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"Not really thought about it to be honest. I would be definitely surprised (she's not the type) but not shocked. The problem is, porn is such a shitty job to work in, especially for a female, so I would probably be a bit worried too. But I hope I'd be supportive and be there for her is needed." Id be very interested to hear why its so shitty,especially for the females  | |||
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"Ok, a bit less cryptic than my usual thread titles, but it's a pretty direct question. I've often wondered, in light of the things you see people doing in porn these days (especially women), how their families, in particular parents must feel about it? I understand that in many cases the performers in question may be able to keep their occupation a secret, but with many pornstars now enjoying minor celebrity status, it's probably unlikely that their families are unaware of what they do for a living. For those of you with adult children, how would you feel if you learned they were working in porn?" My son told me about his film escapades in San Fransisco when he came back from a *modelling trip in his mid 20's after finishing Uni..LOL led astray by Aiden Shaw.. By that time I had become totally chilled over anything he had been up too. My theory had become I would rather know what you up to , than have cops at my door sayin he was dead and me thinking he was an angel. He actually does tell me everything now as it is easier than hiding his previous life style. Now he is 37 he has changed grown up and earning a different sort of living. He is my best friend and confidant love him to bits.  | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be "Why would it be a fail? | |||
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"Ok, a bit less cryptic than my usual thread titles, but it's a pretty direct question. I've often wondered, in light of the things you see people doing in porn these days (especially women), how their families, in particular parents must feel about it? I understand that in many cases the performers in question may be able to keep their occupation a secret, but with many pornstars now enjoying minor celebrity status, it's probably unlikely that their families are unaware of what they do for a living. For those of you with adult children, how would you feel if you learned they were working in porn? My son told me about his film escapades in San Fransisco when he came back from a *modelling trip in his mid 20's after finishing Uni..LOL led astray by Aiden Shaw.. By that time I had become totally chilled over anything he had been up too. My theory had become I would rather know what you up to , than have cops at my door sayin he was dead and me thinking he was an angel. He actually does tell me everything now as it is easier than hiding his previous life style. Now he is 37 he has changed grown up and earning a different sort of living. He is my best friend and confidant love him to bits. "I watched an inter_iew with a mother and son about this. She know what he does, he's been very open about it in the press so it would be difficult to hide. I do wonder whether the inter_iew would have been as accepting between a father and his daughter. | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
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Why would it be a fail. Okay there are other avenues I would like my children to go into but If they choose to be a porn star then I'd support them. X | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
"Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore. I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.  | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
"What if she is a well rounded, educated young woman who decides that getting money from something she is good at and enjoys for a short time will enable her to do the things she wants to do that don't pay (maybe teaching special needs children in the developing world for half a year)? | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
What if she is a well rounded, educated young woman who decides that getting money from something she is good at and enjoys for a short time will enable her to do the things she wants to do that don't pay (maybe teaching special needs children in the developing world for half a year)?
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
What if she is a well rounded, educated young woman who decides that getting money from something she is good at and enjoys for a short time will enable her to do the things she wants to do that don't pay (maybe teaching special needs children in the developing world for half a year)?
"she wouldn't need to do it for money as she's sorted in that department. And that is the exact sort of thing I would hope she will want to do. Gain life experience, knowledge and power. To stand up in her profession as a confident, competent woman. Not used for her body. | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
What if she is a well rounded, educated young woman who decides that getting money from something she is good at and enjoys for a short time will enable her to do the things she wants to do that don't pay (maybe teaching special needs children in the developing world for half a year)?
she wouldn't need to do it for money as she's sorted in that department.
And that is the exact sort of thing I would hope she will want to do. Gain life experience, knowledge and power. To stand up in her profession as a confident, competent woman. Not used for her body. "And yet people do make the choice and I would hate to think all their parents are emanating disappointment/you let me down at their adult choice. I don't watch porn, I have a lot of thoughts about the industry but I have met people who have made the choice to work in porn and I wouldn't describe those people as anything other than educated and well rounded. | |||
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"Are people really judging people on here for their perfectly legal choices?????" That's not unusual. The question is about the choice made by your child though. | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
What if she is a well rounded, educated young woman who decides that getting money from something she is good at and enjoys for a short time will enable her to do the things she wants to do that don't pay (maybe teaching special needs children in the developing world for half a year)?
she wouldn't need to do it for money as she's sorted in that department.
And that is the exact sort of thing I would hope she will want to do. Gain life experience, knowledge and power. To stand up in her profession as a confident, competent woman. Not used for her body. "In reality. This | |||
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"Are people really judging people on here for their perfectly legal choices????? That's not unusual. The question is about the choice made by your child though. " These same people who are on a swinging site? | |||
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"Ok, a bit less cryptic than my usual thread titles, but it's a pretty direct question. I've often wondered, in light of the things you see people doing in porn these days (especially women), how their families, in particular parents must feel about it? I understand that in many cases the performers in question may be able to keep their occupation a secret, but with many pornstars now enjoying minor celebrity status, it's probably unlikely that their families are unaware of what they do for a living. For those of you with adult children, how would you feel if you learned they were working in porn? My son told me about his film escapades in San Fransisco when he came back from a *modelling trip in his mid 20's after finishing Uni..LOL led astray by Aiden Shaw.. By that time I had become totally chilled over anything he had been up too. My theory had become I would rather know what you up to , than have cops at my door sayin he was dead and me thinking he was an angel. He actually does tell me everything now as it is easier than hiding his previous life style. Now he is 37 he has changed grown up and earning a different sort of living. He is my best friend and confidant love him to bits.
I watched an inter_iew with a mother and son about this. She know what he does, he's been very open about it in the press so it would be difficult to hide.
I do wonder whether the inter_iew would have been as accepting between a father and his daughter.
"I would find a daughter more difficult to deal with..My daughter in particular! Actually not even sure if dad knows bout son. Not been something I found necessary to discuss with him. Tho the boy has done alot of underwear modelling stuff too.
I dont see his life choices as a fail , circumstances took him in that direction for a while. He chose to earn money rather than go into debt or dole. I admire him for that. He is now very respectable earning a good living. | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
Because I would hope that she will become an educated, well rounded lady who has aspirations for more. Who isn't afraid to achieve, who is capable, to feel empowered and want to learn and/or explore.
I would hate to think that she would have to become a porn star for her to find her happiness. And would hate even more for her to find that vocation as life fulfilling. If she wants to be an actress, fine. If she wants to have a varied sex life, fine. But to make money by doing that, I would feel like she wasn't fulfilling her potential. And would hope that she would feel that way too.
What if she is a well rounded, educated young woman who decides that getting money from something she is good at and enjoys for a short time will enable her to do the things she wants to do that don't pay (maybe teaching special needs children in the developing world for half a year)?
she wouldn't need to do it for money as she's sorted in that department.
And that is the exact sort of thing I would hope she will want to do. Gain life experience, knowledge and power. To stand up in her profession as a confident, competent woman. Not used for her body.
And yet people do make the choice and I would hate to think all their parents are emanating disappointment/you let me down at their adult choice.
I don't watch porn, I have a lot of thoughts about the industry but I have met people who have made the choice to work in porn and I wouldn't describe those people as anything other than educated and well rounded."The term "educated" can be used in many different ways. In my context it doesn't just mean schooling, but also about feminism and life in general. For her to understand her worth is more than her body on display for others pleasure. For her to be mentally fulfilled as much as physically. Quick easy money doing what you like?! Who doesn't want that.. But it doesn't always give you life long pleasure. And porn will never be erased once made... I truly believe she could potentially jeopardize future professions by being a porn star. Especially when she won't need to do it for the "money". | |||
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"Are people really judging people on here for their perfectly legal choices????? That's not unusual. The question is about the choice made by your child though. These same people who are on a swinging site? " And may well watch and enjoy porn. We're all someones daughter/son. | |||
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"There are far worse things they could choose to do. "
I'd be more horrified if my children were abortionists
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"I would be bitterly disappointed and sad. Some porn the women look so blank and empty while being banged. Some of the young men don't appear happy either. Who'd want that for their child? " Some people look blank and unhappy in my local bank and shops.... | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
"I would _iew it as an epic fail too. To sacrifice putting them through uni. My retirement plans are on hold whilst my youngest completes her PhD for her to go into porn?  | |||
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"I would be bitterly disappointed and sad. Some porn the women look so blank and empty while being banged. Some of the young men don't appear happy either. Who'd want that for their child? Some people look blank and unhappy in my local bank and shops.... " plus the earn lots less | |||
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"Would another position in entertainment be more palatable due to your own conscience? It's only an acting job after all. " | |||
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"She wouldn't be. If she did I would see it as an epic fail on mine and her fathers part. But she won't be
Why would it be a fail?
I would _iew it as an epic fail too. To sacrifice putting them through uni. My retirement plans are on hold whilst my youngest completes her PhD for her to go into porn? "exactly. | |||
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"As long as they get me into the porn award parties, I'm ok with it! " | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? "there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it. A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue. Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?  | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with? "WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!?? | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with? "Lots of people dislike their jobs They usually bloody like the wages they get though When your children are adults, they do what suits them. Not their parents | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
Lots of people dislike their jobs
They usually bloody like the wages they get though
When your children are adults, they do what suits them. Not their parents
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!?? "What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid? | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!??
What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid? "Not at all, men and women earning a living, a life choice, swingers MEN and women is a life choice also, your making out porn stars are being raped every time the step infront of a camera??? | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!??
What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid?
Not at all, men and women earning a living, a life choice, swingers MEN and women is a life choice also, your making out porn stars are being raped every time the step infront of a camera??? "
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!??
What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid?
Not at all, men and women earning a living, a life choice, swingers MEN and women is a life choice also, your making out porn stars are being raped every time the step infront of a camera??? "no I'm not at all. I suggest you re-read everything I have said. I don't agree with them portraying rape in porn. Or portraying that they are being hurt. Ano younger society are watching more of that kind of porn which is proving to affect their interactions with girls. I wouldn't want my daughter to be part of that culture of acceptance. I suggest you read back through. | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!??
What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid?
Not at all, men and women earning a living, a life choice, swingers MEN and women is a life choice also, your making out porn stars are being raped every time the step infront of a camera???
They choose to do it "yep. And my original answer was that I would hope and expect her to not choose that. That's my thoughts on it. | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!??
What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid?
Not at all, men and women earning a living, a life choice, swingers MEN and women is a life choice also, your making out porn stars are being raped every time the step infront of a camera???
They choose to do it yep. And my original answer was that I would hope and expect her to not choose that. That's my thoughts on it. "Hilarious. | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
WHAT??????? Now your saying they are being forced to fuck??? Its a job! If they dont like they quit. Yes some are vulnerable and dont enjoy it but isnt that the case in every job!??
What I'm saying is how on earth can you compare a swinging woman to a porn star???? An answer would be nice considering you have asked the question yourself many times... Do you think the women on here are just porn stars who aren't paid?
Not at all, men and women earning a living, a life choice, swingers MEN and women is a life choice also, your making out porn stars are being raped every time the step infront of a camera???
They choose to do it yep. And my original answer was that I would hope and expect her to not choose that. That's my thoughts on it.
Hilarious."I agree So say the people who will happily watch it But think it's not a good career choice for their own little darlings Such double standards | |||
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"What if she/he was a swinger? there is a massive difference between attending sex events in your spare time, having choice in the matter. You can walk away at any time. Say no at any time. If you aren't feeling it you don't have to do it.
A porn star is a job. They have to do their job whether they like it or not. And you cannot tell me that those women and men, enjoy every aspect of what they do. Women have fought for years to be seen as equal, yet the current trend for violent porn towards women, is at an all time high. Porn showing women in tears, saying ouch, all those things, acting or not, makes them appear vulnerable. And they are paid for it. THAT is a massive issue.
Do you honestly think they want to fuck every man they come in contact with?
Lots of people dislike their jobs
They usually bloody like the wages they get though
When your children are adults, they do what suits them. Not their parents
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"I find it quite amusing that some people think that because you swing, you don't have any morals or judgements and find any form of sexual activity acceptable. I am a swinger and I've had sex with strangers. I would be horrified if my children chose to do it or become porn stars. I have double standards and an judgemental of others and I'm ok with it. The porn industry has a reputation for being exploititive of its performers. The trend is always to be bigger and better and more extreme. Do you really believe that you can walk away from any porn role with no consequence. I would imagine that a lot of pressure is put on its performers to indulge in things they are not happy with and at a guess the porn producers network with each other and work would not be easy to find if you have a strict criteria on acts you will not undertake. Most porn is bareback to, and I know the performers have to be health checked to work but it's not really that effective. There are countless stories of porn workers abusing alcohol, drugs, failure to develop relationships outside of work, illness, suicide. No I would not want my children working within the sex industry, I find the whole thing degrading. There is a difference between swinging and sex workers, the biggest difference being choice and being in control in swinging. And all of us have done something which we wouldn't want our children to do, whether that be smoking, drinking, having tattoos etc. We have double standards because deep down, through.experience, we've all made mistakes and done things that we wouldn't want our children to do. " Hahahahaha | |||
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"I find it quite amusing that some people think that because you swing, you don't have any morals or judgements and find any form of sexual activity acceptable. I am a swinger and I've had sex with strangers. I would be horrified if my children chose to do it or become porn stars. I have double standards and an judgemental of others and I'm ok with it. The porn industry has a reputation for being exploititive of its performers. The trend is always to be bigger and better and more extreme. Do you really believe that you can walk away from any porn role with no consequence. I would imagine that a lot of pressure is put on its performers to indulge in things they are not happy with and at a guess the porn producers network with each other and work would not be easy to find if you have a strict criteria on acts you will not undertake. Most porn is bareback to, and I know the performers have to be health checked to work but it's not really that effective. There are countless stories of porn workers abusing alcohol, drugs, failure to develop relationships outside of work, illness, suicide. No I would not want my children working within the sex industry, I find the whole thing degrading. There is a difference between swinging and sex workers, the biggest difference being choice and being in control in swinging. And all of us have done something which we wouldn't want our children to do, whether that be smoking, drinking, having tattoos etc. We have double standards because deep down, through.experience, we've all made mistakes and done things that we wouldn't want our children to do. " Simply: this!
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"I have to be honest I would be upset and disappoint if my child chose porn as a career. I would much prefer for them to have a career in medicine, education or something along those lines. I have no issue with people who choose to work in the sex industry, I do however feel sad for those who are exploited by it. I hope that if my child decided to do this they would be open to me about it and although I wouldn't like it, if they were adamant it was something they wanted to do then I would have to respect that they were adults and free to make their own life choices. In a nutshell, I would hate it but I would support them and be there for them anyway. Unconditional love is what I'm getting at." * disappointed | |||
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"I would be horrified and sad if my child decided to go into porn. Its just prostitution that is filmed. I wouldn't want that for her. The women seem so degraded in them. You got a few years and then it's over for you. I don't know how hard it is to find decent work after. Future boyfriend's may be hard to find if you're honest with them about it. People look down on you and judge you. There are just so many reasons. " Like any job you get what you put in, if you are not good yes your career will only last a few years. We have done this for 20 years almost and are still doing fine, we have meet people we wouldn't usually meet and have filmed all over the world and usually get in most clubs free...yes porn is not a good place lol. No women we know feel degraded, its usually a confidence boost for them. Unless you have done it and bought the tee shirt you can't really criticize. | |||
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"I find it quite amusing that some people think that because you swing, you don't have any morals or judgements and find any form of sexual activity acceptable. I am a swinger and I've had sex with strangers. I would be horrified if my children chose to do it or become porn stars. I have double standards and an judgemental of others and I'm ok with it. The porn industry has a reputation for being exploititive of its performers. The trend is always to be bigger and better and more extreme. Do you really believe that you can walk away from any porn role with no consequence. I would imagine that a lot of pressure is put on its performers to indulge in things they are not happy with and at a guess the porn producers network with each other and work would not be easy to find if you have a strict criteria on acts you will not undertake. Most porn is bareback to, and I know the performers have to be health checked to work but it's not really that effective. There are countless stories of porn workers abusing alcohol, drugs, failure to develop relationships outside of work, illness, suicide. No I would not want my children working within the sex industry, I find the whole thing degrading. There is a difference between swinging and sex workers, the biggest difference being choice and being in control in swinging. And all of us have done something which we wouldn't want our children to do, whether that be smoking, drinking, having tattoos etc. We have double standards because deep down, through.experience, we've all made mistakes and done things that we wouldn't want our children to do. " Good point Very well made I'm very moral, regular church goer in fact So I understand your comment But I still can't "get it" that porn is something that people are only happy if other people's children do It's simply odd to me And illogical | |||
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"No kids but I wouldn't like it" I'm pretty sure that most children would dislike the fact that their parents are on swingers websites I know that mine don't approve But it's my life and I do what the hell I choose to | |||
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"I would be horrified and sad if my child decided to go into porn. Its just prostitution that is filmed. I wouldn't want that for her. The women seem so degraded in them. You got a few years and then it's over for you. I don't know how hard it is to find decent work after. Future boyfriend's may be hard to find if you're honest with them about it. People look down on you and judge you. There are just so many reasons. Like any job you get what you put in, if you are not good yes your career will only last a few years. We have done this for 20 years almost and are still doing fine, we have meet people we wouldn't usually meet and have filmed all over the world and usually get in most clubs free...yes porn is not a good place lol. No women we know feel degraded, its usually a confidence boost for them. Unless you have done it and bought the tee shirt you can't really criticize." Please don't take offence as I have tried not to be critical. I don't believe you can only have an opinion if you have had a job in porn. It's just my opinion from all the stuff I have read and listened to. I have heard more bad things than good things. Although there are people who are happy like yourself. There are real and horrible down sides of it, and these are the reasons , my own reasons, why I would be unhappy if my daughter went into porn. (Twenty years! That's ages. I'm unsure if I should say well done lol) | |||
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