FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure this has been posted before but here goes:

Why do people put on their profile that you must have a face pic viewable before messaging them when they don't have one Posted themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure this has been posted before but here goes:

Why do people put on their profile that you must have a face pic viewable before messaging them when they don't have one Posted themselves? "
perhaps they have.one oin friends only or private that they can send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its their profile and they can ask what they like but you don't have to oblige, no one is holding a gun to your head, you're free to move on to another profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sure this has been posted before but here goes:

Why do people put on their profile that you must have a face pic viewable before messaging them when they don't have one Posted themselves? perhaps they have.one oin friends only or private that they can send"

I'd agree with that if you'd been messaging and then both agreed to send a face pic, but some people just demand one before they'll even speak to you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because its their profile and they can ask what they like but you don't have to oblige, no one is holding a gun to your head, you're free to move on to another profile!"

I agree, just find weird that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure this has been posted before but here goes:

I'd agree with that if you'd been messaging and then both agreed to send a face pic, but some people just demand one before they'll even speak to you lol"
My advice would be if your not happy to send one straight off... I wouldn't don't message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its called choice

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If you're not happy with their demands, move onto a profile that you're happy with..simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes my face pic is visable and sometimes its not

as its a site for meeting and ending up in frollics

i find it easier to see a face pic straight away saves tennis mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it annoying when someone messages with face pic attached without being asked for one. Demands one in return and gets stroppy when I don't. Grrr

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I find it annoying when someone messages with face pic attached without being asked for one. Demands one in return and gets stroppy when I don't. Grrr "

"I'll show you mine,..if you show me yours.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I message someone first, which I do a lot, I'll attach several face pics as I think its only polite and doesn't waste time if they don't fancy you. I see no point chatting for ages only to send one and you don't like what you see. I also believe if you ask for a face pic without having one on your profile then its only polite to attach one especially if you have made the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I message someone first, which I do a lot, I'll attach several face pics as I think its only polite and doesn't waste time if they don't fancy you. I see no point chatting for ages only to send one and you don't like what you see. I also believe if you ask for a face pic without having one on your profile then its only polite to attach one especially if you have made the first move."

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I agree........it's been asked before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's no right or wrong and people have the right to ask for what they want on their profiles, just wondered what others thought?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I find exchanging pics early saves wasting time if theres no attraction.I agree with other posters ,if i message first i send a face pic and of someone mesaages me i'd expect one .Some demand pics and won't send theirs,i just stop any communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Very difficult for some professional people. As we know there are some people on here who ain't genuine and to be outed in certain professional environments would be more than uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no right or wrong and people have the right to ask for what they want on their profiles, just wondered what others thought?"

that's the thing

i have met people with shit profiles but the face photo won be over

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

When we make first contact we will send a clear face pic of us both.

We don't demand it but we do prefer it when people send a face pic with their first message. If one hasn't been sent after a few messages then we tend to stop any further communication.

We like to see who we are talking too and if there is an attraction.

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton

"I find it annoying when someone messages with face pic attached without being asked for one. Demands one in return and gets stroppy when I don't. Grrr "

Most of the time I send a face picture probably why I don't get any replies, lol but never expect anything back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure this has been posted before but here goes:

Why do people put on their profile that you must have a face pic viewable before messaging them when they don't have one Posted themselves? "

Because some people do not want to get drawn into lengthy message exchanges only to find that they are not attracted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we make first contact we will send a clear face pic of us both.

We don't demand it but we do prefer it when people send a face pic with their first message. If one hasn't been sent after a few messages then we tend to stop any further communication.

We like to see who we are talking too and if there is an attraction."

More than reasonable

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