FabSwingers.com forum: Not meeting profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have had this, gets to the point where i would say, oh is it ok to chat to the wife.

Go back on bit later messages or profile deleted.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ? "

Are you?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

Are you? "

No. Are you ?

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

Are you?

No. Are you ?"

A perfect example of what spoils so much of the forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lovely lady is on holiday in a couple of weeks does that mean I can stay or do I have to come off the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people can.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Is there a set number of times or number of people couples or anyone else should meet? Surely it is up to anyone on the site to decide when and where ... or is your point that these are not really couples?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm not meeting but won't hide my profile because I don't want to and I don't have to. There really is no other answer required than that.

I do think perhaps there could be a flag on a profile, like the verification one, to say whether or not people are actively looking for meets etc to help people pass on by though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no rules for how to run profiles, apart from the ones set by admin.

There are annoying things that people do on here. If it suits them its fine, if it's too annoying then that's what block buttons are for!

I mean your forum posts and comments are generally rude and sexist and aggressive so I blocked you. Its how you choose to be and how you run your fab profile. Not everyone likes it but you are free to do what you will, within the site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

Doesn't matter whether I am avaiable or not. I chose who, when and whether I meet. I run my profile for me nobody else. If people don't like that I could not give a flying fuck!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

Perhaps your question might be better if addressed to the people who you're talking about?

Fakes only exist if there are mugs around to feed from.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We don't arrange meets and that is clearly stated in our profile....don't see anything wrong with that other than people not reading this and then messaging us to arrange meets. Flik has also been away working this week...are you suggesting I should hide my profile during this period??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

Are you? "

If I was you'd be well and truly nicked my old sunshine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should stop by ours and Nick me then.

I habit the forums by myself, Mrs N rarely bothers. We meet once in a blue moon.

Bye all, it's been emotional. Am just off to press the UNLOS buttons to satisfy the OP

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I dont show I am available. Couldnt be clearer that I am not meeting. Just read peoples profiles..

Easy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont show I am available. Couldnt be clearer that I am not meeting. Just read peoples profiles..

Easy really

You should follow us and go UNLOS then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to wind people up and lead them on..

Actually my profile my choices and I make it quite clear no one is getting anywhere with me. If they take offence that I'm here tough luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest there are a lot of people who come on here guns blazing ready to fuck their way to heaven and end up making a total arse of themselves. I think there's a case to be made for people joining, having a look round, asking questions, and getting a feel for how this whole swinging thing works. It can compliment a general opening up to the whole idea.

All good things come to those who wait

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

My husband is watching Big Bang Theory so I am playing here by myself just now.......not on holiday or out so I guess I am rebelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a profile up and active doesn't mean you aren't looking, you may already have a circle of friends you play with.

Or you only meet in clubs

Or your personal circumstances don't allow for meets but you like chatting to friends and on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

Doesn't matter whether I am avaiable or not. I chose who, when and whether I meet. I run my profile for me nobody else. If people don't like that I could not give a flying fuck!"

You could give a flying fuck if you had some red bull... it gives you wings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want to meet men, only women and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting anyone other than those in my friends list and have no intention of hiding my profile!!!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Because I don't want to meet men, only women and couples "

yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the feeling this is a case of "whaaaa noone wants to me the it must be because everyone is fake or not meeting"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people want different things from fab. As is the case with life.

If someone that catches your eye has stated that they aren't meeting just accept it. There's bugger all you can do about it, and moaning about it on the forum will just put some of those that are meeting off you as negativity is unattractive.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

Maybe they took your advice and stopped having sex with men and dildos so that they weren't "disrespecting" themselves by being banged out with a loose cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure this was all covered by yesterday's "why are people here if they don't want to fuck me" thread.

Has this site been advertised somewhere, creating a new batch of people with false expectations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Fakes only exist if there are mugs around to feed from.

True.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure this was all covered by yesterday's "why are people here if they don't want to fuck me" thread.

Has this site been advertised somewhere, creating a new batch of people with false expectations? "

I think so. Obviously next to an advert for 'contact hot horny housewifes in your area for instant sex meets'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available? "

Logged on = available for sex.

Didn't you know that? Its in the T&Cs.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

We should do what we want our profile as not meeting why shouldnt we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people paid more attention to to their own profiles and let others do as they wish with theirs life would be so much simplesss

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

Logged on = available for sex.

Didn't you know that? Its in the T&Cs. "

What about if you are in stealth mode?!?!?!?!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

Logged on = available for sex.

Didn't you know that? Its in the T&Cs.

What about if you are in stealth mode?!?!?!?!

That's cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

Logged on = available for sex.

Didn't you know that? Its in the T&Cs. "

ah I see.....

Well I have a disclaimer ~ I'm only available to the people I want to be available too.

Actually eveyone has that, it's called ~ choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit! I'm online.....does that mean I'm supposed to be available?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit! I'm online.....does that mean I'm supposed to be available?

Yes , get ya knickers off and legs spread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

Logged on = available for sex.

Didn't you know that? Its in the T&Cs. "

We all know that NOBODY reads the terms and conditions but ticks the 'i have read and agree to them' box...

Small print?? Ain't nobody got time fo' dat

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"They should stop by ours and Nick me then.

I habit the forums by myself, Mrs N rarely bothers. We meet once in a blue moon.

Bye all, it's been emotional. Am just off to press the UNLOS buttons to satisfy the OP

Are you us in disguise?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

what is it about 'their profile, their choice' that you OP like others are unable to comprehend..

do you again like others with the same mindset address other people in daily life who dont live their life as you deem appropriate..?

try adopting the same stance eg in a pub or a restaurant for those who are not eating and drinking as you do..

oh no that would be proper fucking stupid would it not..

so why with this aspect..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They should stop by ours and Nick me then.

I habit the forums by myself, Mrs N rarely bothers. We meet once in a blue moon.

Bye all, it's been emotional. Am just off to press the UNLOS buttons to satisfy the OP

Are you us in disguise?

Yeah. We're the fake version

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

Are you?

No. Are you ?

A perfect example of what spoils so much of the forum...

No, are you?

I asked if you are?

I asked first

Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

Are you?

No. Are you ?

A perfect example of what spoils so much of the forum...

No, are you?

I asked if you are?

I asked first

Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah

or nee nor nee nor..

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

Logged on = available for sex.

Didn't you know that? Its in the T&Cs.

What about if you are in stealth mode?!?!?!?!

That's cheating

Nahhhhhh check out the rules!!!!! Page 74, rule 1872

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest there are a lot of people who come on here guns blazing ready to fuck their way to heaven and end up making a total arse of themselves. I think there's a case to be made for people joining, having a look round, asking questions, and getting a feel for how this whole swinging thing works. It can compliment a general opening up to the whole idea.

All good things come to those who wait

And good things also come to those who don't too . Hopefully we don't come into the arsehole category

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've hidden the fact I'm not meeting at the moment, it's on the 1st line of my profile and we all know no one reads that far down

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available? "

I was going to ask this!

OP could you please clarify?

If someone's profile has 'not meeting' and they have a meet post up, a status asking for meets or they're in the forums/chatroom obviously asking for a meet? I see your confusion.

If none of the above apply - and it's says not meeting anywhere on their profile I can't really see why you're feeling confused, misled or concerned - and how their 'not meeting' status is affecting you in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If people are not meeting then why show that your available?

Couple profiles with just the guy and women always on holiday or out needs to stop. lol

What are you people playing at?

What do you mean "why show that you're available"? What do you mean by available?

I was going to ask this!

OP could you please clarify?

If someone's profile has 'not meeting' and they have a meet post up, a status asking for meets or they're in the forums/chatroom obviously asking for a meet? I see your confusion.

That is what I was trying to say. Thanks.

I was not trying to be negative. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it couples profiles or singles too ? As mine is single and I'm not meeting at moment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you Mr Stephens? Head of catering?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

What an individual has on their profile is up to them at the end of the day. You can have an opinion on it if you wish but that is all. Whether a person's meeting, not meeting or flying to the moon Thursday week, has nothing to do with anyone other than the person who's profile it is.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

"They are running their profile how they wish.

Are you the profile police ?

Are you?

No. Are you ?"

Am i ? No . Is it anyone of you forumers ? Own up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP didn't tell anyone how to have their profiles. He merely asked a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP didn't tell anyone how to have their profiles. He merely asked a question. "

Exactly

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