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did you meet and marry the person you thought you would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As we grow up we think about the type of person we want to meet and in some ways marry. Did you meet that person or did you have to compromise on certain things? You hear people mention that before they got together they didnt like them for ages and then they get together. Discuss..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I never thought about who I was going to marry. Made a huge mistake the first time and absolutely the right decision the second time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say he was the person I thought I'd end up with but when I met my late husband just knew he was for me within 6 was we were living together and until the day he died after 25 yrs of marriage we were still very much in love , probably still would be if he was still alive today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say he was the person I thought I'd end up with but when I met my late husband just knew he was for me within 6 was we were living together and until the day he died after 25 yrs of marriage we were still very much in love , probably still would be if he was still alive today"
. 6 wks. Not was

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

1st time? Nope.

2nd time? Nope.

The next time.............

A

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ermmm a big fat no...I didnt and I don't plan on getting married again

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I definitely lucked out with my wife, I'm sure punching above my weight. I did not imagine that I would find the love of my life 6,000 miles away in a primary school!

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

I wouldn't say she was the person I thought I'd end up with but when I met my late wife after nursing me in a milatary hospital after been injured in Northern Ireland when I first opened my eyes and saw her just knew she was for me although she did not think so at the time but after a few weeks we were so close we had a fantastic marriage she past away coming up 2 years now still miss her like hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...

Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.

But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol

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By *heHoneymonstersCouple
over a year ago

cambridge

I wouldn't say the first time I met him I knew I would marry him as we worked in the same nightclub as we moved in different circles but 1 quiet boxing day night at work we got talking and haven't looked back since 12 years and even stronger he's by no means perfect but neither am I, all I know is he's my best friend, a fantastic father and step father to my children and I could never imagine life without out him

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm not the marrying kind.

But the woman I'm with, we got together for the sex and, turns out, some years and a child later, we quite like each other.

If you'da told me then that we'd still be together, I'd've laughed in your face.

'Tis a funny old world.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never met anyone I've wanted to marry so no

I have been married but even on my wedding day I knew I was doing the wrong thing, i never loved him, they were not tears of joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time no but deffinately have my soul mate in Ali

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

Got engaged after 3 months going out, married 18 months later. Yes I knew he was right and we lasted 13 years. Four years later married someone else, divorced after 12 years. Won't be doing it again. My first husband is the one I should still be with but we were young, stupid and didn't try hard enough to work it out.

Wise with hindsight.

Lily xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...

Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.

But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol "

Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married the perfect guy. Just not perfect for me. We live worlds apart in the same house. Maybe we'll fix it maybe we won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...

Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.

But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol

Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! "
but fuck me they can carry themselves well don't they?!... He definitely has a presence when he walks into a room. Everyone wants to talk to him... Girls fling themselves all over him. That's probably why I'm extremely fussy about meeting singles on here and very very rarely do. I cannot stand the inevitable pissing contest and have to walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never met anyone I've wanted to marry so no

I have been married but even on my wedding day I knew I was doing the wrong thing, i never loved him, they were not tears of joy "

Wow

AND I can sympathise.... X

Was married 25 years..... Having fun now but wouldn't change it due to having 3 wonderful sons...

We were never compatible, I realise that now

Forwards now

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...

Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.

But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol

Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! "

Lmao me too!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No.

But it seems that we are much better at being apart than we were at being together.

So, no regrets.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...

Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.

But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol

Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! but fuck me they can carry themselves well don't they?!... He definitely has a presence when he walks into a room. Everyone wants to talk to him... Girls fling themselves all over him. That's probably why I'm extremely fussy about meeting singles on here and very very rarely do. I cannot stand the inevitable pissing contest and have to walk away. "

Yea, would've made a good cult leader I always said lol! ! Great in a crisis, very impressive, no good at normal life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Nope .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1st time? Nope.

2nd time? Nope.

The next time.............

A"

Ha! Same here but there will not be a 'next time.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still wateing kind off give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell NO !

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I never thought about who I was going to marry. Made a huge mistake the first time and absolutely the right decision the second time."

Sounds exactly like me xx

Cal

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.

I'm not very good at compromise..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...

Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.

But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol

Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! but fuck me they can carry themselves well don't they?!... He definitely has a presence when he walks into a room. Everyone wants to talk to him... Girls fling themselves all over him. That's probably why I'm extremely fussy about meeting singles on here and very very rarely do. I cannot stand the inevitable pissing contest and have to walk away.

Yea, would've made a good cult leader I always said lol! ! Great in a crisis, very impressive, no good at normal life! "
haha so true!!! Definitely cult leader hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.

I'm not very good at compromise.. "
how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

yes i did

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.

I'm not very good at compromise.. how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad "

Cause I'm a wiley fox...not easy to keep me in that bag..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.

I'm not very good at compromise.. how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad

Cause I'm a wiley fox...not easy to keep me in that bag.. "
how about I let you out at weekends? I'm quite good at compromise lol

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.

I'm not very good at compromise.. how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad

Cause I'm a wiley fox...not easy to keep me in that bag.. how about I let you out at weekends? I'm quite good at compromise lol "

Mmmm...well, if you'd jump into that bag with me I don't reckon I'd ever want to get out....even at weekends ..lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.

I'm not very good at compromise.. how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad

Cause I'm a wiley fox...not easy to keep me in that bag.. how about I let you out at weekends? I'm quite good at compromise lol

Mmmm...well, if you'd jump into that bag with me I don't reckon I'd ever want to get out....even at weekends ..lol.. "
oh god no, I'd settle for a boat, bit like a floating bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and will never do it again........ever.x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

He wasn't what I had expected but he was persistant.turned out I was pretty lucky.

Seems it cant be all wrong having both stuck each other for 44 years. Someone to grow old with.

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