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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone get off being spoken to or about in a vulgar way. Do you enjoy being called a dirty bitch or your lady parts before referred to as a C**t (I cant even type that word).

Im not keen on vulgar language whilst having sex. There are certain things I will say, I do say fuck me to my guy when Im really turned on but i wouldnt say it to a guy I was swinging with. I think its a trust and being comfortable with someone issue.

However if a guy said to me that he wanted to pump my c**t hard or said anything else vulgar, i would be instantly turned off. Does it do anything for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at thing. Totally switches me off too.

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

no i always ask if i can put my wee wee in your front bottom but when i say it to becky she says oh shut up and fuck me so i just cannot win with females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*nods*

in the bedroom might be a different matter....if i give the man the impression it's ok....but don't message me calling me it.

and never call me a whore...ever.....or i'll charge you!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i dont mind being called names whilst having sex and dont mind the odd cunt being dropped in lol

i dontlike the word spunk for some reason that puts me off people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't be appropriate for men to use vulgar language when playing with me. I however, can call them what I like.

That said, I seldom use vulgar language...it doesn't do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind dirty talk, and I dont mind being called names, but the word slag sends me off the deep end. Im always clear that, that word should never be used, so far no one has!

'pump my cunt', from they 3 words, its pump that leaves me cold.

But messages are different, vulgar messages, I ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind dirty talk, and I dont mind being called names, but the word slag sends me off the deep end. Im always clear that, that word should never be used, so far no one has!

'pump my cunt', from they 3 words, its pump that leaves me cold.

But messages are different, vulgar messages, I ignore."

I'm not really bothered about any of the others mentioned in the heat of the moment type thing,though minge does nothing for me and gash is even worse EEEUUWWW!

But "slag" and slut would definitely put us on the back foot.

Me if I was called them and Ric if he heard anyone call me them.

T

XXX

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

does nowt for me.

potty mouth is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to divulge. It's so vulgar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation for me.. if anyone else even called me a slut, Master would go off the deep end.. yet if Master does it and far worse it arouses me in a way I can not begin to describe..

I can also have a completely foul mouth on me when I want to have.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with partner it's whatever turns us both on.

when swinging it is inappropriate. although if a swinging partner is unable to sense my pressing need I may ask them if they would like to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it if someone starts it, but you do have to be fairly comfortable with someone. I wouldn't just start saying things unless I knew it was ok because as can be seen by some of the replies some people dont like it at all, and some that do like it have certain words they dont like, so I'd probably check first.

Re me though, theres not really any words that put me off, but I dont really like it if someone tries the old humiliation stuff. Just not my thing.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

guys are easily confused,so when it comes to females,we have no chance.what works today,wont work tomorrow.i never try to work out what a female is thinking,because by the time i do,they will have changed thier minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a fan of "dirty" talk, and was put off by it while I was having phone sex with a gent.

Each to their own at the end of the day though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like being called derogatory names it's a real turn off. Things like slut, c**t whore are no no's. But nothing wrong with naughty talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont mind being called names whilst having sex and dont mind the odd cunt being dropped in lol

i dontlike the word spunk for some reason that puts me off people "

SPUNK ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I prefer playmates to treat me respectfully. I dont mind talk but rather they say, your pussy's gorgeous, i have to taste you rather than i want to lick your c**t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think i would struggle to use certain words, i.e c--t. i would be too embarassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dirty talk for me is in the same realms as role play...personally with the right person i find it a massive turn on..the filthier the better as far as im concerned.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"guys are easily confused,so when it comes to females,we have no chance.what works today,wont work tomorrow.i never try to work out what a female is thinking,because by the time i do,they will have changed thier minds. "

lol love it....and so true.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"i dont mind being called names whilst having sex and dont mind the odd cunt being dropped in lol

i dontlike the word spunk for some reason that puts me off people

SPUNK ? "

Oh I love that word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

~Generally, vulgarity is not our thing... but of course the odd '...fucking hell! and '... ooh, fuck me, that's it...' kind of thing slips out, in the throes.

But we met a couple whose wife got off on being called a C**t (in an abusive way) by her husband!

We never understood that, but each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy once that liked to talk his way through the entire deed. Oooh yeah baby I'm stroking you thats so good....mmmm sliding my fingers in....you want me to fuck you? oh yeah I'm gonna fuck you so hard...you ready...

I had to end it with him as it just made me cringe so much! The odd thing here & there is great, but a running commentary? NO!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Does anyone get off being spoken to or about in a vulgar way. Do you enjoy being called a dirty bitch or your lady parts before referred to as a C**t (I cant even type that word).

Im not keen on vulgar language whilst having sex. There are certain things I will say, I do say fuck me to my guy when Im really turned on but i wouldnt say it to a guy I was swinging with. I think its a trust and being comfortable with someone issue.

However if a guy said to me that he wanted to pump my c**t hard or said anything else vulgar, i would be instantly turned off. Does it do anything for you?

"

No not really.

When I first met the OH though I had never sworn , and when we had sex for the first time the old "fuck me" and fucking hell " turned up. To be honest I hadn't noticed I had said them but it turned him on no end....but although he likes me being dirty and shocking him, I think he would draw the line at me speaking about a pussy being called a c*** etc.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I met a guy once that liked to talk his way through the entire deed. Oooh yeah baby I'm stroking you thats so good....mmmm sliding my fingers in....you want me to fuck you? oh yeah I'm gonna fuck you so hard...you ready...

I had to end it with him as it just made me cringe so much! The odd thing here & there is great, but a running commentary? NO!!! "

Oh yeah baby, I'm winking at you... oh yeah baby I've mailed you...ohhh, baby you've looked at my profile.........ya feckin' bitch you blocked me!!!

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Lol, looks like I am in the minority... I am not normally one for swearing but when a guy hits the right spot my language turns blue... the better the sex the worse the language gets. But I can be quiet if the situation requires it!! (Jem xxx)

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

And in the right situation will the right person I quite like being sworn at.... xxx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I had a girlfriend once who used to pant and say 'ooooohhhhhhh' (or variants of) all the way through a shag. She only swore occasionally. I felt a bit like being on a porn shoot! The odd 'fuck me baby' was okay (if a little corny) but the rest of it was off putting to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not a fan of "dirty" talk, and was put off by it while I was having phone sex with a gent.

Each to their own at the end of the day though. "

"gent"????

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