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He so pleased (obviously) and extremely excited for later as he is having some friends round later and having a party in the garden (even in the rain  )
There was a post back along about school leavers drinking in the park. I remember my son wouldn't be doing it! 
I take it back! He is, but In our back garden. I've even supplied him with some drink.
He doesn't ask for much and is missing his Prom so figured I had to give on something.
I haven't been sable to sleep properly thinking of this party and all his friends drinking etc.
please tell me everything is going to be ok!? I don't really want to be responsible for very d*unk 16 year olds.
I'm actually shitting myself about it
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"You've done well to get him this far. Enjoy the occasion. Are you in attendance to keep an eye on them, see they don't get too sluaghtered? " I will be inside the house. I will check out the window a few times. | |||
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"I would be worried about sanctioning drinking with his friends. Do all of their parents agree to them being offered alcohol? Of course, when I was young, my father used to force us to drink, alcohol was freely available but for parties with friends we would go through the rite of passage that is sneaky drinking. You won't know the tolerance each of his friends has to alcohol so be prepared to clean up some sick. " They're bringing own drink it just bought some for my son. As far as I'm aware their parents know they go to parties and drink. My son always tells me. That's the thing lickety, I have a phobia of sick! I thinks that part of the reason I'm shorting myself. | |||
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"I would be worried about sanctioning drinking with his friends. Do all of their parents agree to them being offered alcohol? Of course, when I was young, my father used to force us to drink, alcohol was freely available but for parties with friends we would go through the rite of passage that is sneaky drinking. You won't know the tolerance each of his friends has to alcohol so be prepared to clean up some sick. They're bringing own drink it just bought some for my son. As far as I'm aware their parents know they go to parties and drink. My son always tells me. That's the thing lickety, I have a phobia of sick! I thinks that part of the reason I'm shorting myself. "Then tell your son that if any of his friends gets so d*unk they are vomiting he has to clear it up. That'll help police it. Have a chat to him to check there isn't a pharma party culture too. | |||
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I would tell him that if any of his friends get out of hand then you would consider sending everyone home. They probably all got mobiles so you should have no problems contacting parents to come and collect should you need them to!!
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"Try to avoid allowing spirits in. If you can keep it to beer and wine only it will probably work out OK. Also, if possible, use smaller glasses for the wine and have the bear available in smaller bottles and cans." I don't think spirits will be avoided 
They have small plastic cups to drink from. | |||
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"I would be worried about sanctioning drinking with his friends. Do all of their parents agree to them being offered alcohol? Of course, when I was young, my father used to force us to drink, alcohol was freely available but for parties with friends we would go through the rite of passage that is sneaky drinking. You won't know the tolerance each of his friends has to alcohol so be prepared to clean up some sick. They're bringing own drink it just bought some for my son. As far as I'm aware their parents know they go to parties and drink. My son always tells me. That's the thing lickety, I have a phobia of sick! I thinks that part of the reason I'm shorting myself.
Then tell your son that if any of his friends gets so d*unk they are vomiting he has to clear it up. That'll help police it. Have a chat to him to check there isn't a pharma party culture too.
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"I think....and i'm sure your son does to....that you are a great mum for allowing this
I would tell him that if any of his friends get out of hand then you would consider sending everyone home. They probably all got mobiles so you should have no problems contacting parents to come and collect should you need them to!!
Good luck B x"thank you I've set my ground rules and he has told his friends so he says. | |||
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"If you want any additional adults around to help police it... ? "Id love a security guard! | |||
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"If you want any additional adults around to help police it... ?
Id love a security guard! "You got a uniform I can use or should I bring my own?  | |||
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"If you want any additional adults around to help police it... ?
Id love a security guard!
You got a uniform I can use or should I bring my own? "Your will look so much better on you than mine | |||
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"You know what I believe if you allow your child a little leeway and teach them responsibility, then they will be sensible, rather than sneaking off and getting smashed because you haven't allowed him to do anything" Me too. He admitted ages ago that he he had been to some parties and not told me because he knew I'd say no | |||
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" Any chance you wearing the traditional white shirt and getting his mates to sign it? The squiggly signatures would be a sight to behold. Especially if it rains. "It's raining! Ha | |||
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"Well done to your son, and you BCW! Good luck with the party....and the clean up! x"Thanks BG... I've already stated I'm not cleaning up
Think I might need 1 glass of wine myself | |||
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"Well done to your son, and you BCW! Good luck with the party....and the clean up! x
Thanks BG... I've already stated I'm not cleaning up
Think I might need 1 glass of wine myself "Sure you'd rather not have a stiff one?
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"Threaten him. Tell him if he and his friends get wasted you will: A Run around the garden with your tits out singing She'll be coming round the mountain. B Copy all his naked baby pics onto Instagram,Facebook and Twitter for all his school friends to see. C Video the whole thing and put it on Youtube so they can watch it back and see themselves acting like dickheads and throwing up into the azaleas." And D Invite his friends' parents over for a sex party the next week. | |||
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"Threaten him. Tell him if he and his friends get wasted you will: A Run around the garden with your tits out singing She'll be coming round the mountain. B Copy all his naked baby pics onto Instagram,Facebook and Twitter for all his school friends to see. C Video the whole thing and put it on Youtube so they can watch it back and see themselves acting like dickheads and throwing up into the azaleas. And D Invite his friends' parents over for a sex party the next week." Well fancy that, never knew my lad was mates with BCW's lad. Until now. | |||
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"Threaten him. Tell him if he and his friends get wasted you will: A Run around the garden with your tits out singing She'll be coming round the mountain. B Copy all his naked baby pics onto Instagram,Facebook and Twitter for all his school friends to see. C Video the whole thing and put it on Youtube so they can watch it back and see themselves acting like dickheads and throwing up into the azaleas. And D Invite his friends' parents over for a sex party the next week. Well fancy that, never knew my lad was mates with BCW's lad. Until now. "Nice try | |||
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"Threaten him. Tell him if he and his friends get wasted you will: A Run around the garden with your tits out singing She'll be coming round the mountain. B Copy all his naked baby pics onto Instagram,Facebook and Twitter for all his school friends to see. C Video the whole thing and put it on Youtube so they can watch it back and see themselves acting like dickheads and throwing up into the azaleas. And D Invite his friends' parents over for a sex party the next week. Well fancy that, never knew my lad was mates with BCW's lad. Until now.
Nice try "You reckon i should try and mention that it's still lovely and sunny up here? | |||
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"Threaten him. Tell him if he and his friends get wasted you will: A Run around the garden with your tits out singing She'll be coming round the mountain. B Copy all his naked baby pics onto Instagram,Facebook and Twitter for all his school friends to see. C Video the whole thing and put it on Youtube so they can watch it back and see themselves acting like dickheads and throwing up into the azaleas." Hahaha A!!!!!! | |||
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"My son left school today too & he's going to a party tomorrow. I've bought him some beers to take with him. We all drank at that age, would be silly to deny them a drink. And I agree about not making a big deal of having a drink. My son is a lot more open with me about things than I was with my parents who were very strict about stuff which meant me doing things behind their backs." Congrats to your lad too
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Sounds like they are having fun though | |||
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"Update!! There's about 20 or more!!!! Roudy as you like and Iv seen one pissed as fart already!! It's not even 8pm!! One has been sick in the garden by all accounts
Sounds like they are having fun though "Sick? Yuck!! He's all yours!! | |||
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"Update!! There's about 20 or more!!!! Roudy as you like and Iv seen one pissed as fart already!! It's not even 8pm!! One has been sick in the garden by all accounts
Sounds like they are having fun though "Did you ever consider aquiring/hiring a local tart for them? That would quieten a few of them down. At least until they'd had their turn and realise life does go on. | |||
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"Update!! There's about 20 or more!!!! Roudy as you like and Iv seen one pissed as fart already!! It's not even 8pm!! One has been sick in the garden by all accounts
Sounds like they are having fun though
Sick? Yuck!!
He's all yours!! "Some help you would have been, | |||
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"Update!! There's about 20 or more!!!! Roudy as you like and Iv seen one pissed as fart already!! It's not even 8pm!! One has been sick in the garden by all accounts
Sounds like they are having fun though
Sick? Yuck!!
He's all yours!!
Well I wasn't taken up on my kind offer so BCW can obviously cope - although I'm not that far away if needed
Some help you would have been, " | |||
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"Update!! There's about 20 or more!!!! Roudy as you like and Iv seen one pissed as fart already!! It's not even 8pm!! One has been sick in the garden by all accounts
Sounds like they are having fun though
Did you ever consider aquiring/hiring a local tart for them?
That would quieten a few of them down. At least until they'd had their turn and realise life does go on."Jahaha! There are girls here and one has just called a boys mum as he is on the floor | |||
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"Update!! There's about 20 or more!!!! Roudy as you like and Iv seen one pissed as fart already!! It's not even 8pm!! One has been sick in the garden by all accounts
Sounds like they are having fun though
Sick? Yuck!!
He's all yours!!
Some help you would have been, " | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it! " I'm still feeling uneasy | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it!
I'm still feeling uneasy"Offer still there | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it!
I'm still feeling uneasy"Sounds like you have no control over the situation....when I was that age we were allowed parties with alcohol but we also knew that if we went outside of the rules there wouldn't be any more. | |||
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"They will all live and learn by any mistakes they make (If they make any) But it will be a night they will remember for the rest of there lives "Doesn't sound like some of them will.... | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it!
I'm still feeling uneasy
Sounds like you have no control over the situation....when I was that age we were allowed parties with alcohol but we also knew that if we went outside of the rules there wouldn't be any more."I don't have any control of what someone else drinks and how much. I do have control of when I say the party ends (especially if more get like the one that has left) | |||
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"They will all live and learn by any mistakes they make (If they make any) But it will be a night they will remember for the rest of there lives "This is the first and last. | |||
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"They will all live and learn by any mistakes they make (If they make any) But it will be a night they will remember for the rest of there lives
This is the first and last. "For you yes, For them it has only just begun | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it!
I'm still feeling uneasy
Sounds like you have no control over the situation....when I was that age we were allowed parties with alcohol but we also knew that if we went outside of the rules there wouldn't be any more.
I don't have any control of what someone else drinks and how much. I do have control of when I say the party ends (especially if more get like the one that has left) "But they are in your house. Your rules? You are the adult and they are still kids. | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it!
I'm still feeling uneasy
Sounds like you have no control over the situation....when I was that age we were allowed parties with alcohol but we also knew that if we went outside of the rules there wouldn't be any more.
I don't have any control of what someone else drinks and how much. I do have control of when I say the party ends (especially if more get like the one that has left)
But they are in your house. Your rules? You are the adult and they are still kids."They are in the garden, would not allow it in my house. That was rule number 1 | |||
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"A bunch of d*unk 16 year olds!! Sounds like my idea of hell. Good luck OP, you'll need it!
I'm still feeling uneasy
Sounds like you have no control over the situation....when I was that age we were allowed parties with alcohol but we also knew that if we went outside of the rules there wouldn't be any more.
I don't have any control of what someone else drinks and how much. I do have control of when I say the party ends (especially if more get like the one that has left)
But they are in your house. Your rules? You are the adult and they are still kids.
They are in the garden, would not allow it in my house. That was rule number 1"Still you are the responsible adult in all this, surely? | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you." It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life."
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life." Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now "So you haven't run topless round the garden, singing She'll be coming round the mountain" yet? | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now "Good, all good. I expect you'll be getting an offer to tidy up shortly. | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now
So you haven't run topless round the garden, singing She'll be coming round the mountain" yet? "No not yet | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now "Give them a surprise and order a few pizzas to share. You'll have to go down to pay for it and then dole them out and you'll not only be making sure they eat as well as drink but you'll be able to cast an eye over the proceedings without seeming like an over attentive parent | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now
Good, all good.
I expect you'll be getting an offer to tidy up shortly. "No my son as already said he will clear up in the morning. Another of my rules will be taking place in an hour | |||
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"Your neighbors must love you. It's 9:30 on a Friday night. I doubt BCW has parties every night. Her son has finished his GCSE's today. I think having a party is a great way to celebrate it. Some will drink too much. That's life. Iv Heard the proms are worse. Only one has d*unk too much and he is home now
Give them a surprise and order a few pizzas to share. You'll have to go down to pay for it and then dole them out and you'll not only be making sure they eat as well as drink but you'll be able to cast an eye over the proceedings without seeming like an over attentive parent"Iv given them chips
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"Apart from the one boy. It all went well "Glad it all went well BCW xxx | |||
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"Apart from the one boy. It all went well
Glad it all went well BCW xxx "Thankyou Miss Innocent x
I made him eat some toast and drink plenty of water last night and he was fine this morning | |||
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"Apart from the one boy. It all went well
Glad it all went well BCW xxx
Thankyou Miss Innocent x
I made him eat some toast and drink plenty of water last night and he was fine this morning "There's always one! And at least under your watchful eye he just got hammered in a safe place where people looked out for him instead of getting alcohol poisoning in a wood (or somewhere similar) with mates who are young and inexperienced and may have panicked. | |||
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"Apart from the one boy. It all went well
Glad it all went well BCW xxx
Thankyou Miss Innocent x
I made him eat some toast and drink plenty of water last night and he was fine this morning
There's always one!
And at least under your watchful eye he just got hammered in a safe place where people looked out for him instead of getting alcohol poisoning in a wood (or somewhere similar) with mates who are young and inexperienced and may have panicked."Exactly.. All his mates were very concerned and told me. Then the parents were called to pick him up. We have checked to see if he is ok this morning. | |||
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"Glad it all went well for you." thankyou, no running with boobs out after all | |||
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"Apart from the one boy. It all went well
Glad it all went well BCW xxx
Thankyou Miss Innocent x
I made him eat some toast and drink plenty of water last night and he was fine this morning
There's always one!
And at least under your watchful eye he just got hammered in a safe place where people looked out for him instead of getting alcohol poisoning in a wood (or somewhere similar) with mates who are young and inexperienced and may have panicked.
Exactly.. All his mates were very concerned and told me. Then the parents were called to pick him up. We have checked to see if he is ok this morning. " Sound like a sensible bunch of kids really | |||
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"Apart from the one boy. It all went well
Glad it all went well BCW xxx
Thankyou Miss Innocent x
I made him eat some toast and drink plenty of water last night and he was fine this morning
There's always one!
And at least under your watchful eye he just got hammered in a safe place where people looked out for him instead of getting alcohol poisoning in a wood (or somewhere similar) with mates who are young and inexperienced and may have panicked.
Exactly.. All his mates were very concerned and told me. Then the parents were called to pick him up. We have checked to see if he is ok this morning.
Sound like a sensible bunch of kids really "I agree Anna, I was really pleased with all of them | |||
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"Glad it all went well for you. thankyou, no running with boobs out after all "I could think of worse things to see. | |||
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"Glad it all went well for you. thankyou, no running with boobs out after all
I could think of worse things to see. "Ha! Haha! | |||
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"Delighted to read that everything went well! x"Me to BG | |||
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"My son is going to a party tonight!! I keep winding him up, asking if I can come too " hope he has a great time! After all his is to celebrate leaving school too
I was up on the balcony all night last night just close enough I could hear (and see if any came into front garden. They were only allowed in the back)
My son came up and said " mum we need a have a drink together, so we did nawwwww | |||
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