FabSwingers.com forum: Negative feed back

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have wrote a couple of posts in the forum now and 80% of the feed back has been negative.

Why do most people get the wrong idea?

Do people feel under pressure if exposed to what is really going on?

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

what people?

What posts?

Whats `really` going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck!! What's really going on?????????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A couple? You've basically managed to insult gays, women, men who meet women, bis, and most others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the tone of your posts. They don't come across well I'm afraid. If you look at some of the terminology you have used you should see why people don't comment positively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?"

Only if it's toffee flavour

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Popcorn?"

I've got salt and sweet in the cupboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple? You've basically managed to insult gays, women, men who meet women, bis, and most others."

Blatantly steals line from Blazing Saddles;

"But not the irish".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?

Only if it's toffee flavour

I can manage that

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I hadn't noticed your posts so I've just had a look to see what's going on. You seem to have insulted just about every sort of person one way or another.

Perhaps read some of the replies and see whether they are really negative or just different to your views?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Pray tell as I have had a week from hell .... and still another day and next week even worse .... need some light relief here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?

I've got salt and sweet in the cupboard "

Ooooh, filthy tease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?"

Yes please. Any chance of a beer too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me think that you have had some bad experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep going, women love a bad boy

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Popcorn?

I've got salt and sweet in the cupboard

Ooooh, filthy tease."

I also have double chocolate cookies and salt and vinegar crisps. And 25p tuna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have wrote a couple of posts in the forum now and 80% of the feed back has been negative.

Why do most people get the wrong idea?

Do people feel under pressure if exposed to what is really going on? "

Preconceived notions is my best estimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your threads and contributions have generally been negative, rude or insulting. Are you surprised?

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

o your the no such thing as tight pussy dude! livin legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o your the no such thing as tight pussy dude! livin legend

And such comedy gold as 'you're bi if you touch cum'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?

Yes please. Any chance of a beer too?

Cider?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?

I've got salt and sweet in the cupboard

Ooooh, filthy tease.

I also have double chocolate cookies and salt and vinegar crisps. And 25p tuna

Ooooh, cookies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simple fact of the forums here is that if you open up a controversial thread, you can be damned sure that you're going to get a number of replies challenging your views.

Negative? Perhaps. Or maybe just different views to yours.

I wouldn't worry about it OP - don't be a sheep, have your own views, but don't be surprised if others challenge you.

If we all thought the same these forums would be a boring place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn?

Yes please. Any chance of a beer too?

Cider?"

Cheers, don't mind if I do. Chin chin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

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By *rc83Man
over a year ago

warrington

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The simple fact of the forums here is that if you open up a controversial thread, you can be damned sure that you're going to get a number of replies challenging your views.

Negative? Perhaps. Or maybe just different views to yours.

I wouldn't worry about it OP - don't be a sheep, have your own views, but don't be surprised if others challenge you.

If we all thought the same these forums would be a boring place!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Am I going to have to read all the threads? I prefer the idea of the Inebriati (Mitchell and Webb).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're getting bad feedback, turn the gain down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Am I going to have to read all the threads? I prefer the idea of the Inebriati (Mitchell and Webb). "

Read them, they're illuminating....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Am I going to have to read all the threads? I prefer the idea of the Inebriati (Mitchell and Webb).

Read them, they're illuminating...."

So punny of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I'm a bit behind the times and haven't been spending so much time in the forums recently. Just done a 'green arrow' and you are such a naughty boy OP!

Good work fella - not quite trolling but definitely a wind-up merchant and a lot of fishing going on! Quite amusing in places and so many people are taking the bait ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Am I going to have to read all the threads? I prefer the idea of the Inebriati (Mitchell and Webb).

Read them, they're illuminating....

So punny of you

I'm a punny guy. Not a penny ghey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP just likes kicking the hornets nest and seeing what happens? He's quite talented at getting a rise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Am I going to have to read all the threads? I prefer the idea of the Inebriati (Mitchell and Webb).

Read them, they're illuminating....

So punny of you

I'm a punny guy. Not a penny ghey."

Penny for the ghey guv'ner?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I think the OP just likes kicking the hornets nest and seeing what happens? He's quite talented at getting a rise. "

Eh, whatever gets him hard for a while.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Is that the new word for 'clique'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate to say it, OP, but I think it might be because of the illuminati

Am I going to have to read all the threads? I prefer the idea of the Inebriati (Mitchell and Webb).

Read them, they're illuminating....

So punny of you

I'm a punny guy. Not a penny ghey.

Penny for the ghey guv'ner?"

Cor blimey Mary Poppins......

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

The OP has done the straight men of fab a great service by pointing out the possible dangers of catching the Ghey from sloppy seconds. For that alone he should be applauded.

C...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The OP has done the straight men of fab a great service by pointing out the possible dangers of catching the Ghey from sloppy seconds. For that alone he should be applauded.

C..."

Also his post on loose fannies made me realise I really need to restart my pelvic floor exercises. I was wondering why I never felt cocks when they went in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the OP just likes kicking the hornets nest and seeing what happens? He's quite talented at getting a rise. "

That's my take after a brief read through of previous topics

Let's just throw a hand grenade in and see what carnage ensues...

Surely? Right??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to risk the wrath of all here, I've read just about everything the op has posted. Believe me, no mean feat. I was bored, what can I tell you.

Is it possible that English isn't his first language and a lot of the meaning is lost in translation, combined with being a bit of a wind up merchant could explain a lot.

Are we too harsh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP has done the straight men of fab a great service by pointing out the possible dangers of catching the Ghey from sloppy seconds. For that alone he should be applauded.

C...

Also his post on loose fannies made me realise I really need to restart my pelvic floor exercises. I was wondering why I never felt cocks when they went in."

You could start asking for cock pics...im pretty sure you dont get sent enough...and take the sky remote ones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing: most people you say have given you negative feedback. Yet you say that they have the wrong idea.

Maybe sometimes the majority isn't wrong.

Could you maybe be wrong sometimes?

Have you considered that and changed an opinion or an approach?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we too harsh?

Yes. But thats not going to change.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to risk the wrath of all here, I've read just about everything the op has posted. Believe me, no mean feat. I was bored, what can I tell you.

Is it possible that English isn't his first language and a lot of the meaning is lost in translation, combined with being a bit of a wind up merchant could explain a lot.

Are we too harsh?

I've just read through a handful of threads started by the OP.

I think that his use of language is unclear at times, whether that is because of ESOL or something else isn't clear. If it's ESOL then his language is much better than some with English as a first language on here.

The post and run style on the threads I looked at made me wonder about the motive. However, a recent post on a thread states that Obi's response is what the thread question was about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to risk the wrath of all here, I've read just about everything the op has posted. Believe me, no mean feat. I was bored, what can I tell you.

Is it possible that English isn't his first language and a lot of the meaning is lost in translation, combined with being a bit of a wind up merchant could explain a lot.

Are we too harsh?

I think you're right which is why I take his posts with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A couple? You've basically managed to insult gays, women, men who meet women, bis, and most others."

I never insulted any one when did I insult gay people? see what I mean by not reading properly and misunderstanding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to risk the wrath of all here, I've read just about everything the op has posted. Believe me, no mean feat. I was bored, what can I tell you.

Is it possible that English isn't his first language and a lot of the meaning is lost in translation, combined with being a bit of a wind up merchant could explain a lot.

Are we too harsh?

I think you're right which is why I take his posts with a pinch of salt."

Some of the OP's posts suggest a different cultural and religious bias. Like old world beliefs in how women should behave.

In my mind I picture missionaries taking "religion" and highly moralistic views to the old world to help "educate" the masses.

I'm not sure I've explained that image very well and genuinly hope it doesn't come across as racist, really not my intention.

It's not that long ago that we didn't let women run in athletics meetings because men thought they'd faint......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple? You've basically managed to insult gays, women, men who meet women, bis, and most others.

I never insulted any one when did I insult gay people? see what I mean by not reading properly and misunderstanding? "

I haven't noticed you being insulting.

I just quickly skim read some of your threads and you didn't say much of anything. Other people jumped to conclusions which then made the thread dive bomb.

But you didn't actually say what everyone else inferred you were saying. So I am confused.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The responses we get to our communication say something about both the recipients and the communicator. Whilst the forums are probably not the ideal places to learn communications abc, the key thing is that if you're the recurrent theme, then it's easier to direct the change at one person than to everyone else.

If one's behaviour isn't working as intended, behave differently, in other words.

People normally adjust their behaviour according to circumstances and setting. if the ops finding this hard, he could consider empathising with others, observing how people here behave spending time reviewing what he's written, before submitting his posts.

It all depends on what you're trying to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o your the no such thing as tight pussy dude! livin legend

And such comedy gold as 'you're bi if you touch cum'"

I now seek out these posts for the sheer comedy of them

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I have wrote a couple of posts in the forum now and 80% of the feed back has been negative. "

80%.... okay have to admit i am surprised.... thought it would be higher than that given the way you have been on an "insult everyone firebombing spree"....

"Why do most people get the wrong idea? "

people getting the wrong idea of what... they you are correct and the masses are wrong....

"Do people feel under pressure if exposed to what is really going on? "

I think the only thing exposed is the general ignorance you display at times, thats not a shot at you but more of an observation... funny, but pretty scary.....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Man throws hand grenade into room. Gets upset when not invited back for Christmas dinner following year. True story.

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