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what personality aspect really turns you on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me, it's a knowledge and passion for something, someone who can teach me something and show me new experiences

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Confidence without arrogance and the ability to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowledge and humour are big for me on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, I'm in love with Tina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always laughing at myself, but then i am funny as feck.

Also a knowledge junkie, and love to talk about all sorts of subjects.

So when i meet i like to find people on my wavelength if possible, just hard to find nutters with kinky minds that live close to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour, I'm in love with Tina."

I have heard that her Mum is even funnier

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Confidence without arrogance and the ability to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously "

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Confidence without arrogance and the ability to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously "

Definitely. And someone who can make me really laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, it's a knowledge and passion for something "

Totally this. Doesn't matter what it is, just a sparkle and excitement when they talk about it!

Also a man who walks into a room as has a presence about him. Doesn't need to be arrogant or silent, just something that makes you notice him and smile a smile that makes me smile is a pretty good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enthusiasm. I'm a bit of a cynic so it's good for me to bounce off someone who is enthusiastic about something.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Homour definitely for me but I do like confident non arrogant men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like strong women that dont take any shit but also have hearts you can melt when you push the right buttons

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I quite like a bit of weird...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour, I'm in love with Tina.

I have heard that her Mum is even funnier "

I've not had the pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to have a sarcastic sense of humour and a cheeky glint in their eye....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Good question, OP! Humour is a must. The ability to find the ridiculous in any given situation. Compassion. Daring (I am a slight scaredy cat so I need someone who can balance that). Straightforwardness. A zest for experiences that infects me with their enthusiasm. That kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence without arrogance.

Also outwardly sexual without being crude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humor, imagination and intelligence. Its nice to have the ability to lose yourself in someones company and appreciate them for everything they are. Its also great to be able to laugh and chat together in the short breaks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour and intelligence gets me every time

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Sharing a lot of the same wants and needs like friendship for example, being able to express themselves and to be a explorer on a mission to enjoying the experience of life.

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

Anyone into Star Wars

Only joking, a sense of humour and witty is good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to have a sarcastic sense of humour and a cheeky glint in their eye.... "

this x

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC

I'd probably go with the things similar to me with the intent of sounding cheesy or full of shit haha : someone who has real passionate about the small things just and much as the big things and someone who is caring towards other people as I'm most happy when I see a act of kindness towards a stranger

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Self awareness

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Intelligence, humour, banter, a sense of self worth, and someone who keeps me on my toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good pair of tits.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Sharing a lot of the same wants and needs like friendship for example, being able to express themselves and to be a explorer on a mission to enjoying the experience of life."

I would add intelligence and passion to that xx

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

Nothing better than meeting a woman who wants to have fun and enjoy life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enthusiasm. I'm a bit of a cynic so it's good for me to bounce off someone who is enthusiastic about something. "

Bounce off me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good pair of tits. "

Whilst I agree the thread asked for personality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Apart from intelligence & humour, I like a woman who speaks her mind rather than beating round the bush, so to speak. One of my ex's talked in riddles, I'm sure she was a script writer for Ted Rodgers on 3-2-1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexiest girl will always be the one who’s most comfortable when wandering outside of her comfort zones intellectually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Modesty, respect and manners.

Nothing is a bigger turn off than bad manners.

Bad manners is a broad spectrum of stuff, loud, aggressive, impolite even bad personal hygiene is bad manners.

Politeness and good manners appear to be something that is dying in today's society.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence but not over confidence!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Intensity would be my biggest turnon I reckon. But playfulness is what entrances me, I like to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good pair of tits.

Whilst I agree the thread asked for personality lol"

Sorry.

A cracking ass then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good pair of tits. "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm quite shallow - physical attraction's just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Juàt realised what my problem is. I'm thick as pig shit and have had a sense of humour triple bypass

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Intelligence and

Humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour for me for sure. The real connection happens when I can share a laugh and a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence and

Humour "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence, confidence and humour for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to hold a conversation with no awkward pauses, captivating intelligence with a hint of dry humour.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Intelligence works for me. Also tolerance, as people need a lot of that when I open my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wisdom and wit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness and vulnerability. I like those traits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to hold a conversation with no awkward pauses, captivating intelligence with a hint of dry humour."
perfect !

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Enthusiasm .. Great sense of humour and dimples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wit

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

A woman with self-confidence, who is funny and can laugh at herself. Not too uptight or up her own arse either. Also, a woman who likes to do 'stuff'. Not just spend half her time sat on arse watching shite on tv. A woman who likes to get up and about. Drop me a line if that's you!

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By *aynettaWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Honesty nothing beats honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence without arrogance and the ability to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously "

This

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Honesty, humour and confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh great thread...definitely an intelligence and a talent. Like an artist...Someone who can be inspire me and teach me things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence, confidence and humour for me"

This, but I'm shallow; I need a pretty face and a killer set of heels too

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Humourous and cheeky with an open mind.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Creativity, individuality, self assurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence, confidence and humour for me

This, but I'm shallow; I need a pretty face and a killer set of heels too "

You don't ask for much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My perfect meet?

Intelligent

Articulate

Kind

Funny

Confident but not cocky

Affectionate

VERY passionate

Handsome

Fit

See? Hardly anything really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence, confidence and humour for me

This, but I'm shallow; I need a pretty face and a killer set of heels too

You don't ask for much "

Thankfully there's plenty of you around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Humour

2) Self assurance

3) Open mined, not just sexually

4) Intelligence

Humour seems to be most peoples first choice, best i buy a joke book !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence without arrogance and the ability to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously "

this so much and i couldn't have said it better myself

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Creativity, individuality, self assurance."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence, confidence and humour for me

This, but I'm shallow; I need a pretty face and a killer set of heels too

You don't ask for much

Thankfully there's plenty of you around "

Smooth answer TT, very smooth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence , ultruism ... Wired love wired ,

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Caustic humour like mine

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