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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question regarding clubs etc.

myself and a new partner ( neither of us have visited clubs at all ) are wanting to experience a few things together. Whilst we are both in agreement that ,at this stage at least , neither wants to full swing or swap , we both enjoy watching other couples having sex and would enjoy being watched whilst having sex ( be it oral, full, mutual masturbation, you get the idea) . We would both love to enjoy the atmosphere and feed of the sexual energy around but with a look but don't touch attitude. Any feedback regarding other couples who enjoy this , or clubs that host playrooms / evenings where this is "allowed" or indeed anyone's experiences like this, club recommendations etc. or even feedback from private parties would be helpful.

We aren't sure if this is frowned upon in swinging clubs ( as I guess swinging would indicate free for all sex I guess) or a regular occurrence . Any info appreciated!

We are local to sheffield/mansfield area do travel to clubs/parties is probably limited to within 50 miles or so .

Thanks fabbers, have fun .

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

All clubs have a no means no rule which means you can go and do as much or as little as you want. On our first visit we went with the intention of playing only with each other...if that - once we settled down that went right out of the window but it is very acceptable to turn up and not play, play with each other or play with anyone else who takes your fancy. You play by your rules and no one will try and force you into something to are not happy with. You should go.....and enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't play with anyone else for a long time until we found a couple we were attracted to. We happily played with just each other with no pressure to play with others.

Clubs are full of people doing what you describe go for it.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We are regular visitors to Chameleons and as already stated ...no means no....we have never had a problem at the club and in fact find it very relaxing and a great atmosphere with like minded people. You can do as much or as little as you want to and we would say it's well worth going along to see for yourselves. Have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks , nice to get some positive feedback ??. She has expressed an interest in being restrained and masturbated by me whilst others watch and vice versa, but is worried about sexual contact from others. Good to know that generally our personal desires are accepted and respected in clubs, thanks ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ignore the ?? , tried to post my own emoji lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore the ?? , tried to post my own emoji lol "

lol those annoying phone emo's..they often make people sound sarcy lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Try out your local club.

If you check out the forum on their website they sometimes run a reduced price first visit for couples offer.

When you arrive explain that you're new and they'll give you a thorough guided tour with lots of info and the opportunity to ask questions - don't be afraid to ask, they'd rather be asked obvious or 'silly' questions than have people unsure or nervous.

Make sure you know which room is the invite only room. It has a window so you can be watched by a variety of people but only couples and people they invite in can go in. Another couple/group may express an interest in joining up with you but will usually ask or possibly the female may attract the f in your couple by touching her upper arm (the usual way). Any other touching or thrusting of body parts at you is not acceptable and you can say so and even report people to staff if they do it.

If you opt for an open room anyone can come into the room and stand by the bed and watch. However they shouldn't sit on the bed, touch, interrupt by talking loudly or pestering you or thrust body parts at you. It's also not acceptable for any men to cum on you unless you invite it. If any of that happens then ask them in a clear voice to stop and back off. On the rare occasions that someone carries on I generally turn to the other watching gentlemen and let them know that if that person carries on I'll get dressed and they won't have anything to watch! They generally deal with the annoyance far better than me and it means I don't get get up about it.

If you are playing in an open room get well onto the bed and out of easy reach - keep temptation at bay for anyone with thoughts of a crafty grope!

The club in Sheffield has a couple who attend who never play with anyone else. They are both very attractive, he's always in a suit and she starts in a sexy dress then keeps changing into sexier and sexier lingerie. He sits by the side of the dancefloor and chats to people as she dances and gyrates in her little outfits. If they play at the club it's only with each other in a private room when they go for her to change. Clearly she's an exhibitionist and he loves watching.

They are popular and well liked and nobody complains that they don't play.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

If you go to cupids in swinton they have two rooms with windows so you can put on a show,so they can watch you without getting touched,if you want more there is an open bed for all ,really nice place enjoy your fun.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The Attic in Derby is nice and again, there is no rule saying people must play.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As you are in Sheffield, you could try La Chambre. . Several of their rooms have windows. You can go in together and be watched through the window.. If you're really adventurous, you could even go in the camera room. Lock the door and enjoy yourselves, but everyone will be able to watch you on the big screen and TVs around the club.

Cal

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We are regulars to clubs in kent. If we want to play with others we do. If we don't we don't. It really is that simple. You do what you want to and nothing else

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