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Good sex, very good sex, mind blowing sex..

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

Lots of guys seem to adhere to the idea that there is no such thing as 'bad sex', just different scales of good.

Personally I do not agree. What are your feelings on the matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is DEFINITELY bad sex

An ironing board would be preferable to some.

There's also those who think what they may have seen "on film" constitutes good sex.

Errrrrr.... NO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is DEFINITELY bad sex

An ironing board would be preferable to some.

There's also those who think what they may have seen "on film" constitutes good sex.

Errrrrr.... NO!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is sex where a guy thinks a quick fumble and a few pumps is all it takes to get me going.

There is sex where I take what I want and sod the guy and then there is the sex where we both work it out as we going. That's my fav.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short for shit sex!!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though "

This is the bit I disagree with (for me anyway).

Its easy for me to have an orgasm, but, unless that orgasm comes as a result of enjoyable sex then I'd have been better off just settling for knocking it out on my own.

In my book, having an orgasm, does not, in itself, constitute good sex.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Life is too short for shit sex!!"

Too true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though "

See for me that's all wrong, an orgasm is not the bee all and end all of sex

Laughter, passion, communication, experimentation, sensuality, fun and horny fuckery with a guy who really gets me as much as I'm getting him......now that's good sex

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What can I say? Easily pleased.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Nine hours at Chams with Paul yesterday....it was alright I suppose .....just to make sure we had a short morning dabble too.....Yep....definitely alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though

See for me that's all wrong, an orgasm is not the bee all and end all of sex

Laughter, passion, communication, experimentation, sensuality, fun and horny fuckery with a guy who really gets me as much as I'm getting him......now that's good sex "

So agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though

See for me that's all wrong, an orgasm is not the bee all and end all of sex

Laughter, passion, communication, experimentation, sensuality, fun and horny fuckery with a guy who really gets me as much as I'm getting him......now that's good sex

So agree x"

Exactly - no connection and might as well be the OP's left hand.....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I haven't had mind blowing sex in ages I miss it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though

See for me that's all wrong, an orgasm is not the bee all and end all of sex

Laughter, passion, communication, experimentation, sensuality, fun and horny fuckery with a guy who really gets me as much as I'm getting him......now that's good sex "

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I haven't had mind blowing sex in ages I miss it.... "

Definitely everyone's holy grail

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

There is definitely bad sex ....have had a couple of those on meets alone and not to be repeated. For me, it's just a matter of not getting wet, whereas with Mr. I am dripping just looking at him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had bad sex with someone a dildo and himself would have been better

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though

See for me that's all wrong, an orgasm is not the bee all and end all of sex

Laughter, passion, communication, experimentation, sensuality, fun and horny fuckery with a guy who really gets me as much as I'm getting him......now that's good sex "

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There is nothing more soul destroying than a bad fuck.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"As long as I have an orgasm, its good sex. It might not be with a good guy though

See for me that's all wrong, an orgasm is not the bee all and end all of sex

Laughter, passion, communication, experimentation, sensuality, fun and horny fuckery with a guy who really gets me as much as I'm getting him......now that's good sex "

For me, Good and mind-blowing sex are a result of you both being receptive to each other's wants and needs. Bad sex often occurs with selfish lovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if it's just physical then that equates to crap sex for me and I'd rather not bother.

Much prefer to fuck the mind first without contact, then fuck the mind with contact, then fuck.

The other person/people have to feel the same way for it to work for me and they're not that easy to find!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion most sex is good sex. However recently I've met a woman socially on a number of occasions but struggled to find a date when we both free for playtime. That changed this weekend. It was a first for an overnight stop over for me. And I've gotta say that WAS mind blowing sex because the horny memories keep popping into my head even whist out shopping in morrisons I seem to have a cheeky grin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about when you have gotten to known someone first, texting etc... Get on great on paper and you meet and the sex is not how you hoped?

That's happened to me before.

You both just aren't on the same page.

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Personally if it's just physical then that equates to crap sex for me and I'd rather not bother.

Much prefer to fuck the mind first without contact, then fuck the mind with contact, then fuck.

The other person/people have to feel the same way for it to work for me and they're not that easy to find!"

Stimulate the mind and body - it's so important! Mix it up to suit everyone's needs and desires!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most sex is good sex. However recently I've met a woman socially on a number of occasions but struggled to find a date when we both free for playtime. That changed this weekend. It was a first for an overnight stop over for me. And I've gotta say that WAS mind blowing sex because the horny memories keep popping into my head even whist out shopping in morrisons I seem to have a cheeky grin."

I like it when this happens. It doesn't happen often and I don't think I'd want it to happen all the time or with everyone as it would never feel like real mind blowing sex! Am I making sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the simple test is whether I want it to end more than I want it to continue. So yes, there is such thing as bad sex and I've had it. But I've been equally part of that, so I wouldn't lay all the blame at the foot of the man.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most sex is good sex. However recently I've met a woman socially on a number of occasions but struggled to find a date when we both free for playtime. That changed this weekend. It was a first for an overnight stop over for me. And I've gotta say that WAS mind blowing sex because the horny memories keep popping into my head even whist out shopping in morrisons I seem to have a cheeky grin.

I like it when this happens. It doesn't happen often and I don't think I'd want it to happen all the time or with everyone as it would never feel like real mind blowing sex! Am I making sense? "

I do understand what you mean. What then becomes special? And what becomes the norm. It could raise expectations to unrealistic heights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about when you have gotten to known someone first, texting etc... Get on great on paper and you meet and the sex is not how you hoped?

That's happened to me before.

You both just aren't on the same page. "

I've had that,purely because the man was nervous. It gets better the more times you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the simple test is whether I want it to end more than I want it to continue. So yes, there is such thing as bad sex and I've had it. But I've been equally part of that, so I wouldn't lay all the blame at the foot of the man. "

I blame myself when tiredness and my arthritis is bad. Trying to get through to some people how much it affects my sexual performance is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most sex is good sex. However recently I've met a woman socially on a number of occasions but struggled to find a date when we both free for playtime. That changed this weekend. It was a first for an overnight stop over for me. And I've gotta say that WAS mind blowing sex because the horny memories keep popping into my head even whist out shopping in morrisons I seem to have a cheeky grin.

I like it when this happens. It doesn't happen often and I don't think I'd want it to happen all the time or with everyone as it would never feel like real mind blowing sex! Am I making sense?

I do understand what you mean. What then becomes special? And what becomes the norm. It could raise expectations to unrealistic heights "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of guys seem to adhere to the idea that there is no such thing as 'bad sex', just different scales of good.

Personally I do not agree. What are your feelings on the matter?"

No such thing as bad sex, but mind blowing sex....that's a bit special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely such a thing as bad sex... One of my exes put it all into it and I remember when he stopped i thought "was that it ? "....

Now mind blowing sex is rare but when you get wow !

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