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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

When you tell people you need to be discreet, what's the best way to know that they will be? As I have a partner I have to be discreet. Any tips to be careful?

Thanks

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Yeah.

Tell your partner then you don't have to worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah.

Tell your partner then you don't have to worry about it. "

Kin ell. New record first reply and it starts lol.

I'll give a slightly better but no more helpful answer. That is you will never be sure of anyone else's discretion.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You can tell your best friend a 'secret' and can't guarantee that it will remain so. So, there's probably less chance with people you only casually know.

Other than meeting a loooong way from your home area, there are few things you can do to increase the chance of secrecy.

My guess is that if you meet long time members, people who go to swinging clubs and events, there's a higher possibility that they won't be revealing much to others. If you only met at swinging clubs, then others may not gain as much information about you - but this varies as much, as with people you're just meeting from the net.

I don't have a secret life as such but overall, trust your gut instinct about someone. Many here don't like others who are cheating, so being honest with them will ensure that at least you're not deceiving them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware the moral guardians of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day no one on here 'owes' you discretion so you can't really demand it. If they chose to give it to you, or say they will, its up to you whether you trust or believe a stranger on an internet sex site. This place is what it is.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Two men can keep a secret - if one of them's dead, as an old friend said to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say go with your gut instinct. It's more often than not right. There are no guarantees though ever that someone will be discreet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies, I will take them in. Maybe I will tell my partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No guarantees anyone will be discreet on here or in real life.

Maybe meeting people in a similar situation to you would help, at least they'd understand the need.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Never tell anyone anything you wouldn't be happy with the whole world knowing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We value discretion but not because of cheating. Be selective in the area you play and don't tell em your name Pike!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pike?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pike? "

Christ we are old if you don't get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pike? "

Dad's Army

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Pike? "

Don't panic Mr Mainwaring!!!

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't say I've ever seen it.. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's 24 lol. No chance of getting the reference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say I've ever seen it.. Haha"

Classic British comedy bud.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it good? I'll see if I can watch it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beware the moral guardians of Fab "

If someone starts a thread looking for tips to assist them in their infidelity what do they really expect as a response?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to look for other cheats people in the same boat will likely relate to where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise "

You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise

You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!! "

I'm sorry! I will watch it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

omg how old does that make me feel when there is a generation who haven't heard or seen dads army

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise

You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!!

I'm sorry! I will watch it "

Don't tell them your name Christchurch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beware the moral guardians of Fab

If someone starts a thread looking for tips to assist them in their infidelity what do they really expect as a response?"

I think he was asking about discretion. I'm sure even some couples on here like to be discreet about their swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a completely different note, some people at my work didn't know who Judy Garland was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a completely different note, some people at my work didn't know who Judy Garland was "

maybe they're straight? Hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise

You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!!

I'm sorry! I will watch it

Don't tell them your name Christchurch "

Damn!! And they say never to make your username your actual name

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On a completely different note, some people at my work didn't know who Judy Garland was "

Who's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont bring them to your place. The wife might know what ur up to then lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Pike?

Christ we are old if you don't get that. "

Sadly I got it Captain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont bring them to your place. The wife might know what ur up to then lol "

Lmfao. Top tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice would be to look for other cheats people in the same boat will likely relate to where you are coming from. "

Thst was most likely his thinking. Yeah i know call me captain obvious lol

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

I need a lady to help me commit an indescretion.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Trust no one

That guarantees, you won't be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chose those in the same situation as yourself x

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