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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone." 
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone." I agree, it is the terminology used. Of course, many of the women who prefer black men have had the experience of white men and for whatever reason they do not want any more. However, many of those who state 'no blacks' or 'no Asians' have not had the experience. I think there is a difference between having tried something and know it's not for you and not having tried it and know it's not for you. We each do things for our own reasons, and in this case these reasons include sexual preferences and cultural assumptions. I don't think any of us should have to explain ourselves or make excuses to others. I think some people do hide behind the 'not my preference' label without thinking more deeply about why. But it's not a question for debate up here, it's a personal one. My own reasons for preferring black guys are, I suspect, very different from the next person's. Her. | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone." more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ " We have something on our profile making reference to preference (ooh I'm a poet!!). Not that we're meeting anyone at the mo. We are however total social whores so age/race/sexuality/hairstyle/cock size/political affiliation doesn't bother us at all and never will. Who people want to fuck and who they will enjoy beers, banter and chat with are two separate things. The two aren't mutually exclusive but if they are then so be it. A | |||
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"If someone is actually racist and won't meet certain people due to that very reason there is nothing wrong with that. Its the person they are and we should respect that whether we agree or not." no we shouldnt.(I'm not talking about sexual preference), I will not respect anyone who thinks an interaction with another race is beneath them. | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ " Reminded me ....we were looking forward to going to a bi event at a local club when we looked at the profile of one of the women going ... it stated no blacks .... so I decided that I would not put my man into a position where he walked into a room or started playing and she reacted. Without knowing him or us, she rejected it. I don't want to be in the same environment as someone who thinks like that ... sorry, just my preference. | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ Reminded me ....we were looking forward to going to a bi event at a local club when we looked at the profile of one of the women going ... it stated no blacks .... so I decided that I would not put my man into a position where he walked into a room or started playing and she reacted. Without knowing him or us, she rejected it. I don't want to be in the same environment as someone who thinks like that ... sorry, just my preference." and therein lies my point. not being able to tolerate someone 'different' in a group environment..even though theres no indication of wanting to play. I've been in the company of bi-men playing..I simply switch off(as in i dont need to look), and concentrate on the fanny, if they asked me..its a "no thanks"..if they ask..why..I'll elaborate in a decent civil manner. | |||
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"its a matter of choice but must admit , We have never seen an ad seeking Bin Laden lookalike for sexy fun , perhaps that's racist," lol thats how they lured him from his fabswinger profile...some say they killed him..I know he just deleted his profile. | |||
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"Just put in your profile what you ARE looking for rather than what your not looking for that way no one is accused of anything "Negative profiles work great... for attracting negativity. I prefer the mood hoovers to clearly show who they are. | |||
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" Reminded me ....we were looking forward to going to a bi event at a local club when we looked at the profile of one of the women going ... it stated no blacks .... so I decided that I would not put my man into a position where he walked into a room or started playing and she reacted. Without knowing him or us, she rejected it. I don't want to be in the same environment as someone who thinks like that ... sorry, just my preference." as much as i can understand that.... in a way I disagree because you in effect let others dictate your actions in a place where that wasn't warrented and that is sad.... if it had been been me i would have said "fuck it" and let them deal with me rather than the other way round..... but i know some aren't like that.... as others have said... having a preference isn't an issue, but it is way that preference is expressed is what will rile up people..... | |||
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" Reminded me ....we were looking forward to going to a bi event at a local club when we looked at the profile of one of the women going ... it stated no blacks .... so I decided that I would not put my man into a position where he walked into a room or started playing and she reacted. Without knowing him or us, she rejected it. I don't want to be in the same environment as someone who thinks like that ... sorry, just my preference. as much as i can understand that.... in a way I disagree because you in effect let others dictate your actions in a place where that wasn't warrented and that is sad.... if it had been been me i would have said "fuck it" and let them deal with me rather than the other way round..... but i know some aren't like that.... as others have said... having a preference isn't an issue, but it is way that preference is expressed is what will rile up people..... " | |||
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"Just put in your profile what you ARE looking for rather than what your not looking for that way no one is accused of anything ""no we shouldnt.(I'm not talking about sexual preference), I will not respect anyone who thinks an interaction with another race is beneath them." Plus what LawandOrder said. Great comments guys
Sweeping generalisations are used by those who revel in fear and ignorance.
Writing off a whole ethnic group (won't use the word race, as there is only one race... The human race) purely on the colour of their skin is tragic... But happens, continues to happen and probably will always continue to happen.
Commenting as a black chap, no problem with personal preference. Plenty more fish in the sea! | |||
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"If someone is actually racist and won't meet certain people due to that very reason there is nothing wrong with that. Its the person they are and we should respect that whether we agree or not. no we shouldnt.(I'm not talking about sexual preference), I will not respect anyone who thinks an interaction with another race is beneath them." Yes we should. And yes I am taking in general not just sexual preference as well. Perhaps accept rather than respect. The quote I disagree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it is very appropriate in this context. It's a crime and also wrong to discriminate on race, but on a personal level if someone won't even speak to someone of a different ethnic background that is their choice. Of course they are going to alienate themselves from a hell of a lot of people by doing so. I've just grown tired of all the pc crap that I've had to endure over the last 30 years or so. People hate people. Always have, always will. Wars past and present reflect this. Trust me I've been on the wrong end of racism very many times. I've been beaten up as a result of it. I hate it. But I won't get my knickers in a twist over it. | |||
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"Just put in your profile what you ARE looking for rather than what your not looking for that way no one is accused of anything
no we shouldnt.(I'm not talking about sexual preference), I will not respect anyone who thinks an interaction with another race is beneath them.
Plus what LawandOrder said. Great comments guys
Sweeping generalisations are used by those who revel in fear and ignorance.
Writing off a whole ethnic group (won't use the word race, as there is only one race... The human race) purely on the colour of their skin is tragic... But happens, continues to happen and probably will always continue to happen.
Commenting as a black chap, no problem with personal preference. Plenty more fish in the sea! "I agree with most of what you say here. The one thing I dont like is the commenting as a black chap bit. It's not necessary to put that. Your commenting as a chap. | |||
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"If someone is actually racist and won't meet certain people due to that very reason there is nothing wrong with that. Its the person they are and we should respect that whether we agree or not. no we shouldnt.(I'm not talking about sexual preference), I will not respect anyone who thinks an interaction with another race is beneath them. Yes we should. And yes I am taking in general not just sexual preference as well. Perhaps accept rather than respect. The quote I disagree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it is very appropriate in this context. It's a crime and also wrong to discriminate on race, but on a personal level if someone won't even speak to someone of a different ethnic background that is their choice. Of course they are going to alienate themselves from a hell of a lot of people by doing so. I've just grown tired of all the pc crap that I've had to endure over the last 30 years or so. People hate people. Always have, always will. Wars past and present reflect this. Trust me I've been on the wrong end of racism very many times. I've been beaten up as a result of it. I hate it. But I won't get my knickers in a twist over it." I wont accept a pre-programmed robot human who cannot change their programming. If someone believes an entire race that is outwith theirs are lets say, sub-human..then they are THICK AS FUCK CUNTS..and I chose those words wisely. I dont even accept Royalty of any race/culture because it goes against every PC and scientific bone in my body. people can continue this anti-PC nonsense all they like..we preached it we dealt it...and people just cant be happy knowing they have their human rights engraved in everyday life, yet when others(lets say blacks and asians just for talking sake),demonstrate that very right, they are accused of playing some system game etc.. chuck half these anti-pc folk to some other countries..and they would soon realize they had taken the PC/humanrights they once had greatly for granted. | |||
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"I agree with most of what you say here. The one thing I dont like is the commenting as a black chap bit. It's not necessary to put that. Your commenting as a chap." I know right, read that back to myself after I posted it and thought, really?! Pretty obvious I am black from my profile avatar. | |||
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"Iam white only not English if English person's dnt like me its racism? Lol i dnt think so sorry if am writing something wrong am still need lern "discriminated on the grounds that you are a foreigner here to steal our jobs/live off the system..regardless of race/colour/gender.. | |||
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"This is a much more complicated question than it seems. To me the dreded isums are called upon in so many inappropriate ways. " I would have to disagree with this to a degree, yes people should be protected to a certain point but what I have a problem with actually starts with the name. ..Political correctness, rulings made by faceless people who for the most part have never had first hand dealings with racism (apart from employing the odd illegal house keeper)seems to me that freedom of speech and thought is ok as long as it benefits a political party. Gimp | |||
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"This is a much more complicated question than it seems. To me the dreded isums are called upon in so many inappropriate ways. I would have to disagree with this to a degree, yes people should be protected to a certain point but what I have a problem with actually starts with the name. ..Political correctness, rulings made by faceless people who for the most part have never had first hand dealings with racism (apart from employing the odd illegal house keeper)seems to me that freedom of speech and thought is ok as long as it benefits a political party. Gimp " ignores gimps post because of gender..let the Mrs talk ffs | |||
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"I don't mind being accused of being a white person being offended on behalf of a non white (person, I think you meant to add here) because old habits die hard as the mother of mixed race children who I have to console and protect on from subliminal racism on a daily basis. I do, however, when being a protective white mother, send out apologies to any black man on here who thinks I am fighting his battles for him .... if you knew me you would know I love fighting battles. My point is, and was in a previous forum debate, that the terminology/phraseology used is racist, if it is stated in the terms: no blacks/no Asians - because that echoes the segregationalist language of history .... so if you chose your words that carefully, you better be ready to stand by your beliefs because they are there I black and white. There is, after all, a history of enfranchised speaking up for the disenfranchised, now that is a crime? " Yes I absolutely agree with you. There is no excuse for casual racism and frankly this thread is embarrassing to read as a white person. How can anyone possibly know what a person is like before they have met them. Are you all going to say I will only be treated by a white surgeon? | |||
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"Racism and discrimination are two words that have been thrown around a lot lately. People throw it out there like a crutch now. Sometimes we have to question if some people truly know the meanings of these two words. Both words go hand in hand. The only time they should ever come into play is if there is "hate" involved. Without taking the time to know someone, you can't tell if they are a racist or not... While racism and discrimination still takes place in this world, throwing the word around like people do does nothing but pit good people against good people.( This causes a rift and the problem can never get solved.) One of the biggest issues that drive this is cultural( inside their own community.) Here is an example. It's far more acceptable in both the black community, the white community, or Hispanic community for a Black man, or a Hispanic man to date a White woman. ( in all three communities. Black, Hispanic, and White.) But for a white male to date a Black, or a Hispanic woman, isn't accepted as much by the Black and Hispanic communities. The same can be said about some of the Asian cultures. So is racism and discrimination an issue, yes. But it seems like an issue with cultural differences plays a bigger issue. This is just our humble opinion and can be taken with a grain of salt. After all we're not college professors. We're just a middle aged couple that likes having sex. " | |||
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"I've had some people cursing me just cause I have a preference for white man. Like it's my obligation to meet anyone? I go with who I fancy and don't care if people think whatever of me. " FabS clause 5.7c states that every woman here MUST have sex with atleast ..... | |||
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"it saves a lot of peoples time if it clear who you want to meet there are some on here who don't want to meet tvs, so what theres people that do,so I tend to stick with people on same wavelength" TV is an ethnicity??? I learn something new here everyday | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards." FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.........that IS the most idiotic statement I have almost ever heard.I'm embarrassed beyond belief................... fuel to the fire *this is when I can say some black guys ruined my chances of meets | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards." The husband is not racist, he is just scared. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. " again..I think you are deaf: FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.........that IS the most idiotic statement I have almost ever heard.I'm embarrassed beyond belief................... fuel to the fire *this is when I can say some black guys ruined my chances of meets | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. " Are you thaaaat scary??? | |||
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"If someone is actually racist and won't meet certain people due to that very reason there is nothing wrong with that. Its the person they are and we should respect that whether we agree or not. no we shouldnt.(I'm not talking about sexual preference), I will not respect anyone who thinks an interaction with another race is beneath them. Yes we should. And yes I am taking in general not just sexual preference as well. Perhaps accept rather than respect. The quote I disagree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it is very appropriate in this context. It's a crime and also wrong to discriminate on race, but on a personal level if someone won't even speak to someone of a different ethnic background that is their choice. Of course they are going to alienate themselves from a hell of a lot of people by doing so. I've just grown tired of all the pc crap that I've had to endure over the last 30 years or so. People hate people. Always have, always will. Wars past and present reflect this. Trust me I've been on the wrong end of racism very many times. I've been beaten up as a result of it. I hate it. But I won't get my knickers in a twist over it. I wont accept a pre-programmed robot human who cannot change their programming. If someone believes an entire race that is outwith theirs are lets say, sub-human..then they are THICK AS FUCK CUNTS..and I chose those words wisely. I dont even accept Royalty of any race/culture because it goes against every PC and scientific bone in my body. people can continue this anti-PC nonsense all they like..we preached it we dealt it...and people just cant be happy knowing they have their human rights engraved in everyday life, yet when others(lets say blacks and asians just for talking sake),demonstrate that very right, they are accused of playing some system game etc.. chuck half these anti-pc folk to some other countries..and they would soon realize they had taken the PC/humanrights they once had greatly for granted. " I agree with your sentiment overall. I belive your heart is in the right place. As an anti pc card carrying member I will refrain from commenting further. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. " Scared of what?? 
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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"I'm Asian, I'm attracted to Caucasian men. I talk to everyone in the chat room and at clubs, but I'm attracted to white men. I state this in my profile too and still get messages from men outside of my preferences. Some even say "I know you like white guys, but here's hoping".. sometimes I'll politely reply and sometimes I just delete. You can't change someone's sexual attraction if it's not there. That's my personal opinion. You can't call someone racist if they won't sleep with someone they aren't attracted to. Like would you sleep with someone you don't have sexual attraction to just to prove you aren't racist? "
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"This is a much more complicated question than it seems. To me the dreded isums are called upon in so many inappropriate ways. I would have to disagree with this to a degree, yes people should be protected to a certain point but what I have a problem with actually starts with the name. ..Political correctness, rulings made by faceless people who for the most part have never had first hand dealings with racism (apart from employing the odd illegal house keeper)seems to me that freedom of speech and thought is ok as long as it benefits a political party. Gimp " Too right. Gimp for pm! | |||
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"I'm Asian, I'm attracted to Caucasian men. I talk to everyone in the chat room and at clubs, but I'm attracted to white men. I state this in my profile too and still get messages from men outside of my preferences. Some even say "I know you like white guys, but here's hoping".. sometimes I'll politely reply and sometimes I just delete. You can't change someone's sexual attraction if it's not there. That's my personal opinion. You can't call someone racist if they won't sleep with someone they aren't attracted to. Like would you sleep with someone you don't have sexual attraction to just to prove you aren't racist?
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ " I have been dis-invited to three parties for the same reason. I've also had the opposite of people contacting who state no Black or Asian on their profile. When I point out my colour I have been told I am misleading people as I look tanned and I should state my ethnicity. I've also had "yeah, I know but we've always wanted to try an Indian ho." I don't understand why people feel they have to state they are not racist. It smacks of "I'm not racist but..." to me. Just state your preference if you feel the need to state it (you could just ignore the messages from those you don't fancy). | |||
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"I'm Asian, I'm attracted to Caucasian men. I talk to everyone in the chat room and at clubs, but I'm attracted to white men. I state this in my profile too and still get messages from men outside of my preferences. Some even say "I know you like white guys, but here's hoping".. sometimes I'll politely reply and sometimes I just delete. You can't change someone's sexual attraction if it's not there. That's my personal opinion. You can't call someone racist if they won't sleep with someone they aren't attracted to. Like would you sleep with someone you don't have sexual attraction to just to prove you aren't racist? "Very well said. And may I shamelessly say the pic you uploaded today is stunning. Not to prove I'm not racist your just bloody fit. | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ I have been dis-invited to three parties for the same reason. I've also had the opposite of people contacting who state no Black or Asian on their profile. When I point out my colour I have been told I am misleading people as I look tanned and I should state my ethnicity. I've also had "yeah, I know but we've always wanted to try an Indian ho." I don't understand why people feel they have to state they are not racist. It smacks of "I'm not racist but..." to me. Just state your preference if you feel the need to state it (you could just ignore the messages from those you don't fancy). " Well said | |||
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"if you come across a profile that states I am only looking for BBC it is rarely if ever followed by not racist just my preference so why is it that this person don't feel the need to clarify they are not racist " I do understand what you are asking... but as its commonly a white person asking for BBC...they arent gonna be racist to whites are they?... a profile saying no black/asian might add 'sorry'(which i find fair enough, as it might give them a bit of self worth in saying they believe they arent racist)-really just stating a preference as I have said earlier and gave some examples..there are people who generally think every single person they meet has to be exactly what they want..and they can then act uncivilly to those they do not..thats where the real problem lies. I choose not to seek out any particular group..based on my colour..if it happens it happens..I'm most often not 'black' enough for a few folk looking for bbc etc... | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. I agree, it is the terminology used. Of course, many of the women who prefer black men have had the experience of white men and for whatever reason they do not want any more. However, many of those who state 'no blacks' or 'no Asians' have not had the experience. I think there is a difference between having tried something and know it's not for you and not having tried it and know it's not for you. We each do things for our own reasons, and in this case these reasons include sexual preferences and cultural assumptions. I don't think any of us should have to explain ourselves or make excuses to others. I think some people do hide behind the 'not my preference' label without thinking more deeply about why. But it's not a question for debate up here, it's a personal one. My own reasons for preferring black guys are, I suspect, very different from the next person's. Her." My reasons for meeting black guys is not the stereotypical reason but because they are just nice guys; well, atleast all the ones I have met, so far  | |||
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"Stuff like this makes me laugh, Mrs l doesn't find black or Asian men attractive, she likes the way white men look simple as that, but now not only does this make us racist it now means I'm scared my wife will run off with a black man if she ever has sex with one, because all black men are great fucks? I have never read such complete and utter bollocks in all my life," agreed... but MrsLiddy keeps fabbing my pics.. honest | |||
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"I'm Asian, I'm attracted to Caucasian men. I talk to everyone in the chat room and at clubs, but I'm attracted to white men. I state this in my profile too and still get messages from men outside of my preferences. Some even say "I know you like white guys, but here's hoping".. sometimes I'll politely reply and sometimes I just delete. You can't change someone's sexual attraction if it's not there. That's my personal opinion. You can't call someone racist if they won't sleep with someone they aren't attracted to. Like would you sleep with someone you don't have sexual attraction to just to prove you aren't racist?
Very well said. And may I shamelessly say the pic you uploaded today is stunning. Not to prove I'm not racist your just bloody fit."Thanks! | |||
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"People are who they are. They like who they like. They express opinions. They have preferences. They have prejudices. It's the way of the world. Asking if someone is deaf and repeating the same statement will not get them to change their mind. It will lose you the respect that you had earned a few posts higher though. It's a different opinion to yours live with it." Think we have gone off topic a little  | |||
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"Stuff like this makes me laugh, Mrs l doesn't find black or Asian men attractive, she likes the way white men look simple as that, but now not only does this make us racist it now means I'm scared my wife will run off with a black man if she ever has sex with one, because all black men are great fucks? I have never read such complete and utter bollocks in all my life, agreed... but MrsLiddy keeps fabbing my pics.. honest" Ha ha ha, no that was me | |||
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"The thread was not about people not wanting to sleep with black or Asian people as everyone has a preference it was about people feeling the need to include NOT RACIST just our preference there is NO need for it at all " Because there are some people out there with serious 'entitlement' issues who get abusive unless there is a pre-emptive strike | |||
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"I wouldn't put it down but I don't find black or Asian lady attractive. " lol I understand friend but if Beyonce or Rihanna strip down to their tiny thong and killer heels will your dick still remain floppy? If so then you have a problem friend | |||
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"I'm Asian, I'm attracted to Caucasian men. I talk to everyone in the chat room and at clubs, but I'm attracted to white men. I state this in my profile too and still get messages from men outside of my preferences. Some even say "I know you like white guys, but here's hoping".. sometimes I'll politely reply and sometimes I just delete. You can't change someone's sexual attraction if it's not there. That's my personal opinion. You can't call someone racist if they won't sleep with someone they aren't attracted to. Like would you sleep with someone you don't have sexual attraction to just to prove you aren't racist?
Having lived in the filipines and hong Kong before I know where you're coming from coz I understand the mindset of people from those regions some things are here to stay and thats reality x
Very well said. And may I shamelessly say the pic you uploaded today is stunning. Not to prove I'm not racist your just bloody fit.
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"I wouldn't put it down but I don't find black or Asian lady attractive. lol I understand friend but if Beyonce or Rihanna strip down to their tiny thong and killer heels will your dick still remain floppy? If so then you have a problem friend "lol I was gonna use some famous people as examples.. the most attractive black woman I have ever seen is candice patton(iris in the flash)..I'd spunk my load if she danced in front of me | |||
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"People are who they are. They like who they like. They express opinions. They have preferences. They have prejudices. It's the way of the world. Asking if someone is deaf and repeating the same statement will not get them to change their mind. It will lose you the respect that you had earned a few posts higher though. It's a different opinion to yours live with it." Do we live with the behaviours too? Of course I am part of the much loathed PC Brigade (still deciding on the uniform but it's definitely got gold epaulettes with dangly braids). Language and how we use it is important. So, much as LawandOrder posted seeing a sign that says NO BLACKS or ASIANS harps back to a time when that sign was accepted as a way of keeping people out. I don't for one moment think that I can change the beliefs of a die hard racist who holds that I am inferior to them but I am bloody well going to fight them if they try to treat me as inferior in any way that matters. As I have said, they could just go unnoticed, believing what they want, and live their lives without having to make a statement about it all. | |||
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"The thread was not about people not wanting to sleep with black or Asian people as everyone has a preference it was about people feeling the need to include NOT RACIST just our preference there is NO need for it at all " Because the people that put it in a negative way ie no blacks/Asian /white etc come across in a negative way and probably provoke more of a reaction from people and are more likely to be accused of being racist than someone who simply states I prefer black/white/Asian etc. As has been said before, it's not what you say, it's the way you say it. | |||
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"The thread was not about people not wanting to sleep with black or Asian people as everyone has a preference it was about people feeling the need to include NOT RACIST just our preference there is NO need for it at all Because the people that put it in a negative way ie no blacks/Asian /white etc come across in a negative way and probably provoke more of a reaction from people and are more likely to be accused of being racist than someone who simply states I prefer black/white/Asian etc. As has been said before, it's not what you say, it's the way you say it." | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ Reminded me ....we were looking forward to going to a bi event at a local club when we looked at the profile of one of the women going ... it stated no blacks .... so I decided that I would not put my man into a position where he walked into a room or started playing and she reacted. Without knowing him or us, she rejected it. I don't want to be in the same environment as someone who thinks like that ... sorry, just my preference." If I have misread your post then sorry are you saying that knowing someone is not keen on black white yellow pink or anyother colour your man may attempt to play with the person if so thats totally out of order as everyones preferences should be respected whether like it or not. As said if I misread what you mean then sorry just my interpretation. I have my own preferences whom i will meet or not and no one has a right to pull me up on something thats my choice same as I wouldnt to others. | |||
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"Lol check this out....I had applied to VA for membership and they rejected me their reason was"we are protective of our members from any form of danger" lol and im just a simple hardworking guy who just wants a good time x I did reply letting them know know that I felt discrimated and they tried giving me the same old reasons , it didn't surprise me but I didn't expect it x " Really? I am shocked. What dangers do you pose? | |||
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"People are who they are. They like who they like. They express opinions. They have preferences. They have prejudices. It's the way of the world. Asking if someone is deaf and repeating the same statement will not get them to change their mind. It will lose you the respect that you had earned a few posts higher though. It's a different opinion to yours live with it. Think we have gone off topic a little "Yeah sorry. | |||
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"I don't for one moment think that I can change the beliefs of a die hard racist who holds that I am inferior to them but I am bloody well going to fight them if they try to treat me as inferior in any way that matters" Absolutely what im trying to say. It doesn't matter what they think. It only matters if it affects you. And I've always found you lovely on the forums and fair to all. I've never seen you post anything that I would consider politically correct just your honest opinion. | |||
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"Lol check this out....I had applied to VA for membership and they rejected me their reason was"we are protective of our members from any form of danger" lol and im just a simple hardworking guy who just wants a good time x I did reply letting them know know that I felt discrimated and they tried giving me the same old reasons , it didn't surprise me but I didn't expect it x " Wtf. Did you ask for an explanation? | |||
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"Lol check this out....I had applied to VA for membership and they rejected me their reason was"we are protective of our members from any form of danger" lol and im just a simple hardworking guy who just wants a good time x I did reply letting them know know that I felt discrimated and they tried giving me the same old reasons , it didn't surprise me but I didn't expect it x Wtf. Did you ask for an explanation?" They were rather evasive just the usual same old bullshit one would expect very predictable | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. again..I think you are deaf: FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.........that IS the most idiotic statement I have almost ever heard.I'm embarrassed beyond belief................... fuel to the fire *this is when I can say some black guys ruined my chances of meets" You can think whatever you like and you can write it as many times as you want. You are not right just because you write something twice. You have no authority here. Therefore, I have no intention to become obsequious to you or anyone else in the forum. I will not pander to you either. It is best that you do not overstate your position here because people may consider your behaviour silly and immature. I seriously recommend that you learn from what I have told you. | |||
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"I don't for one moment think that I can change the beliefs of a die hard racist who holds that I am inferior to them but I am bloody well going to fight them if they try to treat me as inferior in any way that matters Absolutely what im trying to say. It doesn't matter what they think. It only matters if it affects you. And I've always found you lovely on the forums and fair to all. I've never seen you post anything that I would consider politically correct just your honest opinion." was just a question coz to say you yhink you find black or asians unattractive is deep rooted it would have been wiser to say say you don't fancy em or not your choice or preferance and I try my best to give an honest opinion but im only human an prone to error pls take no offence | |||
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"Some profiles on here read like the signs you used to see in pub windows in North London back in the day. Nothing wrong with your preferences at the end of the day some people just need to work on their delivery. " | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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"Because sometimes when you say no thank you to a black or Asian fella you get told it's because they are black or Asian that you said no. I had a man message me saying how lovely he thinks I am and would like to meet me,but you don't meet black men. If he had looked at my profile he would have seen verifications from black men. " Snap! Which means they haven't bothered to check or they're trying to get a reaction from you. | |||
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"Personally I find its the way that preference is put across. I think "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" looks a bit rude, more so than "I'm only attracted to white men". And I tend to see it expressed that way more on profiles looking for white men only rather than those looking for black men only, although of course that doesn't apply to everyone. more often than not it appears clear to me that NO BLACKS/ASIANS/BI-MALES/TRANNIES..means they would not even entertain saying hello at a social event... I dont play with everyone I meet..but if someone cant find me acceptable to meet socially(lets say its a party/club/group social),then of course I would think they have a problem with race/sexuality/gender. I sistinctly remember a couple saying they de-invited an asian couple to their party(whom they admitted they found really hot),because other party goers would not meet asians(or be in the same environment). lets work that one out............ Reminded me ....we were looking forward to going to a bi event at a local club when we looked at the profile of one of the women going ... it stated no blacks .... so I decided that I would not put my man into a position where he walked into a room or started playing and she reacted. Without knowing him or us, she rejected it. I don't want to be in the same environment as someone who thinks like that ... sorry, just my and therein lies my point. not being able to tolerate someone 'different' in a group environment..even though theres no indication of wanting to play. I've been in the company of bi-men playing..I simply switch off(as in i dont need to look), and concentrate on the fanny, if they asked me..its a "no thanks"..if they ask..why..I'll elaborate in a decent civil manner." true say, its all about the mental maturity and having a good manner of approaching things. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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"As said above, how it's phrased can make all the difference. Don't forget that there are some who are so 'oversensitive' or 'thick' or just downright 'reactionary and defensive' that they will make out that they have been scarred mentally and emotionally no matter how you approach it. A few choose to be offended. " id encourage people to carefully think and choose what to say in public especially in this era | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
"That is such an egotistical statement that it beggars belief 
Statements such as these promote stereotyping and the person is reduced to being a commodity or a fetish
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
"I have never read such utter tripe in my entire life, are you saying 99 percent of all white women want black men? and once they've had a black man they can never go back to white men? Also what your saying is all black men are better than white men, because my wife has had sex with other white men and hasn't left me, but as soon as she's had a black man I'll of lost her forever? fucking ridiculous | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
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The day I try to dictate anything to Fox will be the day I wake up with my balls in a sandwich bag.
She makes up her own mind.
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Ha! How did I miss this bit!
The day I try to dictate anything to Fox will be the day I wake up with my balls in a sandwich bag.
She makes up her own mind.
Like 99% of women I'm sure.
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It is a topic he seems very interested (obsessed)with and he obviously does a lot of researching (watching porn) on the subject
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
"Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn. "I grew up..thanks for the advice.. any couples with inferior white hubbies afraid of me?..once ur wife has a taste of my black cock, she will leave u..sorry.."once she goes black she wont go back!" now currently printing this on a T-shirt and on the back adding a big arrow pointing to the words "prick" | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn. "I read the MAYBE etc, followed by the "As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles." What we write is always interpreted by the reader. Reading the whole helps with understanding. I read the whole, every single word, and made my interpretation and comment. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. again..I think you are deaf: FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.........that IS the most idiotic statement I have almost ever heard.I'm embarrassed beyond belief................... fuel to the fire *this is when I can say some black guys ruined my chances of meets You can think whatever you like and you can write it as many times as you want. You are not right just because you write something twice. You have no authority here. Therefore, I have no intention to become obsequious to you or anyone else in the forum. I will not pander to you either. It is best that you do not overstate your position here because people may consider your behaviour silly and immature. I seriously recommend that you learn from what I have told you. Do you honestly expect anyone to take your 'he is just scared' comment either seriously or without offence?
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We can all say whatever we want on our own profiles!
I get messages all the time from people who state "no blacks or asians "
When I first joined I liked to point out that I was mixed race - and usually the reply was that it didn't matter because I don't look black
Now I can't be arsed!
Lets all fuck whoever we fancy
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn.
I grew up..thanks for the advice..
any couples with inferior white hubbies afraid of me?..once ur wife has a taste of my black cock, she will leave u..sorry.."once she goes black she wont go back!"
now currently printing this on a T-shirt and on the back adding a big arrow pointing to the words "prick""Give up Paddy. Some people aren't worth the time or effort. For one small moment I was almost offended by the previous remarks. Then I remembered how any fucks I give for the opinion and theory given. Zero. A | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. again..I think you are deaf: FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.........that IS the most idiotic statement I have almost ever heard.I'm embarrassed beyond belief................... fuel to the fire *this is when I can say some black guys ruined my chances of meets You can think whatever you like and you can write it as many times as you want. You are not right just because you write something twice. You have no authority here. Therefore, I have no intention to become obsequious to you or anyone else in the forum. I will not pander to you either. It is best that you do not overstate your position here because people may consider your behaviour silly and immature. I seriously recommend that you learn from what I have told you." *in fact seriously , I'm wondering what I have to learn from your profile...apart of not how to conduct it. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn.
I read the MAYBE etc, followed by the "As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles."
What we write is always interpreted by the reader. Reading the whole helps with understanding. I read the whole, every single word, and made my interpretation and comment.
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn.
I grew up..thanks for the advice..
any couples with inferior white hubbies afraid of me?..once ur wife has a taste of my black cock, she will leave u..sorry.."once she goes black she wont go back!"
now currently printing this on a T-shirt and on the back adding a big arrow pointing to the words "prick""Your attire is of no concern of mine. Therefore, do not inform me of it because I am genuinely not interested. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn.
I grew up..thanks for the advice..
any couples with inferior white hubbies afraid of me?..once ur wife has a taste of my black cock, she will leave u..sorry.."once she goes black she wont go back!"
now currently printing this on a T-shirt and on the back adding a big arrow pointing to the words "prick"
Your attire is of no concern of mine. Therefore, do not inform me of it because I am genuinely not interested. "keep thumbing up your own comments...its only you that agrees oops..er.. | |||
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" I read the MAYBE etc, followed by the "As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles." What we write is always interpreted by the reader. Reading the whole helps with understanding. I read the whole, every single word, and made my interpretation and comment. i read exactly the same thing.... and thought "hmmm.... 99% doesn't leave a whole lot of room to backtrack which he will have to do" p.s where does the 99% claim come from... its like plucking a figure out of the air....." Then you are reading what you like rather than what I actually write. With respect to the 99% comment, I suggest you ask the person who originally composed it: that other guy. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I've met them both. She had a single profile. Trust the poster when he says his partner has her preferences. It is rather arrogant to think you know what someone else would want when they state the opposite.
Perhaps it would be best if you read what I write rather than read what you like. I explicitly wrote that 'MAYBE' her preferences would be different. I did NOT state that they would be different. Also, I do not care what she wants. It is of no importance to me. You would be more informed and appear less arrogant if you read my previous comment properly. Another day and another lesson for you to learn.
I grew up..thanks for the advice..
any couples with inferior white hubbies afraid of me?..once ur wife has a taste of my black cock, she will leave u..sorry.."once she goes black she wont go back!"
now currently printing this on a T-shirt and on the back adding a big arrow pointing to the words "prick"
Give up Paddy. Some people aren't worth the time or effort.
For one small moment I was almost offended by the previous remarks. Then I remembered how any fucks I give for the opinion and theory given.
Zero.
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" Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man. Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles. " you were the first person to mention the 99%...... do you need a doctor... memory loss is a bad thing... especially since you only wrote it an hour ago!! | |||
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" I read the MAYBE etc, followed by the "As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles." What we write is always interpreted by the reader. Reading the whole helps with understanding. I read the whole, every single word, and made my interpretation and comment. i read exactly the same thing.... and thought "hmmm.... 99% doesn't leave a whole lot of room to backtrack which he will have to do" p.s where does the 99% claim come from... its like plucking a figure out of the air..... Then you are reading what you like rather than what I actually write. With respect to the 99% comment, I suggest you ask the person who originally composed it: that other guy. "That would be me. The original context of the 99% statistic? That 99% of profiles are written by people stating their own preferences. Your context? That 99% of women in couples would have different preferences if they were single. A | |||
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"I have work out what it is..... you have selective amnesia!!!! did you not write this???? Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man. Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles. you were the first person to mention the 99%...... do you need a doctor... memory loss is a bad thing... especially since you only wrote it an hour ago!! "You have just confirmed to everyone that you do indeed read what you like. Here is the FIRST TIME is was introduced by the other guy. "Scared of what?? Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise. Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles." After you have read this, I expect and an apology from you. | |||
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" I read the MAYBE etc, followed by the "As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles." What we write is always interpreted by the reader. Reading the whole helps with understanding. I read the whole, every single word, and made my interpretation and comment. i read exactly the same thing.... and thought "hmmm.... 99% doesn't leave a whole lot of room to backtrack which he will have to do" p.s where does the 99% claim come from... its like plucking a figure out of the air..... Then you are reading what you like rather than what I actually write. With respect to the 99% comment, I suggest you ask the person who originally composed it: that other guy.
That would be me.
The original context of the 99% statistic?
That 99% of profiles are written by people stating their own preferences.
Your context?
That 99% of women in couples would have different preferences if they were single.
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
That is such an egotistical statement that it beggars belief
Statements such as these promote stereotyping and the person is reduced to being a commodity or a fetish
Thankfully, none of the black guys I have met subscribe to this way of thinking"What is wrong with a black man being regarded as a commodity or a fetish? | |||
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You were the first person to mention the 99%..... that is why licketyspilts, heavensent, _osie, obi, and liddy all picked you up on it.....
or are they all wrong and you are right!!!!!
so... as you say in your own words "After you have read this, I expect an apology from you."
ooooh.... the backtrack is going to be so good.... humble pie or eating a hell of a lot of crow????? | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
That is such an egotistical statement that it beggars belief
Statements such as these promote stereotyping and the person is reduced to being a commodity or a fetish
Thankfully, none of the black guys I have met subscribe to this way of thinking
What is wrong with a black man being regarded as a commodity or a fetish?"Is that a serious question? NOBODY should be regarded as a commodity or a fetish | |||
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"People are who they are. They like who they like. They express opinions. They have preferences. They have prejudices. It's the way of the world. Asking if someone is deaf and repeating the same statement will not get them to change their mind. It will lose you the respect that you had earned a few posts higher though. It's a different opinion to yours live with it. Do we live with the behaviours too? Of course I am part of the much loathed PC Brigade (still deciding on the uniform but it's definitely got gold epaulettes with dangly braids). Language and how we use it is important. So, much as LawandOrder posted seeing a sign that says NO BLACKS or ASIANS harps back to a time when that sign was accepted as a way of keeping people out. I don't for one moment think that I can change the beliefs of a die hard racist who holds that I am inferior to them but I am bloody well going to fight them if they try to treat me as inferior in any way that matters. As I have said, they could just go unnoticed, believing what they want, and live their lives without having to make a statement about it all. "
By people having positive rational dialog goes a long way toward helping the situation. People who are on the fence can and do change. The hardcore won't. As generations pass, the problem becomes less and less. Between the people that are our age ( 50's) and the people that are in their 20's you can see a major change in the acceptance that we're all one race.
"The Human Race."
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"my god..... Denial and Memory loss..... its worst that i thought! you really need to do better than that to backtrack.......
You were the first person to mention the 99%..... that is why licketyspilts, heavensent, _osie, obi, and liddy all picked you up on it.....
or are they all wrong and you are right!!!!!
so... as you say in your own words "After you have read this, I expect an apology from you."
ooooh.... the backtrack is going to be so good.... humble pie or eating a hell of a lot of crow?????"Sorry Fabio - 'twas me - see my post just above. It's about the only accurate thing someone has said in the whole thread. A | |||
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"my god..... Denial and Memory loss..... its worst that i thought! you really need to do better than that to backtrack.......
You were the first person to mention the 99%..... that is why licketyspilts, heavensent, _osie, obi, and liddy all picked you up on it.....
or are they all wrong and you are right!!!!!
so... as you say in your own words "After you have read this, I expect an apology from you."
ooooh.... the backtrack is going to be so good.... humble pie or eating a hell of a lot of crow?????"thanks for highlighting me too _abio..even though i was the first to voice my disgust.. is it cos i is black!? | |||
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"Why is it if someone on here is not looking to meet black or Asian people they feel the need to clarify they are not racist but if someone only wants Black or Asian people vary rarely do you see the comment not racist just my/our preference "They're afraid of the "professional offence takers" - usually middle-class white people, but always bullies. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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"I don't think that people are 'die-hard racists'. A very strong preference is what it may be. And preferences do tend to change as we get older, and usually towards inclusivity [ not to be read as in I am getting older ]"You're not ageing? Do you have a portrait of yourself in the attic? | |||
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"I don't think that people are 'die-hard racists'. A very strong preference is what it may be. And preferences do tend to change as we get older, and usually towards inclusivity [ not to be read as in I am getting older ]
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
I actually find your idea that all black guys are better at sex than white guys seriously floored "I did not say that black men are actually better at sex than white guys. I argued that some husbands don't want their wives meeting black guys because they are 'scared' that the stories and rumours about black men could be true. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
Scared?
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
That is such an egotistical statement that it beggars belief
Statements such as these promote stereotyping and the person is reduced to being a commodity or a fetish
Thankfully, none of the black guys I have met subscribe to this way of thinking
What is wrong with a black man being regarded as a commodity or a fetish?
Is that a serious question? NOBODY should be regarded as a commodity or a fetish "It is common for black men use the term 'BBC' to promote themselves. If they are willing to objectify themselves in order to receive casual sex, surely they must accept the consequences of being branded a fetish and used as a commodity. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
That is such an egotistical statement that it beggars belief
Statements such as these promote stereotyping and the person is reduced to being a commodity or a fetish
Thankfully, none of the black guys I have met subscribe to this way of thinking
What is wrong with a black man being regarded as a commodity or a fetish?
Is that a serious question? NOBODY should be regarded as a commodity or a fetish
It is common for black men use the term 'BBC' to promote themselves. If they are willing to objectify themselves in order to receive casual sex, surely they must accept the consequences of being branded a fetish and used as a commodity."I think I remember the old profile koolboss...often leading to the same subject matter...in fact the objectifying of black men was indeed one of your own posts... | |||
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"Iam white only not English if English person's dnt like me its racism? Lol i dnt think so sorry if am writing something wrong am still need lern
discriminated on the grounds that you are a foreigner here to steal our jobs/live off the system..regardless of race/colour/gender.."yea thats very true but the early travellers who sailed over to foreign shores didn't take this into consideration they were welcomed wherever they went but that hasn't been the same the other way round coz others believe they are superior which is a load of bull at the end of the day people make their own choices a great man once said no one is born with hatred in their hearts they simply choose to hatr , times are ever changing, just enjoy life enjoy fabbing and keep the fires burning x | |||
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"I don't meet Glaswegians. Call me regionalist but there you go. " Not even when they are visiting Brighton or Hove? | |||
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"I don't meet Glaswegians. Call me regionalist but there you go. Not even when they are visiting Brighton or Hove? " I'd buy the wee bairn a wee dram o' malt. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. again..I think you are deaf: FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.........that IS the most idiotic statement I have almost ever heard.I'm embarrassed beyond belief................... fuel to the fire *this is when I can say some black guys ruined my chances of meets" I'm with Paddy on this one: fuck...me!!!
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"if you come across a profile that states I am only looking for BBC it is rarely if ever followed by not racist just my preference so why is it that this person don't feel the need to clarify they are not racist " I am a card carrying member of the pc brigade. And still remain friends with people who aren't. My profile says my preferences but does not apologise for them, nor is there any implication that I feel people may think I am racist. Just catching up as have been out with the family. All of these posts from law and order are the Mrs talking as Mr is a submissive black man .... | |||
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"Racism and discrimination are two words that have been thrown around a lot lately. People throw it out there like a crutch now. Sometimes we have to question if some people truly know the meanings of these two words. Both words go hand in hand. The only time they should ever come into play is if there is "hate" involved. Without taking the time to know someone, you can't tell if they are a racist or not... While racism and discrimination still takes place in this world, throwing the word around like people do does nothing but pit good people against good people.( This causes a rift and the problem can never get solved.) One of the biggest issues that drive this is cultural( inside their own community.) Here is an example. It's far more acceptable in both the black community, the white community, or Hispanic community for a Black man, or a Hispanic man to date a White woman. ( in all three communities. Black, Hispanic, and White.) But for a white male to date a Black, or a Hispanic woman, isn't accepted as much by the Black and Hispanic communities. The same can be said about some of the Asian cultures. So is racism and discrimination an issue, yes. But it seems like an issue with cultural differences plays a bigger issue. This is just our humble opinion and can be taken with a grain of salt. After all we're not college professors. We're just a middle aged couple that likes having sex. "In my immediate family: son-in-law, white. Two Brother-in-laws, white, my partner, white. I have female cousins with white partners. The reason my family are not that enamoured with my other half is because he's a ukip voter! | |||
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"You can't be racist against white people according to many" Unfortunately I know quite a few people that are - vociferously so. | |||
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"There are some couples profiles that explicitly state that they are not interested in meeting black men. This is not a racist statement. However, I strongly suspect that the statement is written by the husband rather than the wife. Arguably, the husband does not want his wife having sex with a black man because he is concerned that his wife will prefer interracial sex afterwards. The husband is not racist, he is just scared. Scared of what??
Can't believe I just read that - but given your thread history it's really no surprise.
Incidentally - the bit in our profile is Fox's. Her preference. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
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Arguably, he is scared that once his wife goes black, she will not be coming back. And if she did come back, she might want to keep on going black. Either way, he has lost his wife to the black man.
Maybe her preferences would be different if she was single and had her own profile. As I suspect is the case with 99% of profiles.
That is such an egotistical statement that it beggars belief
Statements such as these promote stereotyping and the person is reduced to being a commodity or a fetish
Thankfully, none of the black guys I have met subscribe to this way of thinking
What is wrong with a black man being regarded as a commodity or a fetish?"koolboss, may i answer that question for you pls if you dont mind. I know in this day and age ignorance can come be seen as lack of wisdom. Im absolutely happy you asked the right question and i will guide you through the answers. Pay attention. 1st of all, logically speaking there are no black people in this world. The human skin has a tendency to go into a darker shade of brown ( not black, thank god for specsavers ) which is the colour you get when heat from the sun interact with melanin in your body (hence why you get dark skinned men from hot climates, the high melanin levels is passed on in the womb ). Feel free to raise up your hand if you still need more clarification. 2nd point is, human beings are not classed as assets or objects for trade or exchange which means they are not commodities, il give you an example yh .... here goes ...........aka says to coolboss, would you trade your woman for a bag of tetley tea, cool boss says to aka ' no, my woman is not for sale, im telling my mummy '...aka realises cools wife is not a commodity and goes for a shit in d toilet instead of cools woman.. ... Hope that clarifies things a lil. And as for the 3rd question on fetishes, i cant be bothered to explain dat cos, 1- i need to go for a quick shit in the toilet , 2 - common im not your teacher so i shouldnt have to explain everything to you. Sorry koolboss | |||
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"You can't be racist against white people according to many Unfortunately I know quite a few people that are - vociferously so." unfortunately racism works both ways, its up to us as individuals to look into our hearts and check how racist we really are, and if we are in the slightest racist den lets make a change cos colours are just colours, its the human spirit that matters | |||
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