FabSwingers.com forum: Muscle

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks.

Plenty women like muscles, focus on those who do rather than those who don't

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why should people have to justify their preferences?

I'm fat, if someone finds fat unattractive I most certainly wouldn't ask them to explain why: I recognise I won't appeal to all and concentrate on those to whom my size isn't an issue.

Works for me!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Different strokes for different folks.

Plenty women like muscles, focus on those who do rather than those who don't

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should people have to justify their preferences?

I'm fat, if someone finds fat unattractive I most certainly wouldn't ask them to explain why: I recognise I won't appeal to all and concentrate on those to whom my size isn't an issue.

Works for me!"

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I'm not a fan of the look at all...can't really explain why it's just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her? Only she knows why she doesn't like muscular guys.

Not everyone likes the same thing and their reasons also differ wildly. You've been on the forum long enough to know that, and must have read some of the multiple threads that start why do women like this or why don't they like that

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Maybe it was just a polite excuse and there was another reason?

Who knows! Certainly not anyone but her.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Maybe it was just a polite excuse and there was another reason?

That was my initial thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why should people have to justify their preferences?"

I wasn't asking for a justification, it was a simple query.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

Can't read tape measure on bicep pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should people have to justify their preferences?

I wasn't asking for a justification, it was a simple query."

for me, i love the look, but i avoid men like it.

Iv found a lot are quite arrogant, and as an overweight lady, it just destroys my confidence.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Can't read tape measure on bicep pic? "
16''

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its not the muscles that would turn me off a guy, its the attitude.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why should people have to justify their preferences?

I wasn't asking for a justification, it was a simple query."

"If such is the case, then why?"

sounds pretty much like justification seeking to me lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why should people have to justify their preferences?

I wasn't asking for a justification, it was a simple query."

Yes, you were. You're op comes across (to me) as you're shocked you're turned down because of your impressive physique and wanting women to explain why muscles don't get them moist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Can't read tape measure on bicep pic? "

This is the sort of thing that many don't like - nothing more than a blatant show off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why should people have to justify their preferences?

I wasn't asking for a justification, it was a simple query.

If such is the case, then why?

sounds pretty much like justification seeking to me lol"

Not just me then!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

in answer to the actual question....i am not put off my muscular men but if their muscles are all they talk about then i get bored rather quickly.

i like a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it"

Baffles me: but a daily occurrence on here.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?"

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

Some people just don't like it. I know a lot who like the very defined muscle but not massive in size brad Pitt vs Coleman for instance. Most prefer the Pitt kind of body.

Mass monsters seem to appeal to men more than women.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"in answer to the actual question....i am not put off my muscular men but if their muscles are all they talk about then i get bored rather quickly.

i like a dad bod

One of my new playmates has got an awesome physique. Absolutely gorgeous. When I mentioned it he had no idea. I had to take a body pic of him to show him what I meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it"

I'm not sure why you feel I'm complaining, there was no aggro in my opening post (it was actually a rather flattering way to be turned down), but the topic certainly seems to have caused friction.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it"

pound to a pinch of shit there will be one along soon about being rejected by 'someone' because my massive cock is far too big..

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

For me it is about proportion. A tall man who has bulk muscle is very attractive, a shorter man who has bulk muscle isn't unless it is well defined. I have different ideas on what muscular means I think.I am more attracted to someone who actually underplays his physical appearance.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

We all (men included) fancy people of different shapes and sizes. There is no way we can be all things for all people (try as we might...especially on here).

What is more, what is considered 'too muscular' for one, most certainly wouldn't be for another.

To my knowledge I haven't been knocked back for being too muscular (I'm a good deal less built than you), however, I've certainly been turned down by women who regard my physique as too 'gym trained' (for want of a better expression), or by those who assume I must be overly vain because I care so much about keeping myself in good shape.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"in answer to the actual question....i am not put off my muscular men but if their muscles are all they talk about then i get bored rather quickly.

i like a dad bod

As long as they don't do dad dancing with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?"

It's not like me to press women for answers when they say I'm not their type, but on this occasion curiosity got the better of me, so I asked and she said I was too muscular. Having already asked her that I wasn't going to ask follow up questions to her about WHY she doesn't like guys with muscles, but I was still intrigued so I posted this thread instead.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

I'm not sure why you feel I'm complaining, there was no aggro in my opening post (it was actually a rather flattering way to be turned down), but the topic certainly seems to have caused friction."

Just goes to show how people see things differently. I don't see any friction here just people pointing out the obvious: NONE of us will have universal appeal so pointless asking why.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"in answer to the actual question....i am not put off my muscular men but if their muscles are all they talk about then i get bored rather quickly.

i like a dad bod

As long as they don't do dad dancing with it.

steady on..

its the only way some of us know how to cut a rug..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

pound to a pinch of shit there will be one along soon about being rejected by 'someone' because my massive cock is far too big..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

OP do you overthink everything? It seems that you don't like being rejected its her choice I don't really like men with loads of muscles it's preferences the same as I'm sure you don't like unattractive women.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

I'm not sure why you feel I'm complaining, there was no aggro in my opening post (it was actually a rather flattering way to be turned down), but the topic certainly seems to have caused friction."

You've been on here long enough to know the answer to any question that starts 'why was I turned down?' I suspect another motive.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

I'm not sure why you feel I'm complaining, there was no aggro in my opening post (it was actually a rather flattering way to be turned down), but the topic certainly seems to have caused friction.

You've been on here long enough to know the answer to any question that starts 'why was I turned down?' I suspect another motive."

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

I'm not sure why you feel I'm complaining, there was no aggro in my opening post (it was actually a rather flattering way to be turned down), but the topic certainly seems to have caused friction."

To be fair i just thought it was today's LAM post. I wasn't thinking that it had actually happened.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Some people don't like fat people.

What?? Well that's me out then.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

What some people don't like fat people!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha, ha, I used to be a very muscular young man (way back). Had muscles, stubble and tan ( I'm a builder).

Was very popular then.

Now I'm middle aged grandad.... And times have changed...so they say!

Truth is, there are many women out there who will love your look, but you will mainly hear from those who want to knock you down, Stay true, they will come... good luck to you, you make an effort and get slagged off for it!!

I get turned down, sometimes, for getting old!!

Some people on these sites only here to put you down cos you try and they don't!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

...which is soo unfair. Us chubsters need some good luvvin too!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

What some people don't like fat people!?

According to some threads - yes.

I assume all the fat people will be along soon to start threads asking why!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as with everything people will find a way to complain about the thing that excludes then.... and this is not different...

sorry.... but it isn't

maybe you can answer a question with a question....

why do people focus so much on the things that exclude them... as opposed to concentrating on the part of the population that will like what you are offering....

it is kinda like not taking rejection well but trying no sugarcoat it

I'm not sure why you feel I'm complaining, there was no aggro in my opening post (it was actually a rather flattering way to be turned down), but the topic certainly seems to have caused friction.

To be fair i just thought it was today's LAM post. I wasn't thinking that it had actually happened."

Call me 'mint sauce' coz I'm on the LAM!

But seriously, if I wanted to post a thread boasting about my muscles I'd simply do it and be clear about it, I'm sure people haven't failed to notice I'm not shy when it comes to self promotion.

Have I mentioned my huge cock yet?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

What some people don't like fat people!?

good job there isn't many a thread started about it..

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Now I'm middle aged grandad.... !"

Oi...sort your perspective out, you are only a few years older than me and I don't consider myself a 'middle aged grandad'!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

...which is soo unfair. Us chubsters need some good luvvin too!

Well going by the amount of post's on here almost daily, your in the right place.

Lot's of guy's adore larger ladies.

Have no idea how big or not you are not looked at profile, gone by your own comments.

I think really skinny people must be the hardest done by on here.

There doesn't seem much call for uber skinny guy's.

I am not one of them. Not that there is anything wrong with them.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

What some people don't like fat people!?

good job there isn't many a thread started about it..

There would be if they weren't such slow typers.

It's a size of sausage fingers vs tiny keys on phone thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I'm middle aged grandad.... !

Oi...sort your perspective out, you are only a few years older than me and I don't consider myself a 'middle aged grandad'!!

good job, or id have to start accepting i fancy middle aged granddads!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

There would be if they weren't such slow typers.

It's a size of sausage fingers vs tiny keys on phone thing!

That's why I use my laptop

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"ha, ha, I used to be a very muscular young man (way back). Had muscles, stubble and tan ( I'm a builder).

Was very popular then.

Now I'm middle aged grandad.... And times have changed...so they say!

I get turned down, sometimes, for getting old!!

Some people on these sites only here to put you down cos you try and they don't!"

he's not been 'slagged off', working on sites you'll have heard what is a slagging..

he's had responses to his question and sometimes when we all ask a question we dont get the answer we may want ..

its only opinions..

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Now I'm middle aged grandad.... !

Oi...sort your perspective out, you are only a few years older than me and I don't consider myself a 'middle aged grandad'!!

good job, or id have to start accepting i fancy middle aged granddads!

lol

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By *lackgrapeMan
over a year ago

Purley

Come on friend this is one girls response , there could easily be another 10 or more , focus on those you appeal to there should definitely be more than one,

you will defo not be everyones cuppa tea , thats life

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I assume all the fat people will be along soon to start threads asking why!

i stopped asking that question about 5 minutes after i got here!!!!

started selling my personality and bribing people with honey roasted peanuts!!!!

i do find it fascinating that people always want to change the minds of those who minds are least likely to change... and spend so much time trying to prove the point that they forget about the people that actually like them...

I mean, how dare people not like me and turn me down!!!!

its like they take them for granted whilst chasing the impossible

people want to be liked by everyone... i'm a realist and a pragmatist... those who like me like me... those who don't don't.... and i know which group if i focus on are going to give me less ulcers and more enjoyment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha, ha, I used to be a very muscular young man (way back). Had muscles, stubble and tan ( I'm a builder).

Was very popular then.

Now I'm middle aged grandad.... And times have changed...so they say!

I get turned down, sometimes, for getting old!!

Some people on these sites only here to put you down cos you try and they don't!"

Turning you down isn't putting you down or lagging you off :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha, ha, I used to be a very muscular young man (way back). Had muscles, stubble and tan ( I'm a builder).

Was very popular then.

Now I'm middle aged grandad.... And times have changed...so they say!

I get turned down, sometimes, for getting old!!

Some people on these sites only here to put you down cos you try and they don't!"

BS i try very hard and im making good progress. tho im still far from where i want to be. no body has put the OP down for how he looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume all the fat people will be along soon to start threads asking why!

i stopped asking that question about 5 minutes after i got here!!!!

started selling my personality and bribing people with honey roasted peanuts!!!!

I mean, how dare people not like me and turn me down!!!!

its like they take them for granted whilst chasing the impossible

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense."

One of my friends describes the body builder look as looking like "sculpted fat" rather than the defined lean muscle like say a swimmer.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense.

One of my friends describes the body builder look as looking like "sculpted fat" rather than the defined lean muscle like say a swimmer."

Mmm swimmers have a lovely look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you could be overthinking what might just be a visual preference that doesn't have much behind it. I'm not generally attracted to blond men, it's not for any deep-seated reason, I'm just not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense.

One of my friends describes the body builder look as looking like "sculpted fat" rather than the defined lean muscle like say a swimmer.

Mmm swimmers have a lovely look."

I do like a swimmer, the skin tight half naked kit involved helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a nice personality rather than what someone looks like. Mrs fandango is a right munter, but she's a beautiful soul.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense."

I like to think that I am in that kind of category, but, some would still class me as having a 'bodybuilder' physique....again, all depends on perception I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense.

I like to think that I am in that kind of category, but, some would still class me as having a 'bodybuilder' physique....again, all depends on perception I guess"

No.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I do like a swimmer, the skin tight half naked kit involved helps too

I've sent you a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the lean muscular type as opposed to the body builder look if that makes sense.

One of my friends describes the body builder look as looking like "sculpted fat" rather than the defined lean muscle like say a swimmer.

Mmm swimmers have a lovely look.

I do like a swimmer, the skin tight half naked kit involved helps too

Mmmmmm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like I need to get back into swimming lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself middle aged (50-70) and a Grandad, cos I am one... so sort yourself into your category (lonely ol' man?)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Seems like I need to get back into swimming lol"

You're gorgeous already though

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I consider myself middle aged (50-70) and a Grandad, cos I am one... so sort yourself into your category (lonely ol' man?)"

Steady on, I was only pulling your leg...certainly didn't intend any offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female swimmers, with nice square shoulders. Sharon Davies look.

Mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I consider myself middle aged (50-70) and a Grandad, cos I am one... so sort yourself into your category (lonely ol' man?)"

You can't be 70 and middle aged, no-one lives to 140.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"ha, ha, I used to be a very muscular young man (way back). Had muscles, stubble and tan ( I'm a builder).

Was very popular then.

Now I'm middle aged grandad.... And times have changed...so they say!

I get turned down, sometimes, for getting old!!

Some people on these sites only here to put you down cos you try and they don't!"

He hasn't been slagged off he has been rejected by someone he approached. She didn't seek him out to reject him.

As for the comments on here, they aren't aimed at his physic they are aimed at his apparent shock that people wont like him because he is muscular as if that is the holy grail for everyone. Nothing is the holy grail for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called preferance. Some are into slim, or fat, or short or tall or black guys or white guys etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I consider myself middle aged (50-70) and a Grandad, cos I am one... so sort yourself into your category (lonely ol' man?)

Steady on, I was only pulling your leg...certainly didn't intend any offence."

apparently middle age granddads have claws, and lack a sense of humpur!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol "

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Sounds like the ego's taken a bit of a knock there, fella

Be honest. Happens to us all at some point

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I find some ladies like me and some do not . I like some ladies and not others makes life fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha, ha, I used to be a very muscular young man (way back). Had muscles, stubble and tan ( I'm a builder).

Was very popular then.

Now I'm middle aged grandad.... And times have changed...so they say!

I get turned down, sometimes, for getting old!!

Some people on these sites only here to put you down cos you try and they don't!

He hasn't been slagged off he has been rejected by someone he approached. She didn't seek him out to reject him.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

why is it such a shock that you don't appeal to everyone?

this..

no one does or will do and recognising that is well, pretty bloody fundamental really..

OP have you actually asked the woman why she did so..?

Does she need to have a reason?

Does anyone?

Some people simply find some attractive and some not.

Some people don't like fat people.

...which is soo unfair. Us chubsters need some good luvvin too!

Well going by the amount of post's on here almost daily, your in the right place.

Lot's of guy's adore larger ladies.

Have no idea how big or not you are not looked at profile, gone by your own comments.

I think really skinny people must be the hardest done by on here.

There doesn't seem much call for uber skinny guy's.

I am not one of them. Not that there is anything wrong with them.

I repeat: it just goes to show how people view things. My post was 100% tongue in cheek and assumed it would be taken as such considering my earlier stated NONE of us has universal appeal so why worry about those whose boat you don't float?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

People have preferences.

You are probably thinking about more than them.

I know what I like and rarely feel the need to consider *why*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you."

Priceless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I consider myself middle aged (50-70) and a Grandad, cos I am one... so sort yourself into your category (lonely ol' man?)

Steady on, I was only pulling your leg...certainly didn't intend any offence."
None taken, wish I looked like you.. and the op

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you."

Oh god...now we're gonna have a muscle off lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I assume all the fat people will be along soon to start threads asking why!

i stopped asking that question about 5 minutes after i got here!!!!

started selling my personality and bribing people with honey roasted peanuts!!!!

I mean, how dare people not like me and turn me down!!!!

its like they take them for granted whilst chasing the impossible

Exactly!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My muscles are better than your muscles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

Oh god...now we're gonna have a muscle off lol "

Fight! Fight! Fight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you."

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you."

Says it all really

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't particularly consider myself muscly, more toned, but I have had women tell me they think I must be vain, which is why I take my time to get to know them a little on here first. They couldn't be further from the truth and, as they find out when we meet, I'm probably the total opposite, much more interested in them than myself. it's nice to keep in shape, but it doesn't determine who I am, and this is why I don't have a 'type' when I comes to women, I'm far more interested in the person, for me, the connection has to be physical and social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love muscles, a firm body. I think some women find it a turn off as it maybe makes them feel a little insecure about their own body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

I'm considerably smaller than you!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

Priceless!

Have to admit, it made me chuckle as well as confirm my initial thoughts regarding the op.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

They're all flexing their guns right now!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

You make up for it with your amazing arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love muscles, a firm body. I think some women find it a turn off as it maybe makes them feel a little insecure about their own body? "

Nope. Guess again.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

Come on guys!

It's not about size it's about your bench and squat , you know that ! Give us numbers

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

Heady, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't that muscular really? Not in comparison to some men on here... All relative. Maybe it's the tape measure that put her off?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

Heady, isn't it?

A bit musky to be honest. Like rutting stags.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

Heady, isn't it?

Haha it's so funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

Assuming that's actually you in your pics, no, you're quite clearly not. Maybe it's poor lighting but you look quite unexceptional, fairly athletic, but otherwise very much like the vast majority of guys I see at the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love muscles, a firm body. I think some women find it a turn off as it maybe makes them feel a little insecure about their own body?

Nope. Guess again."
hence why I said "some".

I'm not one. But I know for a fact that "some" women do.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Love muscle on guys and their love muscle. Just find those of us who appreciate you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about this?

Most woman want to see more that just a physique. Brains, humour, humility are all valued.

Perhaps less focus on the physique and more on other attributes and the lady might see a great guy and will see the muscles as a bonus....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can crush an entire bag of grapes..

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Get that Lady a drink!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

Oh dear god I mean really....are you sure it was your muscles that put her off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

Wow

(2nd bag of pop corn here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you."

If only there was a handbags emoticon!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Love muscles, a firm body. I think some women find it a turn off as it maybe makes them feel a little insecure about their own body? "

Nope, guess again. My other half is a cross between Bruce Willis and Jason Statham. He's into kick boxing and fit as fuck. I'm more Hattie Jacques than Halle Berry.

If I were insecure about my body I wouldn't have met Ben. Oh, and I met him on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

This post is awesome

. Its like watching the guys at the gym circling each other round the weights section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about this?

Most woman want to see more that just a physique. Brains, humour, humility are all valued.

Perhaps less focus on the physique and more on other attributes and the lady might see a great guy and will see the muscles as a bonus...."

Ok guys so fighting. ...I've founda muscular guy at last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

I'm considerably smaller than you!"

little man fight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" 'Cos fabicide is painless..."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

Heady, isn't it?

A bit musky to be honest. Like rutting stags.

I was being kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love muscles, a firm body. I think some women find it a turn off as it maybe makes them feel a little insecure about their own body?

Nope, guess again. My other half is a cross between Bruce Willis and Jason Statham. He's into kick boxing and fit as fuck. I'm more Hattie Jacques than Halle Berry.

If I were insecure about my body I wouldn't have met Ben. Oh, and I met him on here.

"
nope. Read again. "Some", "some", "some"... Bloody hell.

Shall we all start saying who our ex's are? I didn't say all. I said some. Some. Some. Some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about this?

Most woman want to see more that just a physique. Brains, humour, humility are all valued.

Perhaps less focus on the physique and more on other attributes and the lady might see a great guy and will see the muscles as a bonus....

Ok guys so fighting. ...I've founda muscular guy at last

*stop.....not so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This post is awesome

. Its like watching the guys at the gym circling each other round the weights section."

Fucking brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

I'm considerably smaller than you!

little man fight! "

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you looked like my friend "haydnralf" I could understand.. Now he is quite delicious

and his pictures really don't quite show his body at its best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This post is awesome

. Its like watching the guys at the gym circling each other round the weights section.

Fucking brilliant

"
like seaguls fighting over chips?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

Oh dear god I mean really....are you sure it was your muscles that put her off?

You're slow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

I'm considerably smaller than you!

little man fight!

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!"

And you have to ask your wife to open it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on guys!

It's not about size it's about your bench and squat , you know that ! Give us numbers

Well?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

Oh dear god I mean really....are you sure it was your muscles that put her off?

You're slow...

I know lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"OP if you looked like my friend "haydnralf" I could understand.. Now he is quite delicious

and his pictures really don't quite show his body at its best

Woah!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I can crush an entire bag of grapes.."

Yes but can you make wine from it

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

"How about this?

Most woman want to see more that just a physique. Brains, humour, humility are all valued.

Perhaps less focus on the physique and more on other attributes and the lady might see a great guy and will see the muscles as a bonus....

Ok guys so fighting. ...I've founda muscular guy at last

No camera tricks, all muscle . No tape measure needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear lord I can smell the testosterone oozing from this thread...

I'm the little one of the thread

I'm considerably smaller than you!

little man fight!

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!

And you have to ask your wife to open it

She has mack off hands...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the OP forget leg day?

I see no quads.....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Did the OP forget leg day?

I see no quads....."

Oh god don't you start

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Come on guys!

It's not about size it's about your bench and squat , you know that ! Give us numbers

Well?

To be fair the lady who can open the pickle jar is winning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

No ur not

I wasn't trying to be a dick with my post though it may have been read that way. I'm bigger than you are though and leaner

And I lift more than you. Ill put my house on that. Don't forget I'm taller than you. Just cuz you have a half inch on your biceps over me doesn't mean you are bigger than me matey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP if you looked like my friend "haydnralf" I could understand.. Now he is quite delicious

and his pictures really don't quite show his body at its best

He's clearly in great shape, pretty much what I'm aiming for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for authentication Lola x

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?"

Your "muscle" looks fab

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did the OP forget leg day?

I see no quads....."

I'm big below the waist where I need to be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP if you looked like my friend "haydnralf" I could understand.. Now he is quite delicious

and his pictures really don't quite show his body at its best

Woah!

"
yep! He's fucking awesome! And such a really nice man to go with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"little man fight!

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!"

I can lift it, but I need help to open it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't particularly consider myself muscly, more toned, but I have had women tell me they think I must be vain, which is why I take my time to get to know them a little on here first. They couldn't be further from the truth and, as they find out when we meet, I'm probably the total opposite, much more interested in them than myself. it's nice to keep in shape, but it doesn't determine who I am, and this is why I don't have a 'type' when I comes to women, I'm far more interested in the person, for me, the connection has to be physical and social. "
WOW! This guy is the dogs! My God, what he says, goes for for me too!! only I aint that clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long do you guys spend at the gym on average? Maybe that could be the decider?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Your "muscle" looks fab

lol

*Giggles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bench - 110 on the bar

50's on the dumbbells

Squat - 140kg

Shoulder press - 35kg dumbells

Don't deadlift anymore but when I did I maxed 190kg

Not that impressive but I lift more than the op I know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just posting so I know where to find the 'I'm bigger than you' fight later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the OP forget leg day?

I see no quads.....

I'm big below the waist where I need to be..."

I'm proud of how big i am between the ears. And so modest i don't have to tell the world adout it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"little man fight!

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!

I can lift it, but I need help to open it

"
Damn, the open it line has been done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the look for me either I'm afraid.

If I was to analyse why, I would probably say I feel intimidated by a man with a ripped and toned body with a defined 6 pack.

Personal choice but prefer a bit of a wobble - like myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a nice personality rather than what someone looks like. Mrs fandango is a right munter, but she's a beautiful soul.

I take it she doesn't read the forums. If she does it was nice knowing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a nice personality rather than what someone looks like. Mrs fandango is a right munter, but she's a beautiful soul.

I take it she doesn't read the forums. If she does it was nice knowing you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"little man fight!

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!

I can lift it, but I need help to open it

Damn, the open it line has been done

I'm so weak i have to get strong guys to do heavy lifting for me...oh your so strong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No quads then!

So how can you be too muscular? .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"little man fight!

I can barely lift a large jar of pickles!

I can lift it, but I need help to open it

Damn, the open it line has been done

I'm quick

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

Priceless!

My dads bigger than your dad!

*probably

**probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a nice personality rather than what someone looks like. Mrs fandango is a right munter, but she's a beautiful soul.

I take it she doesn't read the forums. If she does it was nice knowing you "

My god! I hadn't thought of that lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had three shits today.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Bench - 110 on the bar

50's on the dumbbells

Squat - 140kg

Shoulder press - 35kg dumbells

Don't deadlift anymore but when I did I maxed 190kg

Not that impressive but I lift more than the op I know that

Oh my days!!! A man that could lift me without breaking a sweat!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been turned down for being too muscular, and came across a girls profile last night who stated that she also found large muscles a turn off.

If such is the case, then why? Do you find muscular guys vain, do you think they'd be aggressive and rough, or do you simply not like the look of them?

Ur not that muscular so don't see her logic there lol

It depends on what people class as muscular, and to be fair, I'm considerably moreso than you.

Priceless!

My dads bigger than your dad!

*probably

**probably not"

Oh now this one I can probably win, mine is 6'5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thread has helped pass time while the mrs snores her head off next to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the question. I like proportional muscle mass. When they start to bulge too much,especially on shorter men they distort the body. Arms that don't lay against the side of a body because the biceps are too big make men look awkward and it's not aesthetically pleasing to me. I prefer big thighs to big arms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling left out so my boobs are bigger than your boobs

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I can crush an entire bag of grapes.."

Seedless?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've had three shits today. "

Pah! That's nothing, I've had three Shredded Wheats!

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Seemingly the new in look is the "Dad Bod". Not overly muscled & chiseled but just a normal bod type. I think perceptions swing for what is considered attractive from a Botticelli body with layers, to the 50's style of Marilyn Monroe curves, to the modern day size zero. It's the same with guys shapes... changing from chubby, to skinny student, to buff, to gym bunny. It's partly the influence of the media of the day (from art through to social media) that affects our preferences. It can also be our age & self perception & how comfortable we are with our own bodies.

So perhaps the person who doesn't like the gym bunny look just feels more comfortable with a average shaped bod rather than someone whose lifestyle seems to be dictated by hours in the gym. The sculpted look will still be one to be admired but perhaps the perceptions of what body type constitutes a good time in the sack is swinging back to the opposite of the gym bunny. It's down to personal choice I guess.

Focus on those who like your type & not those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had three shits today. "

What have you been eating?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bench - 110 on the bar

50's on the dumbbells

Squat - 140kg

Shoulder press - 35kg dumbells

Don't deadlift anymore but when I did I maxed 190kg

Not that impressive but I lift more than the op I know that

Oh my days!!! A man that could lift me without breaking a sweat!!!

Good warmup

Then what weights do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No quads then!

So how can you be too muscular? ....."

Now this is a muscular,in proportion body I could look at all day. Amongst other things I could do with it

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

why am i reading this thread with thatr body building tune going thru my head...

do da do do dooooooooo

do da do do doooooooooo

........

oh ya flex those pecks.....

whilst ya doing that.... i am munching on a bar of chocolate!!!!! yeah!!! carb that suckers!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piers morgan is still Piers morgan no matter what car he drives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tuned in to the best bitchfight of the day! Nice one

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