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Bitter "forbidden fruit syndrome"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else experienced this?

My best friend & I have a sexual history, including me being involved in a couple of threesomes with him & his missus. He knows I'm on here, and he tends to be my "safety person", so if I meet someone he's the one who knows where I am & who I'm with. Although I'm the one person he can't have and I know that drives him mad.

Recently though, when I mention any details to him, he'll make smartass remarks and attempt to draw my attention back to him, and he seems alarmed at any hint that I've had any intimate physical contact with anyone else, and kind of jealous too. For example, a few weeks ago I told him that someone I was talking to on here had offered to paddle my arse for me, and my friend's reaction was "well nobody can spank you as well as I can."

Why on earth would he act like this?! Is it a case of if he can't have me no one else can??

He is NOT normally the jealous, bitter or over protective type at all.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It could be that he has feelings for you and is jealous.

Or possibly he and his wife are having problems and he feels like he needs some attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wants/loves? you but can't have u xxx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It must be lurve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could be that he has feelings for you and is jealous.

Or possibly he and his wife are having problems and he feels like he needs some attention?"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked him why he is being like this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could be that he has feelings for you and is jealous.

Or possibly he and his wife are having problems and he feels like he needs some attention?

This."

I think I agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked him why he is being like this?"

I've not had the chance. I don't get to see him very much 1 to 1. I also know that his OH looks at his messages.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Blokes are strange creatures ey? I agree with the above comment. He really likes you but knows he can't have you which makes him want you even more. If I was you I'd use that to my full advantage

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am definitely not forbidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him the truth. If someone else can spank you better than him,tell him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blokes are strange creatures ey? I agree with the above comment. He really likes you but knows he can't have you which makes him want you even more. If I was you I'd use that to my full advantage "

I do... Sometimes... A tiny bit

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I agree with other posters.

It sounds like jealousy. Time for you to make a choice about this.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Have PM'd you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked him why he is being like this?

I've not had the chance. I don't get to see him very much 1 to 1. I also know that his OH looks at his messages."

So mail him. What have you got to hide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake and eat it comes to mind.x

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Cake and eat it comes to mind.x "

we have a winner.

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