FabSwingers.com forum: hardest thing about this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same problem when you get older mate, I had loads but when people leave you loose their verifications so you go back to square one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here "

In most cases it just proves they are real and do actually meet people, I don't read to much into them myself sometimes just to see they type of Men they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not all about veris, many do meet unverifieds as well..... just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris aren't to brag about sexual prowess,just to confirm he/she is real and they do actually turn up. Detailed ones are a bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

It's nothing to do with your age or lack of verifications. Focus on what you can influence not what you can't

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

Cry some more, you need at least a paddling pool full of tears before you get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first guys I met on here I met them because they didn't have any verifications. Verifications only put me off if I'm honest because if I look at who they've met 9 times out of 10 they'll be buzzing and I judge him for having no standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hardest thing about this site is my husbands cock.

Boom boom

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Well I joined here when I was 38. It was hard to get that break for me too.

Just use the site tools and treat people with respect and you'll get there.

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade

"The first guys I met on here I met them because they didn't have any verifications. Verifications only put me off if I'm honest because if I look at who they've met 9 times out of 10 they'll be buzzing and I judge him for having no standards. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here "

Would you display a bad one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Would you display a bad one ? "
They all lasts for hours on the good ones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest thing about this site is my husbands cock.

Boom boom

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Try being TS ...have awesome meets at times but because of society's take on my kind some guys are to scared to verri you, which I understand as they will struggle with other meets,kiss of death.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

How many socials have you been to?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd meet you

BUT

I'm too old and too far away. Good luck OP.

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

People will meet without veris.

Also people with veris can be timewasters/fakes too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Would you display a bad one ? "

I did. It was my favourite verification.

The worst thing about this site is the failure of the teleportation system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not all about veris, many do meet unverifieds as well..... just saying

I have to agree. I've had a few meets where, even after leaving a veri myself, I haven't had one in return.

I don't place too much weight on how many, or how recent someone has had a verification.

After all, the sole purpose of verifications is to prove that the person / people are real and actually turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely all the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to decide which pictures to take and in what order.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

The hardest thing about this site

All the erections

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Same problem when you get older mate, I had loads but when people leave you loose their verifications so you go back to square one."

They would still be on the summary though.. That number stays even when the person leaves site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. I would meet you but I'm too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not all about veris, many do meet unverifieds as well..... just saying

I have to agree. I've had a few meets where, even after leaving a veri myself, I haven't had one in return.

I don't place too much weight on how many, or how recent someone has had a verification.

After all, the sole purpose of verifications is to prove that the person / people are real and actually turn up"
Yes that's right, I also meet one 3 years ago here but she didn't leave a veri its not all about veris here, its about having fun to.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Would you display a bad one ? "

Exactly!

Duh!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Would you display a bad one ?

Exactly!

Duh!"

I had a couple on a previous website

I displayed them

Just to confirm I'm NOT perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met unverified - as i say someone has to see them first and we were all there at one time - nobody is obliged to write a veri either

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By *nywayupMan
over a year ago

derby

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

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they should of called it no single males .....I have no faith in the site till I get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same problem when you get older mate, I had loads but when people leave you loose their verifications so you go back to square one."

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

they should of called it no single males .....I have no faith in the site till I get a meet "

Plenty of single males get meets on this site.

You just have to work on getting a decent profile and sending polite messages having read their profile. Eventually that works, but you're not automatically entitled to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here "

Exactly this

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Exactly this

As pointed out a couple of messages ago, nobody is likely to display a bad one....that's why there aren't any.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest thing about this site is my husbands cock.

Boom boom

very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've left a few bad ones. Person hasn't displayed them, but shows on their summary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in answer to the Op's question, singles leading people on, giving false details about themselves. Sometimes resulting in angry girlfriends/wives contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Exactly this

As pointed out a couple of messages ago, nobody is likely to display a bad one....that's why there aren't any....."

Nobody would leave a bad one - agree

What if the person didn't want to leave one at all instead of leaving a bad one ie no verifications at all ??

Ooooooppps OP doesn't have any

Verifications are simply that, they verify the person will turn up, and you will survive the encounter to tell the tale. A must to ensure the safety of single lady's - wouldn't you say ??

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

"Op. I would meet you but I'm too old

age is just numbers

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here

Exactly this

As pointed out a couple of messages ago, nobody is likely to display a bad one....that's why there aren't any.....

Nobody would leave a bad one - agree

What if the person didn't want to leave one at all instead of leaving a bad one ie no verifications at all ??

Ooooooppps OP doesn't have any

Verifications are simply that, they verify the person will turn up, and you will survive the encounter to tell the tale. A must to ensure the safety of single lady's - wouldn't you say ?? "

Exactly.

Veris are not about lurid details or unmitigated praise so much as providing some reassurance that the guy actually turns up, just as the veri for a woman shows that it is actually a woman....

Not guaranteed of course but helpful in the overall process of selection...better than no veris at all.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Op. I would meet you but I'm too old

age is just numbers

Yeah but its the OPs preference to not meet people over 38, therefore I would not contact him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, gimme your bike, or at least let me ride on the back lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Dont worry OP it's not about the quantity of the veri, it's about the quality of the veri

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I thought veris were for telling other people to treat the person with respect because we're all inconsiderate arseholes with no manners

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

The hardest thing on this site is trying to decipher all of the text speak that we get in messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest thing on this site is trying to decipher all of the text speak that we get in messages."

Very true

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

Not necessarily so.....everyone had no verifications at some point but managed to get meets.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

Not necessarily so.....everyone had no verifications at some point but managed to get meets. "

I got my first veri 10 mins after joining. the joy of being well known on multiple swinging sites

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocks

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications. "

No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life."

Well that's all good then! Anyway, you look rather lush.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.

Well that's all good then! Anyway, you look rather lush.

Fancy a shag?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.

Well that's all good then! Anyway, you look rather lush.

Fancy a shag?

PS Can't respond to messages at the mo

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

"The hardest thing on this site is trying to decipher all of the text speak that we get in messages."

not entirely true if you understand the concept of shorthand writing, they are similar in a way and quite futuristic.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life."

Sorry OP meant to post this on another post. Whoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male

Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol

Tbh the profile is doing you more harm than the lack of veries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. I would meet you but I'm too old

age is just numbers

So you'd happily meet a 101 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same problem when you get older mate, I had loads but when people leave you loose their verifications so you go back to square one."

But your summary still keeps a record of them all. So all the verifications you have collected (in over 5 years?) are there on your summary. So all of the loads you had are still showing.?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I have met guys who did not have any verifications and who even now, only have the one verification on their profile; mine

Verifications are more useful when meeting a woman or a woman who is a part of a couple. These confirm that they are the sex they claim to be as there are too many men here pretending to be women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuck Norris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately veri's don't always mean they will turn up!!!! I've had guys with veri's not turn up. It's all a load of c**p if you ask me.

I've chatted with some guys who choose not to display veri's because they are embarrassed by who left them!!!

Doesn't really say much for the whole veri system really tbh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.

Well that's all good then! Anyway, you

look rather lush.

Fancy a shag?

Brazen Hussey!!

Of course I do!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"The hardest thing on this site is trying to decipher all of the text speak that we get in messages.

not entirely true if you understand the concept of shorthand writing, they are similar in a way and quite futuristic. "

I don't understand shorthand and neither do the people that send us messages I would suspect....I wouldn't call it futuristic, more lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest thing about this site is my husbands cock.

Boom boom

Mine can get pretty hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chuck Norris

Norris from Corrie? I'm almost certain he's single.

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