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Deferred gratification

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Greater pleasure or frustrating?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Pleasure delayed is pleasure multiplied

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Pleasure delayed is pleasure multiplied "

You're a saver.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git "

What if you can only have it now OR later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im used to waiting so always very sweet for me.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Im used to waiting so always very sweet for me. "

Patience is a virtue.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici"

.................................

...............pation!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

What if you can only have it now OR later?

"

I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici

.................................

...............pation!"

But maybe the rain, isn't really to blame...

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

What if you can only have it now OR later?

I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B "

Very well. For this scenario I should make it clear there is only Miss A. Miss A is only available once.

Will you defer or have her now?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici

.................................

...............pation!

But maybe the rain, isn't really to blame..."

So I'll remove the cause....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a random a splash n dash is the way to go

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici

.................................

...............pation!

But maybe the rain, isn't really to blame...

So I'll remove the cause...."

But not... the symptom!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"With a random a splash n dash is the way to go

Gimp"

The tissues are on the side. Help yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a random a splash n dash is the way to go

Gimp

The tissues are on the side. Help yourself."

No Curtains ?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"With a random a splash n dash is the way to go

Gimp

The tissues are on the side. Help yourself.

No Curtains ?"

No, sorry.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

What if you can only have it now OR later?

I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B

Very well. For this scenario I should make it clear there is only Miss A. Miss A is only available once.

Will you defer or have her now?"

When exactly is later, what sort of mood is she currently in, what mood will she be in later, will she have any time constraints or distractions with either time zone.....so many vaiables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

"

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

"

Then again a Bush in the hand is worth 20 dollar luvie luvie long time

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

What if you can only have it now OR later?

"

Isn't the point of delays gratification exercises that you get a bigger reward if you wait

If it's the same reward there is no sense in waiting.

But equally in the real world outside of testing it's often likley you'll just miss your chance and get nothing if you pass up on an opertunity for the promise of a greater one at a later date.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

What if you can only have it now OR later?

Isn't the point of delays gratification exercises that you get a bigger reward if you wait

If it's the same reward there is no sense in waiting.

But equally in the real world outside of testing it's often likley you'll just miss your chance and get nothing if you pass up on an opertunity for the promise of a greater one at a later date."

Experience tells me that if you piss about too long with this waiting lark- something (or someone) will most certainly manage to bolox it up......hence wanting it now and later- just because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love edging.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I don't enjoy it and get frustrated and a little grumpy but I love doing it to guys...waiting until I feel them tense up and move my mouth - it makes me giggle and when they do finally cum I usually get my tonsils banged - one bad thing is that they are usually hyper sensitive afterwards so I need to play gently for aaaaaaages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

"

And. Not or.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

"

The journey, for as long as it takes, is more important than the destination..so great pleasure for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

The journey, for as long as it takes, is more important than the destination..so great pleasure for me x"

Really? Even if the journey is a 20 mile slog through broken glass and lemon juice and the destination is a "world's cuddliest puppies and kittens on a super size bed" contest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what it is and for how long its delayed -

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey


"Pleasure delayed is pleasure multiplied "

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git

What if you can only have it now OR later?

I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B

Very well. For this scenario I should make it clear there is only Miss A. Miss A is only available once.

Will you defer or have her now?

When exactly is later, what sort of mood is she currently in, what mood will she be in later, will she have any time constraints or distractions with either time zone.....so many vaiables "

That's the problem with delaying your gratification - you don't know if you'll be alive to be gratified.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

The journey, for as long as it takes, is more important than the destination..so great pleasure for me x"

What about the moment?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Greater pleasure or frustrating?

The journey, for as long as it takes, is more important than the destination..so great pleasure for me x

Really? Even if the journey is a 20 mile slog through broken glass and lemon juice and the destination is a "world's cuddliest puppies and kittens on a super size bed" contest?"

Great metaphore

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