Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I wouldn't want to meet a guy who was bi even if it's just orally bi, wouldn't want to meet anyone that would do sexual things with TV's either. My reasons being men are the best at pleasuring other men, I wouldn't want my skills to be outdone by anyone. " Hense the reason im orally bi | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Honestly, I have no idea! One of my friends who's part of a couple is "orally bi" like yourself. I think some straight men just assume that bi men will pounce on them." I don't think it's always the guys that object x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I wouldn't want my skills to be outdone by anyone. " lol... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi men? I read lots of post's regarding bisexuality in men, and more often than not it seems to be frowned upon Being orally bi myself I would like to find other's that welcome this kind of behaviour. " Because those of us who get tested regularly are warned about bi guys and the higher risk of sti with them | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi men? I read lots of post's regarding bisexuality in men, and more often than not it seems to be frowned upon Being orally bi myself I would like to find other's that welcome this kind of behaviour. Because those of us who get tested regularly are warned about bi guys and the higher risk of sti with them " What if I said I only suck cocks with condoms? This is another issue, people assume we all just go down on it and get going, I am very cautious on what I do, and prefer the safe option over risking my health | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi men? I read lots of post's regarding bisexuality in men, and more often than not it seems to be frowned upon Being orally bi myself I would like to find other's that welcome this kind of behaviour. Because those of us who get tested regularly are warned about bi guys and the higher risk of sti with them " Genuine question. Has that ever been backed up scientifically? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I don't think people are against bi men, but that its just something that doesn't float their boat. There seems to be plenty of people it does appeal to so it might be an idea to look for those that do rather than think about those who don't. " What are you on about?!! Do you mean we should respect and accept we won't appeal to all therefore concentrate on those with similar sexual _iews?!! I've heard it all now! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I quite like bi men especially if it's in a threesome with me " If only I could find another make to join me, I would love to pay you a visit | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I don't have a problem meeting bi men. A few have said they have difficulty meeting single women because they are bi. " I haven't had a problem in the past, but as I'm also a 53 yr old smoker, my target audience is diminishing | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I don't have a problem meeting bi men. A few have said they have difficulty meeting single women because they are bi. " Some really great photography Jo. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"The moment I start to worry about it, I will seek help to cope with the trauma..... " Priceless Love your observations . Our previous post was a genuine one and every time (6 weeks ) we go it's the same .... have you played with any bi men ? And every time we say yes but neither of us do anal andi I'm not even orally bi . But because we go dogging we do meet bi guys . So we have the anal swabs too ..... hey ho ... was just saying .... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi men are aids spreading deviants.... A lot of people like their men to be manly,and alpha as fuck..so the thought of a guy being bummed doesn't fit in with that..although as you,and I are aware a lot of bi men don't do bumming or being bummed..there like you,and I;orally bi " ive been bummed and sucked by lotsa alpha males .. you just never know as most bi guys are secretly bi | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find people who frown on bisexual men to be two faced themselves. I know a few people who claim to be "straight" but have fun with TVs/CDs, but when it comes to meeting a couple, they claim to be all straight and don't want a bisexual partner. " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm bi. Had anyone noticed? " Eeeeek!!!! UNCLEAN!!!!!!!!!!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm bi. Had anyone noticed? Eeeeek!!!! UNCLEAN!!!!!!!!!!! " Possibly, which is why I'm off for a shower. I don't like germs. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm bi. Had anyone noticed? Eeeeek!!!! UNCLEAN!!!!!!!!!!! Possibly, which is why I'm off for a shower. I don't like germs. " I'll lick you clean | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I really don't know why everyone always wants to get so worked up about other peoples preferences (or prejudices if they're that). I don't know why some on here say no bi/gay men and I care even less." give this man a cigar | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I really don't know why everyone always wants to get so worked up about other peoples preferences (or prejudices if they're that). I don't know why some on here say no bi/gay men and I care even less." we don't always agree..... but on this.... absolutely... too many people is preference as a personal dig.... you are not going to be attractive to everyone... so i don't see why so many people try!!! too many spend their time trying to chase those people who won't appeal... as oppose to concentrating on those who would | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I really don't know why everyone always wants to get so worked up about other peoples preferences (or prejudices if they're that). I don't know why some on here say no bi/gay men and I care even less. we don't always agree..... but on this.... absolutely... too many people is preference as a personal dig.... you are not going to be attractive to everyone... so i don't see why so many people try!!! too many spend their time trying to chase those people who won't appeal... as oppose to concentrating on those who would " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I don't think people are against bi men, but that its just something that doesn't float their boat. There seems to be plenty of people it does appeal to so it might be an idea to look for those that do rather than think about those who don't. " This exactly. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I wouldn't want to meet a guy who was bi even if it's just orally bi, wouldn't want to meet anyone that would do sexual things with TV's either. My reasons being men are the best at pleasuring other men, I wouldn't want my skills to be outdone by anyone. " the thing is, you wont know unless they tell you and many wont | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Genuine question. Has that ever been backed up scientifically?" Yes. http://www.cdc.gov/std/life-stages-populations/STDFact-MSM.htm | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi men? I read lots of post's regarding bisexuality in men, and more often than not it seems to be frowned upon " Really? I hadn't noticed... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Well I think bi-guys are absolutely fabulous! ...unless they're not, just like anyone else really!" | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I really don't know why everyone always wants to get so worked up about other peoples preferences (or prejudices if they're that). I don't know why some on here say no bi/gay men and I care even less. we don't always agree..... but on this.... absolutely... " I don't know about that. I find I often agree with a lot of what you say just don't always say so. " too many people is preference as a personal dig.... you are not going to be attractive to everyone... so i don't see why so many people try!!! too many spend their time trying to chase those people who won't appeal... as oppose to concentrating on those who would " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Genuine question. Has that ever been backed up scientifically? Yes. http://www.cdc.gov/std/life-stages-populations/STDFact-MSM.htm" Fair enough. I stand corrected. That does make me understand the preference to not meet bi men. If that's the sole reason it is understandable. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nothing against bi men at all - just doesn't float my boat to have sex with a guy that is into other guys. " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" That said , I find gay men and especially effeminate men repulsive. Funny old world ain't it?!" Wow | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" That said , I find gay men and especially effeminate men repulsive. Funny old world ain't it?! Wow " I thought afterwards my comment might get that reaction. Not the best wording and easily taken out of context. My bad. I meant purely from the sexual attraction aspect, not that they are repulsive as people. Repulsive is also too strong a word | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" That said , I find gay men and especially effeminate men repulsive. Funny old world ain't it?! Wow I thought afterwards my comment might get that reaction. Not the best wording and easily taken out of context. My bad. I meant purely from the sexual attraction aspect, not that they are repulsive as people. Repulsive is also too strong a word" There was nothing wrong with what you put originally. You expressed how you feel. That is your right. The response of wow was wrong. We can't all like the same things as we are reminded daily on these very forums. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" That said , I find gay men and especially effeminate men repulsive. Funny old world ain't it?! Wow I thought afterwards my comment might get that reaction. Not the best wording and easily taken out of context. My bad. I meant purely from the sexual attraction aspect, not that they are repulsive as people. Repulsive is also too strong a word There was nothing wrong with what you put originally. You expressed how you feel. That is your right. The response of wow was wrong. We can't all like the same things as we are reminded daily on these very forums." | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi men are aids spreading deviants.... A lot of people like their men to be manly,and alpha as fuck..so the thought of a guy being bummed doesn't fit in with that..although as you,and I are aware a lot of bi men don't do bumming or being bummed..there like you,and I;orally bi " lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My reasons being men are the best at pleasuring other men" You say that as if it is fact. Far from it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I think some straight men just assume that bi men will pounce on them." Or not as the case may be, I can vouch there are bi men/straight men who love to be pounced on even "bummed " as one post member had wrote, yes I know some woman in the couple relationship don't like bi guys so the " straight" husband usually goes it alone, I am not saying all straight men or bi men enjoy getting it up the bum but there are plenty who like to give it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Genuine question. Has that ever been backed up scientifically? Yes. http://www.cdc.gov/std/life-stages-populations/STDFact-MSM.htm" Swingers.... std free........ | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's those damned personal preferences again. Personally I've rarely encountered any problems. Sure there are a few profiles that state "Straight" as their sexuality, a few Couples that request "No Bi guys", just as there are some that mention "No Smokers". I've chosen Gay on mine as I live & prefer men, but after years on Adult Sites, attending Socials, House Parties & even some Clubs I've had the privilege of meeting a variety of folk, many who've become life long friends & a few select hotties I've played with. It's opened my personal boundaries & theirs, though in truth I've played with a few fems & my first 3some was a FMF. Doesn't make me Bi but I do consider most folks sexuality as fluid & flexible. Thank god for the flexible, open-minded types & not the constricted, inflexible, rigid ones. I've previously arranged & enjoyed MFM's that later expanded to Bi MFM's. Not because the guy was Bi curious but because he felt comfortable. It also turned the hell on for the fems just as a Bi FMF turns on a Str8 lad. So now I can enjoy much more than what I perceived as a far more limited sexuality, particularly if everyone is comfortable, experiencing pleasure & having fun. As for profiles that say Str8 I consider these as an indication & not a very good label at that as I've had numerous invites & mails from Couples. However as I'm very selective I don't accept every offer. That, like those who request "No Bi's" is my choice. There's still plenty of folk on Fab willing to push their boundaries & not be restricted by perceptions on a profile. " Here here im bi and open minded but not one to jump into bed with just anyone i do have self control after all. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Here here im bi and open minded but not one to jump into bed with just anyone i do have self control after all." | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Im not against bisexual men but I am a great believer if men suck another man off or fuck them up their bum even with a dress on, they are bi. No probs its just the ones that wont admit to it I dont like. Because in swinging well proper swinging their should be total honesty regarding sexual preferences or practices. I think thats the same for most of us. Just be honest. Men wont show a veri from a TV or Bi but they veri them why be ashamed to show or admit " So where does leave someone who thinks they're bi-curious, tries it and decides they don't like it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Im not against bisexual men but I am a great believer if men suck another man off or fuck them up their bum even with a dress on, they are bi. No probs its just the ones that wont admit to it I dont like. Because in swinging well proper swinging their should be total honesty regarding sexual preferences or practices. I think thats the same for most of us. Just be honest. Men wont show a veri from a TV or Bi but they veri them why be ashamed to show or admit " What is "proper swinging"? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" That said , I find gay men and especially effeminate men repulsive. Funny old world ain't it?! Wow I thought afterwards my comment might get that reaction. Not the best wording and easily taken out of context. My bad. I meant purely from the sexual attraction aspect, not that they are repulsive as people. Repulsive is also too strong a word There was nothing wrong with what you put originally. You expressed how you feel. That is your right. The response of wow was wrong. We can't all like the same things as we are reminded daily on these very forums." Sorry, but if the original comment is ok, because it's an 'opinion', then the response is also fine, because it's also an opinion. See how it works? Like magic. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |