FabSwingers.com forum: Baffled and hurt

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

aww i know it sucks but least u know now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it there are ten genuine people to one not. Keep that in mind and they will come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

Yipes, I had to read that three times myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

It's hard to comment on such a vague post , but if it's in relation to a meet from fab - what did you expect ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

(( hug ))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are rarely who you think they are until you know them well.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Never set the bar too high.....and always expect the worst.....then when someone nice comes along....it's such a bonus !!!.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and that's where the problem lies 'who we think they are' as opposed to who they actually are.

yep it can leave you feeling confused but you need to put it behind you & move on. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

It's hard to comment on such a vague post , but if it's in relation to a meet from fab - what did you expect ? "

Nah it wasn't a fab meet I'm not daft lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

(( hug ))

You're all such lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hug and hope you feel more positive by bedtime x

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

What.....even me !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

Yipes, I had to read that three times myself

Who we think they are, who we think they think they are, who they think they are, who they think we think they are, who we think they think we think they are, who they think wer think they think we are, who we think we think they think we think they think we think they are, who they think they think we think they think we think they think they think they are. It's really quite simple when it's explained so straight forwardly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

As above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are rarely who you think they are until you know them well. "

And even less so on Fab, but I wish you well for the future O.P..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

lickety is always the voice of enlightenment

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

It's hard to comment on such a vague post , but if it's in relation to a meet from fab - what did you expect ? "

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it sure is -

ponders on altering age to be something im not to be able to chat to some i cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely their loss.

Plenty more fish in the sea.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

There's an awful lot of that goes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

lickety is always the voice of enlightenment

Are you two friends or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are like dogs, get a mongrel and it will give u less hassle in the long run, go for a pedigree and youre asking for trouble ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely their loss.

Plenty more fish in the sea.

This is my pet hate saying on here. How can it possible be their loss as they decided not to in first place.

Sorry for hijack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things."

I once went for an interview for a company that makes training programs for the army. How to drive tanks etc. They did a test on me where they ask you questions about yourself thdn you have to tick boxes. It's to see if what you think about yourself really matches up with how you really are.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Surely their loss.

Plenty more fish in the sea.

This is my pet hate saying on here. How can it possible be their loss as they decided not to in first place.

Mine too!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My gf has a new game .. When blokes include their phone numbers she enters them on Facebook ... Eg Single steve apparently is in fact married DAVE

Who'd a thought it .. PS hello Mrs Dave xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

Id like to take that myself! What were your results?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry about it there are ten genuine people to one not. Keep that in mind and they will come to you

I know you've picked those figures randomly but that's really quite unlikely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be who ever here .....it's because people are strangers and you just don't really know them..so can lie and be who ever if they wish too. No matter how well you can read people it's easy here to get away with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My gf has a new game .. When blokes include their phone numbers she enters them on Facebook ... Eg Single steve apparently is in fact married DAVE

Who'd a thought it .. PS hello Mrs Dave xxx

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lol really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am who i say i am, didnt think there were bluffers but then its making sense now, a few chicks on here have gone cold or dissapeard just before a meet . Maybe people are just fishing for compliments or seeing if theyve still got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

its something many places are doing not the tanks but the test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who we think they are, who they think they are and who they actually are can be very different things.

I hope your hurt and bafflement pass soon.

lickety is always the voice of enlightenment

Are you two friends or something"

Never met. Relevance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone once told me about this site, " you can only play the game so long"

I'm currently having my heart strings twanged

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"As someone once told me about this site, " you can only play the game so long"

I'm currently having my heart strings twanged

You'll either enjoy the twanging or not. How you respond to it is the only thing you need to concentrate on.

We are all complicit in these things done unto us. It's taken me a long time to realise this about myself and I know saying it doesn't mean anyone else can learn it without experiencing it but I hope it serves as a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hard to find people who either are who they claim to be . also .. we all have depicted ideas of who we think people are and can find out otherwise .. whether its G O O D or B A D

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By *andp01Couple
over a year ago

here n there

"Don't worry about it there are ten genuine people to one not. Keep that in mind and they will come to you

If you turned that around you might be somewhere nearer the mark !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As someone once told me about this site, " you can only play the game so long"

I'm currently having my heart strings twanged

Yeah it can be hard to keep it nsa. Feel for you bud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone once told me about this site, " you can only play the game so long"

I'm currently having my heart strings twanged

Yeah it can be hard to keep it nsa. Feel for you bud!"

Thanks, we don't choose who we fall for I suppose. The game for me is at an end, who knew I had a heart....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its shitty shit shit when people aren't quite who you think they are

Sunday blues.

Sorry you're hurting

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I know what you mean. A while ago I saw someone in an England shirt with number 7 and Beckham on it, but when I got closer it was just a middle aged fat bloke.

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