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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope you won't be alone.

Doesn't bother me so long as I can understand what is meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rule about it on my profile. Can't stand bad grammar and spelling. It just looks sloppy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,boring people turn me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications. "

Could always have a lengthy fuck over the works of the oxford publications

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm dyslexic, so you get what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.

Could always have a lengthy fuck over the works of the oxford publications "

They'd dig in the worst places though, some of them books is hardback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. "

Not at all...I would not meet someone who not on a similar intellectual level as myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx

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Class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.

Could always have a lengthy fuck over the works of the oxford publications

They'd dig in the worst places though, some of them books is hardback. "

And imagine the sticky end eeewwww

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a rule about it on my profile. Can't stand bad grammar and spelling. It just looks sloppy."

That's good to know. I think similar minds attract.

What made me post this was that I read a story earlier that could have been very sexy but was just badly written!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I agree ... and im from the black Country .... where we spake proper...

Xx

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Plus, my Samsung loves to autocorrect aka fuck up my spelling and haven't got time to prove read all my messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. "

And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...

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By *obbie14Man
over a year ago

Bromley

My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications. "

You used the term discourse! Damn I want to fuck you now!

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx"

bless up init, it is shit especially when we peeps fail 2 realise dat not every person on earth will have d same educational priviledges or tingz like d fortunate ones and we judge dem and get turned off by dem 4 dat. I bet text speak will be next on the platform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.

You used the term discourse! Damn I want to fuck you now! "

You most definitely don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

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Is this grammatically correct? "Stuff"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx"

Hey Asian I'm coming to Doncaster in August. Can you let me have some info about any hot spots?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications. "

Really? How weird. Much more fun discussing the correct usage of "are", "our" and "hour" not to mention "your" and "you're"; "there", "their" and "they're".

You clearly just don't know how to really enjoy yourselves. !;

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.

And text speak in messages is an instant turn off..."

? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"No,boring people turn me off. "

I was wondering what I've been doing wrong for so long, now I know.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Don't care, really I do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sad truth probably is they just do not know they are getting it wrong. They blame dyslexia, laziness and even those that point it out to them.

However, in the end, if they do not know the difference between common words like "accept" and "except", "there","they're" and "their", and put "no" instead of "know" it indicates the schooling ststem has failed them.

I also do not believe they write correctly elsewhere and not on Fab because this is a casual sex site. Sadly, they just don't know and we should make allowances for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dyslexic.as long as i understand what they put i dont care.Im here to have fun and not go back to school.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

As long as is wet and inviting

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'm dyslexic.as long as i understand what they put i dont care.Im here to have fun and not go back to school."

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write "

You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stimulated a few peoples minds and spelling and grammar are a weak point of mine. Neither have anything to do with someones mind, character or imagination. I also suspect that there are many people who could turn the OP on who can't spell or punctuate badly.What do you do OP in that situation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus, my Samsung loves to autocorrect aka fuck up my spelling and haven't got time to prove read all my messages x"

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

i've just described the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really just cant be bothered with anyone that thinks theyre a cut above everyone else...I've written many essays in my time...but as long as people generally know whats being talked about I cant see why a potential meetup with someone cant get to the face to face meet or telephone conversation.

Some of these grammar nazi's sound like those folk that pretend they cant understand a foreign accent speaking english.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Good sex comes from good communication. It would be a new scene to me that involved writing letters to each other during a hot session...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op i found this sentence on your profile.

It looks incorrect to me.

"I'm not pushy and respectful of those who I meet wishes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well."

Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally ok with spelling, ok at grammar! It's just the punctuation I have trouble with.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write

You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider."

maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.

Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag "

its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.

Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag

its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x"

I is good at oral I is

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well."

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By *ason123ABCMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Well every one has strength and weekness for sex u need stamner ect not spelling lesions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.

Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag

its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x

I is good at oral I is "

wiping the spoonk off ma keyboard already just imagining it

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.

Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag

its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x

I is good at oral I is "

Mi cocky antenna is beeping and pointing your way now

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.

in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well. "
adding. ...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write

You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.

maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive "

I think you should get of your high horse and re read what I actually said. I didn't say it was what I thought, I said it was what some do think. I'm well aware that some people maybe be dyslexic and have to put more effort in to getting their spelling and punctuation correct. I'm also well aware that that does not mean they are stupid.

The reason why I'm aware of these things is because I'm dyslexic myself. I didn't learn to read properly until I was over 11 and writing game even later.

Don't jump to speedy conclusions before you've actually read properly what a person has written.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write

You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.

maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive

I think you should get of your high horse and re read what I actually said. I didn't say it was what I thought, I said it was what some do think. I'm well aware that some people maybe be dyslexic and have to put more effort in to getting their spelling and punctuation correct. I'm also well aware that that does not mean they are stupid.

The reason why I'm aware of these things is because I'm dyslexic myself. I didn't learn to read properly until I was over 11 and writing game even later.

Don't jump to speedy conclusions before you've actually read properly what a person has written."

Lol you are confusing tho, first you support the notion and den you go against it and now you trying to defending it. Make up your mind

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write

You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.

maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive

I think you should get of your high horse and re read what I actually said. I didn't say it was what I thought, I said it was what some do think. I'm well aware that some people maybe be dyslexic and have to put more effort in to getting their spelling and punctuation correct. I'm also well aware that that does not mean they are stupid.

The reason why I'm aware of these things is because I'm dyslexic myself. I didn't learn to read properly until I was over 11 and writing game even later.

Don't jump to speedy conclusions before you've actually read properly what a person has written.

Lol you are confusing tho, first you support the notion and den you go against it and now you trying to defending it. Make up your mind"

The first post was sarcastic.

The second post was a joke.

The third post was serious and unfortunately true, many people will judge a person by how they write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.

And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...

? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it "

My very intelligent Oxford English degree holding friend sends me texts saying I want to fuck u. I forgive him,he has a big cock

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.

And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...

? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it

My very intelligent Oxford English degree holding friend sends me texts saying I want to fuck u. I forgive him,he has a big cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am need a English teacher

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

For as long as I can understand the information they are trying to pass through then it's really not a problem for me except when it happens too often. I do review my messages most times, but we all make mistakes sometimes (mostly autocorrect for me).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op i found this sentence on your profile.

It looks incorrect to me.

"I'm not pushy and respectful of those who I meet wishes." "

It's missing a comma. I actually don't mind small mistakes it's more about those who don't make any effort at all.

As someone else pointed out, I'm sure that there are people who's grammar and spelling are very bad but could turn me on if we met. I have no doubt that would be the case but my original point is that I'm less likely to start conversing with someone who doesn't bother with making an effort on either.

It's at least generated some interesting conversation and debate. That's part of the reason the forum is here.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?"

No your not, type it into the search bar to see how many times this crops up

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. "

You are in fact correct, however people with less than the most perfect grammar and spelling are equally capable of having and using an erotic mind..

to assume otherwise is short sighted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?

Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.

And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...

? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it "

Crap...it is pure laziness on the writers part...

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