FabSwingers.com forum: Was I right ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A couple contacted us, and the guy said he was trying to get his wife into this but she was not keen, and then asked if we would be up for just mmf, so I reported to admin as guy posing as a couple, so right/wrong ?

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By *irangelCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

He sounds iffy to be honest

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Does sound like a bloke using a couples profile, I would have just blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does sound like a bloke using a couples profile, I would have just blocked."

We did block but, maybe that is the problem on here, if it isn't nipped in the butt, he will learn from mistakes and next time won't say his wife is not keen or such and just say she is not well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMO you should have asked to verify the existence of the wife by phone. At this point you're just acting on assumptions... I don't blame you though.. it does sound dodgy... but before reporting him you should really have tested it a bit further imo. Better to have just walked away imo. I wouldn't feel too bad though... he probably was just a dude using a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did what you thought was right. Don't worry about it.

We've done the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does sound like a bloke using a couples profile, I would have just blocked.

We did block but, maybe that is the problem on here, if it isn't nipped in the butt, he will learn from mistakes and next time won't say his wife is not keen or such and just say she is not well ."

I doubt he'll learn. But agree you did the right thing.

More guys need to be nipped in the butt.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Only if I have proof do I take it further. Then I don't have to ask myself this. I caught someone trying to pass off pics of a porn star as his wife. It was too good to be true so I google-searched the images and I was right.

On the plus side, found some hot vids!

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By *aynettaWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"A couple contacted us, and the guy said he was trying to get his wife into this but she was not keen, and then asked if we would be up for just mmf, so I reported to admin as guy posing as a couple, so right/wrong ?"

Report away it won't stop him deleting and putting another profile up though. Its not uncommon though so many guys in a couple like to fuck about on the quiet and that includes verified long term couples.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

You were right to report your concerns to admin and let them deal with it.

They may or may not be a couple, she may or may not be aware, either way I suspect admin have quite a lot of experience dealing with this sort of stuff.

Personally I only report if they do something more to annoy us. Sorry if it sounds selfish, but once we've blocked someone, ar least we know where they are. If they get thrown off the site, we have to find their new profile all over again....

Mr ddc

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

A case for judge rinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only report no shows , if we reported every suspect profile we would be constantly logged into admin lol !

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