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Do it or not to do it, that is the question

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

I had a baby a year ago and ever since I haven't been so confident as I used to. Put on weight (a lot for me) and feel like everything is going down south (even thou guys still ok).

So I was thinking to go under the knife. I want to do my breast and my belly.

Wanted an option, specially if any of you done it before. Is it worth it?

My girl friend says her confidence went miles up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never done it myself but in my opinion dont do it.... We shud love ourselfs just how we are eventually you may loose the extra but i personally believe going under the knife has to be the very last option.... So many things can go wrong!! Obviously you wana believe after surgery ull look stunning and your confidence will be sky high but can you guarentee it all going to plan... How will you feel after if it all did go wrong??? Sorry to put a damper on it.... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never done it myself but in my opinion dont do it.... We shud love ourselfs just how we are eventually you may loose the extra but i personally believe going under the knife has to be the very last option.... So many things can go wrong!! Obviously you wana believe after surgery ull look stunning and your confidence will be sky high but can you guarentee it all going to plan... How will you feel after if it all did go wrong??? Sorry to put a damper on it.... Xx"

forgot to add judging by your pictures you look stunning to me.... And personally dont believe you need to lose any xxx

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

You look amazing, I wouldn't have guessed that you had a baby last year x

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over a year ago

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I agree with the other two you look stunning .

And tbh it is a bit extreme for a confidence booster .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing to me huni.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A year is nothing after having a baby. You look amazing bit if you don't feel it give yourself a bit more time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP research decent surgeons, look up BAAPS. Research what can go wrong. Figure out if you can afford it.

Only you can decide. Good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a baby a year ago and ever since I haven't been so confident as I used to. Put on weight (a lot for me) and feel like everything is going down south (even thou guys still ok).

So I was thinking to go under the knife. I want to do my breast and my belly.

Wanted an option, specially if any of you done it before. Is it worth it?

My girl friend says her confidence went miles up. "

This is just my personal opinion so bear that in mind. Nature has given you what you have. Don't feck with it. You look bloody fantastic. Surgery should never be for cosmetic reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think you'll be having more kids? Because if you are then you might as well wait until you've finished having them.

I've not had surgery, not against it but i agree with everyone else who says you look fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also had a baby a year ago and i agree with the others you look great give yourself time to get back to how you were before if thats what you want .

X

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

Different point of view here..

Its taken me a long time to accept myself as I am now and if I had kids and felt the way you do I too would probably consider it.

For me money would mean it would have to be a no. As a result of that I'd then spend another 15yrs+ trying to love myself again and I think it would be possible.

I think you're gorgeous as is and if its confidence boost you need then listen to the compliments you get. It takes a while to hear them and accept them but its the best form of confidence I find.

No one here can gives you the answer. Good luck whatever you decide. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with the others you look amazing. However no amount of compliments will change what we see in ourselves.

I've had 3 children and hate how i look. if I could afford surgery I'd definitely have it.

Still there is no guarantees and where does it end?

Nothing is more beautiful than self acceptance and confidence. It's the ultimate aim for most people x

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By *4STY OP   Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

I already have three kids but when I had my two eldest I was young so I recovered really quick (I was 45kg, 8st). After 14 yrs and being older I gained a lot of weight and I am now 70kg, not much for some but a big difference for me.

I can't have anymore kids cause I almost lost my uterus in my last delivery so therefore no more babies. So I starting thinking I wanna a proper yummy mami but maybe you all right I need time and maybe research a bit more. Thank you for the compliments

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