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"No never had one as I been single all my life

#letsgetshagagirlfriendlol yes and why not

You heard it here first folks - I'm ordering a hat!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Nope. They are an ex for a reason. And I've usually been the one to end it. Maybe people who have been dumped are the ones who keep going back? Rather than the dumper? No idea, just a thought.

Absolutely! They are trying to deny the rejection.

Some think it's love but it's just them wanting to heal their pain.

Sooner they realise that the only way is forward, sooner they will find better times.

No relationship is ever a dead loss. It was good while it was good.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No I haven't ex's are for a reason all this going back and forwards is a waste of time. It could be better spent getting to know someone else instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one ex,I just texted him asking if I can borrow his car. That's the extent of our texts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never had one as I been single all my life

#letsgetshagagirlfriendlol yes and why not

You heard it here first folks - I'm ordering a hat!

"
Yes and don't forget the haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I haven't ex's are for a reason all this going back and forwards is a waste of time. It could be better spent getting to know someone else instead.

Have to agree with cheeky, Mav and Granny here! Exes are Exes for a reason! If you both want to get back together then fair enough I guess - but persuing someone who isn't interested any more must be soul destroying! Best to give your attention to someone who'll return it!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Also I seem to meet men who ex's won't leave them alone it does me swede in I tell ya. Especially when they don't have to when there are no kids etc involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no.

What was I thinking? If I see her I hide

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

When I said cunt in the last post. I enjoyed it.

Cos I don't usually say it.

Im saving the next one for my 65th.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Nope. I could happily punch my ex in the balls. He's a total prick. Amusingly in between girlfriends even though he's been a complete cunt to me over the years he still texts me to try it on. I'd rather gouge my eyeballs out with a rusty spoon.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Never

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ex's are ex's for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ex I ever had was ruthlessly cut out off life. Throw numbers and addresses away. Get rid of any possessions ASAP,

They're ex for a reason so I'd never go back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all. There are a still tortured souls out there with me!

I do understand about them being ex's for a reason, if it had if worked we would still be together now.

I go through these phases every now and again, I think it's when I'm feeling lonely. Maybe it's more if missing the company of being in a relationship rather than actually missing him.

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nope mine cost me a fortune to get rid of! (Divorce that is not a hit man before anyone asks lol)

Definitely wouldn't go back

Although wish her best of luck on her new path

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Don't have any serious exes.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Nope. When it's done, it's done!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

It is over, well and truly done

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

More like weak at the stomach

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What if your number is blocked? They may never have a clue you succumb to the pressure.

I sent a couple of messages to an ex, when I was contacted for support and then someone with the same name contacted me too. Never again. I like clean breaks or the patio redone, for same result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope my x was a cock who cheated on me while I was majorly Ill. So I am well rid

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"More like weak at the stomach

Haha, yes this. Unfortunately the twat goes to Swingfields so I'll have to see his gurning fizzog in July

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

Yes, absolutely. The one that got away! Lol. He's so damned yummy I just can't help myself from sending the occasional d*unk text.

But there's the dilemma of deleting the number...'when' (if) he ever calls or texts and you have to ask who it is?!

Or keep it to save face?!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Nope mine cost me a fortune to get rid of! (Divorce that is not a hit man before anyone asks lol)

Definitely wouldn't go back

Although wish her best of luck on her new path "

Took me over 2 years to get over mine after 20 years together. The day I applied for my Decree Absolute I realised I was done. Still have to see him 4 or 5 times a week though because of the kids. One day I'll thank him for his screw up as I finally feel free. I just wish he knew how much fun I'm having now

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

just delete the number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Don't have any serious exes. "

Just silly ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex is an ex for a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I haven't ex's are for a reason all this going back and forwards is a waste of time. It could be better spent getting to know someone else instead.

and someone who deserves it!! The best revenge is to be happy and pity the sad fucker when they try to crawl back into your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always want what they can't have, human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It's a very very long time since I had that urge. Can you delete his number from your phone, so you resist the urge? Or text a friend instead? Although, don't beat yourself up about doing it, it is human nature and we have all done it, at some time in our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Don't have any serious exes.

Just silly ones."

Utterly ridiculous ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope..... Only time knees enter my thoughts is when I think about knee capping him.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes. First guy I slept with. He feels same but he's married so we try to steer clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still think of her, like to think I've moved on but I still think of her

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

You guys are a hard bunch of cold hearted fucker's aren't you!

If you haven't got a "Kryptonite Ex" then you must be shit at picking them in the first place

Im with you OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep , still do and no replies lol does that make me a stalker !!!

LÖL, - only if your a male!!

*you're

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said person that treated me wrong so much and still after I left I still wish I had her Cz sometimes u think of the good times and wish u still had them and u block out the bad times and u feel like I'll never find that feeling ever again and don't know how to do things to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

I was going to say delete his number but no doubt you know it off by heart anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? ""

Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

I was going to say delete his number but no doubt you know It off by heart anyway

That made me laugh!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all? "

Some people just thrive off drama.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Yesterday my daughter phoned me to say she was pregnant with twins. I was so thrilled and for a second wanted to phone my ex-husband to celebrate our news...but the desire passed as quickly as it came, so no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday my daughter phoned me to say she was pregnant with twins. I was so thrilled and for a second wanted to phone my ex-husband to celebrate our news...but the desire passed as quickly as it came, so no!"

That's brilliant news ! Congratulations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all? "

Maybe she's hidden numbering him.

Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?

Maybe she's hidden numbering him.

Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p"

I did wonder that -I wasn't sure if the text still sent, but guess it does. Mobile phones are a curse in some ways! I remember writing letters to a lost love in my teens - much more therapeutic than texting.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

However, I have a woman I would give anything to be with, but she's with someone else and it'll never happen. We're such incredibly honest, close friends and it hurts me that she has someone who doesn't really seem to care for her.

I seem to specialise in unrequited love, even as a forty-something. I can't stop thinking about her and have just woken from a dream (not rude!) in which we were together.

Like texting an ex, I know I have to get past this, but it's so damn hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

I was going to say delete his number but no doubt you know It off by heart anyway

That made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. It's a very very long time since I had that urge. Can you delete his number from your phone, so you resist the urge? Or text a friend instead? Although, don't beat yourself up about doing it, it is human nature and we have all done it, at some time in our lives.

I know his number off by heart, I really need to forget it. Texting someone else may be a good idea... I'll send it to someone that would appreciate it! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You guys are a hard bunch of cold hearted fucker's aren't you!

If you haven't got a "Kryptonite Ex" then you must be shit at picking them in the first place

Im with you OP!"

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?

Maybe she's hidden numbering him.

Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p"

He hasn't replied for a long time, he did succumbe at one point and we ended up spending a night together, that was a while ago now. He's moved on, clearly, and I need to do the same

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?

Maybe she's hidden numbering him.

Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p

He hasn't replied for a long time, he did succumbe at one point and we ended up spending a night together, that was a while ago now. He's moved on, clearly, and I need to do the same

It's difficult how long ago did you split up and how long were you together. Sometimes it takes more to let go than to carry on but the rewards are greater once you have let go.

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?

I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.

Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!

Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!

Yes she calls or txts and I go running like a dog chasing a stick!!

She usually calls me asking for money and I'm the idiot who can't refuse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice to you is get yourself a dog if you are missing the company of a relationship , and block him from your phone and all social media . Get yourself a new dress and go out for a girly night x

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By *anxfrankMan
over a year ago

isle of man

I see my ex now and then, so I just have a little chuckle to myself and think, that fook I had a very lucky escape, ( as she was proper bloody mental). And now she's married to some unlucky bugger..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of my ex's I wouldn't/couldn't say no to. But I've never thought about trying to contact them.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

No..I do sometimes get the urge to text him and tell him what a useless waste of space he is (or worse) but I mostly resist.

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