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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestly just wanted to get some advice from this me and my fuckbuddy met on this and have constantly been there for each other we are friends aswell as fuck buddys we both had our rules before and have broken them all and got very close and have admitted we have feelings for each other but now that we have admitted it he wont fuck me or anything else just hang out and cuddle... help?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Honestly just wanted to get some advice from this me and my fuckbuddy met on this and have constantly been there for each other we are friends aswell as fuck buddys we both had our rules before and have broken them all and got very close and have admitted we have feelings for each other but now that we have admitted it he wont fuck me or anything else just hang out and cuddle... help? "

Oh dear... time to find a new fuck buddy?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

This is why I keep my mouth shut when I develop feelings for someone. I know any feelings will mellow with time, and I prefer to keep them as FWBs than not have them at all.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How long have you been 'just cuddling' for ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I keep it simple -

If I find someone that I actually get on with/like on a personal level, I give them a choice.

You can be a friend or a fuck but not both.

That spot is reserved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly just wanted to get some advice from this me and my fuckbuddy met on this and have constantly been there for each other we are friends aswell as fuck buddys we both had our rules before and have broken them all and got very close and have admitted we have feelings for each other but now that we have admitted it he wont fuck me or anything else just hang out and cuddle... help? "

If you're friends and you have sex, you're friends with benefits, fuck buddies are people who just have sex, no going out for meals, no cuddling, generally just no emotions towards each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you ask why you can only cuddle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep it simple -

If I find someone that I actually get on with/like on a personal level, I give them a choice.

You can be a friend or a fuck but not both.

That spot is reserved. "

I make it simpler than that. No friendship,just sex. I will have a conversation with someone but only every day crap,nothing emotional and I will cuddle after sex,but no emotions again. Purely physical pleasure with some mental comfort chucked in. If someone said I only want to cuddle I would get rid asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say love but I told my fwb of 13 mths I have feelings for him...nit wasn't always the sex with him and things have now changed drastically to the point I'm thinking of finishing second things ,,,more build the wall so to speak,, good luck Hun with whatever you choose to do.xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Honestly just wanted to get some advice from this me and my fuckbuddy met on this and have constantly been there for each other we are friends aswell as fuck buddys we both had our rules before and have broken them all and got very close and have admitted we have feelings for each other but now that we have admitted it he wont fuck me or anything else just hang out and cuddle... help? "

Sit down and talk about options.

Only you two will know what you really want and so long as you both agree on what will happen moving forward - whether that entails 'coupledom' or calling it quits - then a clear the air chat is essential.

Whatever happens - good luck. You're not the first to find yourselves here and certainly won't be the last!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that, in these circles, the words "I love you" roughly translate into "your fun's over". If you can move into swinging together and you make it clear to him that his fun isn't over, and neither is yours! , then you may end up being one of those successful swinging coupes we have here on Fab. Othrwise... you may have to face it that you went fishing in the wrong pool. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A week or two now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOu just need to have a proper chat with them and find out whats going on. We can only second guess what he is thinking. I hope it works out for you and good luck with the chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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