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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position." Having a crush = attraction. So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex? | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position. Having a crush = attraction. So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex?" Why would you not just tell them? As you pointed out, it's a site to meet people for sex. And in answer to the op, no. I message anyone that takes my fancy. | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position. Having a crush = attraction. So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex? Why would you not just tell them? As you pointed out, it's a site to meet people for sex. And in answer to the op, no. I message anyone that takes my fancy. " Age ranges, distance, not being what or who that person's looking for at the present time? | |||
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"Yep I've got a bit of a crush on one female on here. Probably never meet her though!!!" If it remains a secret i guarantee. That you never Will. | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position." Yep, not everyone likes to mess around playing silly games on here - if you fancy someone, make some sort of attempt to attract and meet them. | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position. Having a crush = attraction. So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex? Why would you not just tell them? As you pointed out, it's a site to meet people for sex. And in answer to the op, no. I message anyone that takes my fancy. Age ranges, distance, not being what or who that person's looking for at the present time?" No. I concentrate my efforts on people that I'm likely to meet to be honest. Whilst I might see someone and think they are attractive, I wouldn't develop a crush. | |||
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"Oooh I could crush a grape " That's a cracker, Jack. | |||
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"I don't know if I'd say "crush" but there's one or two I would but I know I'm not their thing so there's no point telling them. " You never know unless you tell them. If you don't ask you don't get x | |||
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"Yep, two guys. " Bold girl its fine no need to be shy... I know.. OK xxx | |||
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"I have a couple one is a bit to far away but 2 others are closer and distance is doable" Lately i only seem to want people who are miles and miles away. | |||
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"Yep I've got a bit of a crush on one female on here. Probably never meet her though!!! If it remains a secret i guarantee. That you never Will." I know my friend. But if I admit it she might hit the block button!!!! | |||
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"Yea crush on exciting as she's a bit older and Ellen milf love her pics so outrageous lol sure there's a lot more tooooo" sexciting that is | |||
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"I don't know if I'd say "crush" but there's one or two I would but I know I'm not their thing so there's no point telling them. " unless they're looking for males or couples =- or very specifically say 'we only want X' which isn't you- why not say hello. I've had a couple of meets over the years where i might not have noticed them, but they sent a nice message, we got chatting, got on well and there was something there that resulted in a fine old evening of fun | |||
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"Oooh I could crush a grape That's a cracker, Jack. " She's super hot too | |||
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason." I want to smash Ruggers back doors in. Does that count? | |||
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"Yep a few. Would I make contact first? Probably not. Guess it's maybe a confidence thing... Or just because I like to know I'm desired before putting myself on a platter " ooooh a sort | |||
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"Yep a few. Would I make contact first? Probably not. Guess it's maybe a confidence thing... Or just because I like to know I'm desired before putting myself on a platter " I don't think you'll have any problems being desired | |||
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason. I want to smash Ruggers back doors in. Does that count? " | |||
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"Yep a few. Would I make contact first? Probably not. Guess it's maybe a confidence thing... Or just because I like to know I'm desired before putting myself on a platter " | |||
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"Nope I did have but that fizzled out like a pissed on firework " Sorry but that expression just made me choke on my tea!! | |||
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"I don't know if I'd say "crush" but there's one or two I would but I know I'm not their thing so there's no point telling them. unless they're looking for males or couples =- or very specifically say 'we only want X' which isn't you- why not say hello. I've had a couple of meets over the years where i might not have noticed them, but they sent a nice message, we got chatting, got on well and there was something there that resulted in a fine old evening of fun " Nah, there's enough others I like who also like me that I don't need to bother worrying about the ones I like who might not like me. | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position." If you mean this as... if you're keeping a secret about a crush... I'd have to agree... this is a totally safe place to let it all hang out so message away... However... if you meant it as... you shouldn't have a crush on a site like this... I'd have to say that's the whole point about swinging... it's to feel the little tingles again imo. Tingles are different from love. They are the merry go round that we enjoy when we explore someone new. | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position. If you mean this as... if you're keeping a secret about a crush... I'd have to agree... this is a totally safe place to let it all hang out so message away... However... if you meant it as... you shouldn't have a crush on a site like this... I'd have to say that's the whole point about swinging... it's to feel the little tingles again imo. Tingles are different from love. They are the merry go round that we enjoy when we explore someone new. " The former. "Secret crush" sounds rather primary school IMO. | |||
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position. If you mean this as... if you're keeping a secret about a crush... I'd have to agree... this is a totally safe place to let it all hang out so message away... However... if you meant it as... you shouldn't have a crush on a site like this... I'd have to say that's the whole point about swinging... it's to feel the little tingles again imo. Tingles are different from love. They are the merry go round that we enjoy when we explore someone new. The former. "Secret crush" sounds rather primary school IMO." Which is your opinion and I respect your opinion - they're like arseholes, everyone has one, and they all stink. | |||
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"Some I admire from afar but wouldn't do anything about it. They either live to far away or I'm not their type " I'll second that. Several "crushes" but not likely to happen. Most of my crushes occur offline. | |||
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"There are a couple of people who I think are hot but won't get to shag. Is that what you mean? " Yeah, that. And being attracted to the personality that they give off too. | |||
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"And being attracted to the personality that they give off too." Oh, in that case definitely not. | |||
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"And being attracted to the personality that they give off too. Oh, in that case definitely not. " Do you not think there's any pleasant personalities in here? | |||
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason." There's this lovely girl from Brid, however she's only interested in those under 40. | |||
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"Oooh I could crush a grape That's a cracker, Jack. " CRACKER JACK! ..... Just me then | |||
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"And being attracted to the personality that they give off too. Oh, in that case definitely not. Do you not think there's any pleasant personalities in here? " Nah, I jest - there are a few who are alreet. | |||
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"Oooh I could crush a grape That's a cracker, Jack. CRACKER JACK! ..... Just me then" it's Friday its five to five...its crackerjack | |||
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason." I'm sure everyone has a secret crush on you HarleyQuim | |||
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"Oh yes Well not sure I would call it a crush but there is a guy on here I've had on my hot list for about a year but I've never had the balls to mail him simply because I doubt he would be interested " Go on....mail him. You are no shrinking Violet!! | |||
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"No I don't have any secret crushes, I usually make it pretty clear that I'm interested from the start. Whether they reciprocate or not is upto them, I don't keep tabs on people. " ooooh my new crush if that the right word | |||
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"I do. They are on my hotlist so I can see any new pics they post. I wouldn't contact them as they are too far away. I need someone local to shag as well as perv over " Name em hunny.... Lol | |||
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"I do. They are on my hotlist so I can see any new pics they post. I wouldn't contact them as they are too far away. I need someone local to shag as well as perv over Name em hunny.... Lol " A lady never tells | |||
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"I think we're lucky on the forums because it's so easy to get to know know people a little, have a bit of a conversation on a thread, then continue chatting via PM. So no-one here should worry about contacting another forum member. Unless your opening gambit is a bit full-on, such as FILL ME WITH YOUR BABIES... But the bareback police would then get you first anyway " It would be a fucking miracle if anyone could fill me with their babies at my age | |||
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"I do. They are on my hotlist so I can see any new pics they post. I wouldn't contact them as they are too far away. I need someone local to shag as well as perv over Name em hunny.... Lol A lady never tells " It's just funny knowing a guy could read your post but have no idea he's on your hotlist lol x | |||
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"perfectly what i wanted to say but you put it better" If you mean me, thanks. | |||
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"No I don't have any secret crushes, I usually make it pretty clear that I'm interested from the start. Whether they reciprocate or not is upto them, I don't keep tabs on people. ooooh my new crush if that the right word" Ooooh errrr | |||
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"I think we're lucky on the forums because it's so easy to get to know know people a little, have a bit of a conversation on a thread, then continue chatting via PM. So no-one here should worry about contacting another forum member. Unless your opening gambit is a bit full-on, such as FILL ME WITH YOUR BABIES... But the bareback police would then get you first anyway " sod.that I've had enough babies ... I.just want sex now | |||
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"There are many I admire. Some that are undoubtedly attractive. As for a crush? Yes - there are a few that I'd drop a grand piano on. A" Pmsl | |||
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason." i dont let age range, or barriers stand in my way nor let it end up in a crush. Just let them know you fancy them and if they up for it you have sex and if they not up for it you move on to the next | |||
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