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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you with you could do differently if possible ?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Fuck instead of forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't have gone to uni, it was fun but it wasn't the right time for me and really didn't help.

Wish I'd come straight to this place would also have been roughly 250k better off from the wages I would have earned from 16.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many things i've done in my life, choices i've made that most would think that I would regret, but the truth is, I regret nothing.

Not even the relationship I had with the psychopathic bitch from hell.

Even though I suffered 5 years of emotional and psychological abuse from her, I have two wonderful children as a result of the relationship, and so to say I regret being with her would, in my mind, be equal to say that I regret my children.

And I can't do that.

Everything that I've done and been thrpugh is what has shaped me into who I am today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many....why I drink

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

I have a few. but then again to few to mention

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not messaging a lady on here before she became unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not messaging a lady on here before she became unlos "

I'm still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not messaging a lady on here before she became unlos

I'm still here "

I did but came back.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If I had the opportunity to change anything, the chances are it would have been a short term gain which would have led me away from the contentment that I have now.

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was not playing with just v earlier. Morning V. 4th looking good. Same deal on hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was not playing with just v earlier. Morning V. 4th looking good. Same deal on hotel?"

Of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chosen my ex over swinging. Anyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would of? Could of? Should of? Life's regrets are our own futures solutions, as long as we don't forget. For me, I hurt someone recently that I really like, I would like to change that

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I regret not having any regrets

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By *untimetonks69Couple
over a year ago

IRVING

Have too much of the ghey on me I've changed so many men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is to short for regrets!!!!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is to short for regrets!!!!

X"

That's my philosophy too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Je ne regrette rien.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I regret not pushing my mum harder to get checked out when she was swelling up - I knew what was wrong and didn't push hard enough fast enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying yes to seperate rooms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret not keeping the weight off when I lost loads

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

getting job really wanted taking exam again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had cut my parents off much earlier in my life than I did. And similarly I wish I'd moved away from Birmingham years before I did.

That said I'm happy with my lot right now so it's all worked out in the end

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

As much as I would like to say I wouldn't change anything (as I think it shapes who we are) - Not even the abusive relationship or the years of staying with someone who made me unhappy, there is ONE thing I'd like to change in relation to the birth of my Son. I'd go back and give the midwives and surgical staff a kick up the arse.

- Amy. x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

its a tough one as I had one friend where he permanently went on about what he regretted not doing to the point he had to see a councillor over it.

Its not good for your well being to regret what you cant change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many things i've done in my life, choices i've made that most would think that I would regret, but the truth is, I regret nothing.

Not even the relationship I had with the psychopathic bitch from hell.

Even though I suffered 5 years of emotional and psychological abuse from her, I have two wonderful children as a result of the relationship, and so to say I regret being with her would, in my mind, be equal to say that I regret my children.

And I can't do that.

Everything that I've done and been thrpugh is what has shaped me into who I am today"
Stop on, the same for me mate.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have no regrets.

I've made a lot of mistakes and fucked off a lot of people, but there's no point worrying about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feels like most regrets although at the time was a huge mistake we have used do shape the people we are now. And I think we are all happy as we are right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shouldn't have gone to uni, it was fun but it wasn't the right time for me and really didn't help.

Wish I'd come straight to this place would also have been roughly 250k better off from the wages I would have earned from 16."

What did you study, did you pass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much i regret. Too many early deaths, miscarriages, pain and heartbreak.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not getting off my backside sooner and realising that waiting for and pandering to everyone else's wants will not get me anywhere.

So much wasted time caused by worrying about everyone else and putting their views of how I should be living my life before my own.

Oh well, I can't change my past but I'm going to have a bloody good go at not wasting my future!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feels like most regrets although at the time was a huge mistake we have used do shape the people we are now. And I think we are all happy as we are right now"

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I regret losing the best job I ever had because I didn't appeal the warnings I got due to other people's mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret getting married. I knew walking up the aisle that I shouldn't but went through with it anyway as I felt it was "the right thing to do".

Separated 4 years and happy out now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't think Ii have any REAL regrets -I think I've managed to "cancel" most, if not all potential regret-candidates by just realising that if Ii were in the same place, at the same time, with the same knowledge and the same information available, my decision would have been the same.. I might not always make good or wise decisons, but they are always logic/information based or just what I wanted at the time.

I might catch myself thinking "I wish I hadnt done this or decided that", but it's not a regret. That would (for me) be a decision or action I took whenI knew it was a bad one, orI acted ag against information known at the time.. in whichcase I Had my chance and I knew better at the time, what did I expect.

surprisingly powerful reasoning, actual;y. I recommend it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quiting kick boxing when i was 17 because going out with the lads came across as more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret, not finding FAB's and looking into swinging Yeeeeeeears ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we dont make mistakes we dont learn from them, hard to look back for anyone an not have regrets, but just remember everyone its never too late to make a change or persue a dream.. Age is a state of mind, never too old for anything x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think mine would be taking school as more of a mates club. Laughing at those so called geeks that now earn many pounds!

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I had a chance swinging with a old flame when.i was twenty did not know enough about sex to.take it up and not enough sexual.knowlege

when.girls chat about sex.They know more than.us men comment please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not realising earlier that I prefer woman to men. I'm a bit thick at times!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At least you got there!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Wouldn't of dated my last boyfriend the other they were learning curves this was just a waste of time and heartache.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Wouldn't have even given the time of day to my psychotic ex.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No regrets today

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"What do you with you could do differently if possible ?"

Oh the list is endless.....but every decision made, every choice taken (or not) has lead me to the life I now have. I'm blessed to have found a man who I love with all my heart & fancy with all my being. I have an amazing son and grandchild. I have wonderful friends. I have a successful business...so I consider myself blessed.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose we have all been led to here, bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have met my wife ten years earlier and started swinging ten years earlier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One of my regrets is not doing a club yet, but can change that

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

should have started swinging before kids

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By *omino1966Couple
over a year ago

barrow in furness

I regret sitting in the sun all day yesterday ...because now am lay here with burnt arms and neck in pain and cant sleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I regret sitting in the sun all day yesterday ...because now am lay here with burnt arms and neck in pain and cant sleep "

That is not a good thing!

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