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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I can barely text coherently when I'm sober. I'd never be able to if d*unk.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think it is a very dangerous game to play and one a friend of mine did all the time and regretted it the next day....lost some friends eventually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretend you lost your phone the night before and when you got it back you noticed someone had sent disgusting messages. You can only do this once though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is a very dangerous game to play and one a friend of mine did all the time and regretted it the next day....lost some friends eventually! "
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Oh Jesus!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp "

I sext these people sober but it's more relentless when I'm d*unk and horny.

Gimp yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretend you lost your phone the night before and when you got it back you noticed someone had sent disgusting messages. You can only do this once though."

Haha I tried that one years ago! No one believes it now

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Wpuld love to recieve a text of this nature but its yet to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam bad for that too lol but thankfully the one man i sext loves it

Told him last nite after two bottles of wine I wanted him and his 7 mates in a gangbang hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What comes of them? If you're sending these messages out regularly and the guys receiving them don't take you up on your requests then yeah you should be embarrassed the next day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

I haven't ever found a 'd*unkproof' solution.

I guess I just have very understanding friends who are now used to me... I have in some cases had to send out mass apology texts, however lately I have stsrted deleting the sent messages... So I can't engage in any damage limitation the following morning!

Dangerous... Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!"

Good grief. You really think a text would get someone off a rape charge!?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!"

As long as she is sexting a FB fwb or someone she trusts I don't see the harm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this to C only when I'm on my painkillers and he's used to them.

Otherwise people would think 'ohmigod she's flipped'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

You can have my number ANY time...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!"

This is the third post today that's devolved into rape/abuse. is there something in the water?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What comes of them? If you're sending these messages out regularly and the guys receiving them don't take you up on your requests then yeah you should be embarrassed the next day. "

I rarely feel embarrassed about anything really. One is a colleague who I have dabbled with in the past. The other I've more recently dabbled with.

I just think it's funny at the time. I'd never sext anyone I didn't fancy. Just wondered what other people do this and what guys think being on the receiving end?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

I haven't ever found a 'd*unkproof' solution.

I guess I just have very understanding friends who are now used to me... I have in some cases had to send out mass apology texts, however lately I have stsrted deleting the sent messages... So I can't engage in any damage limitation the following morning!

Dangerous... Good luck!"

Yes I delete my sent items too, so I am none the wiser!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think it is a very dangerous game to play and one a friend of mine did all the time and regretted it the next day....lost some friends eventually! .

Oh Jesus! "

I used to have to hide her sim card before a night out but that didn't work and she would start her usual shite! People soon got really tired of her shite, that's why I say a very dangerous game to play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

As long as she is sexting a FB fwb or someone she trusts I don't see the harm x"

Yes I am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're sexting them anyway i dont see the harm.

If you're just randomly sending "fuck me up the ass" to a random colleague, well maybe there's cause for concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i guess OP your the one with the answers , has any off the people you have sent text's too ever turn up or got back to you to say they don't enjoy your text's or are they just used to you doing it and saying she's pished again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is a very dangerous game to play and one a friend of mine did all the time and regretted it the next day....lost some friends eventually! .

Oh Jesus!

I used to have to hide her sim card before a night out but that didn't work and she would start her usual shite! People soon got really tired of her shite, that's why I say a very dangerous game to play."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's so naughty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well i guess OP your the one with the answers , has any off the people you have sent text's too ever turn up or got back to you to say they don't enjoy your text's or are they just used to you doing it and saying she's pished again . "

The latter.

I also have been on the receiving end from another colleague recently. I was actually quite flattered even if the guy was clearly wasted. We never spoke about it in work, as I didn't want to embarrass him.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

But would still be rape whether sexts had been sent or not...attitudes like this are why alot of women dont report rape

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely other people send/receive these things?

*creeps back under rock*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sexting problem, I don't receive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on Kik and she normally sends them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i guess OP your the one with the answers , has any off the people you have sent text's too ever turn up or got back to you to say they don't enjoy your text's or are they just used to you doing it and saying she's pished again .

The latter.

I also have been on the receiving end from another colleague recently. I was actually quite flattered even if the guy was clearly wasted. We never spoke about it in work, as I didn't want to embarrass him."

Well i would have to say i don't see the problem with doing it , would just say i am one jealous bastard that you don't send them too me but he ho that's life .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers? "

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely other people send/receive these things?

*creeps back under rock* "

I don't purely because I want the guys to do the asking. I never want to put myself in a situation where someone can say no to me because I take rejection BADLY plus I wouldn't want them to think that I want them!

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By *ootballPaulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Is guilty of sexting fwb on facebook after a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp

I sext these people sober but it's more relentless when I'm d*unk and horny.

Gimp yourself."

When we were married I used to text the wife when I was d*unk, telling her what I wanted to do when I got home. Unfortunately one night I sent a rather explicit description to my female boss by mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"
can ya send me some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have , never will as it's just pointless .

If we wanna have fun we go out and do it .

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase."

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Do you want my number lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp

I sext these people sober but it's more relentless when I'm d*unk and horny.

Gimp yourself.

When we were married I used to text the wife when I was d*unk, telling her what I wanted to do when I got home. Unfortunately one night I sent a rather explicit description to my female boss by mistake "

Oops! What was her response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

As long as she is sexting a FB fwb or someone she trusts I don't see the harm x

Yes I am x"

X's I don't feel embarrassed especially as I get positive responses the next day Hehrhehe

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Have you ever sexted family

Parents

Inappropriate people?

Cos I used to

So I've stopped

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it."

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever sexted family

Parents

Inappropriate people?

Cos I used to

So I've stopped "

Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp

I sext these people sober but it's more relentless when I'm d*unk and horny.

Gimp yourself.

When we were married I used to text the wife when I was d*unk, telling her what I wanted to do when I got home. Unfortunately one night I sent a rather explicit description to my female boss by mistake

Oops! What was her response?"

She had a filthy sense of humour herself so it wasn't too bad. She just replied saying as nice as that sounds I'm guessing it was meant for someone else lol

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him."

That sounds quite horrible - imagine if this was the other way around with an older man enjoyed making a younger woman uncomfortable at work.

Personally I'd find it quite tedious if I had a male friend who acted like this when he was d*unk & he wouldn't be a friend for long.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

Seems healthy to me xx

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Have you ever sexted family

Parents

Inappropriate people?

Cos I used to

So I've stopped

Never!"

Oh well

Don't worry about it then

You can't have been as pissed as me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good fun. Presumably the regulars are most likely aware your d*unk whilst you ramp it up by now. Don't be embarrassed about it. If it bothers you just say sorry next day and have a laugh about it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him.

That sounds quite horrible - imagine if this was the other way around with an older man enjoyed making a younger woman uncomfortable at work.

Personally I'd find it quite tedious if I had a male friend who acted like this when he was d*unk & he wouldn't be a friend for long.

"

I totally agree! Imagine it was the other way round? I would think the men on this thread would soon change their comments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

My number is 079

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him.

That sounds quite horrible - imagine if this was the other way around with an older man enjoyed making a younger woman uncomfortable at work.

Personally I'd find it quite tedious if I had a male friend who acted like this when he was d*unk & he wouldn't be a friend for long.

"

I love how some people are so quick to assume the worst. Where do I say he's uncomfortable? The fact that he's acted on some of my messages (and turned up at my door) is by-the-by, to you.

He laughs about it and asks about the night normally, FYI. He obviously knows me well.

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over a year ago


"It's good fun. Presumably the regulars are most likely aware your d*unk whilst you ramp it up by now. Don't be embarrassed about it. If it bothers you just say sorry next day and have a laugh about it."

Exactly!

Some people are so quick to make something sinister out of it. I wanted guy's reactions to receiving these types of messages and it would appear that most guys like it.

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over a year ago


"It's good fun. Presumably the regulars are most likely aware your d*unk whilst you ramp it up by now. Don't be embarrassed about it. If it bothers you just say sorry next day and have a laugh about it.

Exactly!

Some people are so quick to make something sinister out of it. I wanted guy's reactions to receiving these types of messages and it would appear that most guys like it. "

Oh yes! I can only imagine how full your inbox is now with guys giving you their numbers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's good fun. Presumably the regulars are most likely aware your d*unk whilst you ramp it up by now. Don't be embarrassed about it. If it bothers you just say sorry next day and have a laugh about it.

Exactly!

Some people are so quick to make something sinister out of it. I wanted guy's reactions to receiving these types of messages and it would appear that most guys like it.

Oh yes! I can only imagine how full your inbox is now with guys giving you their numbers! "

Sadly not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

Ive had this before and must say i love it i think the drink can give you the confidence to say/do things you normally wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's good fun. Presumably the regulars are most likely aware your d*unk whilst you ramp it up by now. Don't be embarrassed about it. If it bothers you just say sorry next day and have a laugh about it.

Exactly!

Some people are so quick to make something sinister out of it. I wanted guy's reactions to receiving these types of messages and it would appear that most guys like it.

Oh yes! I can only imagine how full your inbox is now with guys giving you their numbers!

Sadly not!"

That's your age filters doing their trick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scene from snatch from LA to London

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

Used to do this with a few ladies that i talked to regularly, luckily they were usually out themselves and played along. Thankfully I normally started off with a 'I'm hammered walking home, what you upto?' type message....luckily I have kicked the d*unken texting habit for now :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never received a sext

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have woken up to phone calls after a night out on the town where my friends have inquired why I tried to sell them my shoes at 4am Sunday morning! I'm not one for d*unken sexting, it's much safer and coherent when I'm sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never received a sext "
or sent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely other people send/receive these things?

*creeps back under rock* "

Yep, if I've been out with the girls, and had far too many cocktails and shots, I'll wake up to cringe texts. Though thankfully there never readable, haha.

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over a year ago

Oh I have to delete what's app ... I'm really awful however last time I ended up sending a dirty photo to my best friend and a picture of me and my mum to someone .... Alwaysys end up deleting my messages as well so ondont horror as much

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over a year ago


"Oh I have to delete what's app ... I'm really awful however last time I ended up sending a dirty photo to my best friend and a picture of me and my mum to someone .... Alwaysys end up deleting my messages as well so ondont horror as much "

Alas, I know the feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp

I sext these people sober but it's more relentless when I'm d*unk and horny.

Gimp yourself.

When we were married I used to text the wife when I was d*unk, telling her what I wanted to do when I got home. Unfortunately one night I sent a rather explicit description to my female boss by mistake

Oops! What was her response?

She had a filthy sense of humour herself so it wasn't too bad. She just replied saying as nice as that sounds I'm guessing it was meant for someone else lol"

Most normal people would react like that. Not the drama queens though

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over a year ago

I think it is a dangerous thing you are doing - unless its just to people who you play with and know well. Don't really think you would have a leg to stand on if something happened and the guy turned up it court with a copy of your text and print out of your Fab profile Sad, but that is the way it is. Maybe give your phone to someone, turned off, and ask them not to let you text anyone?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a sexting problem but my ex & I work together & early on in our relationship he sent me an email to ask where I wanted to go for lunch but he clicked on the first email with my surname on it & he actually sent the email to a judge in a different part of the country.

Luckily they had a sense of humour & said coming all that way would take too long but they would meet him half way

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over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Want my number?

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is a dangerous thing you are doing - unless its just to people who you play with and know well. Don't really think you would have a leg to stand on if something happened and the guy turned up it court with a copy of your text and print out of your Fab profile Sad, but that is the way it is. Maybe give your phone to someone, turned off, and ask them not to let you text anyone?...."

I'm not sure even I would enjoy sext messaging strangers who I don't know or like very well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is a dangerous thing you are doing - unless its just to people who you play with and know well. Don't really think you would have a leg to stand on if something happened and the guy turned up it court with a copy of your text and print out of your Fab profile Sad, but that is the way it is. Maybe give your phone to someone, turned off, and ask them not to let you text anyone?...."

Wow. Who said anything about court? He doesn't even know my profile on here! What's that got to do with d*unken sexting?! As I said, I just wanted to know who else does it and the reaction from the male point of view...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sexting skills are great sober. When I've had a few too many I just get emotional and then say things I regret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him.

That sounds quite horrible - imagine if this was the other way around with an older man enjoyed making a younger woman uncomfortable at work.

Personally I'd find it quite tedious if I had a male friend who acted like this when he was d*unk & he wouldn't be a friend for long.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him.

That sounds quite horrible - imagine if this was the other way around with an older man enjoyed making a younger woman uncomfortable at work.

Personally I'd find it quite tedious if I had a male friend who acted like this when he was d*unk & he wouldn't be a friend for long.

"

It's a good job we are all different then isn't it. I personally adore it when hot guys I've played with, send me absolute FILTH when they've had a few.

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over a year ago


"Every time I've had a few vinos, I can't help but send filthy texts messages to the one or two guys I'm quite partial to, at that particular time.

The 'sexts' range from the downright vulgar 'come fuck me up the ass' (sent to a colleague) to the general 'I want your cock in me now' (sent to many).

Always the next day, it's mixed feelings on my part...remorse, horror, hysteria, excitement, anticipation at what may come of it all!!

I've tried deleting numbers, not taking the phone out etc...but I always find a way to get my messages across in the end!

Anyone else do this? And guys, what do you think when a lady sexts you in the middle of the night?!

If you sent me a sext saying come fuck me up the ass i'd be in the car on the way upto manchester in a flash.

I like getting naughty sexts from women, so personally speaking i'd be happy to receive them. Do these guys take you up on your offers?

Normally yes. The colleague has done previously and will do in the future. But he doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship! On the other hand, I get off on the constant tease and thrill of the chase.

Shame i am outside your age preference so can't message you.

Anyhow, do you work in the same building as this colleague? I would find it hard to keep work and sex separate with the constant distraction of both being in the same space? But maybe thats just me?

And i agree the thrill and tease of the chase is a big part of the fun of it all so enjoy it.

I sit next to him and he's younger than me. He found it hard maintaining a professional relationship the last time so I get that totally. Just can't help myself after a few and I love teasing him at work! Bless him.

That sounds quite horrible - imagine if this was the other way around with an older man enjoyed making a younger woman uncomfortable at work.

Personally I'd find it quite tedious if I had a male friend who acted like this when he was d*unk & he wouldn't be a friend for long.

It's a good job we are all different then isn't it. I personally adore it when hot guys I've played with, send me absolute FILTH when they've had a few. "

Absolutely agree about us all being different. There's someone for everyone.

Sounds like the guys you text love it and text back. So why feel bad about it? Embrace it and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't feel bad at all! Sadly, I think there were some people on this thread trying to make me feel bad. Bringing up court cases and accusations of rape etc.. Ludicrous.

I just wanted reactions from guys when being on the receiving end.

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over a year ago


"I don't feel bad at all! Sadly, I think there were some people on this thread trying to make me feel bad. Bringing up court cases and accusations of rape etc.. Ludicrous.

I just wanted reactions from guys when being on the receiving end. "

Well if you'd like to send a sample of your texts I'd be more than happy to vet them for acceptability.....lol

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over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

Good grief. You really think a text would get someone off a rape charge!?!?!?!"

No.....hence why it says "not sure" if the whole post had been read.

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I'm sure solicitors/barristers would have a field day juggling with it tho.... Like I said...dangerous if it went to the wrong person, as the OP hinted it might....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Having to be d*unk to do anythisng smacks of lack of confidence

Gimp

I sext these people sober but it's more relentless when I'm d*unk and horny.

Gimp yourself."

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!"

No means no, no matter when it's said or indeed how much the initial contact was made by the victim either male or female. Everybody is entitled to change their mind and at that point it all stops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty!, I dread looking at my phone in the morning but sometimes it does work out!

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over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm."

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

Good grief. You really think a text would get someone off a rape charge!?!?!?!

No.....hence why it says "not sure" if the whole post had been read.

.

I'm sure solicitors/barristers would have a field day juggling with it tho.... Like I said...dangerous if it went to the wrong person, as the OP hinted it might...."

Nope I have never once hinted at or sexted the wrong person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting* ffs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form. "

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

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over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm."

That's good to hear! I will ramp it up then! Haha

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over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

That's good to hear! I will ramp it up then! Haha "

It would be morally wrong to stop now

My number is 079

Sorry still sexting lol

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over a year ago


"What comes of them? If you're sending these messages out regularly and the guys receiving them don't take you up on your requests then yeah you should be embarrassed the next day.

I rarely feel embarrassed about anything really. One is a colleague who I have dabbled with in the past. The other I've more recently dabbled with.

I just think it's funny at the time. I'd never sext anyone I didn't fancy. Just wondered what other people do this and what guys think being on the receiving end?"

You can have my number anytime lol. I have received the odd text like that in the past and it turned me on but i guess thats me and it depends who you send them to.

They might be embarrassed too... Or they might want to know more. Or they might take you at your word and chap your door... Could be fun but could be tricky. Xx

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over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me."

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

"

Not all men are egotistical morons lol

If a woman text me saying she wants to suffocate me with her cunt while im sleeping.

I would say doors open

Surely im not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

"

A girl like you has no need whatsoever to be hung up on a bloke I know at least twenty good looking genuine lads that would worship you myself included in another life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can sext me whenever you like. I love a late night message ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A girl like you has no need whatsoever to be hung up on a bloke I know at least twenty good looking genuine lads that would worship you myself included in another life x"

Thank you that's actually nice of you to say, truth is if this guy I'm hung up on was really really interested in me he would lose his appeal. I'm fazing him out anyway, I feel better each time I turn him down, the more he asks to see me the less interested I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

"

You like him and at same time thing he's a mong? Your interested in him yet dont want him to have the satisfaction of knowing your thinking about him?

You sound like a tease and have very little opinion of men in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A girl like you has no need whatsoever to be hung up on a bloke I know at least twenty good looking genuine lads that would worship you myself included in another life x

Thank you that's actually nice of you to say, truth is if this guy I'm hung up on was really really interested in me he would lose his appeal. I'm fazing him out anyway, I feel better each time I turn him down, the more he asks to see me the less interested I am!"

This proves it even more. How can you be sure he's not interested in you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

You like him and at same time thing he's a mong? Your interested in him yet dont want him to have the satisfaction of knowing your thinking about him?

You sound like a tease and have very little opinion of men in general."

Sounds more like she's been picked up and dropped by the same lad too many time but she's still hooked, been there myself in the past and I married her. You know the saying treat em mean keep em keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

You like him and at same time thing he's a mong? Your interested in him yet dont want him to have the satisfaction of knowing your thinking about him?

You sound like a tease and have very little opinion of men in general.

Sounds more like she's been picked up and dropped by the same lad too many time but she's still hooked, been there myself in the past and I married her. You know the saying treat em mean keep em keen "

Hmm maybe I read it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can sext me whenever you like. I love a late night message ??"

Inbox me some pics then!

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By *elkinMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Love to get a sext from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get them off a old fuck bud

Always same shite and in the end when changed contracts i forgot to give it him

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

sext me all you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to get them off a old fuck bud

Always same shite and in the end when changed contracts i forgot to give it him

"

Was that deliberate

by any chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's just fantasising.

Poor girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to get them off a old fuck bud

Always same shite and in the end when changed contracts i forgot to give it him

Was that deliberate

God yes.

I like fuck buds to meet and fuck not text and dream

Thats why hes a ex fb.

by any chance "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youre just a slut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me.

Different for you cos the guys you're messaging actually like you and want to meet you so the way they think of you won't change.

There's only one guy I'd be interesting in sexting and he's pretty aware of how much I like him. I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction of letting him know I'm thinking about him. I'm trying some damage control here, made an arse of myself so trying to claw back some dignity and self worth. Been to his house 3 times now and refused the offer to sleep over because I'd end up fucking him.

I know if I text that mong when I'm pissed up saying I want to suffocate him with my cunt whilst he sleeps he'd just think, ha yeah, she wants me, I'm the bollocks! Nah like! Won't give him the satisfaction.

You like him and at same time thing he's a mong? Your interested in him yet dont want him to have the satisfaction of knowing your thinking about him?

You sound like a tease and have very little opinion of men in general.

Sounds more like she's been picked up and dropped by the same lad too many time but she's still hooked, been there myself in the past and I married her. You know the saying treat em mean keep em keen "

This!

Glad someone understood where I was coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!"

Please tell me you understand that would still be rape, not just technically but really really rape? Text or no text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont believe their has ever been a man on record who hates being on the receiving of sextes

What ever floats your boat really, so long as your safe whats the harm.

Doesn't it make you look a bit desperate though? Suppose it depends on who you're 'sexting' really doesn't it. I wouldn't like to give guys any power by letlong them know I'm thinking about them in any way shape or form.

I don't really care how I look after two bottles of wine. If they think I'm desperate then fair enough. I've never been one to give a damn what people think of me. The recipients certainly treat me with the utmost respect the next day and that's good enough for me."

Why is it a problem for you then?

(Your words from the subject title)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore em op I send em when iim sober too

I just love being a filthy little slut xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sextet to guys I know now and again ...sober tho ....it makes for a tempting teasing time pre meets

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Alcohol lowers inhibitions and let's our 'real' selves out. It doesn't turn us into someone we're not. If the OP sends these messages to the same guys, sober or not, then there's nothing really groundbreaking here.

If she only sent them whilst d*unk then that would tell me that she's repressing that part of her that craves the attention whilst sober.

And to the offshoot about rape and consent - we all have the right to say no or stop at any point, regardless of the path that lead us to that point. Even if you happen to find yourself ballsdeep in someone who suddenly changes their mind. Stop means stop - no means no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a thought..... One of the guys turns up. Maybe one you didn't really want to text.

He turns up, you say no.... He goes ahead anyway. Technically rape!

But!! He has your texting his phone as evidence....not sure how that would hold up in court....

Dangerous game you are playing there!

Please tell me you understand that would still be rape, not just technically but really really rape? Text or no text! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ignore em op I send em when iim sober too

I just love being a filthy little slut xxxx"

Yes me too. I don't really value the opinions of those who are quick to judge (without reading the facts) anyway. I just wondered how people feel the morning after sending or receiving these things! Sometimes I'm mildly horrified I could be so vulgar! (Nah, not really haha)

I've had many inboxes from lads who love them. Seems it's only other women who have a problem with me sending them - figures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore em op I send em when iim sober too

I just love being a filthy little slut xxxx

Yes me too. I don't really value the opinions of those who are quick to judge (without reading the facts) anyway. I just wondered how people feel the morning after sending or receiving these things! Sometimes I'm mildly horrified I could be so vulgar! (Nah, not really haha)

I've had many inboxes from lads who love them. Seems it's only other women who have a problem with me sending them - figures. "

Send em to me baby we will see if we can out filth each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore em op I send em when iim sober too

I just love being a filthy little slut xxxx

Yes me too. I don't really value the opinions of those who are quick to judge (without reading the facts) anyway. I just wondered how people feel the morning after sending or receiving these things! Sometimes I'm mildly horrified I could be so vulgar! (Nah, not really haha)

I've had many inboxes from lads who love them. Seems it's only other women who have a problem with me sending them - figures. "

No other women have a problem with you d*unk sexting your friends. You were the one who started a post stating that it was a "problem". I guess it all becomes clear now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many blokes have passed on their numbers since you posted this?

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