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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you're browsing and looking at other peoples verifications, do you ever find that they're meeting people of a similar level of attractiveness to themselves, or have you been surprised by some of the people who have been swinging together, as in, someone you'd consider considerably attractive, has met someone you'd consider to be well below their own level of sex appeal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you're browsing and looking at other peoples verifications, do you ever find that they're meeting people of a similar level of attractiveness to themselves, or have you been surprised by some of the people who have been swinging together, as in, someone you'd consider considerably attractive, has met someone you'd consider to be well below their own level of sex appeal?"

No , can't say we have to be honest .

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"When you're browsing and looking at other peoples verifications, do you ever find that they're meeting people of a similar level of attractiveness to themselves, or have you been surprised by some of the people who have been swinging together, as in, someone you'd consider considerably attractive, has met someone you'd consider to be well below their own level of sex appeal?"

Yup, see it all the time. Sex is about more than just looks it seems.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's not as simple as what the photos look like. I'm more taken with the style of pictures so when I see they have met people with very graphic pictures and theirs are very demure I wonder what the opening message was.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"When you're browsing and looking at other peoples verifications, do you ever find that they're meeting people of a similar level of attractiveness to themselves, or have you been surprised by some of the people who have been swinging together, as in, someone you'd consider considerably attractive, has met someone you'd consider to be well below their own level of sex appeal?

Yup, see it all the time. Sex is about more than just looks it seems. "

Thankfully, or I would not have had some of the great meets I have had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bothers me more when someone I'm

Interested in meets someone I think is an idiot lol regardless of what they look like. But personality is key for me, above everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons attractive will be another persons plain. On many occasions I've been out with mates and there's been a nudge and a wink 'phwoar, look at that blonde over there!' and I'm thinking actually I much more prefer her brunette mate.

But I do see where you're coming from OP - certainly the 'hot' ladies seem to have a pick of the 'hot' guys when I do my local searches. There are some women / couples that have caught my eye but I haven't bothered contacting them on the basis of the type of guy that they obviously go for and succeed in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you're browsing and looking at other peoples verifications, do you ever find that they're meeting people of a similar level of attractiveness to themselves, or have you been surprised by some of the people who have been swinging together, as in, someone you'd consider considerably attractive, has met someone you'd consider to be well below their own level of sex appeal?

Yup, see it all the time. Sex is about more than just looks it seems. "

It certainly is , and if you look at swinging it's an opportunity to try different things that you wouldn't necessarily try in vanilla life / relationships .

Because someone may not match your usual aesthetic preference doesn't mean they aren't as sexy as hell in the right environment .

Of course we all have our own boundaries , including looks , but one should never assume that someone who doesn't seem so attractive may not offer carnal delights which may not be available , or as good from the more attractive out there .

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I can't say I've paid it that much attention.

More like "oh, they've met that tit" and perhaps given them more thought

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