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By *aneandpaul OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

When did you find out you was in Love i found out many years ago with Paul he was my best friend grown up together saw him holding a girls hand at the gala was about 14 cried my self to sleep i also was with a boy i just walked off from him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in love but he's stupid and doesn't want me

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I'm in love but he's stupid and doesn't want me "

Why is that stupid? I'm intrigued.

I have only very recently fallen in love for the first time having never understood anything about it before... and now I understand even less! How did I know? Because I feel more for him than I have ever done, and it just instinctively feels very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases of love and hate with mr. Right now it's hate. Knew I loved him one night sat cuddling and I felt like it was right which is something I never felt with previous serious boyfriends, told him I didn't want to rush things and took us 6 months to eventually say it to each other.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

We where really good friends for a year, then one day he came over for lunch and things changed overnight.

He told me he loved me first and I realised I'd fallen in love with him as well, there was no massive firework explosions just a slow comfortable slow burning love and even when I don't think I could love him anymore I fall in love with him more and more

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my kids dad (the 2nd one), we were having sex and he stroked my cheek, it was really nice and felt loving, and i think i fell in love with him then. That was the first time i'd ever fallen in love, and we split up years ago but we're still in contact regularly (he only lives a few minutes away) and he's a really good friend now and we still support each other, so we're kind of still 'in love' but without the sexual attraction.

2nd time i fell in love i can't remember when it happened, he was really caring and kind and over time i just realised i wanted to be with him forever because i admired him. And he was funny and had a big cock.

I still love this guy as well, he said things and they were 100% genuine, he was very honest with me.

Not sure when i fell in love with my kids (never been any sexual attraction there obviously) but i think once i stopped being tired from broken nights and once they started interacting with me it will have happened, which was only a few months each time luckily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight "
was it better to have loved and lost ....? Then to have never loved at all?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight was it better to have loved and lost ....? Then to have never loved at all?"

But if you sit down and count the cost of all those losses there's no profit at all.

"And you're gone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know. It crept up on me slowly.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

In all honesty, I've been in love with 3 people in my life; 2 women, 1 man.

I remain with one of them but still think about the other two...

You know it, when it hits. And I'm not getting confused with lust - I'm well-acquainted with *that*...

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I don't believe in love."

You will if it hits you, though not everyone is touched by love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in love.

You will if it hits you, though not everyone is touched by love."

Nope. I've had all the right 'feelings' according to other people, I just don't quantify that as love. I don't believe in it - I prefer logical and rational.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I prefer logical and rational."

Love is neither.I don't want to preach to you,but if you think you may have been in love,you possibly haven't...

There's a great quote I saw recently about love.I'll try and find it...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


" I prefer logical and rational.

Love is neither.I don't want to preach to you,but if you think you may have been in love,you possibly haven't...

There's a great quote I saw recently about love.I'll try and find it..."
took me until I was 41 until I experienced it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he had feelings but won't act on them. To the point that I am constantly on egg shells with him .


"I'm in love but he's stupid and doesn't want me

Why is that stupid? I'm intrigued.

I have only very recently fallen in love for the first time having never understood anything about it before... and now I understand even less! How did I know? Because I feel more for him than I have ever done, and it just instinctively feels very different."

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Because he had feelings but won't act on them. To the point that I am constantly on egg shells with him .."

He may have feelings but maybe they're not deep enough to be love? Or if it is then could be it's the right person wrong time problem. Either way it hurts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know if someone loves me, I pick men who don't 'share' - I always have! But then to be loved, you need to be lovable! Lol

Sara x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I prefer logical and rational.

Love is neither.I don't want to preach to you,but if you think you may have been in love,you possibly haven't...

There's a great quote I saw recently about love.I'll try and find it..."

I suspect I have experienced what other people refer to as love.

However it's not something I'm particularly interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right person wrong time


"Because he had feelings but won't act on them. To the point that I am constantly on egg shells with him ..

He may have feelings but maybe they're not deep enough to be love? Or if it is then could be it's the right person wrong time problem. Either way it hurts x"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight was it better to have loved and lost ....? Then to have never loved at all?"

Nah I put it down to right person, wrong place and time and that's all it will be....

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

You'll be the first to know when I am....

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By *aneandpaul OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys


"You'll be the first to know when I am.... "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I fell in love last year and it almost killed me! Never experienced such a feeling, and don't expect to again after it all went wrong.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Ive found myself drawn to a friend of mine for a good couple of months now xxx Its love but we both agree to stay friends at moment and take things slow till we are sure xxx

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By *drogansMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight "

He he yeah I'm recovering from this as I write! Despite all my efforts to the contrary I feel hard and fast. She seemed to get it just as bad but the situation is untenable and I've been cut free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever been in what I would call 'love' - I also think that love means total transparency, faithful behaviour and self-appreciation with a partner. I think one love is what drives a lot of people too, not multiple over their lives etc.

I'm sure most are cynics until they feel it, like most things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only admitted how we felt very recently. For me, it's waking up next to him and falling in love all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a massive difference between loving someone & being in love with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever been in what I would call 'love' - I also think that love means total transparency, faithful behaviour and self-appreciation with a partner. I think one love is what drives a lot of people too, not multiple over their lives etc.

I'm sure most are cynics until they feel it, like most things "

Oh, I've felt/done all those things you list.

I guess I just don't call it love. They're 'basic minimum standards' in my relationships.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I think there is a massive difference between loving someone & being in love with someone."

Agreed being in love has a physical effect on each person missing each other when apart and finding it hard to part from each other ive found.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I want to be in love,I have love and affection to give,but no man to give it to

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I want to be in love,I have love and affection to give,but no man to give it to "

Im sure theres someone outthere for you as your a stunning woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is a massive difference between loving someone & being in love with someone."

Yea there is.You can care about someone but not love them as such.

"Love isn't finding someone you can live with,it's finding someone you can't live without"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed being in love has a physical effect on each person missing each other when apart and finding it hard to part from each other ive found."

That doesn't sound like much fun.

I felt that way about an ex, but I realise now that it was just insecurity because he was a manipulating asshole...

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Agreed being in love has a physical effect on each person missing each other when apart and finding it hard to part from each other ive found.

That doesn't sound like much fun.

I felt that way about an ex, but I realise now that it was just insecurity because he was a manipulating asshole..."

Unfortunately some guys are like that xx I have another friend who was in an abusive relationship at first then left him xx Married the guy who saved her and he went on to have an affair behind her back! Shes only 24! But shes divorcing him now and going try being single for a while xx Even asked me advice on what its like to be single as shes never been out of a relationship since she was 17 xx

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

When you've got an engagement ring lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I want to be in love,I have love and affection to give,but no man to give it to

Im sure theres someone outthere for you as your a stunning woman "

Thankyou,but no there isn't

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I want to be in love,I have love and affection to give,but no man to give it to

Im sure theres someone outthere for you as your a stunning woman

Thankyou,but no there isn't "

Well still have fun until they find you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you cant stop thinking about someone.... in a non sexual way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has hit me in the last year Love is conditional and manipulative and hurtful.

The only unconditional love is from your own blood kids, sibblings and parents. Well thats where i am at!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Sat in a restaurant was introduced to a stunning lady, couldn't keep my eyes off her,, three weeks later she is stood outside my office asking where the coffee pot is,,,, one complicated thing led to another complicated thing. She stirred emotions feelings that I had forgotten I could have.

She is the right person, we were both in the right place at the right time, but unfortunately we are both unable to do anything about it...

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By *aneandpaul OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys


" Sat in a restaurant was introduced to a stunning lady, couldn't keep my eyes off her,, three weeks later she is stood outside my office asking where the coffee pot is,,,, one complicated thing led to another complicated thing. She stirred emotions feelings that I had forgotten I could have.

She is the right person, we were both in the right place at the right time, but unfortunately we are both unable to do anything about it... "

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By *exysmartsoulsCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Love is determined on how happy you make your other half feel

Simple isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not being able to imagine my life without him and after almost 20 years if we spent 1 night apart I miss him so much it hurts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's not being able to imagine my life without him and after almost 20 years if we spent 1 night apart I miss him so much it hurts! "

Doesn't that suck though? Like, I prefer being able to go through life not feeling shitty because I've been one night away from someone else?

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By *amie_leighWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight "

I had this too I keep telling myself to look back on it as one special night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's not being able to imagine my life without him and after almost 20 years if we spent 1 night apart I miss him so much it hurts!

Doesn't that suck though? Like, I prefer being able to go through life not feeling shitty because I've been one night away from

Someone else?"

But if I wasn't with him I would feel shitty every night instead of just 1 or 2 here and there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's not being able to imagine my life without him and after almost 20 years if we spent 1 night apart I miss him so much it hurts!

Doesn't that suck though? Like, I prefer being able to go through life not feeling shitty because I've been one night away from

Someone else?

But if I wasn't with him I would feel shitty every night instead of just 1 or 2 here and there xx "

Wouldn't you have just met someone else instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine loving anyone but C but we met when I was 16 so you may well be right!

If I had met someone else and was in love with him then I'm guessing I would feel the same about that guy being away for a night too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine loving anyone but C but we met when I was 16 so you may well be right!

If I had met someone else and was in love with him then I'm guessing I would feel the same about that guy being away for a night too xx "

I just can't imagine what that must be like.

My partner is away up to three weeks a month with business. I go away on weekends when he's home once or twice a month as well.

It's great though. You get so much of your own space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I do like about it is how much I do miss him, it gives you that extra spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been in love

how sad is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight "

This is exactly what happened to me 3 years ago, it was love at first sight for me, just the wrong time for him.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I experience this emotion with someone recently it was like a freight train had hit me and it was a feeling that I have never truely experienced it was so weird. There was chemistry and sparks and all that jazz but alas wrong time and wrong place. For that split second of the freight train hitting it felt like love at first sight

This is exactly what happened to me 3 years ago, it was love at first sight for me, just the wrong time for him. "

Yep hey ho never mind as they say shit happens

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I was once but it was misplaced and badly trampled on..I realised when I saw him walking away in the snow and just wanted him back near me.

Given up looking for it again

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Just as my first marriage was going down the pan I got a new contract where I met several new women, I felt really excited about going to their workplace but didnt know why, I then realised I had subconsciously fallen totally for one of them, I did spend one night with her but she was much younger than me and had nothing in common at all, it was very hard to put an end to it but would have destroyed me if I had let it develop,strangely when I met K I wasnt that attracted to her at first sight although we had chatted for hours on the phone for a wk before we met and spoke every night for at least an hour for 18 mths before we moved in, she makes me happier than I could ever imagine possible and she feels the same, cant imagine life without her now, everytime I wake in the morning and see her I smile with joy, she just laughs when she sees me love comes in many ways from lust to complete contentment luckily I have now found the latter, and I love seeing her get fucked by others as well, whats not to like about real love

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


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Nope. I've had all the right 'feelings' according to other people, I just don't quantify that as love. I don't believe in it - I prefer logical and rational."

Love is neither logical nor rational.

It is being close to someone when you are apart and knowing what each other wants without asking.

It is a state of mind where two or more are telepathically connected and act as one.

It is the feeling that you have been together a fleeting moment but you have never been apart.

Love is not the feeling you can never be apart but not feeling apart even when miles away from each other.

Love cannot be quantified in feelings love is the feeling of life.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"

Nope. I've had all the right 'feelings' according to other people, I just don't quantify that as love. I don't believe in it - I prefer logical and rational.

Love is neither logical nor rational.

It is being close to someone when you are apart and knowing what each other wants without asking.

It is a state of mind where two or more are telepathically connected and act as one.

It is the feeling that you have been together a fleeting moment but you have never been apart.

Love is not the feeling you can never be apart but not feeling apart even when miles away from each other.

Love cannot be quantified in feelings love is the feeling of life.

"

Thats the best way to describe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nope. I've had all the right 'feelings' according to other people, I just don't quantify that as love. I don't believe in it - I prefer logical and rational.

Love is neither logical nor rational.

It is being close to someone when you are apart and knowing what each other wants without asking.

It is a state of mind where two or more are telepathically connected and act as one.

It is the feeling that you have been together a fleeting moment but you have never been apart.

Love is not the feeling you can never be apart but not feeling apart even when miles away from each other.

Love cannot be quantified in feelings love is the feeling of life.

"

I love my bicycle

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