FabSwingers.com forum: looking to date

By *ebs OP Woman
over a year ago

braintree

Hiya everyone after a very bad break up I picked my self up and thought u would try again now don't get me wrong here I've had some fun on here meet some really nice ppl and made some good friends but why on earth can't I find a partner to be with all the time where am I going wrong I've tried dating sites with the same results only after sex why can't I find someone that wants more then sex of cos I've had men had a right go at me for being on here on bloke was so disresptfull he made me cry any advice gratefully received oh I do know of some ppl that have meet on here and gone on to be together xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe you are trying too hard...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying

itll happen when it happend huni xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Stop trying

itll happen when it happend huni xx"

Like others have said let it find you,it will when you're not looking.Hope you find what you seek .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report abusive messages. Chin up. X

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

Never understand how anyone on here can have a go at someone else for doing the same thing! Don't try too hard but fortune favours those who take the initiative or some thing like that.

Hood luck.

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By *ebs OP Woman
over a year ago

braintree

Thank u so much for answering me u all have cheered me up guess it's more of the waiting game for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can use this site for whatever you want to and at least people looking at your profile will know what you want.

Hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can use this site for whatever you want to and at least people looking at your profile will know what you want.

Hope you find what you're looking for.

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By *ebs OP Woman
over a year ago

braintree

Shall I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop trying

itll happen when it happend huni xx"

Agreed I'm a big believer in fate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shall I give up

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you might feel like giving up but

I had a bad break up almost 3 years ago,i went about things the wrong way after tho! Give yourself time

you'll soon get back into the swing of things just stay postive and dont doubt yourself

your better than that - K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Op: after my marriage ended I had one disastrous relationship and decided that was it: only nsa for me, I wasn't remotely interested in a relationship. Anyone getting close was dropped at the first sign.

I happily played the field until I got a message from someone on 17 November 2013: he made me laugh. There was nothing sexual in his message at all. We mailed, texted, spoke on the phone for hours and agreed to meet the 24 November.

He was late and ran when he saw me and threw himself at my feet begging for forgiveness, much to the amusement of passers by.

From that moment we've not been apart. It was only later I realised he wasn't sub!

We are polar opposites in everything that matters, but somehow we work. He moved in eight months after we met and we're very happy.

I certainly wasn't looking for anything but casual fun and I had seven years of delight here. I wasn't looking yet cupid bloody found me.

Op, I'm more Monique than Halle Berry and himself has a Bruce Willis/Jason Statham look going on...you never know what lies ahead.

Good luck.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Shall I give up

Dont give up love will find you xx Fate made me find a longterm friend on facebook we have so much on common that we have a open relationship as the loves there shes currently divorcing from her current partner who abused and cheated on her xxx We have said we will see how fate guides us but so far all is great xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You use this site how you choose to if your wanting more then go for it.You clearly state on your profile what you are looking for.Good luck OP and it's always fun in the meantime practicing finding the right one.

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

As others have said it will happen when it happens.

Phil was looking for ages. Dating sites etc. etc. and then I joined the team at work and that was that.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"As others have said it will happen when it happens.

Phil was looking for ages. Dating sites etc. etc. and then I joined the team at work and that was that.

And a stunning couple you make too xx Goes to show love and fate does the work for you if you let it xxx

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By *ebs OP Woman
over a year ago

braintree

Still no luck

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Best advice i can give is ...DONT look for it on here..thats not to say it wont find you here...but bear in mind why folk are here...if you met that someone special ...would you be happy to share them on here or would you demand they gave fab up

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

"Best advice i can give is ...DONT look for it on here..thats not to say it wont find you here...but bear in mind why folk are here...if you met that someone special ...would you be happy to share them on here or would you demand they gave fab up

Totally agree, Fab isn't the best place to look for a relationship, most on here are looking for strict NSA, and quite a few of the 'single' men are attached in the real world, Fab is a playground for most people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shall I give up

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no try Facebook on it two days and pulled only one meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried a dating site recently but got fed up having to explain my situation amd that i am bi every two mins.

Made me realise that i am probably better off waiting for now and to just enjoy what i have. Life has a habit of surprising you when ypu least espect it.

Hope you find a decent bloke. X

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Shall I give up

no try Facebook on it two days and pulled only one meet on here

Facebook has worked well for me even made me find a soulmate without even looking

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By *ebs OP Woman
over a year ago

braintree

I've got facebook but I won't say I'm looking for a date on there no way xx

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"I've got facebook but I won't say I'm looking for a date on there no way xx"

I didnt ethier it just kinda happened over the past year started out chatted and went on from there xx

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