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By *awtymarky OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.

It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.

Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are your friend if it bothers you that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever tried posting in the forums in the hope more women and couples see tour profile and they might get in touch? Lol....

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By *awtymarky OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Filters are on but they still get through!!!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"

They can bypass filters if replying to a message.....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

how do they message you if you have single men blocked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and i have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only bypass them if you have messaged or winked at them in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you might want to report your problem to Admin as i tried to send you a message and i am blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"

I get the same so filters are obviously not working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"

Well in that case, just embrace it and brace yourself when you meet them. It may smart a bit the first time

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I get a few but take it as a compliment

99% of my fabs Are from blokes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had as much of a problem with guys contacting and mailing me, though have had a few.

My issue is just recently, literally hundreds of guys per week are looking at my profile and has just started all of a sudden.

Despite profile saying not interested in men and posting numerous status updates of the same, they still coming to _iew, just find it strange is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!

Well in that case, just embrace it and brace yourself when you meet them. It may smart a bit the first time "

That's naughty

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"

The single guy filter was not on when I looked before I posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not had as much of a problem with guys contacting and mailing me, though have had a few.

My issue is just recently, literally hundreds of guys per week are looking at my profile and has just started all of a sudden.

Despite profile saying not interested in men and posting numerous status updates of the same, they still coming to _iew, just find it strange is all"

But they don't know you're not interested in men without looking, because they can't see your profile until they _iew it. If they're looking and not contacting you, then presumably it's working!

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.

It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.

Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.

"

You do look like you would enjoy the D though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"literally hundreds of guys per week are looking at my profile and has just started all of a sudden."

You might just be a sexy beast. Enjoy

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Enjoy the attention , at least you know your inbox works !

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP your a bloke and surely your aware that some blokes would fuck the crack of dawn if it had hairs around it (or not with today's balder than a bald thing preferences)

so some blokes be they 'straight', bi or gay will have a shuftie err i mean a glance at other blokes profiles also..

its no biggie, take it as a positive maybe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.

Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.

"

They can't read your profile until they look at it,so moaning about bi/gay men looking at your profile is pointless.

Moaning about peeps contacting you without reading your profile is a whole different gripe and one most couples and single ladies on this site can sympathise with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get it goes with the rack we are on a site where there loads more men than anyone else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.

Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.

They can't read your profile until they look at it,so moaning about bi/gay men looking at your profile is pointless.

Moaning about peeps contacting you without reading your profile is a whole different gripe and one most couples and single ladies on this site can sympathise with."

I get loads of men _iewing my profile, far outnumbering women and couples (well those not in stealth mode anyway ) and you're right, how do they know you're straight until they read the profile?

I get the odd message from guys now and then offering to suck my cock, I do t have filters up as I'm happy to talk to anyone, I always politely respond and clarify I am genuinely straight and almost without exception most take that in gracious spirit and there's no issue.

Unless you're bombarded or they don't take no as an answer I'm not really sure what the issue is as a little bit of polite communication usually works a treat!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!

Well in that case, just embrace it and brace yourself when you meet them. It may smart a bit the first time

That's naughty "

but funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Anon said really. They won't know until they have a look, then once they know they have a decision to make.

There are a lot of chancers on here, but most people don't have bad intentions. Just block anyone who goes OTT and make the most of your time on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it with a pinch of salt and some flattery. I've got 2 cast iron promises should I choose to go that route lol.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"

They can't get through if you block all single guys from mailing, i had similar problem with unwanted attention from men, since i put the filters on not had a problem and no mail from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nearly all my .looked at me. are men..it don't bother,,i do get a few mails too which I just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i first joined I'd get excited about a message then see it was from a man I'd be disappointed ! but i would read it and be polite and even sometimes reply and explain "Sorry I'm not into men" but as it got to the point where some where being a little too much the filters went on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.

It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.

Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.

"

I'd like to think that when you're blocking you say, " Bye, Bi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz u love cock

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Coz u love cock "

Behave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coz u love cock

Behave "

Just saying what everyone is thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i first joined I'd get excited about a message then see it was from a man I'd be disappointed ! but i would read it and be polite and even sometimes reply and explain "Sorry I'm not into men" but as it got to the point where some where being a little too much the filters went on ! "
couldn't have put it better myself still get pestered now and then but most times I take it as a compliment if the blokes think I'm hot surely some of the woman must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.

It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.

Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.

"

I cannot lie. I looked at your profile.

Streisand effect FTW!

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