FabSwingers.com forum: Why are people so arsey?

By *un4youxx OP Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

I look through the forum and sometimes laugh at the postings but would not just reply to slag the OP off? Whay do some people seem to spend all of their time trawling to have a pop? Just leave alone and get over yourselves - you (and I) are not all perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it's like a sport it makes them feel good and they get off on the game of ping pong here with posts it makes them feel special in some way . It's when the mods step in they hate it ...as they miss nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit when I first used the forums I did find them a tad bitchy. You get used to it and in any event I find they can be great to debate serious subjects in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the constant digs at married/attached people from some regulars on here that annoys me, almost like they are somewhat better than them and they are scum. I want nothing to do with attached guys but just let them get on with it, they're not bothering me and nor do I wish to waste my time on them or give anyone a hard time. This site is supposed to be fun.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I look through the forum and sometimes laugh at the postings but would not just reply to slag the OP off? Whay do some people seem to spend all of their time trawling to have a pop? Just leave alone and get over yourselves - you (and I) are not all perfect!"

Spending time trawling and simply slagging an OP off? Negative behaviour.

Responding in a constructive way with a reasoned argument that may differ from an OP's opinion? It's called a debate. It's generally what forums were invented for.

Some posts however are designed to illicit a response. Some of those posts set out to lob a hand grenade into the room and then watch the ensuing carnage without the OP contributing any further.

It's often as much the fault of the OP as the following posters when a thread goes tits up and gets heated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They like their inner troll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the constant digs at married/attached people from some regulars on here that annoys me, almost like they are somewhat better than them and they are scum. I want nothing to do with attached guys but just let them get on with it, they're not bothering me and nor do I wish to waste my time on them or give anyone a hard time. This site is supposed to be fun."

This

I just block those with holier than thou attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am perfect

One can dream

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I have a lovely arse....oops sorry op thats not what you meant

. Sometimes people get carried away or have bad days and post things without thinking

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

If we didnt have a arse we would have nowt to sit on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

I just block those with holier than thou attitudes."

Your blocked list must be mahooosive

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