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why do guys wink at me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm straight nothing against gay guys but why send me winks? I'm straight its not gonna go any where. Does this ever work for then :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because more guys fancy a piece of another guy than care to mention it.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Just take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight nothing against gay guys but why send me winks? I'm straight its not gonna go any where. Does this ever work for then :/"

Some guys say straight on their profile but are open to more depending on the context, so I'm sure gay or bi guys are happy to send a wink just in case. Can't see the harm in it myself.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I'm straight nothing against gay guys but why send me winks? I'm straight its not gonna go any where. Does this ever work for then :/

Some guys say straight on their profile but are open to more depending on the context, so I'm sure gay or bi guys are happy to send a wink just in case. Can't see the harm in it myself."

This and just wait til you've been on longer..... You'll catch the ghey too

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Kevin..I am attracted to str8 blokes and many of them love their cock sucked...maybe a warm mouth is genderless and ageless (must put my teeth back in lol)

Like previous sender said a lot of denial also is happening..

You flattered? You can use the filters to stop it..

Ps..Fancy a bj?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm straight nothing against gay guys but why send me winks? I'm straight its not gonna go any where. Does this ever work for then :/

Some guys say straight on their profile but are open to more depending on the context, so I'm sure gay or bi guys are happy to send a wink just in case. Can't see the harm in it myself."

Not saying there's any harm in it just wondered why they done it that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just take it as a compliment"

I do lol don't take it offensive at all

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Think it's just to show appreciation of ur profile , it's like winking someone at the other end of the country, very unlikely to meet but it shows they've been noticed , I'm flattered by any winks , its a confidence booster .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because far too many guys are curious but at the same time afraid to state so, for a variety of reasons. It therefore becomes the norm for bi/gay guys to assume that a 'straight guy' might not be straight, as daft as that sounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get winked at a lot by men, I have no idea why...the site is full of winkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winked at a lot by men, I have no idea why...the site is full of winkers."

I must admit I misread that!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Is it really all that complicated?

You get winked (without the a) by anyone and it simply means you look good!

I'm sure The Rock doesn't ever think "I wish other guys wouldn't appreciate how I look!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was generally just wondering why ain't got anything wrong with it lol winks are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it be worse if you were getting nothing?

Take the compliment!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I need a _oasted cheese sandwich!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn't it be worse if you were getting nothing?

Take the compliment! "

I suppose it would ye

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kevin..I am attracted to str8 blokes and many of them love their cock sucked...maybe a warm mouth is genderless and ageless (must put my teeth back in lol)

Like previous sender said a lot of denial also is happening..

You flattered? You can use the filters to stop it..

Ps..Fancy a bj? "

Lmfao hahaha no thanks for the offer tho loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's constant mate I just take the compliment if dudes are looking so are the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are your friend OP.

You can prevent all single men from messaging / winking you

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Kevin..I am attracted to str8 blokes and many of them love their cock sucked...maybe a warm mouth is genderless and ageless (must put my teeth back in lol)

Like previous sender said a lot of denial also is happening..

You flattered? You can use the filters to stop it..

Ps..Fancy a bj?

Lmfao hahaha no thanks for the offer tho loo"

Damn I was just gonna offer you one too

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I get winked at a lot by men, I have no idea why...the site is full of winkers."

Have you really no idea why??

Private msg me and I will tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kevin..I am attracted to str8 blokes and many of them love their cock sucked...maybe a warm mouth is genderless and ageless (must put my teeth back in lol)

Like previous sender said a lot of denial also is happening..

You flattered? You can use the filters to stop it..

Ps..Fancy a bj?

Lmfao hahaha no thanks for the offer tho loo

Damn I was just gonna offer you one too "

I'll take one of u anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winked at a lot by men, I have no idea why...the site is full of winkers.

Have you really no idea why??

Private msg me and I will tell you"

I've got a pretty big idea really. ps thanks for the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get winks from them all the time. I guess they don't read the profile lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

What I don't understand is why straight blokes who don't want attention of other blokes haven't changes their settings and filters so single guys can't message or wink at them?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Should say....

*the attention of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winks from them all the time. I guess they don't read the profile lol "

Its not just Men that don't read the profile, I get winks from Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't understand is why straight blokes who don't want attention of other blokes haven't changes their settings and filters so single guys can't message or wink at them?"
Because we chat on the forum with men, couples or women in pm on different subjects so that's why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winks from them all the time. I guess they don't read the profile lol

Its not just Men that don't read the profile, I get winks from Women"
lol yes or them. I don't mind wink from women

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"What I don't understand is why straight blokes who don't want attention of other blokes haven't changes their settings and filters so single guys can't message or wink at them?"

Like most men they want their cake and eat it..They like the attention really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't understand is why straight blokes who don't want attention of other blokes haven't changes their settings and filters so single guys can't message or wink at them?

Like most men they want their cake and eat it..They like the attention really"

Have had some great convos with blokes. I've also had some blatant offers. It's neither flattering nor annoying to me. It just occurs. Explain your have your cake and eat it statement please.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I'm straight nothing against gay guys but why send me winks? I'm straight its not gonna go any where. Does this ever work for then :/

Some guys say straight on their profile but are open to more depending on the context, so I'm sure gay or bi guys are happy to send a wink just in case. Can't see the harm in it myself.

This and just wait til you've been on longer..... You'll catch the ghey too "

It's a little like being in prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just letting you know they would happily plough the shit out of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way I look at it as a compliment. As much as the ladies winking my monkey.

Even before I realised I was bi.

Nothing wrong with it.

Take it in the spirit it's meant, you don't have to wink back.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It could just be the virtual equivalent of that old nudge, nudge, wink, wink Monty Python sketch. Why not wink back just to see what happens? Or start a conversation to ask why they winked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't help myself Kevin.

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