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By *rank Einstein OP   Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Ok while I generally enjoy the site, the users, the forums and I'm pretty laid back I have to confess I get really, very angry on occasion.

So I'm wondering, has anyone experienced anything similar?

Not just annoyed from a bad experience but actually angry due to something you've seen or that you've experienced either on fab or through using it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, not really. I did once watch a really bad adaptation of Dune, though. That made me angry. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

I'm pretty easy going and don't take things I see/read personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, the day we get angry over something we see or read hear is the day the UNLOS button will be pressed. This is all about fun for us so we ignore the nasty stuff and there's enough seriousness in our lives that we don't need to take part in it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends...when I think someone is posting absolute rubbish..to the point that it defies common basic logic and their lack of reasoning why their post/comments are ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use Fab to please myself, if it ever started to annoy or irritate me I'd leave. Life's too short to be getting annoyed by a website.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Actually yes...but then I remind myself that this is supposed to be a bit of fun, calm down, block and move on....doesn't last long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. fab doesn't make me angry at all. It's entertainment for me. The day I get angry is the day I'll call it quits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get angry. Just sigh, tut, block and make a cuppa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends...when I think someone is posting absolute rubbish..to the point that it defies common basic logic and their lack of reasoning why their post/comments are ridiculous."

You need to chill, buddy......look into my eyes....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Nothing on here gets me angry these days, I treat it all with a great degree of indifference.

I don't like the baiting of people that goes on, the celebration of hooking people and the enjoyment it gives.

But, all in all..... I just switch off and go and walk the beach, listen to good music and this place drifts away to nothingness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends...when I think someone is posting absolute rubbish..to the point that it defies common basic logic and their lack of reasoning why their post/comments are ridiculous.

You need to chill, buddy......look into my eyes.... "

I'm Genuinly struggling to look at your eyes.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends...when I think someone is posting absolute rubbish..to the point that it defies common basic logic and their lack of reasoning why their post/comments are ridiculous.

You need to chill, buddy......look into my eyes....

I'm Genuinly struggling to look at your eyes..... "

That's because I have them hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends...when I think someone is posting absolute rubbish..to the point that it defies common basic logic and their lack of reasoning why their post/comments are ridiculous.

You need to chill, buddy......look into my eyes.... "

who's spunk is that!

popping a vein here...U said only I could cum in ur eyes!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok while I generally enjoy the site, the users, the forums and I'm pretty laid back I have to confess I get really, very angry on occasion.

So I'm wondering, has anyone experienced anything similar?

Not just annoyed from a bad experience but actually angry due to something you've seen or that you've experienced either on fab or through using it. "

One experience we had made us angry and I think despite what people are saying we had a right to feel that way. I don't feel angry about what I read here but some things make me feel very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok while I generally enjoy the site, the users, the forums and I'm pretty laid back I have to confess I get really, very angry on occasion.

So I'm wondering, has anyone experienced anything similar?

Not just annoyed from a bad experience but actually angry due to something you've seen or that you've experienced either on fab or through using it. "

no as just text on here

i get irritated when people expect that sex will fall on the laps or meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah its just a bit of fun. I've had no bad experiences really. If I get fed up I leave then come back again. Lol.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"No. fab doesn't make me angry at all. It's entertainment for me. The day I get angry is the day I'll call it quits."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get miffed by things I read on here but I wouldn't say angry. My pet hate is people who interpret what I say and put words in my mouth. That is my biggest bugbear in life not just here. I do feel on occasion that people get involved in threads just to get there opinion across without any good reason. I am very reactionary unfortunately and can't help countering what they say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes get miffed by things I read on here but I wouldn't say angry. My pet hate is people who interpret what I say and put words in my mouth. That is my biggest bugbear in life not just here. I do feel on occasion that people get involved in threads just to get there opinion across without any good reason. I am very reactionary unfortunately and can't help countering what they say."

Lol so you're getting involved in threads to get your opinion across too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok while I generally enjoy the site, the users, the forums and I'm pretty laid back I have to confess I get really, very angry on occasion.

So I'm wondering, has anyone experienced anything similar?

Not just annoyed from a bad experience but actually angry due to something you've seen or that you've experienced either on fab or through using it. "

No. I love a healthy debate - always have. Differing opinions offer food for thought, that's all. There is no right or wrong when it comes to an opinion - as it's coming from a personal stance. If someone's being confrontational for the sake of it, I just end up ignoring.

I never block - nobody has ever been important enough to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get miffed by things I read on here but I wouldn't say angry. My pet hate is people who interpret what I say and put words in my mouth. That is my biggest bugbear in life not just here. I do feel on occasion that people get involved in threads just to get there opinion across without any good reason. I am very reactionary unfortunately and can't help countering what they say.

Lol so you're getting involved in threads to get your opinion across too "

Your correct to a point. It is usually to get the point across that they have hijacked the thread unnecessarily. But essentially yeah I guess I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get annoyed when people start ganging up on others. Not angry.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes get miffed by things I read on here but I wouldn't say angry. My pet hate is people who interpret what I say and put words in my mouth. That is my biggest bugbear in life not just here. I do feel on occasion that people get involved in threads just to get there opinion across without any good reason. I am very reactionary unfortunately and can't help countering what they say.

Lol so you're getting involved in threads to get your opinion across too

Your correct to a point. It is usually to get the point across that they have hijacked the thread unnecessarily. But essentially yeah I guess I am "

But the irony is.........my response to you was doing just that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get annoyed when people start ganging up on others. Not angry."

Yea, angry is a very strong word. I get annoyed then too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get miffed by things I read on here but I wouldn't say angry. My pet hate is people who interpret what I say and put words in my mouth. That is my biggest bugbear in life not just here. I do feel on occasion that people get involved in threads just to get there opinion across without any good reason. I am very reactionary unfortunately and can't help countering what they say.

Lol so you're getting involved in threads to get your opinion across too

Your correct to a point. It is usually to get the point across that they have hijacked the thread unnecessarily. But essentially yeah I guess I am

But the irony is.........my response to you was doing just that "

We are both on topic though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced a range of emotions during my time on Fab but I have never felt angry. I did once get annoyed during a period when a lot of 'mobbing' appeared to be happening. I have felt genuine sadness a couple of times though.

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

Nope it's all just fir fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really pissed me off is guy's texting abusive messages no need for it all, I'm old school in that you don't abuse women full stop, just walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the day I get angry over some inane rubbish on the internet is the day I turn it off.

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By *verReadyAndMinxyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I got angry the day a girl wrote to my (unsuspecting) OH exposing me as a prolific swinger.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. I love to mass debate with you all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the day I get angry over some inane rubbish on the internet is the day I turn it off. "

fully agree

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I really don't see the point in being angry or annoyed by the things that I see or read on here, I'm here pleasure so I try to keep things light hearted, although that's generally me in my life away from the site too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got angry the day a girl wrote to my (unsuspecting) OH exposing me as a prolific swinger......."

I dont care what people's _iews are on cheats that's just vindictive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't see the point in being angry or annoyed by the things that I see or read on here, I'm here pleasure so I try to keep things light hearted, although that's generally me in my life away from the site too

"

You sound just like my oh. He's unbelievably laidback, and always gives me a withering 'yes dear, no dear' look when I mention anything forum related.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"I really don't see the point in being angry or annoyed by the things that I see or read on here, I'm here pleasure so I try to keep things light hearted, although that's generally me in my life away from the site too

You sound just like my oh. He's unbelievably laidback, and always gives me a withering 'yes dear, no dear' look when I mention anything forum related. "

I have affinity with that, I'd say that threads like this can be quite insightful but the majority I can take them or leave them to be fair.

(Ps he sounds like a great guy )

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By *rank Einstein OP   Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Something good and interesting _iews, keep em coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't see the point in being angry or annoyed by the things that I see or read on here, I'm here pleasure so I try to keep things light hearted, although that's generally me in my life away from the site too

You sound just like my oh. He's unbelievably laidback, and always gives me a withering 'yes dear, no dear' look when I mention anything forum related.

I have affinity with that, I'd say that threads like this can be quite insightful but the majority I can take them or leave them to be fair.

(Ps he sounds like a great guy )"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Angry no ..

Exasperated at times maybe ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not angry.

More annoyed, but I'm getting better at ignoring it and up if they have already blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Genuinly struggling to look at your eyes.....

That's because I have them hidden "

Sorry, I didn't catch that, I was distracted.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are unnecessarily aggressive/cowardly... the old insult then block double whammy from nowhere has hit us a couple of times. The most recent one was actually quite amusing as they winked at us, we wrote a nice "hi" back which was followed by the insult/block move from them. Lol Kinda like exploding on the runway without even reaching take off Feels a bit pissy for a moment or two... then you just realise how grateful you are that they revealed themselves to be twats before things went any further

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Some people are unnecessarily aggressive/cowardly... the old insult then block double whammy from nowhere has hit us a couple of times. The most recent one was actually quite amusing as they winked at us, we wrote a nice "hi" back which was followed by the insult/block move from them. Lol Kinda like exploding on the runway without even reaching take off Feels a bit pissy for a moment or two... then you just realise how grateful you are that they revealed themselves to be twats before things went any further "

I do get a little miffed at posts on the forum which are down right rude or moralistic holier than though in tone, but I have no I don't like this in life and I don't problems saying my piece too. I dont like this in life and I dont like this here. I am so on and off the forums because of work, though, that I can't keep my attention on them. I don't get annoyed with any messages because I just block. I do like a bit of banter though.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been around internet forums and chat rooms since 1997 and can honestly say Fabswingers is one of the more polite and definitely one of the tamer ones. When I think of how naïve I was back then, believing photoshop jobs and internet trolls, it makes me cringe.

These days, if I get steamed up, I log out and turn off the PC, as life is too short to get upset over something as ephemeral as an internet shagging site.

Having said that, there have been some very very nasty, racist/sexist/homophobic stuff said on here, but the mods tend to be all over that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry, no.

Irritated and/or grumpy, yes frequently!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

You've got to learn to roll with the punches on here. Don't take it too seriously. Some people take it WAY too seriously. At the end of the day we're just a bunch of people sat in front of our computer screens typing bollocks. It's not that big a deal. No one can hurt you. It's not real life. It's not life or death. Sure, there's plenty of tossers. There are in all walks of life. You just ignore them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got to learn to roll with the punches on here. Don't take it too seriously. Some people take it WAY too seriously. At the end of the day we're just a bunch of people sat in front of our computer screens typing bollocks. It's not that big a deal. No one can hurt you. It's not real life. It's not life or death. Sure, there's plenty of tossers. There are in all walks of life. You just ignore them and move on."

There is someone who whenever their fucking smug pig face pops up pisses me right off though, I just can't help it

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"You've got to learn to roll with the punches on here. Don't take it too seriously. Some people take it WAY too seriously. At the end of the day we're just a bunch of people sat in front of our computer screens typing bollocks. It's not that big a deal. No one can hurt you. It's not real life. It's not life or death. Sure, there's plenty of tossers. There are in all walks of life. You just ignore them and move on.

There is someone who whenever their fucking smug pig face pops up pisses me right off though, I just can't help it "

I'm going to assume you don't mean me! Just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got to learn to roll with the punches on here. Don't take it too seriously. Some people take it WAY too seriously. At the end of the day we're just a bunch of people sat in front of our computer screens typing bollocks. It's not that big a deal. No one can hurt you. It's not real life. It's not life or death. Sure, there's plenty of tossers. There are in all walks of life. You just ignore them and move on.

There is someone who whenever their fucking smug pig face pops up pisses me right off though, I just can't help it "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got to learn to roll with the punches on here. Don't take it too seriously. Some people take it WAY too seriously. At the end of the day we're just a bunch of people sat in front of our computer screens typing bollocks. It's not that big a deal. No one can hurt you. It's not real life. It's not life or death. Sure, there's plenty of tossers. There are in all walks of life. You just ignore them and move on.

There is someone who whenever their fucking smug pig face pops up pisses me right off though, I just can't help it

I'm going to assume you don't mean me! Just ignore them."

No and anyway your cheeky bum perks me up

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"You've got to learn to roll with the punches on here. Don't take it too seriously. Some people take it WAY too seriously. At the end of the day we're just a bunch of people sat in front of our computer screens typing bollocks. It's not that big a deal. No one can hurt you. It's not real life. It's not life or death. Sure, there's plenty of tossers. There are in all walks of life. You just ignore them and move on.

There is someone who whenever their fucking smug pig face pops up pisses me right off though, I just can't help it "

Oink Oink lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I get annoyed when people start ganging up on others. Not angry.

Yea, angry is a very strong word. I get annoyed then too."

there does seem to be a trend where, if someone has pissed people off on a thread, another thread is created to continue to belittle that person.

unpleasant

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I get annoyed when people start ganging up on others. Not angry.

Yea, angry is a very strong word. I get annoyed then too.

there does seem to be a trend where, if someone has pissed people off on a thread, another thread is created to continue to belittle that person.

unpleasant"

I totally agree and that is the reason why I have steered away for a while. sometimes someone new posts a thread, okay so it has been on before, but so what, not by them .... and people do talk about the same thing over and over in real life, without being told to shut up. There are definitely a number of people who behave like a clique, or seem to .... but, well, good luck to them. I do try to keep it balanced, when I am here, just in the interests of decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get annoyed when people start ganging up on others. Not angry.

Yea, angry is a very strong word. I get annoyed then too.

there does seem to be a trend where, if someone has pissed people off on a thread, another thread is created to continue to belittle that person.

unpleasant"

Some threads are so ludicrous that it's no wonder other threads are done about that thread.

And I'm not talking about the ones wanting people to look at their profile.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I get annoyed when people start ganging up on others. Not angry.

Yea, angry is a very strong word. I get annoyed then too.

there does seem to be a trend where, if someone has pissed people off on a thread, another thread is created to continue to belittle that person.

unpleasant

Some threads are so ludicrous that it's no wonder other threads are done about that thread.

And I'm not talking about the ones wanting people to look at their profile. "

if you feel the need to I think think it is unpleasant, but fill your boots

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