FabSwingers.com forum: stds

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

concerns about swinging,condoms used for straigt sex, but oral sex is one of the quickest ways of spreading stds,

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

It is very concerning, but read up on the facts first.

Jane x

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Yep! But you will have everyone saying "ahhh but i get tested every 3 months" to try point out they are clean as a whistle when they have no fu-kin clue because they only SAY they get tested and never do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std"
well of course but isnt that common sense ?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std"

Not always but if like many have at times bleeding cums, cuts etc there is a much higher risk of infection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not many women use a condom on a guy when ther are doing oral on him

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By *orthernlad57Man
over a year ago

Bolton

its all down to being carful and common since

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By *orthernlad57Man
over a year ago

Bolton

and think before you lick

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"not many women use a condom on a guy when ther are doing oral on him"

So do YOU insist on wearing a condom when receiving oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a risk during oral sex but its considerably lower than penetrative sex. We all take risks in life. I have to admit I have sucked guys without condoms. And ive never had a guy go down on me and used a dental dam either. But ive got the information, I know the risk, I make a decision and I get checked regularly. I have no option in my line of work anyway.

STI's that are commonly passed through oral sex are Chlamydia, Genital Herpes, Gonorrhoea and Syphilis, all of these are easily treatable with antibiotics. No im not saying dont worry about it, cos you can just take antibiotics to clear it, im just stating a fact that infections passed via oral are rarely life threatening, unless left untreated and these infections pass through to organs like the liver etc.

Men display symptoms more commonly than women. If a guy is oozing green slime from his dick, if his dick looks like a misshapen cauliflower, then dont suck him, thats my advice. Oh and dont let a guy who has a coldsore go down on you either or vice versa with women

You just have to make the decision to do or not to do and make the judgement on who you are doing it with and get tested regularly. Ive never seen anyone give oral sex whilst using condoms or dental dams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"concerns about swinging,condoms used for straigt sex, but oral sex is one of the quickest ways of spreading stds,"

dont do it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std

Not always but if like many have at times bleeding cums, cuts etc there is a much higher risk of infection."

Did you mean gums cos ive read this thre times now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking about this with someone and she said that she gets tested at her gp, the fact that my gp doesnt offer this and i go to the local gum clinic which is at the hospital for check ups along with the fact that she in her 40s still didnt have a clue about most stds or how they are transmitted kinda made me doubt her honesty.

Does anyone get checked at there gp? or know if its something generally offered at a gp surgery?

Just wondering if she was full of rubbish?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std"

Will or can catch it??? Different things. Can catch, it isn't 100% guaranteed that you will catch a disease just because the other person has it.

If you are so concerned, do you use dental dams when going down on a woman? Do you insist on wearing a condom when a woman gives you oral?

Everything we do in this lifestyle, and in real life carries a risk. Its just doing what you can to minimise that risk, or not doing it. But then life would be very boring if we stopped doing everything that carried a risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep! But you will have everyone saying "ahhh but i get tested every 3 months" to try point out they are clean as a whistle when they have no fu-kin clue because they only SAY they get tested and never do! "
.....NOT all say they do get tested & talk bollox some really DO get tested ya know so do know there as clean as a whistle.

* Creeps round grave yard *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std"

you have to have an open wound in your mouth, aka bleeding gums, a bit lip or inner cheeck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have never worried about it... genital warts add a bit of friction.. bit like a ribbed condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking about this with someone and she said that she gets tested at her gp, the fact that my gp doesnt offer this and i go to the local gum clinic which is at the hospital for check ups along with the fact that she in her 40s still didnt have a clue about most stds or how they are transmitted kinda made me doubt her honesty.

Does anyone get checked at there gp? or know if its something generally offered at a gp surgery?

Just wondering if she was full of rubbish? "

I have no idea if she was full of it! but if she is in her 40s and has no idea about stds and how they are transmited i would be dubious, I know MY local GP will not do sexual health checks there is a local clinic for that, and i must say they are fantastic! discrete friendly and very helpful, alway leave with a bag full of free condoms lol

(perhaps she is confusing it with her regular smear test?)

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

@ Iconic1

Excuse me, but genital herpes is not a thing you can "just take anti-biotics for "! It is a non-curable disease.

Jane x

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

"have checked the facts if a woman sucks a guy off with an std she will can catc it and same if a guy licks a woman who as an std

Not always but if like many have at times bleeding cums, cuts etc there is a much higher risk of infection.

Did you mean gums cos ive read this thre times now."
Did you mean three cos ive read this four times now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no she wasnt getting confused, needless to say we didnt take it any further. big turn off knowing someone doesnt look after themselves yeeeuukk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ Iconic1

Excuse me, but genital herpes is not a thing you can "just take anti-biotics for "! It is a non-curable disease.

Jane x "

Yes of course thats exactly right. Sorry I was mainly referring to the other STI's. Herpes does always stay in your system, you never get rid and it will lie dormant most of the time but flare up sporadically. You can only get antivirals to lessen the symptoms. Nasty thought isnt it. It is certainly a risk we all take but most of us dont use protection when giving oral so we either choose to take the risk or give up having so many sexual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

STD, now that brings back memories.

Subscriber Trunk Dialling

No need to ring the operator and ask to be connected to a number, oh no ! not any more with STD, just dial and go.

Eh ??

Oh this isn't the Telephone Heritage website ...

Oh sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh the thrill of pressing button A or button B - can't remember which one gave you your fourpence back though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did share a flat with a girl that got herpes that way.

her face was a total mess and it spread down...now i'm not saying he came all over her face here, i'm saying the herpes did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh the thrill of pressing button A or button B - can't remember which one gave you your fourpence back though..."

Button 'B'

Now those were the days

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